3 Things Everyone Needs to Know About HIV
by Imani Bashir



December 16, 2020


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3 Things Everyone Needs to Know About HIV

Porchia Dees (Courtesy of Porchia Dees)
Porchia Dees (Courtesy of Porchia Dees)

Although we are nearing the end of 2020 with more access to information than ever before, there are still certain subjects that are stigmatized, in our society. HIV and AIDS awareness brings about challenges that still encompass a cloud of misinformation that is vital for the Black community to not only debunk, but also continue to learn and teach others. 

As a result of misinformation and lack of awareness, Porchia Dees of the Black AIDS Institute compiled a list of the 3 things everyone needs to know about HIV.


HIV is preventable in multiple forms including usage of condoms, getting tested regularly, and knowing both you and your partner’s status. There is also a pill that is offered and is tailored to pre-exposure. According to Dees, a daily pill called PrEP (Pre-exposure Prophylaxis) gives you over 90% protection from HIV. 

The PrEP pill is useful for people who are not HIV+, but have a higher chance of contracting it through drug use or sexual contact. There are two medications under PrEP called Truvada and Descovy which are proven most effective when taken as prescribed

Not a Death Sentence

“I’m HIV+ but not infectious. My daily medication keeps the virus so low it’s undetectable! I’m healthy and I can’t pass HIV on to my sexual partners and my future children,” Dees stated.

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Life expectancy has vastly increased for those living with HIV. People diagnosed HIV+ and receive antiretroviral therapy (also known as ART), have proven to live well beyond their 50’s and older–having had the virus for many years. A Center for Disease Control and Prevention report that had taken data between 2014 and 2018, showed results that the estimated 1.1 million people diagnosed, close to half a million were 55 and over–living healthy lives with treatment. 

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You Can Have a Healthy Sex Life

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Yes, people living with HIV can have healthy sex lives that do not negatively impact their partners. 

People like me, living with HIV, are just as beautiful and worthy of love after our HIV diagnosis as we were before our HIV diagnosis. Being HIV+ empowered me to navigate sex and relationships in a healthy way! I encourage people living with HIV to openly explore their sexuality safely,” said Dees.

Healthy sexual relationships can exist when:

  • Medications are taken regularly.
  • Communicating with your partner of your status and having conversations surrounding most healthy practices in engaging in sexual activity.
  • Speaking to your health care practitioner for any uncertainties that may arise.