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One of my favorite memories was my sons first time parasailing. We were at the board walk when he saw people in the air and said, “I want to do that!” While I was nervous, his excitement was contagious. Before I knew it, we were soaring 8,000 feet above the water. I was terrified, but he loved every second, shouting that he was flying like Spider-Man. Moments like these remind me why I prioritize giving him the best experiences I can. These experiences have inspired me to help other parents do the same, which is why I founded my nonprofit, My Best Kid Life.
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My mission is to empower parents to create joyful, meaningful moments for their children, regardless of their financial situation. You don’t need to be wealthy to make your child feel loved and happy. It’s about presence, not perfection. Balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship hasn’t been easy, but it’s been incredibly rewarding. When I walked away from my relationship while 5 months pregnant, I had no idea what the future held. With limited resources, I focused on building a life for my son. Within four months of leaving, my business grew by over 300%. In the first half of 2018, I earned $35,000. By the end of the year, I’d made over well over six figures, and today, my PR firm is one of the most prominent firms in Hollywood.
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Before becoming a mom, I never imagined myself in that role. Growing up, I was always in survival mode, focused on getting through each day rather than dreaming about family life. So when my son arrived, it was overwhelming. I didn’t know much about kids but I knew immediately that I loved him so much. The mom guilt, along with trying to navigate things on my own hit me hard. The first few weeks were tough. There was a moment when my son, just three weeks old, woke up crying in the middle of the night, and I found myself crying with him. We were literally staring at each other crying lol. I was unsure of how I’d do it all.
Juggling motherhood and entrepreneurship was a constant challenge. I couldn’t jump on calls or attend meetings as easily anymore. During my pregnancy, I worked nonstop, often to the point where my friends joked about me working through labor. But once he arrived, I had to figure out a new routine, adjusting to his sleep regressions, changes, and my new reality. It required creative time management so that I could spend the day with my son, drafting pitches at night, and sending them out early the next morning. That system keeps me going til this day
What’s even more remarkable is that my business thrived after I made the conscious decision to step back from celebrity clients to spend more time with my son. Many people think having kids hinders your success, but for me, becoming a mom was the catalyst for my greatest achievements. My son gave me a reason to push harder and dream bigger. Parenting has taught me to find joy in both the extraordinary and the everyday. Whether it’s a red-carpet event or a simple walk in the park, every experience is an opportunity to bond and grow. My son may not fully understand the magnitude of some of the things he’s done such as meeting celebrities like Gabrielle Union, Adele and DJ Khaled, but what matters most to me is the happiness and excitement I see on his face.
To all the parents out there, especially single moms, I want you to know that it’s possible to do both: chase your dreams and be there for your children. You don’t need to be perfect; you just need to show up. Your presence and love are the greatest gifts you can give your kids. My journey has been about breaking cycles, creating opportunities, and showing my son that anything is possible with determination and love. At just six years old, my son is living his best life, and through him, I’ve learned how to live mine. Together, we’re proving that being a single mom isn’t a limitation, it’s a strength.
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