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# Black Love

From exploring romantic connections to fostering familial bonds or cultivating self-love, we are dedicated to promoting healthy relationships within the Black community.

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## Posts

- [Honoring Johnny Robinson Jr. & Virgil Ware’s Legacy](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/culture/honoring-johnny-robinson-jr-virgil-wares-legacy/) - Remembering Johnny Robinson Jr. and Virgil Ware, lives lost on a day of profound tragedy yet profound resilience.
- [Top 12 Romance Movies Straight From the Black Love Team](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/top-12-romance-movies-straight-from-the-black-love-team/) - Between cuffing season and the holiday season, more than a couple nights will find us holed up under the covers watching a romantic movie. So, what love stories should you be watching this season?
- [Black Relationships: Explore Topics That Matter Most](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/black-relationships-explore-topics-that-matter-most/) - What to expect in our articles dedicated to building healthy Black relationships. Red flags and trauma to love advice, healing, and celebrity couples.
- [Self Love: Building Healthy Relationships from Within](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/self-love-building-healthy-relationships-from-within/) - Self love is a radical act of care. Discover how nurturing it can transform your relationships—with others and with yourself.
- [Keke's Message to Single Moms: A Lesson in Resilience](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/kekes-message-to-single-moms-a-lesson-in-resilience/) - Keke Palmer's heartfelt message to single moms offers deep insights into resilience and Black love. Discover the lessons within her journey.
- [Comics and Literacy - ENDLESS FANTASIA: The Educational Power of Comics](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/arts/comics-and-literacy-endless-fantasia-2025/) - Discover how comics and literacy go hand in hand through Daniel Barnes’ new ENDLESS FANTASIA comic series, inspiring kids to read and learn.
- [Black Female Friendships: A Guide to Navigating & Maintaining Meaningful Connections](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/black-female-friendships-a-guide-to-navigating-maintaining-meaningful-connections/) - Dive into the beauty of Black female friendship—how to cultivate healthy bonds, recognize toxic friendships, and grieve when things fall apart.
- [Empathy in Action: Black Love's Role in Healing](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/empathy-in-action-black-loves-role-in-healing/) - Discover how Black Love can bridge gaps in recovery, offering support and understanding for our community.
- [Student Loans and Black Love: Facing Financial Realities](https://blacklove.com/read/business/finance/student-loans-and-black-love-facing-financial-realities/) - Student loans impact Black couples deeply. Here's how to manage the financial stress together.
- [Celebrity Halloween: Lessons in Black Love & Creativity](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/celebrity-halloween-lessons-in-black-love-creativity/) - Explore how celebrity Halloween costumes offer insights into Black love and creativity. Discover practical lessons for your relationship.
- [Reflecting on Racial Sensitivity in Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/reflecting-on-racial-sensitivity-in-relationships/) - Explore how a high school incident sheds light on deeper relationship dynamics within Black communities.
- [Donovan & Coco: A Love Grounded in Peace](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/donovan-coco-a-love-grounded-in-peace/) - Discover how Donovan Mitchell and Coco Jones' relationship thrives on mutual support and peace. #BlackLove
- [Shutdown Realities: Black Families at the Crossroads](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/shutdown-realities-black-families-at-the-crossroads/) - Explore how a government shutdown impacts Black love and resilience in the face of adversity.
- [Navigating Uncertainty: Kenya's Black Love Resilience](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/navigating-uncertainty-black-loves-resilience/) - Explore how Kenyan families navigate job uncertainty and what it teaches about resilience in Black relationships.
- [Black Pregnancy: Health, Wellness, Safety & Support](https://blacklove.com/read/family/pregnancy/black-pregnancy-health-wellness-safety-support/) - A guide to Black pregnancy, prenatal care, maternal health, and mental wellness—plus doulas, support systems, and trusted resources.
- [Chicago Braces for Trump National Guard Deployments: Community Resilience Tested](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/chicago-and-trump-national-guard-deployments-celebrating-black-brown-resilience-in-chicago/) - Chicago and Trump National Guard Deployments: Celebrating Black & Brown Resilience
- [HIM Movie Athlete Struggles: Mental and Emotional Challenges](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/him-movie-athlete-struggles-cameron-cade-2025/) - Explore Cameron Cade’s journey in HIM movie athlete struggles, highlighting mental and emotional challenges young athletes face.
- [Sexual Intimacy for Black Couples: Pleasure, Play, and Connection](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/play-pleasure/sexual-intimacy-for-black-couples-2025/) - Sexual intimacy for Black couples is a way to explore pleasure, deepen trust, and strengthen emotional connection.
- [Venus and Serena Williams New Podcast: A Legacy of Tennis Black Excellence](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/venus-and-serena-williams-a-legacy-of-tennis-black-excellence/) - Venus and Serena Williams celebrate Black love with their new podcast, a must-listen for fans and community.
- [Lil Nas X's Black Love Spotlight: How One Event Goes All Over Social Media](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/lil-nas-xs-black-love-spotlight-how-one-event-goes-all-over-social-media/) - Lil Nas X's Black Love Spotlight: How One Event Goes All Over Social Media
- [How to Add Playfulness in Sex to Strengthen Relationship](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/how-to-add-playfulness-in-sex-to-strengthen-relationship/) - Discover why playfulness in sex is the secret sauce to keeping your long-term relationship strong, exciting and joy-filled.
- [Lori Harvey's Journey with PCOS: A Lesson in Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/lori-harveys-journey-with-pcos-a-lesson-in-black-love/) - Lori Harvey's PCOS journey highlights the medical challenges Black women face and celebrates their resilience.
- [Kayla Nicole's Weekend in LA: Her Viral On-Stage Moment with Chris Brown](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/kayla-nicoles-breezy-moment/) - Kayla Nicole shines in a viral moment with Chris Brown, celebrating Black love and confidence.
- [Celebrating Strength: Karen Attiah's Journey](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/celebrating-strength-karen-attiahs-journey/) - Discover how Karen Attiah's experience highlights the power and resilience of Black love and community.
- [Sherri Shepherd Inspires at NYFW](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/sherri-shepherd-inspires-at-nyfw/) - Sherri Shepherd's NYFW transformation is celebrated, reminding us of the power of Black love and self-discovery.
- [Impact of Funding Cuts on Black Institutions: A Love Letter to Education](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/impact-of-funding-cuts-on-black-institutions-a-love-letter-to-education/) - Funding Cuts on Black Institutions
- [Queen Latifah Celebrates Black Women in Menopause Journey](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/queen-latifah-celebrates-black-women-in-menopause-journey/) - Discover Queen Latifah's partnership with WeightWatchers to empower Black women through menopause. #BlackLove
- [Clipse Talks Drugs, Beef, and Grief on Comeback Album, ‘Let God Sort Em Out’](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/music/clipse-talks-drugs-beef-and-grief-on-comeback-album-let-god-sort-em-out/) - Clipse returns with Let God Sort Em Out, their first album in 16 years.
- [Is Hip-Hop Entering An Era of Emotional Maturity and Vulnerability?](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/is-hip-hop-entering-an-era-of-emotional-maturity-and-vulnerability/) - : In 2025, hip-hop took a raw, emotional turn as top rappers like Meek Mill, and YG delivered deeply personal tracks.
- [Healthy Black Marriage & Partnership: A Guide for Couples](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/healthy-black-marriage-partnership-a-guide-for-couples/) - Guide to successful Black marriage and partnership—communication, finances, trust, and counseling for black couples seeking healthy relationships.
- [Dating Advice for Black Singles: Navigating Modern Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/dating-advice-for-black-singles-navigating-modern-love/) - Your go-to dating advice for Black singles. Navigate the scene with confidence, whether you're newly single or just trying to level up your love life.
- [How to Speak Your Partner’s Love Language](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-to-speak-your-partners-love-language/) - Loving someone isn’t always as simple. Sometimes, you're pouring your heart out, showing up, doing all the things—and your partner still feels like something’s missing. That “something”? It’s probably emotional connection. The secret sauce to building that strong bond is learning to speak each other’s love language. This isn’t just about buying flowers or sending
- [Meta's New Tools Uplift Black Creators & Brands](https://blacklove.com/read/business/technology/metas-new-tools-uplift-black-creators-brands/) - Discover how Meta's tools empower brands to connect with Black creators.
- [Building Trust & Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/building-trust-emotional-vulnerability-in-relationships/) - Explore the power of vulnerability in relationships and how to build trust. Black Love’s must-read guide on emotional vulnerability in relationships.
- [Historic Vatican Concert: A Celebration of Black Unity](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/historic-vatican-concert-a-celebration-of-black-unity/) - Clipse, Pharrell, and John Legend unite for a historic Black love celebration at the Vatican.
- [Celebrating Black Women in Sports Shaping Business (2025)](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sports/celebrating-black-women-in-sports-shaping-business-2025/) - Discover the trailblazing Black women leading and innovating within the sports industry.
- [Embracing Natural Beauty: The Dangers & Risks of DIY Fillers](https://blacklove.com/read/health/beauty/embracing-natural-beauty-the-dangers-risks-of-diy-fillers/) - Discover the deep value of natural beauty and the risks of DIY facial fillers for our community.
- [Kulture's NYFW Debut: A Tribute to Black Legacy](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/kultures-nyfw-debut-a-tribute-to-black-legacy/) - Kulture's NYFW DebutCardi B's daughter Kulture shines at NYFW, embodying the strength and beauty of Black heritage.
- [Simone Biles Shines Brightly: Her Post-Olympic Glow](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/simone-biles-shines-brightly-her-post-olympic-glow/) - Simone Biles steps out with a bold new look, celebrating love and transformation. #BlackLove
- [Black Father Faces Bias: A Lesson in Community Strength](https://blacklove.com/read/family/black-father-faces-bias-a-lesson-in-community-strength/) - Discover how a Black father's calm defiance against bias highlights the power of community love.
- [Black Love Shines: Cardi B & Kulture at NYFW](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/music/black-love-shines-cardi-b-kulture-at-nyfw/) - Cardi B & daughter Kulture embody Black love at NYFW 2026. Discover their standout fashion moments.
- [Rick Ross & Jazzma Kendrick: Love's New Chapter?](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/rick-ross-jazzma-kendrick-loves-new-chapter/) - Rick Ross and Jazzma Kendrick stir up rumors of a new love journey. What's next for this iconic duo? #BlackLove
- [Celebrating Black Beauty: Danessa & Uche's Masterclass](https://blacklove.com/read/health/skin-care/celebrating-black-beauty-danessa-uches-masterclass/) - Danessa Myricks & Uche Natori's masterclass highlights Black beauty excellence and community.
- [Future and Ballet Unite: A Celebration of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/future-and-ballet-unite-a-celebration-of-black-love/) - Experience the magic as Future and ballet redefine storytelling in a celebration of culture and community. #BlackLove
- [Clifton Powell Challenges Spike Lee: A Call for Black Unity](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/arts/clifton-powell-challenges-spike-lee-a-call-for-black-unity/) - Clifton Powell's candid criticism of Spike Lee ignites dialogue on Black representation in film.
- [Draya Michele and Jalen Green: Love's Real Conversations](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/draya-michele-and-jalen-green-loves-real-conversations/) - Draya and Jalen's candid moment reminds us all about the importance of real conversations in relationships. #BlackLove
- [Tenisha Warner's Heartfelt Tribute to Love and Legacy](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/tenisha-warners-heartfelt-tribute-to-love-and-legacy/) - Tenisha Warner honors Malcolm-Jamal Warner's legacy with a heartfelt message that celebrates enduring Black love.
- [Holly Robinson Peete Shares Royal Love Wisdom](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/holly-robinson-peete-shares-royal-love-wisdom/) - Discover Holly Robinson Peete's insights on love and relationships with a royal touch. #BlackLove
- [Celebrating Black Beauty: Street Style at NYFW](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/fashion/celebrating-black-beauty-street-style-at-nyfw/) - Discover how Black beauty shines at NYFW, inspiring love and community through fashion and style.
- [Celebrate Black Love at ONE Musicfest 2025](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrate-black-love-at-one-musicfest-2025/) - Join the largest Black-owned festival & celebrate love, music, and culture in Atlanta.
- [Summer Walker Embraces Her Choices, Celebrating Independence](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/summer-walker-embraces-her-choices-celebrating-independence/) - Summer Walker redefines independence, sparking conversations on love and self-worth in our community.
- [Martell & Marsau Unite: Love in Huntsville's Heart](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/martell-marsau-unite-love-in-huntsvilles-heart/) - Martell and Marsau find peace in Love & Marriage: Huntsville, highlighting the power of reconciliation. #BlackLove
- [Young Thug's Path to Redemption: A Journey of Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/young-thugs-path-to-redemption-a-journey-of-love/) - Young Thug's apology tour reminds us of the power of redemption and love in our community.
- [Packing for Tom Joyner's Cruise: Celebrate Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/packing-for-tom-joyners-cruise-celebrate-black-love/) - Pack smart for Tom Joyner's Fantastic Voyage with tips that celebrate Black love and culture.
- [Celebrate Black Love on the 2025 Fantastic Voyage](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrate-black-love-on-the-2025-fantastic-voyage/) - Discover the vibrant theme nights of Tom Joyner's 2025 cruise that celebrate Black love and culture.
- [HBCUs Unite: Strength in Community Amid Threats](https://blacklove.com/read/hbcus-unite-strength-in-community-amid-threats/) - HBCUs show resilience as they face threats, strengthening community bonds.
- [Our Favorite Quotes About Love and Why They Matter](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-favorite-quotes-about-love-and-why-they-matter/) - Whether it's romantic, platonic, or self-love, these words continue to inspire us to love more deeply and authentically.
- [ Hobbies to Explore for Black Women (And the Trailblazers Who Inspire Us)](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/hobbies-to-explore-for-black-women-and-the-trailblazers-who-inspire-us/) - Whether you want to move your body, tap into your imagination, or find a peaceful escape, there’s a world of possibilities waiting for you.
- [Escape to Paradise: Deepen Your Connection at The Good Love Retreat](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/escape-to-paradise-deepen-your-connection-at-the-good-love-retreat/) - Hosted in the dreamy paradise of Puerto Viejo, Costa Rica, this week-long retreat is designed to help couples explore tantric practices, improve communication, and rediscover the joy of play. 
- [How to Navigate the Holidays While Pregnant: A Journey of Self-Care](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-to-navigate-the-holidays-while-pregnant-a-journey-of-self-care/) - As I embrace this incredible experience of motherhood while pregnant with my second child, I've found myself at a crossroads this holiday season.
- [2023 Black Love Holiday Gift Guide: Gifts for the Family No Matter Your Budget](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/2023-black-love-holiday-gift-guide/) - The Black Love 2023 Holiday Guide is here! Shop Black-owned gifts for the entire family no matter your budget.
- [5 Self-Care Tips to Thrive This Holiday Season](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-self-care-tips-to-thrive-this-holiday-season/) - J.C. Williams' love for the holidays was often overshadowed by depleted bank accounts and depleted energy. But these self-care tips helped him to keep himself moving toward self-love and spiritual purpose during the most wonderful time of the year.
- [How to Avoid Being the Worst Guest at Your Significant Other’s Holiday Table](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/how-to-avoid-being-the-worst-guest-at-your-significant-others-holiday-table/) - Meeting your significant other’s family during the holidays can be overwhelming. Here are some tips to avoid being the worst guest at the holiday table.
- [Tips to Navigate Your First Blended Family Holiday Season](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/tips-to-navigate-your-first-blended-family-holiday-season/) - For blended families, there's always an extra step involved with or without a pandemic. Children typically spend alternating holidays with their parents depending on the arranged schedule that year. Has it been a hassle? If so, we hope these tips help.
- [6 Statements to Communicate Your Boundaries to Your Family During the Holidays](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/6-statements-to-communicate-your-boundaries-to-your-family-during-the-holidays/) - Although we often turn hurt into humor, there’s a lot of pain and damage that can be caused by unnecessary comments and statements made by the family at the table during the holidays. Let’s get real and talk about what that means and how to set boundaries with your family as you head home. 
- [How to Manage Grief During the Holidays](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/how-to-manage-grief-during-the-holidays/) - Amid celebrations and family gatherings, those suffering loss can feel depleted and alone. Here's how to navigate grief during the holidays.
- [Top 6 Holiday Movies Straight From the Black Love Team](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/top-6-holiday-movies-straight-from-the-black-love-team/) - Whether you’re sitting through a blizzard in the North or a hot wintry day in the South, the Black Love team has got you covered on six (plus two bonus) tried and true Christmas movies sure to put you in the holiday spirit.
- [Black Love Holiday Gift Guide 2024: Perfect Gifts for Every Loved One on Your List](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-holiday-gift-guide-2024-perfect-gifts-for-every-loved-one-on-your-list/) - It’s that time of the year again, fam! Check out our 2024 Holiday Gift Guide, presented by Cricket, for all your shopping needs.
- [Thanksgiving Groove: Top 17 Songs to Play This Holiday](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/thanksgiving-groove-top-17-songs-to-play-this-holiday/) - Whether you’re hosting or just here for the food, these tracks will have you vibing from appetizers to leftovers.
- [Grace Byers Talks New Motherhood, Holiday Traditions and ‘Harlem’ Season 3](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/grace-byers-talks-new-motherhood-holiday-traditions-and-harlem-season-3/) - “I did not know that becoming a mom was going to turn me into myself and really expose parts of myself that I wanted to work on,” Grace Byers says.
- [Maintaining Intimacy During the Stressful Holiday Season](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/maintaining-intimacy-during-the-stressful-holiday-season/) - The holiday season is often associated with joy and togetherness, but for many couples, it can bring stress and even feelings of disconnection.
- [7 Tried and True Tips for Road Tripping With the Kids](https://blacklove.com/read/7-tried-and-true-tips-for-road-tripping-with-the-kids/) - Contributor Avione Lee shares what she learned when visiting 50 cities in 3 months with her husband and kids. Take a look at these 7 tips for road tripping with kids!
- [Passport and Tuxedo: How Important is it That Your Partner Has Traveled?](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/passport-and-tuxedo-how-important-is-it-that-your-partner-has-traveled/) - It’s blacklove.com Travel Week! Travel Curator Kasara E. Davidson, Esq. talks the Black Travel Renaissance and well-traveled (or, not so much) significant others.
- [The Social Justice Now Film Festival: The Spotlight Features](https://blacklove.com/read/the-social-justice-now-film-festival-the-spotlight-features/) - Six films to look out for next week as the Social Justice Now Film Festival kicks off.
- [Shoniqua Shandai on Season 2 of "Harlem," Music, and Angie's Evolution](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/shoniqua-shandai-on-season-2-of-harlem-music-and-angies-evolution/) - "Harlem" is back for Season 2 and we’ve got the inside scoop on what to expect, Angie’s glow up, and Shoniqua’s new single.
- [10 Black Women Online Communities to Support You During Your Healing Journey](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/online-communities-black-woman-healing-journey/) - Healing will not happen overnight, but you can look for inspiring content to help aid that journey.
- [How My Love of Black Culture Informs My Travel](https://blacklove.com/read/how-my-love-of-black-culture-informs-my-travel/) - As I came into adulthood and began to venture outside of America, I knew that my first trip to the Eastern Hemisphere would begin with stepping foot onto the motherland of all civilization.
- [Barack and Michelle Obama’s Top Moments of Black Love at The DNC](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/barack-and-michelle-obamas-dnc-top-moments-of-black-love/) - The Obamas graced the DNC stage to show their support for Vice President Kamala Harris, but they also showed us the magic of Black love and partnership.
- [This Career Coach is Helping Black Women Increase Their Salaries and Know Their Worth](https://blacklove.com/read/business/this-career-coach-is-helping-black-women-increase-their-salaries-and-know-their-worth/) - January is the best time of year to find a new job. We talked with Dr. Tega Edwin on her journey to career counseling, self-love, and tips to increase your pay.
- [Money Moves: Black Financial Influencers You Should be Following](https://blacklove.com/read/business/money-moves-10-black-financial-influencers-you-should-be-following/) - Meet the influencers facing the racial wealth gap head-on and empowering their followers with financial wellness tips daily.
- [From College BFFs to App Co-Founders](https://blacklove.com/read/business/these-college-friends-built-an-app-to-support-black-moms/) - These mamas are building an app to be the village Black moms and parents of Black children need.
- [Black History Now: Dynamic Duos Building Together](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/black-history-now-dynamic-duos-building-together/) - This Black History Month, we’re honoring duos changing the world and making history now.
- [Meet the Couple Behind the Viral Brooklyn Vegan Donut Shop](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/meet-the-couple-behind-the-viral-brooklyn-vegan-donut-shop/) - Learn the story behind Derrick Faulcon and Zewiditu Ruffin’s donut shop that New York City can’t stop talking about.
- [JPMorgan Chase is Committed to Creating Financial Flexibility and Discussions Surrounding Generational Wealth](https://blacklove.com/read/business/jpmorgan-chase-financial-flexibility-generational-wealth/) - Black Love Summit showcased the power of unity in love & business. Check out the Impact & Entrepreneurship conversation featuring Keri Hilson.
- [Black Love Partners With Black Women-Owned Businesses for Black Girl Magic Dinner](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/black-women-owned-businesses-black-girl-magic-dinner/) - Black Love joined Black Girl Magic Wines and Mielle Organics for an uplifting and affirming Black Girl Magic dinner at The Gathering Spot Los Angeles.
- [The Black Love Guide to Love, Sex and Intimacy](https://blacklove.com/read/the-black-love-guide-to-love-sex-and-intimacy/) - Today is National Sex Day! To celebrate, we’re revisiting some of our favorite sex stories that cover all the things — from communicating with your partner about sex to sex after trauma and more.
- [14 Black Male Wellness Influencers You Should Follow](https://blacklove.com/read/health/13-black-male-wellness-influencers-to-follow/) - More psychologists, fitness experts, motivational coaches, and the like have made Black men’s health their passion across social media.
- [Black Midwife Kim Durdin Unpacks Black Maternal Health With "The Mama’s Den" Podcast](https://blacklove.com/read/health/black-maternal-health-with-midwife-kim-durdin-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Join "The Mama's Den" podcast and midwife Kim Durdin for a talk about Black Maternal Health Week and actionable steps Black mothers and their families can take.
- [Elaine Welteroth Wants to Make Midwifery Available for Every Mom With the Creation of birthFund](https://blacklove.com/read/health/elaine-welteroth-midwifery-availability-birthfund/) - Inspired by her own transformative home birth, Elaine Welteroth embarked on a mission to create lasting change within the maternal health landscape.
- [Sanaa Lathan, Algee Smith, and Sierra Capri Talk Mental Health and the New BET+ Film "Young. Wild. Free"](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/sanaa-lathan-algee-smith-sierra-capri-young-wild-free/) - Sanaa Lathan, Algee Smith and Sierra Capri are giving audiences a powerful and creative look at mental health in their new BET+ original film “Young. Wild. Free.”
- [Body Positive Affirmations for Postpartum Mamas to Remember This Summer](https://blacklove.com/read/family/body-positive-affirmations-for-postpartum-mamas-to-remember-this-summer/) - Although my body has endured so much, it has done amazing things. This acknowledgment provides space for me to positively affirm myself and my body.
- [How to Find Love in the DMs](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-to-find-love-in-the-dms/) - Whether you’re looking for a soulmate or just trying to spice up your social media game, our guide can help you navigate the world of Black love online.
- [From Sorority Life to Married Life: A Delta and AKA Wedding to Remember](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/from-sorority-life-to-married-life-delta-aka-wedding/) - A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. and a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. showed up and showed out at their wedding ceremony.
- [How to Date Based on Your Zodiac Sign: A Black Love Guide](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/black-love-guide-dating-zodiac-sign/) - Dating can be a rollercoaster, but what if the stars could give you a cheat sheet? Check out this guide to dating based on your zodiac sign.
- ['If Beale Street Could Talk': Black Love and the Strength of the Black Woman (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/if-beale-street-could-talk-black-love-and-the-strength-of-the-black-woman/) - The cast of "If Beale Street Could Talk" speaks with Black Love about colorism and creating a safe space for Black men and women.
- [How I Escaped Financial Abuse](https://blacklove.com/read/business/how-i-escaped-financial-abuse/) - Too often we don't recognize financial abuse as an issue. Tonya opens up about her experience and shares how she escaped a financially abusive relationship.
- [What I Learned From All Things Money, “Financial Freedom” (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/business/what-i-learned-from-all-things-moneys-financial-freedom/) - How do you define financial success? In “Financial Freedom”, blacklove.com financial expert Tonya Rapley’s answer may surprise, and encourage, you.
- [All Things Money (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/business/all-things-money-video/) - On All Things Money, Tonya Rapley shares the financial tips, tools and strategies you need to make sure your relationships and your bank account are strong.
- [Money Management: Leveling Up in Uncertainty](https://blacklove.com/read/business/money-management-leveling-up-in-uncertainty-with-my-fab-finance/) - Equipping you with financial fundamentals to help maneuver the current economic climate, millennial money expert Tonya Rapley created the online series Leveling Up in Uncertainty.
- [Money Expert Tonya Rapley on How to Survive and Thrive in an Economic Crisis](https://blacklove.com/read/business/money-expert-tonya-rapley-on-how-to-survive-and-thrive-in-an-economic-crisis/) - With the global coronavirus pandemic, money expert and creator of My Fab Finance Tonya Rapley shares her tips on the best financial decisions to make due to the current economic crisis.
- [A Complete Guide to Understanding Your 2020 Taxes](https://blacklove.com/read/business/a-complete-guide-to-understanding-your-2020-taxes/) - Financial experts Tonya Rapley and Belva Anakwenze share essential information to help you better understand the changing economic landscape of this tax season due to the coronavirus pandemic.
- [How the Country’s Largest Black-Owned Bank is Helping to Close the Racial Wealth Gap](https://blacklove.com/read/business/how-the-countrys-largest-black-owned-bank-is-helping-to-close-the-racial-wealth-gap/) - Kevin Cohee, chairman and CEO of OneUnited Bank, provides money management tips on building wealth and achieving financial freedom in the Black community.
- [Home Buying 101: Purchasing Real Estate During an Economic Collapse](https://blacklove.com/read/business/home-buying-101-purchasing-real-estate-during-an-economic-collapse/) - Are you interested in real estate investment? Although the economy is a bit rocky, here are a few things to keep in mind when considering multi-family property buys.
- [5 Ways to Leverage Your Business During Quarantine](https://blacklove.com/read/business/5-ways-to-leverage-your-business-during-quarantine/) - Keisha Credit offers five tips for small businesses to succeed in the wake of coronavirus and in the event of a full national lockdown.
- [How to Avoid Overspending This Holiday Season](https://blacklove.com/read/business/how-to-avoid-overspending-this-holiday-season/) - Here come the holidays, and here comes money being spent and love being shown through purchases and payment plans. Holiday sales are set up to make us think we are saving money, but are we really making the best decisions for our family’s financial health and longevity? Ashley Chea is here to help us answer that question with five tips on how to avoid overspending this holiday season. Holiday sales are set up to make us think we are saving money. Also, at no time is spending money saving money. We get so hyped up and tell ourselves we got a discount, but in reality, if we didn’t spend the money in the first place we would still have it. I’m not saying you shouldn’t buy anything. I am saying let’s take a moment to spend wisely and to find a way to enjoy the holidays without feeling depressed over money spent or not having the money to spend in the first place. Here are five tips I use during the holiday, and really all year round, to make sure I am spending wisely and, more importantly, not living in excess.
- [How We Got Out of $100,000 of Debt (and You Can, Too)](https://blacklove.com/read/business/how-we-got-out-of-100000-of-debt-and-you-can-too/) - With hard work and dedication, they got out of $100,000 worth of debt. Then, it happened again. But this time, they learned that abundance is a mind game.
- [This Holiday Marketplace Centers Black Women — and We're Here for It!](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/this-holiday-marketplace-centers-black-women-and-were-here-for-it/) - This holiday season and beyond, Renae Bluitt is uplifting Black women business owners.
- [Are You Ready for Change? Here’s How to Design the Life of Your Dreams](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/are-you-ready-for-change-heres-how-to-design-the-life-of-your-dreams/) - Have you ever thought about what “having it all” really means? Here are a few ideas to consider when creating the life of your dreams that best suits your needs.
- [Our Secrets to Launching a Successful Online Business During COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/our-secrets-to-launching-a-successful-online-business-during-covid-19/) - COVID-19 has given us a 2020 ultimatum: adapt or get left behind.
- [The Black-Owned Businesses That Made The YOU Retreat Special](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/the-black-owned-businesses-that-made-the-you-retreat-special/) - The YOU Retreat was a success, and we wouldn’t have been able to pull off this day of sisterhood without our sponsors! Each Black-owned and woman-owned business donated its resources, products, and gifts to our speakers and panelists.
- [In a World Full of Girl Bosses, I Took 2 Years Off From Hustling](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/in-a-world-full-of-girl-bosses-i-took-2-years-off-from-hustling/) - There was not a deep conversation about it or a well-thought-out plan. I just knew that I was overwhelmed and burnt out.
- [Marty McDonald is Building a Network of Support for Black Women Entrepreneurs](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/marty-mcdonald-is-building-a-network-of-support-for-black-women-entrepreneurs/) - Marty is creating spaces of empowerment for Black women. Learn more and apply for this pitch competition!
- [C-Suite Elite! These Black Women Bosses Are Dominating the Media Industry](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/c-suite-elite-these-black-women-bosses-are-dominating-the-media-industry/) - Stats show only 4% of Black women account for C-suite positions. This Women’s History Month, we’re centering sisterhood and giving these bosses their flowers.
- [C-Suite Elite! These Black Woman Bosses Are Knocking Down Doors in Hollywood](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/c-suite-elite-these-black-woman-bosses-are-knocking-down-doors-in-hollywood/) - During this week of Women's History Month, we’re headed to Hollywood! Let’s honor these bosses and their journeys to being the change we want to see, both in front of and behind the camera!
- [C-Suite Elite! These Beauty Bosses Are Redefining What "The Standard" Truly Is](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/c-suite-elite-these-beauty-bosses-are-redefining-what-the-standard-truly-is/) - These beauty bosses are showing us that representation matters and that our melanin, voices, and perspectives should take center stage.
- [#BlackBusinessMonth: Meet the Couple Who Created the First Black-Owned, Size-Inclusive Bridal Wear Line](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/blackbusinessmonth-meet-the-couple-who-created-the-first-black-owned-size-inclusive-bridal-wear-line/) - Ashley and Charles Young are redefining the wedding industry, one dress at a time.
- [#BlackBusinessMonth: Podcaster Ashleigh Coffie Celebrates Black Love Throughout History With Video Series "Aisle Tell You What"](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/blackbusinessmonth-podcaster-ashleigh-coffie-celebrates-black-love-throughout-history-with-video-series-aisle-tell-you-what/) - While "Aisle Tell You What" shows the glitz and glamor of iconic Black weddings, it also humanizes the complexities of relationships that couples can go through.
- [The Village Retail is the Place to Shop All Things Black-Owned and a Space to Get Your Black-Owned Products Seen](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/the-village-retail-is-the-place-to-shop-all-things-black-owned-and-a-space-to-get-your-black-owned-products-seen/) - The Village Retail is your one-stop shop for the best Black-owned brands online and in person and in Atlanta.
- [Black Entrepreneurs in Search of a Black-Owned Membership Club, Look No Further Than The Gathering Spot](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/black-entrepreneurs-in-search-of-a-black-owned-membership-club-look-no-further-than-the-gathering-spot/) - The Gathering Spot is the perfect place to strategize as a forward-thinker who desires to make an impact in the world.
- [Up Your Self-Care Game With Plant Zaddy, the Black-Owned Plant Shop](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/up-your-self-care-game-with-plant-zaddy-the-black-owned-plant-shop/) - If you’re looking to add to your self-care regimen, Plant Zaddy is perfect for shopping online for plants, learning about plant care and more.
- [A Very Special Christmas Music Playlist](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/a-very-special-christmas-music-playlist/) - ‘Tis the season to be jolly, full of love, peace and a whole lot of soul. Why soul you ask? Because besides this being a season to give and spread love, it’s a season full of amazing, timeless songs that, to be frank, are only truly relevant during this time of the year. Whether you’re belting about chestnuts roasting on an open fire or telling bae that all you want for Christmas is their love, something about songs of this season stick and live from generation-to-generation when they are really, really good.
- [Sammie Talks Love, Turning 35, Marriage and His New EP "Satin Sheets"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sammie-talks-love-turning-35-marriage-and-his-new-ep-satin-sheets/) - I'm big on manifestation and then praying over the things that I manifest. And I think now that I've gone at my music career being on autopilot, the only thing that I'm truly missing off of me is the happy ending.
- [R&B Ain't Dead: Soul Artists to Have on Your Radar and Playlists](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/rb-aint-dead-soul-artists-to-have-on-your-radar-and-playlists/) - Black Music Month: R&B Artists to Have on Your Radar and Playlists
- [Hello, King: I Had to Lose Everything to Find My Crown](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/hello-king/) - Why did I address you as King? That is a great question, and I’m glad you asked. I call you King because who I am on the inside calls out who you are on the inside. How we view ourselves is often how we view others. I view myself as a King; therefore, that is how I view who you are too. “King” is not just a title; it is who you are at your core, which then sets your code of conduct and way of living. But I did not always see myself this way. My parents divorced when I was 13, and for the first time in my life, I experienced pain like never before in my heart. The man who I had grown to love and admire was not only leaving my mother, but he was walking out of my life. My father had been my hero, and he could do no wrong until he was no longer the man of the house. I transitioned into the role of a surrogate father to my sisters and a friend to my mother. I was the strong one, but even I had my moments of weakness. The football field became my outlet to unleash all the pain, resentment, and anger without repercussions. I never, ever talked about my pain. Football was my coping mechanism; it was how I identified myself because I didn’t have a male figure or role model to teach me I could be more. After a successful college career, I began pursuing a dream to play on Sundays. I was a free agent on the market looking for an NFL home that would allow me to continue my coping. The Green Bay Packers gave me that opportunity. I did everything right, but the football Gods chose to see my fate otherwise. I was sent home with no contract and with the suspense of “stay in shape, and we will call.” The call never came.
- [A Boy. A Girl. A Dream: The Love Story Behind The Camera](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/aboyagirladream/) - Qasim Basir and Samantha Tanner share how their film A Boy. A Girl. A Dream. became a real-life love letter on and off screen.
- [Amazing Black Couples Through History](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/amazing-black-couples-through-history/) - The Black Love team is celebrating unforgettable and inspirational couples who have defined and demonstrated the essence of love in our community throughout history.
- [5 Black Female Playwrights You Should Know About](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-black-female-playwrights-you-should-know-about/) - From Pulitzer Prize winners to MacArthur Genius Grant recipients, these five Black women playwrights are burning up the stage.
- [10 Must-Read Books About the Black Experience](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/10-must-read-books-about-the-black-experience/) - Black Love contributor Briana Johnson-Sims highlights 10 must-read books that do a deep dive into the Black experience.
- [10 Black Children’s Book Authors to Read (Right Now!)](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/10-black-childrens-book-authors-to-read-right-now/) - Ready for the new story that your child will one day call a classic? Well, these Black children’s book authors are ready for you.
- [7 Black-Owned Publishers Telling the Stories of the African Diaspora](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/7-black-owned-publishers-telling-the-stories-of-the-african-diaspora/) - Many of us have stories, and these publishing houses are committed to telling them.
- [9 Black Self-Published Indie Authors Crushing Publishing](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/9-black-self-published-indie-authors-crushing-publishing/) - These nine Black self-published indie authors are taking success into their own hands — and succeeding.
- [This Attorney-Turned-Author Writes NYT Bestselling Rom-Coms About Black Women](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/this-attorney-turned-author-writes-nyt-bestselling-rom-coms-about-black-women/) - Attorney-turned-author Jasmine Guillory has created a universe of strong Black heroines who passionately pursue love on their own terms at any age.
- [Black Love Reads: 4 Must-Read Books to Teach Your Kids About Family Diversity](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-reads-4-must-read-books-to-teach-your-kids-about-family-diversity/) - Looking for some new books to entertain and educate your kids? We've got you covered! This week, we’re sharing a few amazing books about family diversity that are perfect to read to the little ones at bedtime.
- [How This Author Made #RelationshipGoals More Than a Hashtag](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/how-this-author-made-relationshipgoals-more-than-a-hashtag/) - When author Jennifer Allen realized her marriage was heading in the wrong direction, she created an interactive journal to help reignite her relationship.
- [The Words of Black Women Poets Shine Light in These Challenging Times](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-words-of-black-women-poets-shine-light-in-these-challenging-times/) - Black poets are a necessity in troubled times, and their affirming words create a sense of comfort and peace. In honor of National Poetry Month, we revisit the writings from some of our favorites including, Nikki Giovanni, Toni Morrison, Cleo Wade, and Alex Elle.
- ['Sylvie’s Love' Writer and Director Eugene Ashe Shares the Story of How the Movie Came to Be (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sylvies-love-writer-and-director-eugene-ashe-shares-the-story-of-how-the-movie-came-to-be/) - "Sylvie’s Love" will be available for Amazon Prime customers on December 23rd — yes, Christmas has come early.
- [Love in Literature: 10 Books Written by Black Authors](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/love-in-literature-10-books-written-by-black-authors/) - There are infinite ways to be Black. They are all important, they are all glorious, and nothing quite captures this truth like literature.
- [Educate the Babies: Juneteenth Books to Empower](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/educate-the-babies-juneteenth-books-to-empower/) - Happy Juneteenth, y’all! This year, let’s educate our children and empower them with the knowledge of our rich history through these books.
- [Russell & Nina Westbrook Discuss Therapy, Marriage, and Ignoring Criticism at Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/russell-nina-westbrook-discuss-therapy-marriage-and-ignoring-criticism-at-black-love-summit/) - If you missed the 5th annual Black Love Summit, here’s your chance to get an inside look at the couples' panel discussion.
- [Why Single, Married, or Divorced You Should Attend Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/why-single-married-or-divorced-you-should-attend-black-love-summit/) - Happily married, enjoying the dating scene, or single and satisfied - you need to be at Black Love Summit. Grab your early bird tickets here!
- [Black Love Confirms Devale & Khadeen Ellis as Speakers at Black Love Summit!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-confirms-devale-khadeen-ellis-as-speakers-at-black-love-summit/) - Devale & Khadeen Ellis return to Black Love Summit to share how they remain connected and their keys to balancing new levels of success and growth.
- [Black Love Summit is Elevating Black Voices](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-is-elevating-black-voices/) - Black Love Summit is not just our marquee event; it’s our love letter to our community and the voices in it that need to be heard.
- [Black Love Summit Tickets Are Discounted for a Limited Time! Meet Us in The A!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-tickets-are-on-sale-for-a-limited-time-purchase-and-meet-us-in-the-a/) - We’re days away from Black Love Summit! Grab our code to receive a discount on tickets for a limited time only!
- [Black Love Summit Reminded Me That Love is a Dynamic, Ever-Evolving Journey](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-reminded-me-that-love-is-a-dynamic-ever-evolving-journey/) - Black Love Summit 2023 wasn't just an event, it was an experience delving into the complexities of love, communication, and growth.
- [I'm Finally Married, Now What?](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/im-finally-married-now-what/) - If Black women are groomed with high expectations of becoming wives, how does that affect how we approach the process with more patience, grace, and flexibility?
- [5 Steps to Throwing a Fabulous "Friendsgiving"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-steps-to-throwing-a-fabulous-friendsgiving/) - When you're on your own or far from home, friends can be saviors during the holidays. Check out these tips for throwing a "Friendsgiving" dinner!
- [How to Avoid Family Drama Over Christmas](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/how-to-avoid-family-drama-over-christmas/) - The holidays don't exempt us from having unpleasant experiences. Here are steps you can take to avoid family drama over Christmas and beyond.
- [Lucky Daye and KIRBY Electrify ABFF at Cadillac Lounge](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/lucky-daye-and-kirby-electrify-abff-at-cadillac-lounge/) - Cadillac celebrated its 14th year as a sponsor at the 2024 American Black Film Festival with two performances that are sure to be remembered for years to come.
- [Top Moments of Black Love at the 2024 Olympic Games](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-moments-2024-olympics/) - From track stars Noah Lyles and Junelle Bromfield to LeBron James and Savannah James, love was in the air at the Paris Olympics.
- [The Art of Belonging: The Intersection of Race and Sexuality](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-art-of-belonging-the-intersection-of-race-and-sexuality/) - Guest columnist Jared Williams explores intersectionality, identity and how he came of age as a gay Black man in America.
- [Master P and Son Romeo Miller on Building Generational Wealth](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/master-p-and-son-romeo-miller-discuss-the-keys-to-building-generational-wealth/) - A family of entrepreneurs. The dynamic father-son duo provides tools on laying the path for a lasting legacy.
- [Actress KJ Smith Has This Advice for Singles Looking for Love: "Look Within First"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/actress-kj-smith-has-this-advice-for-singles-looking-for-love-look-within-first/) - Fam, are you doing the work to find the one?! Actress KJ Smith says that’s what landed her the love of her life, Actor Skyh Alvester Black.
- [5 Times Tab & Choyce Were Mother-Daughter Goals](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-times-tab-choyce-were-mother-daughter-goals/) - Yass, mama daughter slay! We all love Tab & Chance, and now Tab & Choyce have us in our feels, too.
- [Gabrielle Union and Keith Powers on "The Perfect Find" and Being Loved Well](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/gabrielle-union-and-keith-powers-on-the-perfect-find-and-being-loved-well/) - “When you are loved well and loved completely and completely seen — that love hits different.” -Gabrielle Union
- [Kerry Washington Discusses Book "Thicker Than Water," Healing, Grace for Her Parents, and More at Sistas In Sales Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/kerry-washington-discusses-book-thicker-than-water-healing-grace-for-her-parents-and-more-at-sistas-in-sales-summit/) - "Some families actually define family by ‘Are you willing to keep our secrets?’ We are really working toward this different culture of can we love each other with more intimacy.”
- [Beyoncé’s Hair Care Line Cécred Should Remind Us How Important Self-Care Is](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/beyonces-hair-care-line-cecred-self-care/) - Beyonce’s years-long hair story shows that she may be a musical genius, but at her core, she is just like us.
- [7 Takeaways From Reesa Teesa’s 50-Part TikTok Series “Who TF Did I Marry”](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/reesa-teesas-tiktok-series-who-tf-did-i-marry/) - Each part of Reesa Teesa’s “Who TF Did I Marry" TikTok series is full of valuable lessons for both women and men in the dating world.
- [Ever Wanted to Write for Black Love? Here’s Your Chance!](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/ever-wanted-to-write-for-black-love-heres-your-chance/) - Before you press send, here are some things you need to know about us to familiarize yourself with the stories we love, and the brand.
- [Creating ‘Love From A Distance’](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/creating-love-from-a-distance/) - Thanks to the coronavirus lockdown, entrepreneur Jeremy Berry had a major professional pivot which brought him Love From A Distance.
- [How We Launched a Thriving Business During a Pandemic](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/how-we-launched-a-thriving-business-during-a-pandemic/) - How we started a new plant and wellness business during a pandemic with Jasmine Nicole, co-founder and CEO of The Nice Plant.
- [Black-Owned Apps You Need to Download Now](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/black-owned-apps-you-need-to-download-now/) - These apps are for us, by us and bring everything you need directly to your devices.
- [#BlackBusinessMonth: Black-Owned Restaurants in Chicago](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/blackbusinessmonth-black-owned-restaurants-in-chicago/) - HEY CHI-TOWN, who’s hungry?! In honor of #BlackBusinessMonth, we teamed up with @eatokratheapp, a Black-owned app designed to connect you with some of the best #BlackOwnedRestaurants in YOUR city – and this week, we’re highlighting some of Chicago’s best!
- [#BlackBusinessMonth: Black-Owned Restaurants in Atlanta](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/blackbusinessmonth-black-owned-restaurants-in-atlanta/) - A-Town, what’s hannenin? In honor of #BlackBusinessMonth, we teamed up with @eatokratheapp, a Black-owned app designed to connect you with some of the best #BlackOwnedRestaurants in YOUR city — and this week, we’re coming to Hotlanta!
- [#BlackBusinessMonth: Black-Owned Restaurants in Houston](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/blackbusinessmonth-black-owned-restaurants-in-houston/) - Houston, pack your stretchy pants, because tonight we’re eating GOOD! In honor of #BlackBusinessMonth, we teamed up with @eatokratheapp, a Black-owned app designed to connect you with some of the best #BlackOwnedRestaurants in YOUR city — and this week, we’re coming to H-town!
- [#BlackBusinessMonth: Black-Owned Restaurants in NYC](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/blackbusinessmonth-black-owned-restaurants-in-nyc/) - They say that NYC is the city of dreams, but what if all we’re dreaming about is food? Wake up and smell the waffles, New Yorkers, because we’ve teamed up with @eatokratheapp to bring you an epic list of local #BlackOwnedRestaurants to visit!
- [#BuyBlack: Black-Owned Sex Toys/Accessory Brands](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/buyblack-black-owned-sex-toys-accessories-brands/) - It's #BlackBusinessMonth, and today, we’re getting a little sexy! Whether you’re a party of one, boo’d up, or friends with benefits, it’s time to spice things up in the bedroom with some #BlackOwned sex toys + accessory brands!
- [Young King Hair Care Founders Talk "Shark Tank," Marriage, and Black Boy Joy Representation](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/young-king-hair-care-founders-talk-shark-tank-marriage-and-black-boy-joy-representation/) - Young King Haircare Co-Founders Cora and Stef Miller are building generational wealth, growing their beautiful family, and expanding to become a self-care company rooted in Black boy joy.
- [From Influencer to Entrepreneur: How I Built My Haircare Brand](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/from-influencer-to-entrepreneur-how-i-built-my-haircare-brand/) - Influencers, listen in. Social media shouldn’t be your end game. Meet the influencer who just launched a haircare line inspired by her mother.
- [16 Black-Owned Brands to Use on a Daily Basis](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/16-black-owned-brands-to-use-on-a-daily-basis/) - August is Black Business Month! While we are team #SupportBlackBusinesses24/7, this month is a great opportunity for us to uplift Black-owned businesses that we can use on a daily basis! For toilet tissue, laundry detergent, candles, and more, check out these Black-owned businesses for your everyday needs.
- ["No Place to Be Somebody" and the Creative Power of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/no-place-to-be-somebody-and-the-creative-power-of-black-love/) - Black Love Doc alum Tina Knowles Lawson and Richard Lawson share and spread love in their community through the arts and their WACO Theater Center in North Hollywood, California.
- [How to Be an Advocate Without Being on the Front Lines](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/how-to-be-an-advocate-without-being-on-the-front-lines/) - If you're unable to join civil rights protests, this writer offers solutions to mobilize your activism beyond the front lines.
- [Black History Month: These Sisters Founded a Fashion and Lifestyle Brand for Type 4 Naturals](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-history-month-these-sisters-founded-a-fashion-and-lifestyle-brand-for-type-4-naturals/) - Happy Black History Month, Fam! This year, we’re paying homage to the rich history of the past while celebrating the change-makers of the future.
- [Black History Month: Meet The Mother and Daughter Building a Fashion Empire Filled With Black Girl Magic Representation](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-history-month-meet-the-mother-and-daughter-building-a-fashion-empire-filled-with-black-girl-magic-representation/) - This year, we’re paying homage to the rich history of the past while celebrating the change-makers of the future. Meet Sparkle, a seven-year-old purse designer, and her mom and Creative Director Simone Gittens.
- [Missing "Black Love Doc" and Want More? Check Out the Exclusive Podcast!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/missing-black-love-doc-and-want-more-check-out-the-exclusive-podcast/) - If you’re missing your favorite Black Love couples, we got you!
- [Black Podcasts to Add to Your Rotation in 2023](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-podcasts-to-add-to-your-rotation-in-2023/) - This one’s for the podcast lovers: add these Black podcasts on wellness, life, love, and more to your line up in the new year!
- [Jemele Hill and Greenleaf's Deborah Joy Winans Reflect on Black Womanhood and What Matters Most](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/jemele-hill-and-greenleafs-deborah-joy-winans-reflect-on-black-womanhood-and-what-matters-most/) - The Detroit natives got real and vulnerable about their respective journeys within their careers, families, and boundaries that matter.
- [Happy Pride! These Queer Black Fathers Are Making a Difference](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/happy-pride-these-queer-black-fathers-are-making-a-difference/) - In celebration of Pride Month, and with Father’s Day just around the corner, we're showing some love to our FAVE Black queer dads on the Internet!
- [Taraji P. Henson Thanks Nikki Giovanni for Breaking Down Barriers at "Going to Mars: The Nikki Giovanni Project" Screening](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/going-to-mars-nikki-giovanni-taraji-p-henson/) - The project is beautifully crafted and shows not only Nikki Giovanni’s journey, but also the struggles many Black people — especially Black women — face in America.
- [10 Travel Destinations to Explore in the African Diaspora](https://blacklove.com/read/10-travel-destinations-to-explore-in-the-african-diaspora/) - The best way to travel is with a mix of natural beauty and local immersion. Here are 10 travel destinations in the African Diaspora for you to visit.
- [Black Love Founders Co-Host U.S. Senate Candidate Hill Harper’s L.A. Fundraiser](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/black-love-us-senate-candidate-hill-harpers-la-fundraiser/) - U.S. Senate candidate Hill Harper was joined by his campaign staff, family, friends, and Michigan citizens at a fundraiser co-hosted by “Black Love'' creators Tommy Oliver and Codie Elaine Oliver.
- [Opinion: An Activist's Perspective on Defunding the Police](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/defunding-the-police-opinion/) - So why is defunding the police a central demand by protesters? Here's a breakdown of everything you need to know.
- [Simple, Healthy Recipe to Try During Quarantine](https://blacklove.com/read/simple-healthy-recipe-to-try-during-quarantine/) - This mom-of-three shares a pantry-based and nourishing recipe that anyone can make while we #stayhome.
- [8 Black Healthy Eats Chefs to Follow on Instagram](https://blacklove.com/read/8-black-healthy-eats-chefs-to-follow-on-instagram/) - These black health-conscious chefs are throwing it down on Instagram.
- [Why You Don't Have to Choose Between Love and Success](https://blacklove.com/read/how-i-learned-to-choose-love/) - It's an amazing feeling when the epiphany is that you don't have to choose between two things you've always wanted. Jared was hoping a checklist would lead him to love, and in that order. What he learned was, this list he fantasized over and stuck to may have been the very thing that kept him away from love.
- [Things to Remember After Getting Your Heart Broken](https://blacklove.com/read/things-to-remember-after-getting-your-heart-broken/) - Dating after heartbreak can be intimidating, and let’s just be honest — SCARY. But what’s even scarier is missing out on the love you deserve because you don’t want to put yourself out there again.
- [Why This Married Mom Schedules Sex With Her Husband](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/how-this-married-mom-of-two-manages-to-schedule-sex-and-still-enjoy-it/) - There are many methods of keeping your sex life spicy, and LaToya Scott Brown from season 1 of Black Love is sharing her secret to staying satisfied.
- [How We Prioritize Sex — 3 Couples, 3 Sex Lives](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/how-we-prioritize-sex-3-couples-3-sex-lives/) - Three couples speak to blacklove.com about the importance of sexual intimacy (and what to do when it’s missing).
- [Sex and Married Women](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/sex-and-married-women/) - Image source: https://www.instagram.com/p/BmuG4o4A8KQ/?taken-by=allycinhicks We conducted a survey where we asked married women all about sex. Their responses were honest, insightful, direct and to the point.
- [Becoming the Sex Positive Parent I Wish I Had](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/becoming-the-sex-positive-parent-i-wish-i-had/) - This writer and mother of two provides personal insights and parenting expert advice on creating healthy attitudes around sexuality in raising sex-positive kids.
- [Quarantined Away From Bae? Master Phone Sex Seduction With These 6 Tips](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/quarantined-away-from-bae-master-phone-sex-seduction-with-these-6-tips/) - Are you ready to spice things up? Sexologist Michelle Hope offers her six-step guide to master orgasmic phone sex while social distancing.
- [How to Have a Healthy and Thriving Sex Life in the Time of COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/how-to-have-a-healthy-and-thriving-sex-life-in-the-time-of-covid-19/) - Having a thriving sex life during a global pandemic may seem impossible, but don't fear! Here are a few suggestions to help you on this journey.
- [Sex on a Monday](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/sex-on-a-monday/) - No time for sex? Kristen Bellamy, cast member of the Black Love series season 4, has the answer –– sex on a Monday.
- [Author and Activist George M. Johnson on Dating, Self-Love and Healthy Sexual Relationships While HIV+](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/author-activist-george-m-johnson-on-dating-self-love-and-healthy-sexual-relationships-while-hiv/) - Removing the stigma around HIV in the Black community is imperative in forming healthy relationships, spreading awareness, and fusing Black love.
- [How Black Women Can Own Their Sexuality in a World of Chloe Bailey Haters](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/how-black-women-can-own-their-sexuality-in-a-world-of-chloe-bailey-haters/) - We are afraid to be perceived as a sexual being of any kind because society has taught us that sexual liberation equals promiscuity.
- [Masturbation Techniques for a Mind-Blowing Solo Sex Session](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/masturbation-techniques-for-a-mind-blowing-solo-sex-session/) - You don't need a partner to spice things up! Make the most of your "me time" and take masturbation to the next level with these solo sex tips.
- [Nonsexual Ways to Build Intimacy](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/nonsexual-ways-to-build-intimacy/) - The connection you build outside of the bedroom is just as important as the one between the sheets.
- [Why Sexual Aftercare is Just as Important as Sex](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/why-sexual-aftercare-is-just-as-important-as-sex/) - Just as foreplay deals with the way we treat each other before sex, aftercare is about how we treat each other when sex is over.
- [6 Things Celibacy Has Taught Me That Have Nothing to Do With Sex](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/7-things-celibacy-has-taught-me-that-have-nothing-to-do-with-sex/) - Choosing to abstain from sex wasn't easy, but the life I've built for myself in the process made it clear this was the best decision for me.
- [9 Books by Black Authors for Greater Sex, Love and Intimacy](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/9-books-by-black-authors-for-greater-sex-love-and-intimacy/) - Whether you’re looking for love or craving deeper intimacy and pleasure with your partner, there’s something for everyone on this book list.
- [Gratitude is the Attitude: Using Love to Weather the Storm](https://blacklove.com/read/gratitude-is-the-attitude-using-love-to-weather-the-storm/) - Gratitude is the attitude this holiday season. With that in mind, blacklove.com’s editorial contributors reflect on 2018 and share what they are grateful for. In this edition, Marriage and Partnership contributor Tanya Barnett talks being featured on the Black Love series and welcoming a grandchild, along with experiencing job loss, fatigue, and unforeseen frustrations.Tanya and her husband are grateful that they have learned to love, make love, and laugh through it all.
- [How I Let Go of Shame and Started Living My Dreams](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/how-i-let-go-of-shame-and-started-living-my-dreams/) - blacklove.com contributor Jared Williams reflects on how shame affected his spiritual health and living his best life, and why he’s letting it go.
- [Being Alone But Not Lonely in the Time of Social Distancing](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/being-alone-but-not-lonely-in-the-time-of-social-distancing/) - The feelings of loneliness and isolation are amplified during this "new normal" of social distancing. But Adrienne Reed, the co-founder of Brunch 2 Bomb, is continuing her mission of creating a sense of community while in quarantine.
- [Derek Blanks Tells His Story: ‘Yes, I Too Caught Coronavirus’](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/celebrity-photographer-derek-blanks-tells-his-story-yes-i-too-caught-coronavirus/) - Although several states are beginning to resume business as usual, celebrity photographer Derek Blanks' personal account is an all too familiar recollection of people who have tested positive for COVID-19.
- [Your Grooming Guide to Self-Care Down There](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/your-grooming-guide-to-self-care-down-there/) - From plant-based products to soothing natural oils for your lady parts, these Black women entrepreneurs, such as Beatrice Dixon of The Honey Pot Company, are changing the feminine care game.
- [10 Times Michelle Obama Showed Us What Love Looks Like](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/10-times-michelle-obama-showed-us-what-love-looks-like/) - Let’s take a trip down memory lane and revisit 10 times Michelle Obama gave us a masterclass in love.
- [Are You Missing Physical Touch? It’s Called 'Skin Hunger' and Here’s How to Manage It](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/are-you-missing-physical-touch-its-called-skin-hunger-and-heres-how-to-manage-it/) - If you've realized that you're skin starved too, know that you can show your body some extra love even while social distancing.
- [From the Frontline: Dr. Mollette Offers Tips to Protect Yourself During COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/from-the-frontline-dr-mollette-offers-tips-to-protect-yourself-during-covid-19/) - New York-based ER Physician Dr. Arabia Mollette discusses the challenges of working on the frontline and the disproportionate impact of COVID-19, "It's time for us as a community to stand in solidarity to fight this pandemic."
- [Early Detection Saved My Life: My Journey With Prostate Cancer](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/early-detection-saved-my-life-my-journey-with-prostate-cancer/) - When Mical Roy received a prostate cancer diagnosis, his world changed in unimaginable ways. What was once earth-shattering news has turned into a personal journey to encourage other Black men about the importance of early detection.
- [Chasing Orgasmic Pleasure Inside and Outside of the Bedroom Changed My Life](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/chasing-orgasmic-pleasure-inside-and-outside-of-the-bedroom-changed-my-life/) - Having more orgasms was great for getting moments of pleasure. But prioritizing feeling good outside the bedroom showed me that I deserved a life of pleasure.
- [Domestic Violence: A Survivor’s Story](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/domestic-violence-a-survivors-story/) - According to statistics, approximately 4 in 10 Black women experience domestic abuse. Dr. Arabia shares what can be done to stay safe in unsafe situations.
- [Can Personality Tests Make You Stronger, Smarter, and Better? Yes](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/can-personality-tests-make-you-stronger-smarter-and-better-yes/) - Personality assessments like Strengthsfinder and Myers-Briggs are popular for finding one’s “type.” But can taking a personality test actually improve your life this year? Contributor Arynetta Floyzelle takes the Enneagram to find out.
- [12 Quotes to Live by in 2021](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/12-quotes-to-live-by-in-2021/) - It's never too late to set intentions for the year. If you're feeling stuck, consider these quotes to uplift you and encourage you to keep going.
- [How Hair Care is a Necessary Form of Self-Care, According to Celebrity Stylist Kim Kimble](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/how-hair-care-is-a-necessary-form-of-self-care-according-to-celebrity-stylist-kim-kimble/) - Here are a few things you need to know about the dos and don'ts of at-home hair care in the time of quarantine.
- [I Twerk Freely Because I Refuse To Shrink Myself For Others. You Should, Too.](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/i-twerk-freely-because-i-refuse-to-shrink-myself-for-others-you-should-too/) - Women always ask about my confidence. They really want to ask how I built up the courage to take up space publicly. Dance brings me joy, and in a world that works to steal my smile, joy is worth resistance.
- [Daily Self-Care Practices Black Men Should Consider](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/daily-self-care-practices-black-men-should-consider/) - Without a doubt, Black men in America have and do navigate a unique challenge — balancing the many demands of masculinity and racial oppression at the same time. We need to check in with ourselves, and our self-care daily.
- [How Getting Dressed While Working From Home Boosted My Mood](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/how-getting-dressed-while-working-from-home-boosted-my-mood/) - Thinking of getting dressed to WFH? When I look good, I feel good. Getting dressed helps me feel a sense of normalcy with the world looking very different.
- [Self-Care vs. Soul-Care: Understanding Their Significance and Differences](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/self-care-vs-soul-care-understanding-their-significance-and-differences/) - Personally, I believe self-care and soul care are both beneficial and one won’t be as effective without another. I see both as a recipe that cooks up a healthy, balanced life and mind.
- [Why I'm Transforming My Relationship With My Health in 2023](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/why-im-transforming-my-relationship-with-my-health-in-2023/) - I cannot expect someone to care more about my needs than I do. Expectations are resentments waiting to happen.
- [Tai Beauchamp is Championing Black Women to Tend to Themselves First](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/tai-beauchamp-is-championing-black-women-to-tend-to-themselves-first/) - Learn how this wellness founder is cultivating an energy-shifting community.
- [Tips to Prepare Your Home and Mind for Spring Equinox](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/tips-to-prepare-your-home-and-mind-for-spring-equinox/) - Resetting for spring can mean different things to different people. One thing we can agree on is that it is an opportunity to start fresh.
- [Finding My Power and Prioritizing My Peace at The YOU Retreat](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/finding-my-power-and-prioritizing-my-peace-at-the-you-retreat/) - The YOU Retreat is a reminder that sisterhood and community are not optional but instead a necessity for how we manifest our peace and power in our lives.
- [Wellness Starts From Within](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/wnba-players-nneka-and-chiney-ogwumike-talk-sisterhood-and-wellness-it-starts-from-within/) - The sisters discussed wellness, their upbringing, and how they navigate adversity with lifestyle and yoga coach Koya Webb.
- [3 Things I Learned as a Single Woman at the 2021 Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/3-things-i-learned-as-a-single-woman-at-the-black-love-summit/) - This panel truly resonated with me because it reminded me that we as humans are responsible for healing ourselves and writing our own story every day, rather than allowing our past to write it for us.
- [Your Health Matters: Immune-Boosting Breakfast Recipe](https://blacklove.com/read/health/nutrition/your-health-matters-immune-boosting-breakfast-recipe/) - With the current pandemic affecting the entire world, a healthy diet matters now more than ever. Nutritionist, Agatha Achindu has some tips and tricks to make cooking during quarantine both healthy and filling.
- [Get Your Quick Fix With Tia Mowry’s Soul-Soothing Chicken Noodle Soup Recipe](https://blacklove.com/read/health/nutrition/get-your-quick-fix-with-tia-mowrys-soul-soothing-chicken-noodle-soup-recipe/) - Actress Tia Mowry offers her delicious take on this infamous recipe with step-by-step instructions for a soul-soothing soup the entire family can enjoy!
- [We’ve Got Options: Healthy Thanksgiving Dishes With FitMenCook](https://blacklove.com/read/health/nutrition/weve-got-options-healthy-thanksgiving-dishes-with-fitmencook/) - Thanksgiving is all about turkey, stuffing, mac & cheese, candied yams, greens, extravagant desserts, cocktails, and a lot of fun. Now, while the traditional holiday foods that we all love taste good, they may not fit everyone’s diet. So, how exactly do you keep the flavors you love in your Thanksgiving meal in a healthy way? Kevin Curry, the founder of FitMenCook is here to help! The health and wellness guru has shared three simple, quick, and easy recipes from his upcoming cookbook, Fit Men Cook, that you can use for Thanksgiving and beyond.
- [This Nutritionist Talks Teaching Your Kids Balanced Eating](https://blacklove.com/read/health/nutrition/this-nutritionist-talks-teaching-your-kids-balanced-eating/) - Every time I’d coach someone, I’d ask them, okay, what's your biggest struggle with food? They’d say I have a Caribbean food problem. I have an African food problem. My response was, who is telling you cultural food is a problem?
- [10 Trending Mocktail Recipes So Delicious You Won't Miss the Alcohol](https://blacklove.com/read/health/nutrition/10-trending-mocktail-recipes-so-delicious-you-wont-miss-the-alcohol/) - Whether you’re an expectant mother, in recovery, or on a journey to being alcohol-free for wellness reasons, these recipes are worth the try!
- [Dr. Joy's Book "Sisterhood Heals" is a Call for Deeper Community for Black Women](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/dr-joys-book-sisterhood-heals-is-a-call-for-deeper-community-for-black-women/) - "Sisterhood Heals" is a call for Black women to discover the layers of love and true community that are waiting for us when we deepen our connection with one another.
- [The 5 Autism Spectrums You Need to Know About](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/the-5-autism-spectrums-you-need-to-know-about/) - Autism affects both children and adults, so the more we become equipped with tools to support our community.
- [How My Daddy Issues Resurfaced After Seeing My Husband and Daughter's Bond](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/how-my-daddy-issues-resurfaced-after-seeing-my-husband-and-daughters-bond/) - My soul was at peace knowing my daughter had been blessed with a protective and loving father, but their closeness showed me the daddy issues I had buried deep.
- [Don't Miss The Signs: The Forms of Abuse We Don't Always Discuss](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/dont-miss-the-signs-the-forms-of-abuse-we-dont-always-discuss/) - Black Love spoke with therapist and trauma expert Candyce “Ce” Anderson about the various forms of domestic violence, myths and misconceptions, and viable resources for victims, survivors and supporters.
- [Ask a Therapist: How to Address Past Relationship Trauma](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/ask-a-therapist-how-to-address-past-relationship-trauma/) - Tips on dealing with past relationship trauma, healing from it, and remaining open to love.
- [10 Affirmations for 2022](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/10-affirmations-for-2022/) - "Omarion" variant and all, we’re still affirming abundance for 2022 and beyond.
- [How I've Loved Myself Through My Anxiety Diagnosis](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/how-ive-loved-myself-through-my-anxiety-diagnosis/) - If you’re someone who noticed you experience anxiety or panic when in a crowd of people or in situations that make you feel helpless, I’m confident this will provide you with tangible ways to get your power back.
- [This Therapist Wants Black Girls to Feel Seen](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/this-therapist-wants-black-girls-to-feel-seen/) - As a therapist, it helps to know how to create a safer environment for women to share their stories without experiencing shame or guilt.
- [Meet the Founder Building a Wellness Studio for Black Men in Richmond, VA](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/meet-the-richmond-founder-helping-black-men-heal/) - It’s Men’s Health Awareness Month, and the organization Men to Heal is helping men globally heal their communities, their families, and themselves.
- [Ask Dr. Ally: "How Can I Heal From Past Patterns of Trauma in a New Relationship?"](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/ask-dr-ally-how-can-i-heal-from-past-patterns-of-trauma-in-a-new-relationship/) - How do we go about mitigating the realities of our past while trying to step boldly and comfortably into the future?
- [Kier Gaines Talks Fatherhood, Mental Health, and Building Community](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/kier-gaines-talks-fatherhood-mental-health-and-building-community/) - You need permission sometimes to access parts of yourself that maybe the environment you grew up in said you shouldn’t.
- [10 Black Therapists Online Who You Should Follow](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/10-black-therapists-online-who-you-should-follow/) - Give these amazing Black therapists a follow on social media, and know that you are not alone in this mental health journey!
- [Sister Friends Come Exactly When You Need Them](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/sister-friends-come-exactly-when-you-need-them/) - When you least expect it, life can throw you a treat — a sister who will be there while you navigate life.
- [Black Women, You Don't Always Have to Have it Together](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/black-women-you-dont-always-have-to-have-it-together/) - Codie Elaine Oliver and Susan Kelechi Watson’s conversation on being “Unapologetically Us” was right on time for me.
- [For the Brothers: Mental Health Communities Black Men Should Follow](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/for-the-brothers-mental-health-communities-black-men-should-follow/) - Black men, tap in! We’ve compiled a list of some online communities that provide resources and act as a safe haven for discussions on Black men’s mental health.
- [How the 2021 Black Love Summit Taught Me to Love Abundantly](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/how-black-love-summit-has-taught-me-to-love-abundantly/) - As I evolved as a man, I recognized these questions driving me — what kind of man, husband, and (God willing) father do I aspire to be? Now, where can I find those answers? I can honestly say I’ve been blessed to find those answers in experiences like Black Love Summit.
- [What You Need to Know About National Minority Mental Health Awareness Month](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/what-you-need-to-know-about-national-minority-mental-health-awareness-month/) - Let’s discuss the month and the Black woman who is responsible for it all.
- [Seasonal Depression Comes Every Year. Here's How You Can Stay Prepared](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/seasonal-depression-comes-every-year-heres-how-you-can-stay-prepared/) - Seasonal depression can quietly bring about feelings of fatigue, depression, and social withdrawal. Here are a few things to try to navigate the season.
- [Here’s Your Sign to Add Crystal Therapy to Your Wellness Routine](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/heres-your-sign-to-add-crystal-therapy-to-your-wellness-routine/) - Holistic health coach Koya Webb opened up to us about the benefits of crystal therapy and how you can get started!
- [Dating With a Mental Illness Diagnosis](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/dating-with-a-mental-illness-diagnosis/) - This World Mental Health Day, I'm here to tell you you're enough. You'll find a partner who will honor, support, and love you through it all.
- [It's Black Girl Day Off! Let's Talk the Origin and How to Celebrate](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/its-black-girl-day-off-lets-talk-the-origin-and-how-to-celebrate/) - Tell a Black woman to tell a Black woman, take the day off and enjoy some rest, sis! You deserve it.
- [Taking Off My Cape: Letting Go of the Superwoman Syndrome](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/taking-off-my-cape-letting-go-of-the-superwoman-syndrome/) - This Black mental health specialist explores the everyday stressors that contribute to the superwoman syndrome of being everything to everyone, except something to ourselves.
- [2019's Black Fitness Gurus to Follow](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/2019s-black-fitness-gurus-to-follow/) - For tips, tricks, and inspiration regarding health, fitness, and staying in shape, blacklove.com has compiled a list of 10 fitness gurus to follow who can lead you in the right direction.
- [Wellness Wednesdays With Ace Simpson, Founder and CEO of New Normal Fitness](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/wellness-wednesdays-with-ace-simpson-founder-and-ceo-of-new-normal-fitness/) - Trainer Ace Simpson shares the inspiration behind his fitness journey, and how he keeps all of his clients motivated to be their best selves.
- [We Are What We Eat: Quick and Healthy Breakfast Options](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/we-are-what-we-eat-quick-and-healthy-breakfast-options/) - A healthy diet should always be a priority, and Agatha Achindu has some tips and tricks to make cooking breakfast fun, easy, and a family affair.
- [Wellness Wednesdays With Channing Beumer and Brittany Giles of Bean x Cream](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/wellness-wednedays-with-channing-beumer-and-brittany-giles-of-bean-x-cream/) - In this week’s installment of Wellness Wednesdays, Black Love is speaking to best friends, accountability partners, and the women behind wellness empowerment platform Bean x Cream, Channing Beumer and Brittany Giles.
- [The Day I Went Bald](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/the-day-i-went-bald/) - Pregnancy induced alopecia areata, an autoimmune skin disease, caused her to go bald from head-to-toe. But that didn't stop Courtni Guevara.
- [Wellness Wednesdays With Rise Nation Fitness Instructor Britney Hall](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/wellness-wednesdays-with-britney-hall/) - Fitness instructor and professional dancer Britney Hall shares her journey from the DMV to Hollywood with the mission of working to make the fitness industry more inclusive.
- [How This Bombshell Mom Continues to Get Her Fitness on After Kids](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/prioritizing-health-and-fitness-before-and-after-kids/) - After being diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis in 2010, mompreneur Morrisa Jenkins decided to put her health first in order to be the best mom, wife and version of herself possible.
- [The YOU Retreat Gift Bag Goodies to Add to Your Daily Wellness Routine](https://blacklove.com/read/health/the-you-retreat-gift-bag-goodies-to-add-to-your-daily-wellness-routine/) - These brands gifted our attendees with products that create wellness and connection in their everyday lives, show them some love!
- [Pregnant with Twins: A Journey of Surprise and Gratitude](https://blacklove.com/read/family/pregnancy/pregnant-with-twins/) - A joyful reflection on what it’s like being pregnant with twins—Codie Oliver shares her thoughts as her family grows
- [When the Village Has a Baby](https://blacklove.com/read/family/when-the-village-has-a-baby/) - She chose to honor her tribe of women when she found out she was pregnant. This is how.
- [Felicia LaTour’s Motherhood Journey (So Far)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/felicia-latours-motherhood-journey-so-far/) - It’s Black Maternal Health Week! Join blacklove.com as we deepen the national conversation around Black Maternal Health.
- [How Postpartum Depression Sparked Brittany Giles’ Boss Moves as a Wellness Entrepreneur](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-postpartum-depression-sparked-brittany-giles-boss-moves-as-a-wellness-entrepreneur/) - It’s Black Maternal Health Week! Today, we’re featuring FitXBrit’s Brittany Giles’ story about her battle with postpartum depression, why she chose holistic treatment, and how it sparked an unexpected career move.
- [My Journey to Love and Motherhood After My Hysterectomy](https://blacklove.com/read/family/my-journey-to-love-and-motherhood-after-my-hysterectomy/) - All Jasmin wanted to be when she grew up was a mother. Then, at 29, she had a full hysterectomy.
- [Overcoming the Fear of Fertility During My Egg Freezing Journey](https://blacklove.com/read/family/overcoming-the-fear-of-fertility-during-my-egg-freezing-journey/) - This entertainment lawyer shares the ups and downs of her egg freezing journey in hopes of inspiring other women to learn more about their fertility options.
- [Kellee Stewart’s Personal Fertility Journey of Turning Pain Into Purpose](https://blacklove.com/read/family/kellee-stewarts-personal-fertility-journey-of-turning-pain-into-purpose/) - Actress Kellee Stewart pens an open letter about her personal fertility journey encouraging women to be proactive about their fertility health, regardless of age, relationship status, or timing.
- [Harnessing Your Power While Pregnant During COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/family/harnessing-your-power-while-pregnant-during-covid-19/) - Pregnant during a pandemic? Expecting mothers and health professionals weigh in on the uncertainty that lies ahead and the possibility of reframing your birth plan during the coronavirus.
- [Learning About Your Fertility Options Doesn’t Have to be Taboo](https://blacklove.com/read/family/learning-about-your-fertility-options-doesnt-have-to-be-taboo/) - As we progress through Black Love Season 5, one of the most heart-wrenching topics is the subject of infertility because for many, growing a family has always been a lifelong dream.
- [Giving Birth at 45: My Pregnancy Journey to the Finish Line](https://blacklove.com/read/family/giving-birth-at-45-my-pregnancy-journey-to-the-finish-line/) - At the advanced maternal age of 45, with a previous early delivery, this mother shares her pregnancy journey's ups and downs the second time around.
- [How Changing My Diet Improved My Fertility and My Life](https://blacklove.com/read/family/the-best-and-worst-of-living-with-pcos-i-felt-betrayed-by-my-body/) - In honor of Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) Awareness Month, this writer shares how her diagnosis became her biggest blessing.
- [Author Renée Watson on How Children’s Books Can Help Parents Ignite Important Dialogue](https://blacklove.com/read/family/author-renee-watson-on-how-childrens-books-can-help-parents-ignite-important-dialogue/) - New York Times bestselling author Renée Watson on how children's books can help parents approach complex topics such as racism, body image, and processing grief.
- [Author Nancy Redd on Why Your 'Bedtime Bonnet' is a Necessity and a Form of Self-Care](https://blacklove.com/read/family/author-nancy-redd-on-why-your-bedtime-bonnet-is-a-necessity-and-a-form-of-self-care/) - I have to reaffirm my Blackness in my children. I need to provide tradition, education, and give power to Black things like the bonnet, so they are equally empowered.
- [Fashion Entrepreneur Leticia Hunt Talks Pregnancy and Birth During a Pandemic](https://blacklove.com/read/family/fashion-entrepreneur-leticia-hunt-talks-pregnancy-and-birth-during-a-pandemic/) - For expectant mothers navigating pregnancy during a global pandemic while balancing business, bae, and day-to-day.
- [My Dad, Me, and the Healing Power of Forgiveness](https://blacklove.com/read/family/my-dad-me-and-the-healing-power-of-forgiveness/) - I made space for forgiveness so we could have a breakthrough, and I'm better because of it.
- [Remembering the 3 C’s When Parenting Queer Children](https://blacklove.com/read/family/remembering-the-3-cs-when-parenting-queer-children/) - Pride Month isn't and shouldn’t be the only time to discuss how we can hold space for the Black queer community.
- [My Journey as a Foster Parent:‘No Child Should Grow up Believing They Are Not Loved'](https://blacklove.com/read/family/my-journey-as-a-foster-parentno-child-should-grow-up-believing-they-are-not-loved/) - Thinking of becoming a foster parent? Here's what to expect and how the experience forever changed our lives. It wasn't an easy journey, but in the end, it was worth it.
- [Transforming Our Reality of Loss and Grief as Angel Parents](https://blacklove.com/read/family/transforming-our-reality-of-loss-and-grief-as-angel-parents/) - I use the grief I feel to inform my ability to fight with love - because grief is love. And nothing is more potent than love.
- [My Hyperemesis Gravidarum Journey: It Was 'Much More Than Morning Sickness'](https://blacklove.com/read/family/my-hyperemesis-gravidarum-journey-it-was-much-more-than-morning-sickness/) - Hyperemesis gravidarum is a condition characterized by severe nausea, vomiting, weight loss, and electrolyte disturbance.
- [Our Rainbow After the Storm: Giving Birth After the Loss of Our Baby Girl](https://blacklove.com/read/family/our-rainbow-after-the-storm-giving-birth-after-the-loss-of-our-baby-girl/) - "Childbirth is a thin line between life and death." It wasn't until the second pregnancy I began to understand the weight of those words.
- [The 5 Truths That Opened Me Up to the Decision of Becoming a Mother](https://blacklove.com/read/family/5-truths-motherhood/) - It has less to do with my love for the person I choose to have a baby with and more about if I’m able to handle motherhood — emotionally, financially, and mentally.
- [How to Manage Expectations in a Co-Parenting Relationship](https://blacklove.com/read/family/black-love-how-to-manage-expectations-in-a-co-parenting-relationship/) - Sometimes it requires finding a trained instructor who knows how to whip you into shape.
- [The Other Side of Mother’s Day: 8 Insights for Mothers Grieving the Loss of a Child (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/8-takeaways-for-mothers-grieving-the-loss-of-a-child-on-mothers-day/) - In 2013, Susan Toler Carr’s son passed suddenly. Now, she has graciously opened up to Black Love about where she finds comfort and her advice to other grieving moms.
- [What Co-Parenting Has Taught Me About Unconditional Love](https://blacklove.com/read/family/what-co-parenting-has-taught-me-about-unconditional-love/) - If you love your child more than you despise your co-parent, communicating will become second nature.
- [Dr. Ally on Forgiving Your Parents, Partnerships, and Reparenting Your Inner Child](https://blacklove.com/read/family/dr-ally-on-forgiving-your-parents-partnerships-and-reparenting-your-inner-child/) - With Mother’s Day and Father’s Day behind us, Dr. Ally discussed the "parent wound" with Black Love and how we can explore forgiveness with our parents.
- [6 Books to Teach Kids About Sex, From Toddlers to Teens](https://blacklove.com/read/family/6-books-to-teach-kids-about-sex-from-toddlers-to-teens/) - A guide to sex ed books for kids that can help provide answers to their questions and prompt further discussion with parents and caregivers.
- [The Pillars for Peaceful Parenting](https://blacklove.com/read/family/the-pillars-for-peaceful-parenting/) - Educator and mama of six Charisse Sims gives tips and tricks on how to navigate parenting and get through the hardest job you’ll probably ever have.
- [How I Released the Trauma of My First Pregnancy to be a Better Mother the Second Time Around](https://blacklove.com/read/family/releasing-my-pregnancy-trauma/) - Even with a supportive husband and a successful career, my instability when I was pregnant with my first child made me feel like I wasn’t worthy of carrying my second.
- [Blended Family Lessons and Tips to Consider When Challenges Arise](https://blacklove.com/read/family/blended-family-lessons-and-tips-to-consider-when-challenges-arise/) - When blending families, differences in parenting styles, setting boundaries with your partner’s co-parent, and other challenges may arise. Here’s how to address them.
- [Moms With Coffee: Bec Gross (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/moms-with-coffee-bec-gross-video/) - Moms With Coffee host Lizzy Mathis sit down with Bec Gross, who opens up about everything motherhood.
- [Moms With Coffee: Elisha Beach (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/moms-with-coffee-elisha-beach-video/) - Elisha talks to Lizzy about how her breastfeeding-on-the-toilet photo went viral and why sharing the realities of being a mom is important to her. Elisha discusses the strong dynamic of her blended family (of 10) and how she, her husband and his ex-wife make a strong team. Elisha shares her honest feelings about her new body and her newfound badassness as a mom.
- [Moms With Coffee: Felicia Latour (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/moms-with-coffee-felicia-latour-video/) - Felicia Latour gets very transparent with Moms With Coffee host Lizzy Mathis about her life after childbirth and living out loud.
- [Moms With Coffee: Ashley Chea (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/moms-with-coffee-ashley-chea-video/) - Moms With Coffee host Lizzy Mathis talks with Ashley Chea about everything from her parenting philosophies to homeschooling.
- [This Episode of Black Love's "My New BFF" Podcast is a Must-Listen for Angel Mothers And Those Who Love Them](https://blacklove.com/read/family/why-this-episode-of-black-loves-my-new-bff-podcast-is-a-must-listen-for-angel-mothers/) - Here's why this episode of Black Love's "My New BFF" podcast is a must-listen for anyone processing pregnancy and infant loss.
- [Safe Spaces: Communities for Black Mamas to Follow](https://blacklove.com/read/family/safe-spaces-communities-for-black-mamas-to-follow/) - Communities are pathways to healing and extended family! These spaces for Black moms are doing that work every day.
- [Michael Ealy Talks Fatherhood](https://blacklove.com/read/family/fatherhood-with-michael-ealy/) - I think part of the joy of having a son is teaching him what you know as a man, good or bad. Part of the joy of having a daughter is the challenge of trying to teach her what you know while trying to also understand the opposite sex and how different we are.
- [How Do I Become the Father My Children Need?](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-do-i-become-the-father-my-children-need/) - Is great fathering really about allowing my children to take the lead on how they should be parented?
- [Russell Hornsby Talks Fatherhood](https://blacklove.com/read/family/russell-hornsby-talks-fatherhood/) - Russell Hornsby is a brilliant and talented actor whose focus on mastering his craft eclipses everything in his life -- that is, everything except for his family. He has blown me away with the fathers he has portrayed, including in the Netflix series Seven Seconds and, most recently, the feature film The Hate U Give, and I wanted to talk about the father he is in real life.
- [Jeff Johnson on Raising Children, Parenting Mistakes, and Limitless Love](https://blacklove.com/read/family/fatherhood-fridays-jeff-johnson-on-raising-children-parenting-mistakes-and-limitless-love/) - Black Love is kicking off Fatherhood Fridays with our resident crib-to-college dad Jeff Johnson and exploring parenting mistakes, unconditional love, and more.
- [How I Learned to Wear the Title Father Proudly](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-i-learned-to-wear-the-title-father-proudly/) - Aaron White wanted to be a father more than anything in the world. But first, he had to heal the wounds of abandonment. I saw him once. When I was five years old, he dropped off a BMX bike and patted me on the head. Though I didn’t know him, he felt familiar. I tried to make eye contact, but he dodged it. It was as if my face haunted him. Upon his departure, my mom told me that he was my father, and like seeing a mythical figure, intensely I watched as he drove away.
- [Can You Build a Happy Marriage if You've Never Seen One?](https://blacklove.com/read/family/can-you-build-a-happy-marriage/) - The first time I sat on my therapist’s couch, she asked me “So, what are you here to work on?” Outside of my recent adjustment from college to the real world, my biggest priority was love. Knowing that fatherhood and building a family were two life goals I was firm on, I told her that I wanted to figure out how to build a long-lasting relationship. Up until therapy I only loosely understood how to navigate sexuality in a conservative southern state, much less, how to spend the rest of my life with someone. And although I understood monogamy wasn’t the only way, it was my way, and I was okay with that. My fear, however, was that I had never gotten the chance to exist among long-term relationships or healthy marriages, so how was I to build something I’d never seen before? Could I hope for a successful marriage when I didn’t know what it looked like? My family solidified my love and respect for women. Out of the seven women who played a role in my upbringing, six of them were single mothers or widows. I was able to see firsthand the absolute magic that exuded from these women when faced with adversity, and I strive every day to embody that for myself. On the flipside, this upbringing created gaps in other areas of my experience, specifically romantic relationships. There was a time in third grade or so that my mom introduced me to her friend “Charles,” but before I could understand what was really going on, sis had to cut him loose (#NoneOfMyBusiness). This experience felt so far from the experience of friends and classmates whose entire existence occurred around a marriage. They saw affection and intimacy up close and personal morning, noon, and night, not just on movies and television shows. How could I replicate that experience? How could I find a husband and build a lifelong partnership when I was at such a disadvantage? Hint: I wasn’t at a disadvantage. Since I can remember, I’ve always been pushed to never settle for misunderstanding. My philosophy is: when the answers are all around you, you find them, you don’t sit in confusion and twiddle your thumbs. So, I would compulsively study and observe the things around me and analyze my experiences to understand how to close this “gap” in my upbringing. Over time it meant that I would look closely at the relationships of family and friends, get a degree in communication, become generally obsessed with all things related to interpersonal communication, and prioritize my spiritual growth. In that time, what I found was that the disadvantage I thought I was working against was actually irrelevant. The fact that I didn’t grow up in a two-parent home or surrounded by successful marriages was going to make no difference to my own relationships as long as I maintained a certain level of self-awareness. As a matter of fact, it may have helped me. That entire time I was convinced that the answers to my problem could be found in successful marriages. I thought for sure that they had the secret sauce of how to live happily ever after, but the only thing I learned was that there is no secret sauce and there is no one answer. Actually, it showed me that the way you build a successful partnership is by first understanding yourself. I’ve witnessed relationships and partnerships go to the wayside, and sometimes even wondered if the people who grew up around successful marriages were working too hard to recreate what they had seen as opposed to building something new. See, what I took away from everything that I had worked to understand was that marriage is about two people coming as whole (not partial) individuals into a partnership. It’s not enough to recreate what you’ve seen, you must get comfortable with the idea of building something you’ve never seen before. I had convinced myself that marriage was something that happened to you, and my lack of luck in relationships meant that I was just going to try and try again until marriage happened to me. Then I realized, that’s not how any of this works.
- [Omarion on the Power of Fatherhood: ‘It’s a Part of My Purpose’](https://blacklove.com/read/family/omarion-on-the-power-of-fatherhood-its-a-part-of-my-purpose/) - Owning the imperfections of his childhood helped the 35-year-old singer on his journey of personal growth, forgiveness, and becoming the ultimate dad.
- [Celebrating Black Fatherhood: A Photo Series Based in Minneapolis](https://blacklove.com/read/family/celebrating-black-fatherhood-a-photo-series-based-in-minneapolis/) - As the city continues to heal, two Minneapolis creatives set-out to shine a spotlight on the beautiful and tender moments of Black fatherhood.
- [NBA Star Glenn Robinson III on Being a Girl Dad and Creating a Legacy off the Court](https://blacklove.com/read/family/nba-star-glenn-robinson-iii-on-being-a-girl-dad-and-creating-a-legacy-off-the-court/) - Philadelphia 76ers shooting guard Glenn Robinson III opens up about co-parenting, communication, and the power of therapy for Black men, "We're afraid to be vulnerable."
- [5 Times This Viral Cheerleading Dad and Daughter Duo Warmed Our Hearts](https://blacklove.com/read/family/5-times-this-viral-cheerleading-dad-and-daughter-duo-warmed-our-hearts/) - The message behind their videos is more than just cheer stunts. The deeper meaning is daddy always has you.
- [These Dads Discuss How They’re Raising the Next Generation of Kids in a Whole New Way](https://blacklove.com/read/family/these-dads-discuss-how-theyre-raising-the-next-generation-of-kids-in-a-whole-new-way/) - “Black Dads: Beyond Present” showcases four men who talk about everything fatherhood, from how they found out they were going to be dads to figuring out how to parent in a way that’s different from how they were raised.
- ["The Crossover" Reveals 5 Lessons Rooted in Fatherhood and Family](https://blacklove.com/read/family/the-crossover-reveals-5-lessons-rooted-in-fatherhood-and-family/) - “The Crossover” soared as a beautiful portrayal about how Black love is reflected through romance, brotherhood, and parenthood.
- [Modern Black Dads Are Everyday Superheroes](https://blacklove.com/read/family/modern-black-dads-are-everyday-superheroes/) - Black dads are given superhero status in the upcoming short film “The League of Black and Unlimited Dads,” created in partnership with Walmart.
- [How to Approach a Woman](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-to-approach-a-woman/) - Black Love contributor Briana Johnson-Sims shares the dos and don'ts on how to approach women to date and court.
- [How Dating a Dad Helped Me Deal With My Daddy Issues](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-dating-a-dad-helped-me-deal-with-my-daddy-issues/) - She didn’t think her father’s incarceration affected her adult life, until she hit rock bottom and had to find her way back up.
- [The Art of Dating: Part I](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/the-art-of-dating-part-i/) - If you're looking to date with intention and cultivate meaningful connections with potential partners, join blacklove.com and dating app BLK to talk about the Art of Dating.
- [Top 9 Unique Date Ideas](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/top-9-out-of-the-ordinary-date-ideas/) - travSometimes when you’re dating, you want to switch it up. blacklove.com has your back with our top out of the ordinary date ideas.
- [The Art of Dating: Part II](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/the-art-of-dating-part-ii/) - The Art of Dating. While navigating digital spaces to create meaningful connections can be tricky, our Intimacy Expert, Kamali Minter, offers valuable practices to be mindful of yourself in the process.
- [How to Keep a Good Woman](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-to-keep-a-good-woman/) - blacklove.com contributor Briana Johnson-Sims shares her experiences with dating and what she has learned about what it takes to build a relationship and keep a good woman close.
- [How to Date With Clarity and Not Confusion](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-to-date-with-clarity-and-not-confusion/) - Black Love columnist and author of Single To Single: Embracing and Maximizing Your Season of Singleness Antwan Steele explores four reasons and ways that people in today’s society date.
- [How to Date Yourself](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-to-date-yourself/) - I’ve always loved my single life. Scratch that — I’ve always loved my life. Thinking about it as a single girl’s existence usually only came up when in the company of coupled people. That’s when I most often found myself pattering on about if there was someone new, special, or worthy of the “we.” If there was, I committed to blushing gushes about “the guy.” If not, it was stated, then we rolled on to other topics –– and there were plenty of other topics. My life was full, and the “single” aspect of it was just one aspect. I was open to whatever couplings life brought — including the ultimate coupling, my husband — but I didn’t trick myself into prioritizing something I was not ready for. As a child and into adulthood, I thought about –– even fantasized about –– my wedding. But it was more the magazine spread edition: what I would wear, where it would be, what that first kiss as a married couple would look like. It was like I was always planning the Instagram post. I know, I know, I can already hear the mumblings of “this is why we have a 50% divorce rate in this country.” What I am trying to say is: aware that I wasn't ready for the complexity and depth of marriage, it was easiest to focus on the surface –– the wedding. In my twenties, as friend after friend paired off into ever-after, I eagerly planned bridal showers, enthusiastically performed bachelorette duties, and loved getting lost in the romance of the wedding day. But I never felt the pressure to find dates for weddings or events, or to be paired off myself. My life was about entertainment and work — far too often, in that order. I loved only having to think about me — who I wanted to visit, what country I wanted to live in, what jobs I wanted to take. I loved the get-up-and-go freedom of single life, and I considered myself a “girl on the go.” I would bounce to South Beach on a wing and a prayer with just enough money for a four-girl room share at the dingiest hotel on the strip, with my return flight landing just in time for me to drag myself to work. My closet was packed with sassy dresses and flirty heels to support my “living it up” lifestyle and, when I couldn’t afford a new “look”, I prided myself on my ability to construct a ballgown from a tablecloth and a safety pin. I didn’t have to consult anybody when I decided to move to London for grad school, or when I decided to move back. And this freedom went for the tough times, too. When a family member was involved in a serious car accident, I didn’t have to consult with anyone to move to be closer to them, and when I found myself in debt after two unexpected surgeries, I didn’t have to consult with anyone to move in with my parents to get out of it. I was only responsible for myself, and it was up to me if I wanted to honor or ignore that responsibility. Sometimes, the choice was a coin toss.
- [Me Mode vs. Mom Mode](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/me-mode-vs-mom-mode/) - By weekday, she takes care of the kids, cleans the house, and is the consummate “PTA Mom”. But come Friday nights, the Louboutins and lipstick come out to play – and it’s none of your business whether they play nice. Ya know, being a single mom has its ups and has its downs. The all-encompassing effort is so difficult that I don't know if I'll ever find the words to describe it, but all my single moms know what I'm talking about. My kids give me so much joy; my whole life is wrapped around them. But I've found in the last 18 months that there are two very distinct Veronikas. There's the "Mom Mode" and there's the "Me Mode." And you have to protect both, you have to protect both. When I'm in "Mom Mode" somehow, no matter how exhausted I am, or how difficult my day has been, I manage to get out of bed every morning at 5:30 am. I pull my hair into a ponytail, get all five of my children dressed and ready, and am out the door no later than 6:45 am. I drive in Los Angeles traffic for over three hours a day to get kids to school, to practice, and to events. I usually have dinner cooked by noon, because if I don't, it won't be ready in time. I get all the little babies – ages two, three, and four – in the bath no later than 7:00 pm and into bed by 8:30 pm. It's not extraordinary what I do – it's necessary. It's my job. Nobody gets brownie points for going to work and doing their job. So, I do my job proudly. I do it with every fiber of my being and it is the great joy of my life to be a mother.
- [In Search Of: An Explanation](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/in-search-of-an-explanation/) - What does a 31-year-old single woman with a complicated romantic history do when she realizes, “Hey, maybe it’s me”?
- [Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/looking-for-love-in-all-the-wrong-places/) - Yvette Bennett was in an abusive relationship when a friend asked her one fateful question: “Do you love yourself?” Answering that question would transform her life into one of her dreams, it would allow her to accept her sexuality and show her the amazing rewards of unconditional self-love.
- [Gratitude is the Attitude](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/gratitude-is-the-attitude/) - Gratitude is the attitude this holiday season. With that in mind, blacklove.com’s editorial contributors reflect on 2018 and share what they are grateful for. In this edition, Senior Editor Arynetta Floyzelle talks her return to Los Angeles, the wonders of wisdom, and the life-altering power of self love. As 2018 rolls to an end — almost as swiftly as it started, it seems — I sit in reflection of the year and all of the beauty it has bestowed on me. There are plenty of tangibles in my life to be grateful for: finally feeling at home in a new city populated with lovely friends, some I have known my entire life, some I’ve met since my arrival; an address, as for a very long time I was guest bedroom-hopping; the health of my family, loved ones, and self; my representation and all the work they do for me; living so close to an Erewhon; and, my position at Black Love and all of the joy and freedom it has brought me.
- [How to be Excellent This Holiday Season With the Enneagram](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/how-to-be-excellent-this-holiday-season-with-the-enneagram/) - Always seeking to go deeper into self love and knowledge, Jared Williams jumped at the chance to take the Enneagram test. His findings were unexpected: he learned that his commitment to excellence may have been exactly what was standing in the way of him being truly excellent all along.
- [In Search Of: Fulfillment](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/in-search-of-fulfillment/) - Reiki, paddleboard yoga, oat milk, magic candles and love. Follow Brook Sitgraves Turner as she uses the art of attraction to attract a like-minded partner into her life.
- [The 1 Essential Rule to Dating Yourself This Year](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/the-1-essential-rule-to-dating-yourself-this-year/) - Senior editor, Arynetta Floyzelle, explores "doing it all" with the one essential rule to successfully dating yourself this year.
- [In Search Of: Self-Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/in-search-of-self-love/) - Here’s what going on 25 first dates in one year taught blacklove.com columnist Brook Sitgraves Turner about finding your soulmate.
- [Dating Yourself and Solo Long-Term Projects](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/dating-yourself-and-the-solo-long-term-projects/) - How a solo long-term project helped Arynetta Floyzelle get to know herself, provided a career breakthrough, and landed her in a foreign country.
- [What Working Out Did for My Self-Esteem That I Didn't Expect](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/what-working-out-did-for-my-self-esteem/) - Jared started working out at the gym to improve his body but he didn't realize he needed to completely change his mind about himself. This led to an improvement of his mind and soul in ways he never could have imagined. Have you ever needed to defeat negative self talk and change your mind about how you feel about YOU! Read more... "This process was about allowing myself to own the innate power I held to change and resist my own defeatist thoughts."
- [In Search Of: The Flow](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/in-search-of-the-flow/) - What’s the secret to successful dating? Editorial Colmunist Brook Sitgraves Turner learns it’s all about FLOW.
- [What Living Out Loud Taught Me About Self-Love and Heritage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/what-living-out-loud-taught-me-about-self-love-and-heritage/) - blacklove.com contributor Jared Williams reflects on queer representation, self love, and heritage.
- [How I Revolutionized My Life by Revolutionizing My Living Space](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-i-revolutionized-my-life-by-revolutionizing-my-living-space/) - What does tidying up have to do with dating yourself? In this installment of "How to Date Yourself", blacklove.com’s Senior Editor Arynetta Floyzelle finds out.
- [Childless by Choice: A Powerful Act of Self-Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/childless-by-choice-a-powerful-act-of-self-love/) - Choosing to be childless led Chenoa Maxwell on a three-year journey that would break her physically, mentally and spiritually. But, ultimately, it would lead her to a self love breakthrough that introduced her to the life of her dreams.
- [Healing, Transformation, and Conscious Uncoupling – How Mecca Elliot Found True Authenticity](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/healing-transformation-and-conscious-uncoupling-how-mecca-elliot-found-true-authenticity/) - Mecca Elliot shares her journey of healing and self-discovery following a series of life-changing events.
- [Unlocking the Truth: How I Learned to Find My Inner Joy](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/unlocking-the-truth-how-i-learned-to-find-my-inner-joy/) - Entering into the new decade, this writer reflects on the transformative healing power of love, loss, and lessons learned.
- [How I Found the Courage Within to Be My Own Best Friend](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/finding-the-courage-from-within-to-be-my-own-best-friend/) - After a very public breakup, professional dancer and Beyoncé's lead dance captain Ashley Everett's self-love journey has led her to find happiness and inner peace.
- [Quarantining With My Ex is the Confirmation I Needed: It’s Time to Let Go](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/quarantining-with-my-ex-is-the-confirmation-i-needed-its-time-to-let-go/) - This writer shares the peaks, valleys, and lessons of self-love she’s learned while living with her ex during quarantine.
- [How Becoming a Better Best Friend is Preparing Me for Marriage in Unexpected Ways](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-becoming-a-better-best-friend-prepared-me-for-marriage-in-unexpected-ways-2/) - In her quest for marriage, this single woman discovered the importance of showing up for the people you love whether it is your soulmate or your best friend.
- [5 Self-Love Tips for Singles During Quarantine and Beyond](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/5-self-love-tips-for-singles-during-quarantine-and-beyond/) - Self-care is self-love. Never forget that. Read these tips if you've been struggling with giving yourself the TLC (tender loving care) you deserve.
- [Four Years of Celibacy: Here’s How I’ve Stayed Focused](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/four-years-of-celibacy-heres-how-ive-stay-focused/) - As a follow-up to my last article, if you're considering celibacy, here's your step-by-step guide.
- ["Bachelorette" Alum Mike Johnson Pens Open Letter To His Younger Self: "You Are Enough"](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/bachelorette-alum-mike-johnson-pens-open-letter-to-his-younger-self-you-are-enough/) - If you could talk with your younger self, what would you say? Mike Johnson, former contestant of "The Bachelorette" reflects on his journey to self-love.
- [Table for One: My Self-Love Date to Tabitha Brown's New Restaurant](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/table-for-one-my-self-love-date-to-tabitha-browns-new-restaurant/) - I refuse to let my joy be contingent on the availability of others so I’ve decided to do more things alone, like taking myself on a date this time to Tabitha Brown’s new restaurant Kale My Name.
- [My Audacity to Love God While Loving You](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/my-audacity-to-love-god-while-loving-you/) - A coming-out story that explores religious stigmas, creating an internal battle for this author to live her truth or suffer behind-closed-doors.
- [Season 5 of "Couch Conversations" Returns With Hosts Ace Hood & Shelah Marie!](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/season-5-of-couch-conversations-returns-with-hosts-ace-hood-shelah-marie/) - "Couch Conversations" premieres August 31st exclusively on the Black Love+ app!
- [What the Experts Say About Sleeping Separate From Your Spouse](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/experts-weigh-in-sleeping-separate-from-your-spouse/) - Though the arrangement has been coined a “sleep divorce,” separate beds doesn’t have to mean a fast track to permanent separation.
- [How My Husband and I Balance What is Private and Public in Our Relationship](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-my-husband-and-i-balance-what-is-private-and-public-in-our-relationship/) - A huge misconception about public figures is that we post and share everything, yet there are many moments I hold close.
- [10 Black Wedding Photographers You Should Know](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/10-black-wedding-photographers-you-should-know/) - Here are 10 Black wedding photographers whose photos not only capture the beauty of weddings, but also highlight the depth and diversity of Black love.
- [Why Infidelity Wasn't a Dealbreaker for These Couples](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/why-infidelity-wasnt-a-dealbreaker-for-these-couples/) - These couples have survived infidelity and bravely shared their stories with Black Love to show readers that they can make it past their darkest moments in marriage.
- [I Found Love on Hinge and Haven't Looked Back](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/i-found-love-on-hinge-and-havent-looked-back/) - Love requires vulnerability. It requires openness, it requires trust. It’s fine to look before you leap, but at some point you still have to make the jump. Love is a gamble. It’s a risk, but he was worth it.
- [Romantic Valentine’s Day Ideas for Long-Distance Couples](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/romantic-valentines-day-ideas-for-long-distance-couples/) - Long-distance relationships require you to show up for each other in ways that aren’t tangible. If you can’t physically be with your significant other this year, try these creative Valentine’s Day ideas.
- [How to Date Yourself: 4 Beginner’s Rules to Vacationing Alone](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-to-date-yourself-4-beginners-rules-to-vacationing-alone/) - Need a push to see the world on your own? Here's a few beginner's rules to vacationing alone.
- [How to Build a Foundation for Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-to-build-a-foundation-for-love/) - Black Love contributor Briana Johnson-Sims explores the ways to navigate dating when it comes to intention, communication, and most importantly, building a foundation for love.
- [5 Ways To Make Romantic Connections Work For You](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/5-ways-to-make-romantic-connections-work-for-you/) - We’ve partnered with BLK to explore the Art Of Dating in a digital age, and how to make your romantic connections work in your favor.
- [10 First Date Ideas Straight From the Black Love Community](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/10-first-date-ideas-straight-from-the-black-love-community/) - So you’ve met an awesome person and you want to impress. blacklove.com’s got you covered with our “Top 10 First Date Ideas.”
- [Rediscovering Our Love Language: How We Leveled Up Our Relationship With Weekly Check-Ins](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/rediscovering-our-love-language-how-we-leveled-up-our-relationship-with-weekly-check-ins/) - How do you keep that spark alive once the newness and excitement of a relationship wears off? This writer explores the importance of creating weekly check-ins with your partner to overcome communication challenges and build a strong and healthy foundation.
- [I Am Free to Have All the Sex I Want, So Why Am I Choosing Celibacy?](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/i-am-free-to-have-all-the-sex-i-want-so-why-am-i-choosing-celibacy/) - After her fiancé suddenly ghosted her before their wedding, this writer had to pick up the pieces and re-enter the dating world. But this time, she chose to do things differently with a personal pledge to remain abstinent.
- [Top Tips for Singlepreneurs From 'Love Is Blind' Cast Member Lillie Mae](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/top-tips-for-singlepreneurs-from-love-is-blind-cast-member-lillie-mae/) - Remember that "now is not your forever” it is just a season! Here are a few tips to help you navigate the present moment with more ease and patience.
- [How to Revamp Date Nights in Wake of Coronavirus Social Distancing](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/how-to-revamp-date-nights-in-wake-of-coronavirus-social-distancing/) - The COVID-19 pandemic has shifted the way we move, think, work, and play. Since date nights are non-negotiable in this couple's household, they've found interesting ways to maintain the sexy and emotional intimacy with a few fun, creative, and at-home date night ideas!
- [Melissa Butler of The Lip Bar on How to Win at Love, Life and Business](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/melissa-butler-of-the-lip-bar-on-how-to-win-at-love-life-and-business/) - Melissa Butler is creating her own rules for success and to celebrate Black Business Month she offers her career commandments and ways to attract abundance into your daily life.
- [10 Tips to Get to 'I Do' in a Long-Distance Relationship](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/10-tips-to-get-to-i-do-in-a-long-distance-relationship/) - Black Love Season 4 couple Nikolai Rowe and Roxanne Kalie-Rowe share their 10 tips to get to “I do” in a long-distance relationship.
- [Dating Apps and COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/dating-apps-and-covid-19/) - The COVID-19 "shelter in place” order improved this millennial’s dating life, until it didn’t. But she’s not giving up.
- [Dating Apps for Single Black People](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/dating-apps-for-single-black-people/) - These apps are tailored to single Black people in search of compatible partnership.
- [These Couples Found Love in the Pandemic Through Online Dating](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/these-couples-found-love-in-the-pandemic-on-this-app-for-black-singles/) - It’s taking a risk for me! Pandemic and all, these couples found love (and life partners!) in lockdown on the BLK App.
- [Bumble is Empowering Black Women to Write Their Own Love Stories](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/bumble-is-empowering-black-women-to-write-their-own-love-stories/) - Engineered for and by women, Bumble believes that everyone deserves to feel good — and excited — by the dating experience.
- [Black Matchmakers and Dating Coaches to Help You Find Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/black-matchmakers-and-dating-coaches-to-help-you-find-love/) - The Black love you’re searching for won’t come knocking at your door, fam. Let’s take risks!
- [I Didn't Allow a Bad Relationship to Change My Heart. You Shouldn't Either.](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/i-didnt-allow-a-bad-relationship-to-change-my-heart-you-shouldnt-either/) - I thought I met my Prince Charming and was ready to begin my Happily Ever After. What I failed to realize is that my happily Ever After starts and ends with me.
- [What Does Intimacy Really Look Like in Black Relationships?](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/what-does-intimacy-really-look-like-in-black-relationships/) - Exploring the different types of intimacy and how we show up for love.
- [Love After Divorce: Healing & Finding Joy in New Beginnings](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/divorce/love-after-divorce-healing-finding-joy-in-new-beginnings/) - Divorce can feel like an ending, but for many in the Black community, love after divorce marks a powerful new chapter full of hope, growth, and joy.
- [Exploring how dating, loneliness, and emotional healing intersect for Black men](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/exploring-how-dating-loneliness-and-emotional-healing-intersect-for-black-men/) - In this personal essay, Dr. Ashton Pemberton explores how dating, loneliness, and emotional healing intersect for Black men.
- [A Lesson From Georgetown Students on Honoring Black History and Paying it Forward](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/an-important-lesson-we-all-can-learn-from-georgetown-students-on-acknowledging-black-history-and-paying-it-forward/) - Black Love’s Editorial Director Myeisha Essex examines Georgetown University’s step toward being on the right side of history regarding reparations.
- [The Truth Behind California Wildfire Misinformation ](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-truth-behind-california-wildfire-misinformation/) - With misinformation spreading, it’s important to make sure you know all of the facts.
- [This HBCU Event Gives Millions in Scholarship to High School Students Each Year](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/this-hbcu-event-gives-millions-in-scholarship-to-high-school-students-each-year/) - Learn more about The HBCU College Fair, the most impactful event during HBCU Week giving millions in scholarship and on-the-spot college acceptances to high school students.
- [Divorced Sistas Shines a Light on Love, Life and Conflict Resolution in Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/divorce/divorced-sistas-shines-a-light-on-love-life-and-conflict-resolution-in-relationships/) - Divorced Sistas explores the reality of marriages at their breaking point, communication in marriage, healthy friendships and more.
- [Unpopular Opinion: Dating Green Flags Don't Always Mean They're a Keeper](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/unpopular-opinion-dating-green-flags-dont-always-mean-theyre-a-keeper/) - Let’s break this down, because the rush of a green flag can eliminate the pain of a red one.
- [What Are the Five Love Languages & Why They Matter in Love](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/love-languages/five-love-languages-for-stronger-relationships/) - What are the five love languages—and how can they help your relationship? Learn how to speak your partner’s language. Build a deeper connection today.
- [How to Make a Blended Family Work | 5 Ways We Make it Work](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-to-make-a-blended-family-work/) - How this couple makes their blended family work—5 real strategies built on love, boundaries, and intentional co-parenting
- [Revisiting & Adjusting Boundaries for Evolving Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/revisiting-and-adjusting-boundaries-in-relationships/) - Boundaries in relationships need to evolve. Learn why revisiting and adjusting them helps nurture healthy, lasting connections.
- [Entertainment & Celebrity Photographer Erik Umphery Captures Love in Quarantine](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/celebrity-photographer-erik-umphery-black-love-in-quarantine/) - Entertainment and celebrity photographer Erik Umphery captures Black love in quarantine through intimate and powerful portraits of real couples.
- [How to Introduce a New Baby to their Older Sibling](https://blacklove.com/read/family/parenting/how-to-introduce-a-new-sibling/) - Introducing a new baby to an older sibling is a big family moment—get tips to ease the transition and support both kids through the change.
- [After the Show: The Truth About Our Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/after-the-show-the-truth-about-our-marriage/) - There’s a saying, ‘perception is reality’… but that’s not always the case. Being part of Black Love Doc season one was a great experience! It was a pleasure sharing our story with the world. Since the show aired, we met and heard from many viewers who said they related to us and our differences and said they saw themselves (or other couples they love) in us. Many people genuinely had tons of positive things to say – and yes, I’ll be happy to share my hair stylist's contact info, LOL. However, there were many viewers that were not as enamored with our candor and transparency. After the show aired and we made additional cameos on the @BlackLoveDoc Instagram and Facebook pages.
- [What You Might Be Doing Wrong When it Comes to Online Dating, According to This Expert](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/what-you-might-be-doing-wrong-when-it-comes-to-online-dating-according-to-this-expert/) - Why your dating profile could be attracting everything you do not want.
- [Black Love: Family Influence and the Power of Communication](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-love-family-influence-the-power-of-communication/) - Black Love Doc is back in full swing, and I am here for ALL of it. As my friends and I approach our 30’s, we’re continually thinking about marriage and being with the “right” partner, whether we admit it or not. Our clock is ticking. However, not all of that pressure is self-inflicted. Some of that pressure, especially for my friends who grew up in the South, comes from our families. Family has an important influence on the relationships we seek. In fact, sometimes that influence can be destructive. On episode two of Black Love, actors Sterling K. Brown and Ryan Michelle Bathe discussed the influence Ryan’s family had early on in their relationship: “I would say for the first, that whole year, the biggest part was how much my family, my mother and my grandmother, in particular, hated him, and they just kept [saying] It’s going to go bad’,” she continued, “It’s almost like that self-fulfilling prophecy. You can poison something and then be like ‘See, I told you it was poison’ –– yea, because you just poisoned it.” Ryan revealed that a lot of the challenges they faced were because of her family: “I will say that created the first, and sort of deep, fissure in our relationships, and had that not happened, a lot of the things that happened in our relationship, probably wouldn’t have happened.” The couple has been married for 11 years. However, Sterling and Ryan admitted for the first time on Black Love that her family impacted the effort, or lack thereof, Ryan put into their union. “I always had a wall somewhere…and one foot in and one foot out for a very long time. It was not a healthy dynamic,” she shared.
- [Tika Sumpter on Marriage, Motherhood & Finding Her Voice](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/tika-sumpter-marriage-and-motherhood/) - Tika Sumpter, star of "Mixed-ish," talks with Jaleesa Diaz about love, motherhood, and the strength that comes from vulnerability.
- [Black Love Summit: Marriage, Parenting, Dating & Business](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-2018-recap/) - Relive the Black Love Summit 2018. Full-day recap of inspiring panels, relationship gems, powerful moments rooted in love, healing, and community.
- [The Role of Spirituality in Black Romantic Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/spirituality-in-black-romantic-relationships/) - Let's explore the role of spirituality in Black romantic relationships—why it might be the secret sauce keeping many of our relationships strong.
- [Counter Message to Mo’Nique's Black Men Side Chicks Comment](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/monique-black-men-side-chicks/) - Black Love's Co-founder & Publisher Tommy Oliver counters Mo’Nique’s message on side chicks. Why every black woman deserves to be treated like a Black Queen.
- [Make Date Night Intentional | Luxury Date Planning Service](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/luxury-date-planning-service/) - Founded by Jennifer Faulk, this luxury date planning service has helped thousands of couples create meaningful memories to cherish for years to come.
- [Why Couples Should Work Out Together | Build Intimacy](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/couples-work-out-together-increase-intimacy/) - When couples work out together, it’s more than fitness—it’s a way to touch, connect, and push each other toward deeper strength and intimacy.
- [How Living in With My Mother-In-Law Benefitted My Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/living-with-mother-in-law-marriage/) - Living with your mother-in-law isn’t always a nightmare. See how it actually strengthened this couple’s marriage and deepened family bonds.
- [Is Marriage Necessary? Not for Every Love Story](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/is-marriage-necessary/) - Is marriage necessary for commitment? Explore why some couples thrive without tying the knot—and what that says about modern love.
- [Benefits of Prioritizing Solo Dates While in a Relationship](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/solo-date-in-relationship/) - Discover why solo dates matter—even in a relationship. Learn how spending time alone can deepen self-love and strengthen your partnership.
- [Tichina Arnold & Stars Share Love Lessons at Essence](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/tichina-arnold-and-stars-best-love-practices-essence-black-women-in-hollywood-awards/) - Tichina Arnold, Lena Waithe, and Yvonne Orji share love advice, self-worth tips, and more at Essence’s Black Women in Hollywood red carpet..
- [Our Marriage Story: The Grass is Greener Where You Water It](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/our-marriage-is-proof-the-grass-is-greener-where-you-water-it/) - They prove the grass is greenest where you water it—sharing 16 years of love, lessons, and how to build a thriving marriage and lasting legacy.
- [Our 5-Year Anniversary Winter Engagement Photoshoot in NYC](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/5-year-anniversary-engagement-photoshoot-nyc/) - Our photos and story. We traveled 784 miles for this winter engagement photoshoot in NYC—a city where our love story started five years ago.
- [How to Plan the Perfect Proposal with Intention](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-to-plan-the-perfect-proposal/) - Discover expert tips for planning the perfect proposal—personal, thoughtful, and true to your partner’s values and relationship style.
- [Relationship Growing Pains: From Single to Married Life](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/relationship-growing-paints-struggle-from-single-to-married/) - One woman’s honest journey through relationship growing pains, adjusting from independence to the realities of married life and emotional growth.
- [Know Your Self Worth: What I learned from Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/know-your-self-worth-what-i-learned/) - Sometimes loving yourself means walking away. Jaleesa shares how knowing her self worth helped her make the hardest and best decision.
- [Benefits of Building Emotional Intimacy in Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/building-emotional-intimacy-in-marriage/) - Discover how emotional intimacy in marriage helped Ashley and James rebuild trust, break old patterns, and create a deep, lasting love.
- [Widow Grief: Finding Healing, Self-Love, Strength After Loss](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/widow-grief-self-love-after-loss/) - After losing her husband, Daveia Odoi shares how she balances widow grief, healing, self-love, and raising her children while honoring his legacy.
- [Blended Families: From Single Mom to Bonus Mom of 5](https://blacklove.com/read/family/motherhood/blended-families-single-mother-to-wife-bonus-mom/) - How Jasmine Raheem went from single mom of 2 to wife and bonus mom of 5, sharing her blended family journey of love, co-parenting, and growth.
- [3 Ways Thriving Partnerships Survive Life’s Hard Challenges](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/thriving-partnerships-love-through-hardships/) - Aisha Patterson shares how thriving partnerships can overcome illness, sacrifice, and stress through self-care, communication, and connection.
- [Self-Worth in Relationships: Joi-Marie Engagement Story](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/self-worth-in-relationships-joi-marie-mckenzie/) - Essence Magazine’s Senior Entertainment Editor Joi-Marie McKenzie shares her journey from heartbreak to finding love with Black Love’s Myeisha Essex.
- [Tonya Lee Lewis: Marriage, Motherhood, Black Women’s Health](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/tonya-lee-gotta-marriage-motherhood-love/) - Tonya Lee Lewis shares how love, family, and health advocacy guide her journey in marriage, motherhood, and empowering Black women.
- [The First Year of Marriage is the Hardest: Lessons Learned](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/first-year-marriage-is-hardest-advice-for-newlyweds/) - The first year of marriage is the hardest. Wayne & Janell share how faith, teamwork, and honest communication helped them grow stronger together.
- [Sterling K. Brown’s Sweet Shoutout to Wife at AAFCA Awards](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/sterling-k-brown-ryan-michelle-bathe-aafca-speech/) - Sterling K. Brown praises wife Ryan Michelle Bathe at AAFCA Awards. Their love story shows what lasting Black love looks like on and off screen.
- [Finding Love After Loss: How My Man & I Found Peace Together](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/love-after-loss-how-we-found-peace-together/) - Regina and Jeff share their journey of love after loss—turning grief into joy, building a new life, and finding happiness again.
- [Lessons From Our First Year of Marriage: What I Learned](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/what-ive-learned-first-year-of-marriage/) - The first year of marriage isn’t always easy. One couple shares what they learned about communication, balance, and future-proofing their love.
- [What I Learned About Successful Marriage from Tamia & Grant](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/successful-marriage-tamia-grant-hill/) - Tamia Hill used to feel inadequate when comparing herself to other basketball wives. I clapped when I learned why she stopped.
- [Codie Elaine Oliver: Motherhood, Social Justice & Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/family/motherhood/codie-elaine-oliver-motherhood-social-justice-black-love/) - Codie Elaine Oliver shares her journey as a creator, wife, and mother, using Black Love to amplify Black stories and fight for social justice.
- [15 Unique Fall Date Night Ideas](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/15-unique-fall-date-night-ideas/) - Tired of the same date nights? Discover 15 creative fall date ideas — from VR and food tours to horseback rides and hot air balloon adventures.
- [How You Know You're in Love: When Cupid Shot Me](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-do-you-know-youre-in-love-cupid-shot-me/) - How do you know you're in love? These real stories reveal the beautiful, surprising moments when love became undeniable.
- [Heartwarming Black Love Proposal Stories](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-love-proposal-stories/) - From surprise dinners to hot air balloons, these Black love proposal stories will make you smile, cry, and believe in true love.
- [Black Marriage - What I Learned From 30 Years](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-marriage-30-years/) - Vanessa Bell Calloway shares real lessons on keeping Black marriage strong through friendship, trust, and a little common sense.
- [Slick Rick Returns With Victory: A Visual Story Album](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/music/slick-rick-returns-with-victory-a-visual-story-album/) - Slick Rick drops Victory, a bold new album and film blending rap, storytelling, and cultural influence. Nas, Idris Elba, and more join the journey.
- [Black Couples Therapy: What We Didn't Expect](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/black-couples-therapy-not-what-we-expected/) - Black couples therapy story. Their experience wasn't what we expected—but it brought growth, honesty, and new understanding to our marriage.
- [In Sickness and in Health: A Couple's Stroke Recovery Story](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/stroke-recovery-stories-in-sickness-and-in-health/) - Inspired by watching the upcoming episode of BLACK LOVE on OWN entitled In Sickness and In Health, Raquelle Harris, married 16 years with 2 kids, describes her experience facing her husband’s stroke. This is her story. “The whole right side of my body is numb,” he said. It was a Monday. I was busy with work, kids, him, and I was in the midst of starting my career in media. I did not have time for any shenanigans. My husband’s statement didn’t fully register at first because my thoughts and emotions were on ten. We were experiencing financial strain and it was affecting our marriage. Hindsight is a tricky thing, it’s almost torturous when you reflect on your past actions and realize what you could and should have done differently. After asking him a few more questions, we attributed the numbness to him sleeping in an awkward position during his nap. Yet, when I arrived home several hours later, he said he still felt numb on his entire right side. That’s when I got nervous and suggested he go to the emergency room. He was scheduled to start school for graphic design the next day, so he didn’t want to go to the hospital.
- [How to Talk About Money With Your Partner (Without Stress)](https://blacklove.com/read/business/finance/how-to-talk-about-money-with-your-partner/) - Learn how to talk about money with your partner, set clear expectations, and build financial harmony in your relationship.
- [Moving for Love: How One Woman Took a Chance on Romance](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/moving-for-love/) - Would you move for love? See how one woman relocated, found joy, and built a family after taking a chance on love.
- [Black Marriage Story - 1st Grade Friends to Lovers for Life](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-marriage-1st-grade-friends-to-lovers-for-life/) - From 1st grade friends to soulmates, Amy & Malcolm share their Black marriage journey of love, faith, and lasting partnership.
- [‘Smurfs’ Celebrates Friendship, Kindness and the Importance of Finding Yourself](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/culture/smurfs-celebrates-friendship-kindness-and-the-importance-of-finding-yourself/) - The Smurfs are back July 18—and Couch Conversations for Two is celebrating with a heartwarming episode.
- [Black Entrepreneurs Story - From Blind Date to Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-entreprenuers-blind-date-to-marriage/) - From a blind date to 8-figure success, this Black entrepreneurs’ love story shows how faith, business, and partnership built their beauty brand.
- [Black Love Videos: "I Love You" Series Suprises Loved Ones](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/black-love-videos-i-love-you-series/) - Watch Black Love videos as people surprise loved ones with heartfelt 'I love you' calls—capturing joy, laughter, and real connection.
- [Fall Wedding Hair: Top 3 by Celebrity Hairstylist Kim Kimble](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/kim-kimble-fall-wedding-hairstyles/) - Fall wedding hair inspiration: Celebrity stylist Kim Kimble reveals 3 stunning styles every bride-to-be should consider for their big day.
- [How to Fix a Broken Marriage - One Couple's Story](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-to-fix-broken-marriage/) - How to fix a broken marriage by healing past wounds, building trust, and choosing love every day—one woman’s real story and lessons.
- [National Proposal Day: 6 Magical Marriage Proposals](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/6-magical-marriage-proposals/) - Celebrating the moment a couple decides to spend the rest of their lives together—check out these 6 memorable marriage proposals captured on video!
- [How Love Letters Can Deepen Connection During Quarantine](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/love-letters-to-deepen-your-connection/) - See how love letters helped one couple heal, reconnect, and deepen their bond—plus tips to start writing your own.
- [Why My Fiancé’s Private Proposal Was Perfect](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/private-proposal/) - A private proposal made our engagement feel intimate and special. See why choosing a private proposal was perfect for us.
- [How to Survive the Mommy-Wife-Boss Balance](https://blacklove.com/read/family/motherhood/surviving-the-mommy-wife-boss-balance/) - Take a look inside one Black mom's journey balancing business, marriage, and motherhood while navigating the real challenges of being a boss mommy.
- [Letting Go of Relationships To Strengthen My Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/letting-go-of-a-relationship-strengthening-marriage/) - Letting go of relationships was hard—especially when they're family members. But it saved my mental health and strengthened me as a wife and mother.
- [Just Add Honey Tea Company Owners on Business & Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/business/just-add-honey-tea-company-business-marriage/) - How Brandi and Jermail Shelton balance love, parenting, and running Just Add Honey Tea Company—a business rooted in purpose and partnership.
- [Celebrating Our 10-Year Vow Renewal, Love Story & Journey](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/vow-renewal-howard-university-love-story/) - A Howard University Love Story: How McDonald’s Led to Love. A couple celebrates their 10-year vow renewal. Read their love story.
- [Black Love Story: From Sneaky Links to Saying “I Do”](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/why-i-said-i-do-black-love-stories-salah-jasmine/) - Black love stories like Jasmine and Salah’s remind us that timing is everything—how a second chance led them from sneaky links to saying “I do.”
- [Tamia and Grant Hill on 25 Years of Marriage and Friendship](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/tamia-and-grant-hill-marriage-and-friendship/) - From laughs to lasting love, Tamia and Grant Hill share the best moments from 25 years of marriage built on friendship, trust, and real connection.
- [How Black-Owned Wedding Vendors Brought This NYC Wedding to Life](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-owned-wedding-vendors-rockefeller-center-ceremony/) - See how this couple planned the Blackest wedding at Rockefeller Center with Black-owned wedding vendors who made every detail unforgettable.
- [How Tawkify Matchmakers Reunited Classmates After 12 Years](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/tawkify-matchmakers-success-story-classmates-to-soulmates/) - Ryan Léon and Lauren McElroy Léon reconnected with the help of Tawkify matchmakers. A true story of personalized matchmaking in the Black community.
- [Legacy Love: Stories of Couples Married Over 50 Years](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/over-50-years-married/) - What does it take to stay married for over 50 years? These couples share powerful lessons on love, legacy, and choosing each other—every single day.
- [How to Be a Mompreneur With Jewelry Designer Mel R. White](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/how-to-be-a-mompreneur/) - Jewelry designer Mel R. White shows her daughter what’s possible—modeling purpose, balance, and hard work as a proud mompreneur.
- [Munaluchi Bride Founder on Marriage & Working With Spouse](https://blacklove.com/read/business/munaluchi-bride-founder-on-working-with-spouse/) - Munaluchi Bride’s founder shares about working with her spouse in a multicultural wedding publication—and the keys to a fruitful partnership.
- [Date Night Ideas in Your City](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/date-night-ideas-based-on-your-city/) - From coast to coast, discover the best spots for a date night in the city—from Black-owned eats to unforgettable local experiences.
- [Happiness in a Relationship Isn’t Your Partner’s Job](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/happiness-in-a-relationship/) - She thought her husband was responsible for her joy—until she learned happiness in a relationship starts with self-awareness and emotional control.
- [25-Year Vow Renewal, Example of Love For The Next Generation](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/vow-renewal-25-years-of-marriage/) - Damion and Latasha share how their vow renewal honors 25 years of marriage and sets an example of love for the next generation.
- [Date Night for Married Couples: 52 Weeks, 52 Dates](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/prioritizng-weekly-date-night-for-married-couples/) - See how one couple committed to 52 weeks of date night for married couples to stay connected, intentional, and in love all year long.
- [Marriage, Faith & Business - One Couple's Story of Success](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/marriage-faith-family-and-business/) - This couple’s story of faith and business reveals how love, family, and community created the foundation for lasting success.
- [Khadeen Ellis on Owning Her Voice and Vision](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/khadeen-ellis-stepping-into-her-own/) - Khadeen Ellis, of The Ellises and Dead Ass, shares how she’s embracing her own spotlight with Ok Kay Kay and silencing self-doubt.
- [KJ Smith & Skyh Black's Wedding that Celebrated Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/kj-smith-skyh-black-wedding-all-black-everything-ceremony/) - See how KJ Smith and Skyh Black’s wedding honored Black love, Black culture, and Black-owned businesses in an all-Black-everything celebration.
- [Overcoming Adversity: Car Crash Strengthened Their Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/overcoming-adversity-strengthened-marriage/) - This couple shares how overcoming adversity after a car accident brought them closer and deepened their connection.
- [What It’s Like Being in an Interfaith Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/interfaith-marriage-experience/) - This couple shares the joys and challenges of interfaith marriage, from raising kids to celebrating two faiths with mutual respect and love.
- [Marriage Commitment: Why She Stopped Plotting Her Exit](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/marriage-commitment-why-she-stayed/) - Why she stopped plotting her exit and chose commitment to marriage instead. A powerful story of love, fear, and showing up even when it’s hard.
- [20 Years of Marriage After a $99 Wedding | Vow Renewals](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/99-dollar-wedding-20-years-of-marriage/) - Christina and Eddie’s $99 wedding turned into 20 years of marriage, filled with love, growth, and meaningful vow renewals to mark the journey.
- [Pregnancy After Loss & Infertility: 20-Year Journey to Joy](https://blacklove.com/read/family/pregnancy-after-loss-infertility-journey/) - After 20 years of infertility, their story of faith, love, and pregnancy after loss leads to the long-awaited arrival of their rainbow baby.
- [The Benefits of Self-Pleasure for Married Couples](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/benefits-of-self-pleasure-marriage/) - Learn how self-pleasure can boost intimacy, reduce stress, and help partners better connect—yes, even in a healthy, committed marriage.
- [Physical Intimacy in Marriage: How Egypt & Mike Reconnected](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/intimacy-in-marriage-egypt-sherrod-mike-jackson/) - Sex can change after marriage. Egypt and Mike share how couples can restore intimacy after postpartum, miscommunication, and distance.
- [Embracing Change: Single Life to Married & Pregnant Abroad](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/travel/embracing-change-marriage-and-pregnancy-japan/) - Follow Brittany’s journey of embracing change—leaving LA, marrying fast, and starting a family in Japan in under a year.
- [Being a Stepmom: What I Wish I Knew Before Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/family/parenting/being-a-stepmom-lessons-on-co-parenting/) - Malikah Wright shares about being a stepmom—what she learned, what caught her off guard and what she wishes she knew before saying yes to her husband.
- [What 29 Years Taught Me About Marriage Wisdom](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/marriage-wisdom-29-years-of-lessons/) - Hard truths, deep love, and lessons from 29 years of marriage. One woman shares the marriage wisdom that helped her stay in love for the long haul.
- [Love Lessons From MrsKevOnStage After 17 Years of Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/mrskevonstage-love-lessons-from-marriage/) - Melissa Fredericks, aka MrsKevOnStage, shared 17 love lessons on IG—one for each year of marriage. These are the reflections that resonated most.
- [Top Intimacy Products to Deepen Your Connection](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/intimacy-products-for-couples/) - From candles to card decks, these intimacy products help couples boost connection, spice things up, and nurture emotional closeness.
- [Story of Tab and Chance | Why We Stan Tabitha & Chance Brown](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/tab-and-chance-tabitha-and-chance-brown/) - Tab and Chance share 20+ years of love, growth, and laughs. See why Tabitha and Chance Brown's authenticity make them one of our favorite couples.
- [Jay Z & Beyoncé: Grammy Speech & Top 5 Times He Defended Her](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/jay-z-defends-beyonce-grammys-speech/) - Jay Z and Beyoncé at the Grammys—see the viral speech moment and 5 powerful times Jay Z publicly defended his wife.
- [Marriage Expectations: The Problem With Happily Ever After](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/creating-realistic-marriage-expectations/) - “Happily ever after” is an ideal that seems to have been around since the beginning of time. But what does “happily ever after” really look like in a happy marriage, and, more importantly, what does it really feel like? Have you ever noticed that fairy tales always end right after the wedding? We get caught up in this huge love story — the prince searches for days for the foot that fits the slipper or travels for weeks to be the kiss that wakes the princess. Then there’s this fabulous party with a fancy dress, fantastic gifts, and festive family and friends, plus the delicious dinner and lovely libations — all of it meant to celebrate the happy couple. But they never show what happens when the celebration commences, the crowd goes home, and the couple realizes that it’s just them and an idea of how they are supposed to be. And, the thing that screws us up the most about marriage is the perception of how it’s supposed to be. Although my husband and I dated for about two years prior to jumping the broom, we realized that marriage was a brand new beast. No more “I” or “my,” but now, “we” and “us.” Prior to our wedding day, we both lived our lives as individuals, doing things our own way, having our own ideologies and routines, and then — BOOM! The world shakes and we’re in a period of constant learning, accepting, and evolving.
- [Xosha Roquemore Isn’t In a Rush for a Relationship and Here’s Why](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/xosha-roquemore-isnt-in-a-rush-for-a-relationship-and-heres-why/) - Xosha Roquemore gets real about redefining singlehood, dating in her 40s, and why it’s important for women to choose themselves.
- [It's Okay if Motherhood Isn't for You](https://blacklove.com/read/family/its-okay-if-motherhood-isnt-for-you/) - The reality of being able to take on motherhood — for your mental and physical health, and all the sacrifices that you have to make should be a choice.
- [Money and Marriage: How Your Views Impact Your Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-your-spouse-views-money-will-impact-your-marriage/) - Different money views can strain your marriage. Learn how one couple navigated money and marriage by understanding each other’s financial mindset.
- [The True Meaning of “Monogamy” and Why It is Sacred](https://blacklove.com/read/monogamy-meaning-why-it-is-sacred/) - Black Love contributor Shellie Renee explores monogamy, what it means in relationships, and how it takes on a different level of importance once you say “I Do.”
- [The Love Story Behind the World of Travel TV Series](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/lindsey-granger-and-kolyn-boyds-travel-series-world-of-travel/) - How love, journalism, and a shared spirit of adventure led Lindsey Granger and Kolyn Boyd to create the family travel TV series World of Travel.
- [Inside One Couple’s Zulu Wedding Vow Renewal in South Africa](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/zulu-wedding-in-south-africa-vow-renewal/) - This couple honored ancestral roots with a Zulu wedding in South Africa—fusing African and African American culture in a powerful vow renewal.
- [Thanksgiving Traditions: Blending Black American & Nigerian](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/events/thanksgiving-traditions-blending-black-american-nigerian/) - A Black American woman shares how she and her Nigerian husband blend their cultures to create meaningful, joy-filled Thanksgiving traditions.
- [My Husband and I Raised $50 Million to Pour Back into Our Community Despite Him Losing His Sight and Surviving Cancer Twice ](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/my-husband-and-i-raised-50-million-to-pour-back-into-our-community-despite-him-losing-his-sight-and-surviving-cancer-twice/) - Our journey together began over three decades ago, built on a foundation of faith, love, and a deep commitment to serving others.
- [One Couple's Story of Overcoming Porn Addiction](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/overcoming-porn-addiction/) - DeVon and Danah share how they overcame porn addiction through faith, counseling, and community support.
- [The Power of Radical Honesty to Strengthen Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/radical-honesty-strengthening-relationships/) - Honesty is more than just speaking the truth; it encompasses a genuine desire to share one's thoughts, emotions, and experiences openly.
- [How Marriage Hall Passes Impact Marriage - What Experts Say](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-hall-passes-impact-marriages/) - The Pass on Peacock raises real questions. A therapist explains how hall passes impact marriage, trust, and emotional safety.
- [Life After the Honeymoon: Habits for a Successful Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/habits-for-successful-marriage-newlyweds-advice/) - Newly married? Learn the daily habits for couples that make the biggest difference in building a successful marriage.
- [Influencer Behind Newell House, Black-Owned Wedding Venue](https://blacklove.com/read/business/black-business-month-meet-owners-of-black-owned-wedding-venue/) - Black Business Month spotlight on the entrepreneurs behind Newell House, a Black-owned wedding venue.
- [How Self-Love Builds Strong & Healthy Black Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/self-love-builds-healthy-black-relationships/) - Self-love isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Learn how prioritizing your well-being builds stronger, healthier Black relationships from the inside out.
- [How Our Interfaith Marriage Shapes Family Holidays](https://blacklove.com/read/family/parenting/interfaith-marriage-family-holiday-traditions/) - See how one interfaith marriage blends traditions to build joyful, inclusive holiday memories for their family—without sacrificing what matters most.
- [Intimacy vs Sex: The Real Difference Explained](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/intimacy-vs-sex-difference-explained/) - Intimacy vs sex—emotional and physical closeness aren't the same. Learn how understanding the difference can strengthen your relationship.
- [Why We Need to Stop Questioning Couples Without Kids](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/questioning-married-couples-without-children/) - Couples without kids deserve understanding, not questions. This pastor shares her story—and what she hopes you’ll consider before you ask.
- [How to Set Healthy Relationship Goals for Couples & Singles](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/healthy-relationship-goals/) - Learn how to set healthy relationship goals that deepen connection, support growth, and align with your values—whether single or partnered.
- [Communication in Relationships: How We Respond to Stress](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/communication-in-relationship-stress-languages/) - The 5 stress languages reveal how we cope. Learn how they shape communication in relationships—and how to better support your partner.
- [Leaving a Dead-End Relationship Opened the Door to Real Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/leaving-dead-end-relationship-for-real-love/) - Letting go of a dead end relationship made space for the man who knew right away. Read how walking away opened the door to real love.
- [Boundaries With In-Laws: Protect Your Peace & Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/boundaries-with-in-laws-marriage-self-care/) - Learn how setting boundaries with in-laws can protect your peace, strengthen your marriage, and support healthy family dynamics.
- [Exploring Black Marriage Stats: Insights Beyond the Numbers](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/beyond-black-marriage-stats/) - Despite lower marriage rates, commitment, joy, and long-term partnerships are still thriving. See what the black marriage stats say and leave out.
- [Why Black Marriage Is Not the Solution to Black Wealth](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-marriage-and-black-wealth/) - Dr. Raquel Martin explores the myth of Black marriage as a solution for building Black wealth. Read the full story on what truly builds legacy.
- [Dondre Whitfield & Salli Richardson-Whitfield's Love Story](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/dondre-whitfield-salli-richardson-whitfield-marriage-lessons/) - Dondré Whitfield & Salli Richardson-Whitfield share marriage lessons built on love & friendship. Read their story and be inspired.
- [4 Takeaways From Black Love’s "Couch Conversations For Two"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-loves-couch-conversations-for-two-takeaways/) - “Couch Conversations For Two,” a reimagining of the fan-favorite digital series, is coming to Black Love’s YouTube channel with a new and fun twist.
- [Get Into These Card Games to Get Closer to Bae and Nem](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/couch-conversations-for-two-card-games-and-their-creators/) - Dive into the “Couch Conversations For Two” card games and the innovative Black entrepreneurs who created them: Nina Westbrook, Coach Cass, and Michael Tennant.
- [What I Learned From Black Love’s "Couch Conversations For Two"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/culture/what-i-learned-from-black-loves-couch-conversations-for-two/) - “Couch Conversations For Two” is definitely worth the watch, will spark your curiosity, and maybe inspire you to get to know the people in your life more deeply.
- [Fans Are Loving Black Love's "Couch Conversations For Two" Mom's Edition](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/fans-are-loving-black-loves-couch-conversations-for-two-moms-edition/) - Fans can’t get enough of the heartwarming series, and the comments section has quickly become a virtual celebration of motherhood and friendship.
- [Ashley Chea Has a Heart-to-Heart With Daughter Amirah in Black Love's "Couch Conversations For Two: Mom’s Edition”](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/culture/ashley-chea-daughter-heart-to-heart-couch-conversations-for-two-moms-edition/) - In the latest episode of "Couch Conversations For Two: Mom’s Edition,” podcast host Ashley Chea and her 15-year-old daughter, Amirah, dish on all things family.
- [“Couch Conversations For Two” Celebrates Pride Month With New Episodes](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/culture/couch-conversations-for-two-celebrates-pride-month/) - "Couch Conversations For Two: Pride Edition” highlights the diversity and richness of love and connection within the LGBTQ+ community.
- ["Couch Conversations For Two" Dives Into Family Dynamics With New Episodes](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/couch-conversations-for-two-family-dynamics-new-episodes/) - Kicking off the new episodes, we have sister duo Natalie Odell and JaSena Odell and mother-daughter pair Lynette and Shaquanta.
- [Taraji P. Henson on Her New Children’s Book and Staying True to Yourself ](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/taraji-p-henson-childrens-book-and-staying-true-to-yourself/) - With her children’s book “You Can Be A Good Friend (No Matter What!),” Taraji P. Henson inspires the next generation to live authentically.
- [5 Reasons to Love Jasmine Guillory—Including Her Latest Read, ‘Flirting Lessons’](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/literature/5-reasons-to-love-jasmine-guillory-including-her-latest-read-flirting-lessons/) - Discover why Jasmine Guillory’s latest novel Flirting Lessons is a must-read—and how the author continues to redefine modern romance with layered Black heroines, real emotional depth, and Black literature that feel both magical and true.
- [Tyler Lepley and DeVon Franklin Say Love Is at the Center of ‘Ruth & Boaz’ as Release Date Revealed](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/tyler-lepley-and-devon-franklin-say-love-is-at-the-center-of-ruth-boaz-as-release-date-revealed/) - Lepley and Franklin discuss their newest film, Ruth & Boaz, which will be available to stream on Netflix on September 26.
- [How Meagan Good and DeVon Franklin Found Love Again](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/how-meagan-good-and-devon-franklin-found-love-again/) - After love and loss, Devon Franklin and Meagan Good reflect on growth, faith, and finding themselves again—on their own terms.
- [Devale and Khadeen Ellis Talk the Evolution of Their Podcast ‘Ellis Ever After,’ Marriage, Communication and More](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/celebrity/devale-and-khadeen-ellis-talk-the-evolution-of-their-podcast-ellis-ever-after-marriage-communication-and-more/) - Our intent is to share love so that people can see, like love really conquers everything. Topics like marriage and finance, Black relationships and parenting.
- [Jerrold Smith II & Cheryl Des Vignes’ Sweet, Stylish LA Wedding Was a Black Love Affair Through and Through](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/jerrold-smith-ii-cheryl-des-vignes-sweet-stylish-la-wedding-was-a-black-love-affair-through-and-through/) - Jerrold Smith II & Cheryl Des Vignes’ wedding was a modern-day fairytale soaked in culture, creativity, and Black love.
- [Bozoma Saint John Talks Motherhood, Grief, Black Joy, and Boss Moves](https://blacklove.com/read/family/motherhood/bozoma-saint-john-talks-motherhood-grief-black-joy-and-boss-moves/) - Bozoma Saint John talks Black motherhood, grief, self-love, and finding joy again. Don’t miss her powerful conversation on building legacy and living boldly.
- [The Unsexy Truths to a Great Bedroom Life](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/the-unsexy-truths-to-a-great-bedroom-life/) - Great sex is about more than the length of the session or how many times you can orgasm. It's about chemistry, passion, and the build-up that makes the climax much sweeter.
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- [These friends have each others backs and are always gonna keep it 💯 | The Rest Is History](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/these-friends-have-each-others-backs-and-are-always-gonna-keep-it-💯-the-rest-is-history/)
- [Yas! Let’s keep it real. Not all friends fit every setting. | The Rest is History](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/yas-lets-keep-it-real-not-all-friends-fit-every-setting-the-rest-is-history/)
- [YES! Let’s keep talk about that dewy skin…cause gurl, he’s still recovering from all the viral hate](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/yes-lets-keep-talk-about-that-dewy-skincause-gurl-hes-still-recovering-from-all-the-viral-hate/)
- [❤️ Love! Yes, let’s talk about how friends can support our love life with honesty and affirmations!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/❤️-love-yes-lets-talk-about-how-friends-can-support-our-love-life-with-honesty-and-affirmations/)
- [When she stands up, and you see her standing tall and curvy... owieee! It's a wrap! 🍑🌟😍](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/when-she-stands-up-and-you-see-her-standing-tall-and-curvy-owieee-its-a-wrap-🍑🌟😍/)
- [Meet Anthony & Jeanie! They've been dating since 2019, tied the knot in 2020, & the rest is history!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-anthony-jeanie-theyve-been-dating-since-2019-tied-the-knot-in-2020-the-rest-is-history/)
- [Quarantine made them stronger y’all!! 👏🏾 | #therestishistory](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/quarantine-made-them-stronger-yall-👏🏾-therestishistory/)
- [These two got us BLUSHINGG](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/these-two-got-us-blushingg-yall-🥰-therestishistory/) - These two got us BLUSHINGG yall Running in similar circles Jeannie and Anthony paths crossed a couple times before she decided to message him her feelings which were reciprocated They had their first date the next day and TheRestIsHistory
- [Sometimes, it takes another person to bring out a side of ourselves we barely see #therestishistory](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/sometimes-it-takes-another-person-to-bring-out-a-side-of-ourselves-we-barely-see-therestishistory/)
- [Fee said CLEAR ‘EM OUTTT! She was not playin’ those games | #therestishistory](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/fee-said-clear-em-outtt-she-was-not-playin-those-games-therestishistory/)
- [THE DEFINITION OF LOVE 🗣️  | The Rest Is History](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-definition-of-love-🗣️-the-rest-is-history/)
- [The MuuMuu Lady, Felicia, & her husband Brandon joined us](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-muumuu-lady-felicia-her-husband-brandon-joined-us-for-therestishistory-👏🏾/) - Yall already know these two The MuuMuu Lady Felicia and her husband Brandon joined us for TheRestIsHistoryTheyve been together for over 16 years fam Their love started in the studio and grew into the relationship that it is today
- [He said she was giving WIFEEE y'all |  Meet Duke and Chanel](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/he-said-she-was-giving-wifeee-yall-😍-meet-duke-and-chanel-another-therestishistory-couple/) - He said she was giving WIFEEE yall Meet Duke and Chanel another TheRestIsHistory couple In 2017 she pouring Patrn and Pineapple catching his heart Fast forward to 2023 and he sealing the deal with a ring
- [How do YOU approach the “What are we?” question??](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/how-do-you-approach-the-what-are-we-question/)
- ["Whatever challenge you have with one another, put yourself on the same side of the problem"](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/whatever-challenge-you-have-with-one-another-put-yourself-on-the-same-side-of-the-problem/)
- [The Rest is History is back this week with a new couple - meet Angelique and Dominyck!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-rest-is-history-is-back-this-week-with-a-new-couple-meet-angelique-and-dominyck/) - The Rest is History is back this week with a new couple meet Angelique and Dominyck We LOVE that she made the first move and he came through to reciprocate that energy
- [“I just felt completely protected and I was like..this my HUSBAND” 😍](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/i-just-felt-completely-protected-and-i-was-like-this-my-husband-😍/)
- [ICYMI… #TheRestIsHistory is SO back! & this round is all about ✨best friends✨](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/icymi-therestishistory-is-so-back-this-round-is-all-about-✨best-friends✨/)
- [6 years in and STILL going strong | Loren and Jazmine](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/6-years-in-and-still-going-strong-🫶🏾-loren-and-jazmine-the-rest-is-history-friendship-edition/) - 6 years in and STILL going strong
- [“I can dance?” “Naw…I didnt saw you COULD dance.” 😂🤣](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/i-can-dance-nawi-didnt-saw-you-could-dance-😂🤣/)
- [He knows what’s up in the music world, but she also had to throw in a couple playful jab.](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/he-knows-whats-up-in-the-music-world-but-she-also-had-to-throw-in-a-couple-playful-jab/)
- [Adorable…and she knows how to party! Aye🔥🔥🔥 #blackculture](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/adorableand-she-knows-how-to-party-aye🔥🔥🔥-blackculture/)
- [They were THIS close to missing out on each other's real selves & intentions #therestishistory](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/they-were-this-close-👌🏾-to-missing-out-on-each-others-real-selves-intentions-🤔-therestishistory/) - Meet Buddy and Elle allinmakeup buddybangs
- [“I knew when I got married, I said, he has to understand what it means to follow God..."](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/i-knew-when-i-got-married-i-said-he-has-to-understand-what-it-means-to-follow-god/)
- [Great love story, AND GREAT COOKING! 👨🏾‍🍳🍳🥘 BJ and Jessica Sims are serving up #couplegoals 🔥😍🥰](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/great-love-story-and-great-cooking-👨🏾🍳🍳🥘-bj-and-jessica-sims-are-serving-up-couplegoals-🔥😍🥰/)
- [Let’s talk about the importance of individuality in marriage! Do you agree or disagree? 🗣️➡️](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/lets-talk-about-the-importance-of-individuality-in-marriage-do-you-agree-or-disagree-🗣️➡️/)
- [Marriages face challenges every day. BJ and Jessica are actively practicing how to choose love](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/marriages-face-challenges-every-day-bj-and-jessica-are-actively-practicing-how-to-choose-love/)
- [Replying to @Dr. Hooey, J.D.✨ 😲😮‍💨🔥She got rizzzzz and some serious drive, honey! 😂](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/replying-to-dr-hooey-j-d-✨-😲😮💨🔥she-got-rizzzzz-and-some-serious-drive-honey-😂/)
- [Pastor BJ Sims and Jessica are going on 3 years of marriage. #therestishistory](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/pastor-bj-sims-and-jessica-are-going-on-3-years-of-marriage-🎉💕-therestishistory/) - Pastor BJ Sims and Jessica are going on 3 years of marriage
- [’re happy to announce that #TheRestIsHistory is BACK!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/re-happy-to-announce-that-therestishistory-is-back/)
- [🌟Tag that special someone who brings out your playful vibes and keeps you living in the moment! 🎉💕](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/🌟tag-that-special-someone-who-brings-out-your-playful-vibes-and-keeps-you-living-in-the-moment-🎉💕/)
- ["Here's a key. I was just trying to show I'm in this. I ain't playing no games. You can pull up."](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/heres-a-key-i-was-just-trying-to-show-im-in-this-i-aint-playing-no-games-you-can-pull-up/)
- [We all know it’s hard to open up about difficult times](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/we-all-know-its-hard-to-open-up-about-difficult-times/)
- [We are BACK with another The Rest Is History couple! Meet Dot and Nat](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/we-are-back-with-another-the-rest-is-history-couple-meet-dot-and-nat/) - We are BACK with another The Rest Is History couple Meet Dot and Nate they are 8 years strong and it all started at Salsa Beer Shoutout to their matchmaking friend
- [Unapologetically Us | Susan Kelechi Watson & Codie Elaine Oliver | The You Retreat 2023](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/unapologetically-us-susan-kelechi-watson-codie-elaine-oliver-the-you-retreat-2023/) - Susan Kelechi Watson played an unapologetically Black woman on TV for 7 years while Codie Elaine Oliver was building an unapologetically Black brand and digital community They share how all of us can harness the power of WHO WE ARE to create success and personal fulfillment even when it challenging
- [Episode 53 - The Effects of Ghosting - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-53-the-effects-of-ghosting-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 52 - The Amazing Listeners - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-52-the-amazing-listeners-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - EPISODE SUMMARY
- [One thing about mamas…we’re gonna aim to win the game | Mama's Den Podcast #shorts](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/one-thing-about-mamaswere-gonna-aim-to-win-the-game-mamas-den-podcast-shorts/)
- [Episode 40 - You Have to be a Magnet of Love - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-40-you-have-to-be-a-magnet-of-love-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Single Ladies step up to the Love Revolution Ladies are you trying to figure out why your dating life has been a dud Tired of going on dates that go nowhere Trying to get bood up before Valentines Day The Amazing Clarks got you Melanie and Anthony are here to tell you why those dates never seem to work out Listen in for some tools and tips to get your energy right as you navigate the single life
- [the moments vs the photos #shorts #mamasdenpodcast](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-moments-vs-the-photos-shorts-mamasdenpodcast/)
- [Episode 39 - The Amazing Intention Setting - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-39-the-amazing-intention-setting-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution
- [Episode 38 - The Amazing Ghana pt2 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-38-the-amazing-ghana-pt2-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 51 - The Different Forms of Cheating - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-51-the-different-forms-of-cheating-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 50 - The Warning Signs of Cheating - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-50-the-warning-signs-of-cheating-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 48 - The Amazing Relationship - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-48-the-amazing-relationship-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 47 - The Amazing E.A.R. Process - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-47-the-amazing-e-a-r-process-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 46 - The Amazing Point Scale - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-46-the-amazing-point-scale-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 45 - Losing Yourself In Love - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-45-losing-yourself-in-love-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 44 - Stop Hating Love - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-44-stop-hating-love-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 43 - Trading Gifts - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-43-trading-gifts-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Episode 42 - The Love Mood - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-42-the-love-mood-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [If you love The Mama’s Den, then you love Krystal! #shorts | Black Love Podcasts](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/if-you-love-the-mamas-den-then-you-love-krystal-shorts-black-love-podcasts/)
- [Episode 41 - Compatibility Check - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-41-compatibility-check-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [What surprised you, good or bad, about your body after having kids?](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/what-surprised-you-good-or-bad-about-your-body-after-having-kids/)
- [Inheriting Your Parents Sins Pt 1- Ep 17 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/inheriting-your-parents-sins-pt-1-ep-17-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 17 Inheriting Your Parents Sins pt1
- [The Amazing Memory Museum - Ep 16 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-memory-museum-ep-16-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution What moments are you creating in your lifetime Are you taking the risks that you want Are you doing the things youve always wanted to Chasing your dreams Failing All of these things contribute to your memory museum the moments that make up your lifetime Listen in as Melanie and Anthony reflect on all of the moments that have filled their memory museums and how to ensure you are making the most of yours
- [The Amazing Papa Heart - Ep 14 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-papa-heart-ep-14-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Amazing Energy Tool  - Ep 13 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-energy-tool-ep-13-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Amazing EIP - Ep 12 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-eip-ep-12-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Akadius & Tamra Berry](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-37-the-amazing-ghana-pt1-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 10 Akadius Tamra Berry
- [Episode 36 - Surviving the Holidays - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/episode-36-surviving-the-holidays-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution We know that some of yall are absolutely dreading the holidays Having to see family can be draining This week the Amazing Clarks are back with tips and tricks to help you navigate situations that can be draining If youre not sure about how youre going to make it through this is the episode for you
- [More of the Amazing Law of Attraction - Ep 30 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/more-of-the-amazing-law-of-attraction-ep-30-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 30 More of the Amazing Law of Attraction
- [Ask the Amazing Clarks  - Ep 29 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/ask-the-amazing-clarks-ep-29-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Infidelity & Cheating - Ep 28 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/infidelity-cheating-ep-28-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Amazing Listeners  - Ep 25 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-listeners-ep-25-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 25 The Amazing Listeners
- [Navigating Through Land Mines  - Ep 24 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/navigating-through-land-mines-ep-24-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 24 Navigating Through Land Mines
- [The Art of Self Love - Ep 23 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-art-of-self-love-ep-23-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 23 The Art of Self Love
- [The Amazing Growth Process - Ep 22 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-growth-process-ep-22-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 22 The Amazing Growth Process
- [The Amazing Art of Possibility - Ep 21 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-art-of-possibility-ep-21-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 21 The Amazing Art of Possibility
- [The Art of Navigating Death - Ep 20 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-art-of-navigating-death-ep-20-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 20 The Art of Navigating Death
- [Inheriting Your Parents’ Sins Pt 2 - Ep 18 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/inheriting-your-parents-sins-pt-2-ep-18-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 18 Inheriting Your Parents Sins pt2
- [Crack the Code - Ep 04 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/crack-the-code-ep-04-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Amazing Top Five - Ep 03 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-top-five-ep-03-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 3 The Amazing Top 5
- [The Amazing Love Report Card - Ep 02 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-love-report-card-ep-02-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Introducing Amazing Clarks - Ep 01 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/introducing-amazing-clarks-ep-01-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [Codie Answers Your Questions! | My New BFF | FB Live | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/codie-answers-your-questions-my-new-bff-fb-live-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Amazing Mama Heart - Ep 08 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-mama-heart-ep-08-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Amazing Law of Attraction - Ep 07 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-law-of-attraction-ep-07-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution Have you ever wondered why you seem to attract the things on your mind Maybe youve tried the power of positive thinking without the results you were looking for Well in this episode The Amazing Clarks get into the nitty gritty of the Law of Attraction What is it How do you use it Listen as Melanie goes into how she first learned about the Law of Attraction and had a car repossessed in the process and how Anthony is always reminded about it even whenwalking the dog
- [The Amazing Inner Child - Ep 06 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-inner-child-ep-06-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Amazing Coaching Sessions Mickey D - Ep 05 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-amazing-coaching-sessions-mickey-d-ep-05-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Thank you for joining the Love Revolution In this episode the Amazing Clarks virtually sit down with Mickey D A young lady who is trying to get back into the dating pool but is apprehensive as to where to start Listen as the Clarks get to the bottom of her fear and help her find exactly what she needs in order to move forward Plus before the Clarks get into helping Mickey Melanie has a bone to pick with Anthony uhoh
- [#TheRestIsHistory is BACK fam! Meet Arthur and EJ!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/therestishistory-is-back-fam-meet-arthur-and-ej-🌟/) - TheRestIsHistory is BACK fam Meet Arthur and EJ They met in December 16 got engaged in 21 and JUST got married this October
- [21 years ago is when Sybil and Kwaku first met!!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/21-years-ago-is-when-sybil-and-kwaku-first-met-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/) - On this very day 21 years ago is when Sybil and Kwaku first met The way these two laugh and joke with each other is unmatched Especially after so much time has passed Keeping that youthful playfulness alive for over 20 years is definitely something to admire from this beautiful couple
- [It’s the surprise trip for us! | Black Love presents: The Rest is History](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/its-the-surprise-trip-for-us-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/)
- [Who else agrees?? 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♂️ | Black Love presents: The Rest Is History](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/who-else-agrees-🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♂️-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/)
- [A 3-hour conversation, the very first time meeting?? Black Love presents: The Rest Is History](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/a-3-hour-conversation-the-very-first-time-meeting-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/)
- [The early stages can be TESTY](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-early-stages-can-be-testy-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/) - The early stages can be TESTY For these two life was moving fast for both of them and they ended up taking a break from talking But luckily they found their way back to one another We LOVE to see it
- [I KNEW...if this relationship was going to continue... Black Love Presents: The Rest is History](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/i-knew-if-this-relationship-was-going-to-continue-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/)
- [17 years ago, fate brought them together at the airport](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/17-years-ago-fate-brought-them-together-at-the-✈️❤️-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/) - Meet Ashlea and Murad Seventeen years ago fate brought them together at the airport and since then their love story has been nothing short of amazing Here to the journey that started with a chance encounter and turned into a beautiful history
- [And she slapt the mess out of me!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/and-she-slapt-the-mess-out-of-me-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/) - And she slapt the mess out of me Meet lenaanthony and toddanthony Theyve been inseperable for 8 amazing years have married for 5 years and they are still going strong
- [Meet Bri & MarShawn!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/💕meet-bri-marshawn-black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history-restishistory-howwemetstories/) - Meet Bri MarShawn Black Love Presents The Rest is History restishistory howwemetstories
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- [Tyler Lepley - Beauty of Black Fatherhood & Blended Family](https://blacklove.com/read/family/fatherhood/tyler-lepley-beauty-of-black-fatherhood-blended-family/) - Tyler Lepley shows the beauty of Black fatherhood, blended family life with Miracle Watts, & raising his three children in this Father Noir spotlight.
- [Black Fathers Terrell and Jarius Joseph - Fatherhood Stories](https://blacklove.com/read/family/fatherhood/black-fathers-terrell-and-jarius-joseph-fatherhood-stories/) - Black fathers Terrell and Jarius Joseph redefines modern fatherhood through love, resilience, unapologetic visibility in this Father Noir highlight.
- [Getting Great Sleep and How It Impacts Skin Health](https://blacklove.com/read/health/getting-great-sleep-and-how-it-impacts-skin-health/) - Quality rest isn’t just about waking up refreshed—it’s a form of self-care, a tool for longevity, and a secret weapon for radiant, healthy skin.
- [Father Noir: John Legend’s Love Song to Fatherhood](https://blacklove.com/read/family/father-noir-john-legends-love-song-to-fatherhood/) - John Legend shows the beauty of Black fatherhood in this Father Noir feature—love, presence, and parenting four kids with Chrissy Teigen.
- [The Dos and Don'ts of Traveling With a Group](https://blacklove.com/read/the-basic-dos-and-donts-of-traveling-with-a-group/) - With blacklove.com Travel Week underway, we're sharing some quick tips on how to travel with a group of people, from planning the trip to enjoying time at your desired destination.
- [If You Loved Netflix’s “The Perfect Find,” Add These Black Love Books to Your Summer Reading List](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/if-you-loved-netflixs-the-perfect-find-add-these-black-love-books-to-your-summer-reading-list/) - If the movie left you craving more Black love, second chance love, or just some steamy complicated romance, we’ve got you covered with some books with similar vibes.
- [Why Men Need to Embrace Self-Love, Self-Care, and Self-Accountability](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/why-men-need-to-embrace-self-love-self-care-and-self-accountability/) - Antwan Steele explains why men being in touch with their innermost feelings is a necessary step towards emotional wellness.
- [Get Smarter with Blair Imani: The ‘Mama’s Den’ Episode You Need to Hear During Black Maternal Health Week](https://blacklove.com/read/family/get-smarter-with-blair-imani-the-mamas-den-episode-you-need-to-hear-during-black-maternal-health-week/) - In honor of Black Maternal Health Week, Blair Imani is speaking on The Mama’s Den about the realities of reproductive justice.
- [Gratitude is the Attitude: Finding Gratitude Through Grief](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/gratitude-is-the-attitude-finding-gratitude-through-grief/) - Gratitude is the attitude this holiday season. With that in mind, blacklove.com’s editorial contributors reflect on 2018 and share what they are grateful for. In this edition, managing editor Taj Rani reflects on the sudden loss of a loved one, and how finding gratitude through grief helped her appreciate his life, legacy, and continuing love and influence.
- [After 21 Years As An Incarcerated Family, Fox & Rob are Celebrating 28 Years of Marriage and Partnership With A New Documentary](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/after-21-years-as-an-incarcerated-family-fox-rob-are-celebrating-28-years-of-marriage-and-partnership-with-a-new-documentary/) - Celebrate their marriage and partnership with the release of the documentary “Time II: Unfinished Business”
- [Don’t Be Late to the Juke Joint: Sinners, Black Love & Brotherhood at the Box Office](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/dont-be-late-to-the-juke-joint-sinners-black-love-brotherhood-at-the-box-office/) - As Black movie directors and producers, Ryan Coogler and Michael B. Jordan are setting a new standard for Black representation.
- [Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade Launch Baby Fashion Brand That Shines a Light on Black Families](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/gabrielle-union-and-dwyane-wade-launch-baby-fashion-brand-that-shines-a-light-on-black-families/) - Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade partnered with JCPenney to debut the collection from their PROUDLY baby care brand.
- [To Live and Die and Live: Addiction, Grief, and the Cost of Silence](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/to-live-and-die-and-live-addiction-grief-and-the-cost-of-silence/) - Qasim Basir’s To Live and Die and Live is not a film that offers easy answers.
- [5 Movies That Remind Us That All You Need is (Self) Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-movies-that-remind-us-that-all-you-need-is-self-love/) - This month on blacklove.com, we are focusing on Self Love — ways to develop it in your life, and the ways in which your life can expand for the positive once loving yourself and listening to your needs becomes a lifestyle. To help you develop this habit and start your new year right, the Black Love team has put together a list of 5 movies that remind us— all you need is SELF love.
- [Gratitude is the Attitude: How This Mindset Changed My Life](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/gratitude-is-the-attitude-how-this-mindset-changed-my-life/) - =
- [Motherhood Reflections: Moments We Loved From "The Mama's Den" Mamas!](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/motherhood-reflections-moments-we-loved-from-the-mamas-den-mamas/) - Every Monday, the mamas of Mama’s Den are dropping gems on parenting, grand-parenting, and all the joys and struggles that come with it.
- ["The Mama’s Den" Podcast Prioritizes Wellness for Moms at Pilates Event in Los Angeles](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mamas-den-prioritizes-wellness-for-moms-pilates-event/) - Podcast hosts Melanie Fiona, Felicia LaTour, Ashley Chea, and Codie Elaine Oliver came together for a pilates event for mothers at Speir Pilates in Los Angeles.
- [“The Mama’s Den” Podcast Jumps From Audio to Video With YouTube Episodes ](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mamas-den-podcast-youtube-episodes/) - Join the host mamas Melanie Fiona, Felicia LaTour, Ashley Chea, and Codie Elaine Oliver as they dive into motherhood, race, sexuality, dating and more.
- [Unveiling the Return of the "The Mama's Den" Podcast](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/unveiling-the-return-of-the-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Premiering with new episodes on February 27, “The Mama’s Den” promises to be a captivating journey into the hearts and minds of hosts Melanie Fiona, Felicia LaTour, Ashley Chea, and Codie Elaine Oliver.
- [Melanie Fiona Talks "The Mama’s Den," Motherhood, and Rediscovering Herself](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/melanie-fiona-mamas-den-motherhood-rediscovery/) - Melanie Fiona says that when “Black Love” Co-Creator Codie Elaine Oliver invited her to participate in “The Mama’s Den” podcast, she finally found the sisterhood and support she needed.
- ["The Mama's Den:" A Behind-the-Scenes Look at the New Podcast Set](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mamas-den-podcast-new-set/) - Codie Elaine Oliver, Melanie Fiona, Felicia LaTour, and Ashley Chea were in for a surprise when they arrived on a brand new set to record “The Mama’s Den” podcast.
- [Felicia LaTour Opens Up About Being a Mom, “The Mama’s Den,” and How She Learned to Ask for Help](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/felicia-latour-being-a-mom-the-mamas-den-asking-for-help/) - Black Love recently had the pleasure of catching up with content creator Felicia LaTour, one of the vibrant voices behind “The Mama’s Den.”
- ["The Mama’s Den" Podcast Hits the Road With a Girls Trip at Yaamava Resort & Casino](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-mamas-den-podcast-yaamava-resort-casino-girls-trip/) - Hosts Melanie Fiona, Codie Elaine Oliver, Felicia LaTour, and Ashley Chea let their hair down and enjoyed luxury resort accommodations, award-winning dining, and more at Yaamava Resort & Casino.
- [Ashley Blaine Featherson Opens Up About Her IVF Journey](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/ashley-blaine-featherson-ivf-journey/) - Ashley Blaine Featherson opens up about the challenges and triumphs she and husband Darroll faced on their path to parenthood on “The Mama’s Den” podcast.
- [Dahn Ballard Unpacks Her Walk of Love as a Mom to a Trans Son on ‘The Mama’s Den’](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/dahn-ballard-unpacks-her-walk-of-love-as-a-mom-to-a-trans-son-on-the-mamas-den/) - Dahn’s journey began five years ago, when her son, Zion, began to feel a disconnect between his body and identity in middle school.
- [Tabitha Brown Brings Her Signature Joy to Black Love’s The Mama’s Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/tabitha-brown-brings-her-signature-joy-to-black-loves-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Tabitha Brown sat down with the hosts of The Mama’s Den podcast to spill all the tea on life, love, and the next big adventures for her and her husband, Chance Brown.
- [Behavioral Coach Marnesha Hall Talks Setting Kids Up for Success on ‘The Mama’s Den’](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/behavioral-coach-marnesha-hall-talks-setting-kids-up-for-success-on-the-mamas-den/) - Marnesha’s approach is all about real, tangible tools that you can use right now to make a positive difference in your family’s life.
- [The Mamas of ‘The Mama’s Den’ Are Taking Over ‘Tamron Hall’—And Their NYC Girls Trip Was One for the Books](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mamas-of-the-mamas-den-are-taking-over-tamron-hall-and-their-nyc-girls-trip-was-one-for-the-books/) - For these four powerhouse women, this moment is bigger than just a TV appearance—it’s a full-circle journey that started during the pandemic when they first launched The Mama’s Den.
- [Black Moms Favorite Books To Read With Their Little Ones](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mamas-den-shares-their-favorite-kids-books-to-read-with-their-kids/) - The Mamas Den mamas dive into their favorite books to read with their little ones and the shelves are stacked with gems from some of our favorite Black storytellers.
- [Michael Ealy Is Breaking Dad Norms on ‘The Mama’s Den’](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/michael-ealy-is-breaking-dad-norms-on-the-mamas-den/) - On the latest episode of Black Love’s flagship podcast The Mama’s Den, Michael Ealy joins the ladies to talk all things fatherhood, partnership, and how today’s dads are flipping the script on what it means to be a “modern parent.”
- [High Functioning AF: Finding Joy With Dr. Judith Joseph on ‘The Mama’s Den’](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/high-functioning-af-finding-joy-with-dr-judith-joseph-on-the-mamas-den/) - Dr. Judith Joseph keeps it real about her own experience with depression, the realities of high-functioning mental health struggles, and why Black women, in particular, face unique challenges when it comes to seeking help.
- [Educator Julian Saavedra Talks Championing Your Child’s Learning Needs on ‘The Mama’s Den’](https://blacklove.com/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/educator-julian-saavedra-talks-championing-your-childs-learning-needs-on-the-mamas-den/) - This week, the Mamas sit down with Julian—educator, father, and host of The Opportunity Gap podcast—for a conversation that hits home for many: How do we support our children and ensure they’re truly seen, valued, and empowered in school?
- [2018 Black Love Summit: Encouraging Healthy Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-recap-2018/) - Highlights from the first ever Black Love Summit featuring Niecy Nash, Ryan Michelle Bathe, Devale & Khadeen Ellis, Chris & Vanessa Spencer, and more.
- [Your Guide to the 2019 Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/summit-2019/) - The Black Love Summit is an unparalleled one-day live experience gathering Black singles and couples for transparent conversations about love, partnership, and community.
- [5 Reasons You Don’t Want to Miss the Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-reasons-you-dont-want-to-miss-the-black-love-summit/) - It’s almost time for the 2019 Black Love Summit! Check out five reasons you don’t want to miss out!
- [Sex, Laughs and Lasting Love at the 2019 Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sex-laughs-and-lasting-love-at-the-2019-black-love-summit/) - It was a day of lessons, laughs, and, most importantly, love, as attendees from across the country gathered for the 2019 Black Love Summit.
- [Men on Vulnerability and Dating at the 2019 Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/men-on-vulnerability-and-dating-at-the-2019-black-love-summit/) - What do men really think about vulnerability? We found out at the 2019 Black Love Summit.
- [Couples and Coins: Started From the Bottom, Now We’re Getting Ahead](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/couples-and-coins-started-from-the-bottom-now-were-getting-ahead/) - Created specifically for couples seeking to build an empire and leave a legacy for their little ones, the “Couples and Coins” panel at the 2019 Black Love Summit delivered expert advice to teach couples how to protect their assets after they’ve secured the bag.
- [Communication 101: Learning How to Fight Fair](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/communication-101-learning-how-to-fight-fair/) - Mattie and Chris James, and Quincy and Deondray Gossfield talk learning to fight fair at the 2019 Black Love Summit.
- [Hey Black Dads, We’ve Got Your Back!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/hey-black-dads-weve-got-your-back/) - Jeff Johnson, Chris Classic, and Dondre Whitfield open about up about being devoted fathers at the 2019 Black Love Summit.
- [Surviving Infidelity: 5 Accountability Steps to Save Your Marriage After an Affair](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/surviving-infidelity-5-accountability-steps-to-save-your-marriage-after-an-affair/) - Warryn and Erica Campbell open up about surviving infidelity in marriage and the steps it took to rebuild their marriage at the 2019 Black Love Summit.
- [Balancing the Juggling Act of Love, Marriage and Kids](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/balancing-the-juggling-act-of-love-marriage-and-kids/) - Kenny & Jessica Burns and Egypt Sherrod & DJ Fadelf talk "Married While Parenting" at the 2019 Black Love Summit.
- [An Invitation to the Gentleman's Club: The Black Love Summit Husbands' Panel](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/an-invitation-to-the-gentlemans-club-the-black-love-summit-husbands-panel/) - The 2019 Black Love Summit welcomed husbands Tommy Oliver, Devale Ellis, Tommicus “Tommi” Walker, DJ Fadelf, Warryn Campbell, and Dondré Whitfield for the "Husbands Panel."
- [How I Learned the Secret Benefits of Submission](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/how-i-learned-the-secret-benefits-of-submission/) - Egypt Sherrod & DJ Fadelf, Wayne Campbell & Erica Campbell, and Dondré Whitfield sat down with Codie Elaine Oliver to talk the benefits of submission.
- ['Black Love' Wives Talk Overwhelm, Sex, and the Perfection Myth](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-series-wives-talk-overwhelm-sex-and-the-perfection-myth/) - Egypt Sherrod, LeToya Luckett, Erica Campbell, Jessica Burns, and Ashley Chea sit down with Codie Elaine Oliver to have a straight-up conversation about wife life.
- [LeToya Luckett Talks Marriage, Prayer and Therapy](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-series-cast-member-letoya-luckett-talks-marriage-prayer-and-therapy/) - "Black Love" series season 3 couple LeToya Luckett and Tommicus Walker talk marriage, prayer, and therapy at the Black Love Summit.
- [The Virtual Black Love Summit is the Perfect Place to Restore Our Love Post-Election](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-virtual-black-love-summit-is-the-perfect-place-to-restore-our-love-post-election/) - If there was ever a time for us to rejoice in and refill the love we share, it’s now, and the virtual Black Love Summit will help us do just that.
- [Black Love Summit 2020: Growing Your Money Together Panel Recap](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-2020-growing-your-money-together-panel-recap/) - blacklove.com highlights the best moments from the virtual Black Love Summit 2020.
- [Black Love Summit 2020 Recap: Say it Loud We’re Black and We’re Proud, but We’re Also Exhausted](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-2020-recap-say-it-loud-were-black-and-were-proud-but-were-also-exhausted/) - A conversation about holding space for each other while navigating being Black in America.
- [Showing Love! These Goodie Bag Partners Made the Black Love Summit Extra Special](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/showing-love-these-goodie-bag-partners-made-the-black-love-summit-extra-special/) - The 4th annual Black Love Summit was live in Los Angeles and a day to remember. While we’re still cherishing the abundant love, lessons, and Black joy the day had to offer, we wanted to take a moment to thank our goodie bag partners who helped make this event extra special for our attendees. Learn more about these brands below that participated in S.W.A.G. bags for our attendees, and support these mostly Black owned businesses!
- [Why Black Love Summit is for You (Yes, YOU)!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/why-black-love-summit-is-for-you-yes-you/) - Black Love Summit is in its 5th year, family! Get your tickets to this day of conversation, Black joy, and music!
- [Black Love Summit 2021 Taught My Husband it's Okay That I'm His Best Friend](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-black-love-summit-taught-my-husband-its-okay-that-im-his-bestfriend/) - The transparency from each couple served as an eye-opener for me in ways that my husband and I can make improvements in our own marriage.
- [Get Ready to Dance After Black Love Summit With RNB House Party!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/get-ready-to-dance-after-black-love-summit-with-rnb-house-party/) - Get those knees and vocals ready, and be prepared to sing your heart out! Get your tickets to Black Love Summit and meet us at RNB House Party after!
- [Black Love, Inc. is Carving Out Safe Spaces for Black Men](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-inc-is-carving-out-safe-spaces-for-black-men/) - These spaces are a blessing to me, and I know that. That as a man who had not seen a marriage up close growing up, these couples’ willingness to open up about their relationships gives me insight I’d rather not live without.
- [5 Major Takeaways From Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-major-takeaways-from-black-love-summit-2022/) - We’re still on a high from Black Love Summit! Until next year, we’re sharing some very special moments from our 5th annual marquee event.
- [Black-Owned Brands at Black Love Weekend That You Should Support!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-owned-brands-at-black-love-weekend-that-you-should-support/) - Support and learn more about each brand that helped make Black Love Weekend a success.
- [Goldman Sachs is Building an Inclusive Community for Black Entrepreneurs](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/goldman-sachs-is-building-an-inclusive-community-for-black-entrepreneurs/) - Black Love is Black entrepreneurship, and Goldman Sachs is committed to Black women business owners.
- [Black Love Summit is Back! Check Out Some of Our Best Moments and Grab Your Early Bird Tickets!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-is-back-check-out-some-of-our-best-moments-and-grab-your-early-bird-tickets/) - Black Love Summit is back and headed to Atlanta! Relive moments from past speakers, and grab your tickets to see who’s joining us this year!
- [Black Love Summit Aims to Build Stronger Black Communities](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-aims-to-build-stronger-black-communities/) - As a person who believes in the power of love and community, I can definitely depend on The Black Love Summit to deliver.
- [Black Love Summit 2023 Confirmed There is No Black Love Without Black Wellness](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-2023-confirmed-there-is-no-black-love-without-black-wellness/) - "Wellness is an individual journey that includes lessons, triggers, and traumas. Wellness means not betraying yourself and not going against your morals." –Shelah Marie
- [ATL Love: Businesses That Made Black Love Summit 2023 an Experience to Remember](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/atl-love-businesses-that-made-black-love-summit-2023-an-experience-to-remember/) - The brands that helped us make Black Love Summit possible deserve their flowers. Learn about their businesses, shop, and circulate the Black dollar!
- [This Black-Owned Coffee Brand is Serving Up Beverages and Empowerment to Their Community](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/this-black-owned-coffee-brand-is-serving-up-beverages-and-empowerment-to-their-community/) - The Black Coffee Company in Atlanta is serving up much more than coffee — they're serving empowerment and tools for their community to thrive.
- [The Black Love Summit Returns For Its 7th Annual Celebration of Love and Joy](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-black-love-summit-returns-7th-annual-celebration-of-love-and-joy/) - This year, Black Love Summit is taking over L.A. for an unforgettable celebration that centers on the thing that binds us together: love.
- [Kerry Washington, Jemele Hill, and More to Speak at the 2024 Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/kerry-washington-jemele-hill-and-more-to-speak-at-the-2024-black-love-summit/) - October 12: a celebration with Kerry Washington, Jemele Hill, The Mama’s Den podcast, Cassandra Freeman, Kevin (KevOnStage) Fredericks, Gail Bean, and more.
- [Sterling K. Brown, Ryan Michelle Bathe, Lil Rel Howery, and More to Speak at 2024 Black Love Summit in Newly Announced Schedule](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sterling-k-brown-ryan-michelle-bathe-lil-rel-howery-and-more-to-speak-at-2024-black-love-summit-in-newly-announced-schedule/) - Sterling K. Brown, Ryan Michelle Bathe, and Lil Rel Howery are joining an already star-studded lineup of talent for the summit at Black Love’s headquarters in Los Angeles on Saturday.
- [Kamie Crawford, Nneka Onuorah, and Willie Greene Show the Power of Vulnerability at the Black Love Summit ](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/kamie-crawford-nneka-onuorahand-willie-greene-show-the-power-of-vulnerability-at-the-black-love-summit/) - “Some people may not understand my humor, my confidence, my compassion, my vulnerability, and if they don't like it, that's okay,” Crawford shares at the 7th annual summit.
- [Cory Hardrict, Lil Rel Howery Share the Importance of Finding Brotherhood Within Your Fatherhood Journey at Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/cory-hardrict-lil-rel-howery-share-the-importance-of-finding-brotherhood-within-your-fatherhood-journey-at-black-love-summit/) - “I knew he was going through some things and I just wanted to reach out to another dad and another brother,” Howery says about Hardrict at the Summit.
- [“I Want to See More Youth of Color Just Existing:” The Cast of ‘Bel-Air’ Talks Current Representations of Black Love on TV](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/i-want-to-see-more-youth-of-color-just-existing-the-cast-of-bel-air-talks-current-representations-of-black-love-on-tv/) - “People love Bel Air so much because they feel loved and they feel the forgiveness and the grace that lives in the show in the midst of all the messy drama,” Cassandra Freeman says.
- [Gail Bean, Malcolm Mays, Obio Jones and Natalie Odell Dish on Romance, Friendship, and Intention at Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/gail-bean-malcolm-mays-obio-jones-and-natalie-odell-dish-on-romance-friendship-and-intention-at-black-love-summit/) - “If you're dating someone who doesn't have the same intentions with you, I think it's very important to be realistic and honest with yourself. Understand you can't change that person's mind,” Bean says.
- [Black Love Summit 2024: A Celebration of Love, Vulnerability, and Community](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-2024-a-celebration-of-love-vulnerability-and-community/) - Hosted in Los Angeles at Black Love’s headquarters, the summit provided a space to explore love, family, vulnerability, and joy, with powerful moments shared on stage by Black stars and thought leaders.
- [‘The Mama’s Den’ Get Real During Special Live Recording at Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-mamas-den-get-real-during-special-live-recording-at-black-love-summit/) - “I always say this because ‘The Mama's Den’ has been, for me, an incredible community that I really think manifested my child, my daughter,” Melanie Fiona says.
- [Calling All Married Couples - Submit Your "Why I Said I Do" Stories!](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/calling-all-married-couples-submit-your-why-i-said-i-do-stories/) - We know that marriage is not just about the wedding day but the life you share together. Share you story why you said I do and took that step toward forever.
- [Our Story: Andrew & Shaquana](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/our-story-andrew-shaquana/) - Shaquana and I met in college at Virginia State University; we were introduced by a mutual friend on campus on "The Yard” at Foster Hall.
- [Our Story: Dionne & Andre](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/our-story-dionne-andre/) - Marriage is challenging enough without the added strain of medical issues. But Dionne and Andre learned to support each other through it all.
- [Our Story: Elizabeth & Justin](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/our-story-justin-elizabeth/) - Through dealing with infertility, death, caring for family members, etc we've learned just how ride-or-die we really are.
- [Our Story: Ab & Seth](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/our-story-seth-and-ab/) - I've learned that saying, "Well, this is just who I am," is no longer acceptable justification for anything. We have very different love languages.
- [Our Story: Danielle & Devon](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/our-story-the-fanfairs/) - Through the highs and the valleys, our “like” for each other is the foundation for our love, unity, and endurance. We are still figuring it out together.
- [Why I Said I Do: Middle School BFFs Turned Lovers - Donielle & Zaesha](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/whyisaidido-middle-school-bffs-turned-lovers-donielle-zaesha/) - We have weathered storms that were meant to break us, but we came out victorious every time.
- [Towanna & Areaka - Bennett College](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/hbcu-love/hbcu-love-towanna-areaka-bennett-college/) - Legacy is defined by the gifts of our ancestors, which is why HBCUs belong to all of us. But these sisters Towanna & Areaka epitomize the word legacy by following their great aunt's footsteps to Bennett College in Greensboro, NC. In the 1940s, their Aunt Anne Marie was the first in their family to attend
- [Jeff & Jennifer - Howard University](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/hbcu-love/hbcu-love-jeff-jennifer-howard-university/) - "When we met, we had no idea who we would be. Jeff was a sophomore in the School of Business at Howard; I was a freshman in Psychology. We met on a weekend community service trip to Florida sponsored by the Howard Chapter of the NAACP. That weekend was unforgettable and was probably the only
- [Beyoncé’s Homecoming: An Ode to the HBCU Experience](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/beyonces-homecoming-an-ode-to-the-hbcu-experience/) - A year after her groundbreaking performance at Coachella, Beyoncé releases Homecoming with reverence and as a love letter to HBCUs.
- [Our Story: Keith & Jenni](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/hbcu-love/our-story-keith-and-jenni-jacobs-southern-university-hbcu-couple/) - Our love story is no fairytale. However, it did begin one dark, gloomy night in 2006.
- [What I Learned From Couch Conversations, "Gender Roles" (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/what-i-learned-from-couch-conversations-gender-roles/) - What is the hardest part of bending traditional gender roles in marriage? I watched blacklove.com’s Couch Conversations and found out.
- [Moms Can't Have Nice Shit](https://blacklove.com/read/family/moms-cant-have-nice-shit/) - When it comes to kids, what’s theirs is theirs and what’s mine is theirs. But what happens when the kid breaks one of mommy’s favorite luxury “toys” one too many times? Every mommy has her breaking point, and I just reached mine.
- [Is Homeschooling the Future?](https://blacklove.com/read/family/is-homeschool-the-future/) - We talked to several Black families to get their perspective. Are you homeschooling your kids or nah?
- [What is the Most Surprising Thing About Being a Parent?](https://blacklove.com/read/family/what-is-the-most-surprising-thing-about-being-a-parent/) - We asked you, our Black Love community, “What’s the most surprising thing about being a parent?” This is what you had to say.
- [1 Year With 2 Kids Taught Me 3 Things](https://blacklove.com/read/family/1-year-with-2-kids-taught-me-3-things/) - With their first child, they rushed through an infancy ruled by development charts and worry. So when baby number two came along, they knew they wanted to do something different.
- [This Dad is Doing Something Special to Create Programming for Black Kids](https://blacklove.com/read/family/glen-henrys-mission-for-childrens-programming/) - When it comes to television programming for Black people, we all know that it’s difficult to find something on the screen that has been made for us, by us, that stars us. This isn’t to say that in recent years Hollywood hasn’t done it’s due diligence to diversify programming both in front of and behind the camera, but one demographic that has been left by the wayside just so happens to be Black children. Glen Henry is focused on changing that.
- [Strollers, High Heels, and Raising “Masculine” Men](https://blacklove.com/read/family/strollers-high-heels-and-raising-masculine-men/) - She didn’t see a problem with her son playing in her high heels. Her husband, on the other hand, felt differently.
- [Teaching Tools to Help You Homeschool Amid Coronavirus Outbreak](https://blacklove.com/read/family/teaching-tools-to-help-you-homeschool-amid-coronavirus-outbreak/) - In the wake of the coronavirus crisis, the balancing act of trying to do it all while creating lesson plans to teach our little ones has left many of us in a state of frenzy — but not to worry! We spoke with Charisse Sims, of Hidden Gems Preschool in Inglewood, CA, and she shared tricks and tips to master this homeschooling life like a pro.
- [10 Books to Help You Discuss Colorism With Your Kids](https://blacklove.com/read/family/10-books-to-help-you-discuss-colorism-with-your-kids/) - If you’re uncertain about how to have the colorism conversation with your children, one of the best ways to start a healthy dialogue is through reading. Here are 10 book recommendations to help you get started!
- [The Children’s Multivitamin System is Broken. Raffe Healthy Kids is on a Mission to Fix It](https://blacklove.com/read/family/childrens-multivitamin-system-and-raffe-healthy-kids/) - Child wellness and nutrition still needs attention, and through farm-to-kid multivitamins, Raffe Healthy Kids is dedicated to improving health for the next generation.
- [JOOLS TV Creators Justin & Patrice Brim on Turning the Loss of Their Son Into a Legacy](https://blacklove.com/read/family/jools-tv-creators-on-turning-loss-of-son-into-legacy/) - Black Love caught up with Justin and Patrice Brim to delve deeper into their journey and discover what lies ahead for the incredible duo.
- [Talking About Sex With Our Kids: A Comprehensive Guide by Age Group](https://blacklove.com/read/family/comprehensive-guide-talking-about-sex-with-our-kids/) - By equipping our children with the right information, we empower them to make informed, healthy decisions about their bodies and relationships.
- [Why Birth Stories From Black Women Matter](https://blacklove.com/read/family/why-birth-stories-from-black-women-matter/) - Based in Columbus, Ohio, birthing doulas Laurel Gourrier and Danielle Jackson of Birth Stories in Color share insightful information for expecting parents on ways to have a peaceful birthing experience.
- [Naomi Osaka vs. Serena Williams Champions Black Sisterhood Even in the Midst of Competition](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/naomi-osaka-vs-serena-williams-champions-black-sisterhood-even-in-the-midst-of-competition/) - We have seen time and again how a sisterhood can grow or fail when Black women are pitted against each other in different industries.
- [Blavity and AfroTech's CEO Shares This Advice With Fellow Women Bosses: Leave Room for Love](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/blavity-and-afrotechs-ceo-shares-this-advice-with-fellow-women-bosses-leave-room-for-love/) - Find someone who supports your goals and dreams while respecting your independence — they will be your best partner.
- [C-Suite Elite! These Black Women are Changing the Game in the Sports World](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/c-suite-elite-these-black-women-are-changing-the-game-in-the-sports-world/) - Let’s honor these women bosses and their journeys to securing these highly coveted positions within sports and how they’re making their own plays.
- [Shan Boodram on the Power of Owning Your Sexuality and Building Sexual Confidence](https://blacklove.com/read/shan-boodram-on-revolutionizing-your-sex-life-by-owning-your-sexuality/) - For Sexual Health Awareness Month, we chatted with certified sex educator Shan Boodram on why women need and deserve to have a healthy sexual appetite.
- [Letter From The Editor: Codie Elaine Oliver](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/letter-from-the-editor-codie-elaine-oliver/) - Welcome to blacklove.com! Two years ago, my husband, Tommy, and I created the Black Love television series which airs on the Oprah Winfrey Network. It has meant the world to me to be able to travel with my husband to city after city talking to married couples about their relationships and their journeys through love. What happens when we do not see ourselves positively represented in entertainment and in the media is that we believe what we are told about who we are. It was so important to me to impact that narrative, that we created the series with our own money and edited the first season at our dining room table –– before OWN picked it up. We will forever be indebted to the couples who told us their stories without knowing what the end result would be. And even through that beautiful journey, we always knew that the show was just one small glimpse into our love stories. With that truth in our heart, my husband and I, along with our incredible team, have now created blacklove.com, a new space to gather and share even more of our stories. Black Love features married couples talking about what it takes to make a marriage work, but it doesn’t take long to realize that “success” in relationships requires a lot of us. It requires maturity. It requires perspective. It requires patience, forgiveness, compromise, humility, and self-love. If we’re lucky we develop those traits long before we meet “the one” –– but it’s never too late to be the happiest, healthiest version of yourself. With this in mind, we hope we’ve created blacklove.com as a place where each of us can explore who we are even more deeply. Our backgrounds, our challenges, our pain, and our lessons connect us, but we are nothing if we do not learn from them. Tommy and I set out to build a place that is “360 degrees of Black love” –– as he puts it. We’ve gathered voices who inspire us and those we admire to share their journeys. Our aim is that these voices empower each of us to be the best version of ourselves and equip us with the tools and information mainstream media doesn’t tell us. Want an example? Start with the myth of the Black Marriage Crisis. You, our Black Love community, have been so generous with your feedback. You talk about Black Love, the series, on your social media, and when we’ve been on the road with Black Love, you have shown up in droves to tell us what it means to you. Please, don’t stop there. Check out blacklove.com, tell us what you love, what you hate (we can take it), and what you’d like to see. You can even become a contributor by submitting your own story. Together we can provide a healthy foundation for our relationships and our families. With so much love, Codie Elaine Oliver @codieco
- [Ready for More 'Black Love'? Watch the New Season 3 Teaser](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/ready-for-more-black-love-watch-the-new-season-3-teaser/) - It's almost that time! Season 3 of "Black Love" returns on August 10th. Watch the new teaser!
- ['Black Love' Isn't Just a Show for Me, It's an Answered Prayer — Watch the New Season 3 Trailer (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/black-love-isnt-just-a-show-for-me-its-an-answered-prayer-watch-the-new-season-3-trailer-video/) - Season 3 of "Black Love" returns on August 10th, and we have a first look at the full trailer here.
- [The 'Black Love' Season 3 Full Trailer is Here – Watch and Get Excited!](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/the-black-love-season-3-full-trailer-is-here-watch-and-get-excited/) - Season 3 of “Black Love” is just a few weeks away, and now the full trailer for the hit OWN docu-series has arrived!
- [How ‘Black Love’ Really Helped My Marriage](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/how-black-love-really-helped-my-marriage/) - Writer and wife Raquelle Harris shares how the first two seasons of Black Love really helped prompt some crucial conversations between her and her husband
- [The Return of 'Black Love' and the Power of Allowing a Man to Lead](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/the-return-of-black-love-and-the-power-of-allowing-a-man-to-lead/) - Does a man need to pursue a woman for the relationship to work? Contributor Toni-Ann Craft reflects on the "Black Love" season 3 premiere.
- [How These 'Black Love' Couples Emerged From Darkness](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/how-these-black-love-series-couples-emerged-from-darkness/) - “Black Love” couples show that open and honest communication isn’t the only thing needed to get through hard times.
- ['Black Love' Bonus Clip: Justin and Joy on the Breakup That Brought Them Back Together Stronger](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/black-love-bonus-clip-justin-and-joy-on-the-breakup-that-brought-them-back-together-stronger/) - Joy always knew she was supposed to marry Justin. They met in college and had been dating for over three years before she realized they needed to break up. See, she didn't want to break up with him — he was the love of her life — but she understood that Justin had a lot more maturing to do before he could commit to the type of relationship she required.
- [A Look Back on Some of My Favorite Couples From Season 1 of ‘Black Love’](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/a-look-back-on-my-favorite-couples-from-season-1-of-black-love/) - The premiere of “Black Love” Season 4 is right around the corner and returning to our television screens on Saturday, September 5. As we wait in anticipation, let's look back to where it all started with Season 1.
- [7 Love Lessons I Learned From 'Black Love' Season 3](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/7-love-lessons-i-learned-from-black-love-season-3/) - This writer revisits 'Black Love' season 3 and reflects on the seven lessons he learned about building a healthy, long-lasting partnership.
- [These Are My Favorite Moments From 'Black Love' Season 2: Here's Why](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/heres-why-these-are-my-favorite-moments-from-black-love-season-2/) - 'Black Love' continues to share positive representations of healed love, second-chance love, and everything in between. Here's a look back at seven of my favorite moments from season 2.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: DeShun & Dwight](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-deshun-dwight/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple DeShun & Dwight.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Terri & Charles](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-terri-charles/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Terri & Charles.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Keith & Dionne](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-keith-dionne/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Keith & Dionne.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Kita & Joe](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-kita-joe/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Kita & Joe.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Zena & Tank](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-zena-tank/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Zena & Tank.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Dretona & Keith](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-dretona-keith/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Dretona & Keith.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Faith & Kenny](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-faith-kenny/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Faith & Kenny.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Ledisi & Ron](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-ledisi-ron/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Ledisi & Ron.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Ephraim & Renece](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-ephraim-renece/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Ephraim & Renece.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Erica & Karl](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-erica-karl/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Erica & Karl.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 5: Areva & Ernest](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-5-areva-ernest/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Friday, May 14th, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 5 couple Areva & Ernest.
- [Our Story: Courtney & Nate](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-courtney-and-nate/) - “We were platonic friends for a year until one Saturday after spending the entire day together... We kissed. Something about that kiss was so special, it not only changed the dynamic of our relationship, but changed our lives. One month after our first kiss we agreed to be together. Six months after going steady, Nate proposed. Five months after agreeing to marry him, we broke ground on our first home and six months after that we moved in. Now, here I am... living the life I always prayed for. A life I often feel undeserving of. Not the life of being in love, or married, or even a homeowner - I honestly would’ve been fulfilled without any of those things. But instead, a life of intention. Some people may be opposed to the rate at which we moved. Everything they call quick, we call it intentional. When a man recognizes and is sure about the life he wants to build with you and the things he wants to do for you, he does just that without hesitation. So here’s to you, My Love, for never hesitating or second guessing. For following through on every little thing you said you would do. You make all my dreams come true! When your heart finds a home, build one.”⠀ Reflections by Courtney B.
- [Our Story: Brandi & Chris](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-brandi-chris/) - So, we chose our family. We chose each other - on purpose. And then we committed to getting out of our own way, so that the light could reemerge. How my husband and I "got over:" We spit venom, temporarily. We wagged fingers, temporarily. We cried (a lot), temporarily. We called it quits, temporarily. We sought vengeance, temporarily. Then we recalled the permanence of what we agreed to (before ever making it down the aisle), and we stood in our choices. We accepted that our bad choices were as temporary as the emotions that prompted them and not a reflection of who we are. If anything, those choices just represent how reckless we can be when we're crazy enough to forget the abundance we've been blessed with.
- [Our Story: Kayla & Anthony](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-kayla-anthony/) - Anthony and I always hear we are #RelationshipGoals or #FamilyGoals from so many of our LA friends. It’s always funny to us because had they met us 10 years ago, we were anything BUT “Goal Worthy” We got married VERY YOUNG so you can only imagine how much of a Hot Mess we both were! 🙄 But looking back today, one thing our Young Love taught us was THE POWER OF GOD! We have been afforded the opportunity of watching how God can truly transform a person. We have seen each other at the lowest lows and the grace filled highs that only God can provide. I often tell people that I TRULY witnessed the Power of God through watching the transformation of Tony. Watching a man that I thought would NEVER change his selfish ways, submit to God through SINCERE prayers, allowed me to witness how GOD and PRAYER can change ANY situation! So, now we are quick to let people know that our #GoalsRelationship has ONLY sustained because GOD was the center of it ALL! We’ve seen his works and the couple you see today is ONLY a reflection of HIS Love, Grace, and Mercy!
- [Our Story: Jennifer & Jeff](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-jeff-jennifer/) - “This September we will have been married 7 years. Jeff came from a background where he was taught to honor women and God and made the decision to not have sex until he was married. When we met, I had been practicing abstinence as well for the past 6 years. Needless to say, our union on September 24, 2011 was definitely “worth the wait!” However, being deeply rooted in our faith and making the decision to wait to have sex until marriage, does not mean our marriage has not experienced its set of challenges. Having experienced and overcome the pain that comes with a miscarriage, fertility challenges, the loss of jobs, and the loss of a parent, we are not exempt from the things that could tear a marriage apart. People look at our relationship from the outside and always say, “You guys are goals.” We quickly remind them to not get caught up in the highlight reels of our lives on Instagram and encourage them to be their own relationship goals. Marriage is beautiful, it can be a lot of fun, but its also work. Yet we have found that there is nothing we cannot overcome by placing Christ first, and putting in the work for our marriage together. We refuse to allow life’s challenges to get in the way of our unity. Our unity, common mission and commitment to Christ keeps us moving forward and flourishing in our marriage. Together, we have traveled and served together in various countries, we preach the gospel together, pour into other couples, and we are each other’s very best friends.” Reflections by @mrjefftyler
- [Our Story: Nneka & Armond](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-nneka-armand/) - Black couples share their reflections on love and marriage. For Nneka & Armond, waiting until marriage to have sex created a stronger bond. "Before we got into a relationship with one another, we were just friends for about 7 years, which was great. Once we started courting, we made a decision to honor God and wait until marriage to have sex. This was one of the best decisions we made because it truly gave us a chance to cultivate a strong relationship, which set a solid foundation for our marriage, but it didn't make it perfect. By the time we got married, I was 1 month shy of turning 30 and quite used to doing things my own way, when, and how I wanted to do them. So we definitely ran into a few challenges and power struggles completely merging our lives together! And honestly, I had a bit of an issue with submission because although I was very aware of the scripture that says wives should submit to their husbands, I was only half on board with it lol. The word submission always came off to me like it was about the man controlling everything and the woman not having a say. That didn't sit well with me. But I learned it wasn't about that at all... it was about allowing him to take leadership in our marriage, not silencing my voice. Knowing that he was submitted to God first and foremost made that a lot easier for me to do. And when I think back on it, our decision to remain celibate was like practice in submission. Although the decision was a joint one, he definitely took the lead with keeping us on track. Do we agree on every single thing? Not at all -- but I love and respect him and he has the same love and respect for me." Reflections by @how2dateGodsway
- [Our Story: Sopha & Anthony](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-anthony-sopha/) - LETS BE REAL RIGHT QUICK. Relationships are never easy. They are processes that must be worked at every single day. It's just like banking. You must invest to see a profit. It took me a long time to understand that. Let me tell you. Marriage is just the same. My wife and I have times where we can argue for a majority of the day, but we never walk out on one another. We may get on each others nerves from time to time, but we never walk out on one another. I may say hurtful things from time to time. She may do things that I don’t understand. But we don't walk out on one another. The beautiful thing about marriage is the fact that it is two imperfect people coming together to live life as God intended them to. Full of love, sacrifice, selflessness, and community. Do we do that all the time? HECK NO, but everyday God blesses us with another chance to strive towards it, and that's what we’ll do. Whatever you love, put your all into it and you will see the benefits flow. To my lovely wife @livedeeplyrooted I thank you for being a woman of love and selflessness where ever you go. You already know what it is, I’ll bust heads for you. In the name of Jesus of course lol 🤗 Reflections by @rushanthony
- [Our Story: Malaika & Justin](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-justin-malaika/) - You go from being single your whole life and then one day it all changes. Now you have a person who is literally apart of you. It changes every aspect of your life. "Let's talk growing pains!!!!! Many people don't realize that going into a marriage you're literally going from one extreme to the next. You go from being single your whole life and then one day it all changes. Now you have a person who is literally apart of you. It changes every aspect of your life. Think about it, we are two different individuals, We have different likes and dislikes, different things that irritate us, different desires, we come from different homes, upbringings, and backgrounds. All of these things shape who we are and our perceptions of life. Many of these things aren't truly exposed while dating like they are in a marriage. We all want happy and healthy marriages and in order to truly have that it takes work. You have a new responsibility to look in the mirror and how you contribute to your marriage and to learn to give your spouse what they need. We go into a marriage with our own list of expectations, but we have to be careful not to tear each other down when expectations aren't met. Your spouses imperfections WILL SHOW. And there is a growing pain of learning to uplift and not tear down when those weaknesses or imperfections happen to be tied to an expectation that isn't being met. We have to be careful about pointing out the others weaknesses, Instead we should help them navigate through them. Being a support to them with prayer, patience and compassion. There is no one else we'd rather go through this journey with. We've only been married for 3 months and we can literally write an entire book on what we've learned so far!! We realize that a healthy marriage requires growth and constant learning and we are cool with that!!" Refelections by @malaika_chaney
- [Our Story: Paige & Osagie](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-the-frays/) - “Expectations set the standard and the trap early on in our marriage. Instead of communicating the things that made us feel loved and cherished, we just assumed that since we always did it so well while we were dating that we already knew. We figured that since we knew each other’s heart that we could essentially read each other’s minds. Holding each other to standards of love that we didn’t even know about was a disaster and it led to frustration, disappointment, and resentment. After much forgiveness and extensions of grace, we discovered that the joy-filled marriage that we both envisioned was realizable and we just needed to communicate to get there. Nine years in, we’ve found that no conversation is too small to discuss and no misunderstanding is too insignificant to talk through. The strength of our love is heavily based on us being on the same page, so we fight together to make sure we are always in step.” Reflections by @fightingthefray
- [Our Story: Brandy & Maurice](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-the-wells/) - Our journey together started back in 2006. Back then, he was a collegiate athlete on the road to becoming a professional football player. Soon after dating we had our first daughter, and God didn’t see fit for him to go pro. We went through the motions together as he went through random jobs and growth changes as I did too. Life wasn’t easy as we parented young and never really discovered who we were as a couple. But our love for our daughter was unwavering and we pushed through with a common goal of making our family stable. We continued to push one another to returning back to school, dated over and over again, invested in learning how to love one another in the way we needed to be loved and continued to stay committed. Now we stand with a testimony and accomplishment of being an attorney and therapist who are deeply in love and are each other’s biggest fans. It's important for me to always remember where we started. Before the kids, before our careers, before the houses and joint bank accounts. But to remember the love that originated from doing better than what we had endured. Yes, our love started unstable, but it was that feeling of strife that made us persevere. Today, we continue to work to push past our fears with our common goal always staying aligned. We have now built a foundation that was purposely planted piece by piece with bricks. Five 1/2 years into this marriage, three daughters later and I wouldn't change a thing. My husband has loved me through and through. There were times I didn't believe and he carried us through. There were times I said forget it and he carried us through. Even at our lowest he carried us through. We kept our heads high, love on our side, and prayed up. We could have gave up when the fire was thick, but we knew once the fog cleared, favor would be on our side. Thank you Maurice for always carrying me, lifting me up, and loving me. I'll see to it that we will always get through. Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her. Reflections by Brandy Wells
- [Our Story: Sharelle & Kevin](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-sharelle-kevin/) - We really had no idea what to expect when we first got married because everyone’s journey is unique. But, we weren’t expecting God to shake up our lives a few months after “I do.” The news that my husband lost his job was hard. But, a couple months later learning we were pregnant left us torn between excited and scared. Months passed as my belly grew and so did the financial challenges. We watched our financial reserve deplete and eventually run dry. Bills piled up and eviction threats were close to becoming a reality. We never gave up but some days we were so weary and could barely muster the strength to communicate. Other days we lashed out in frustration without considering love and respect.⠀ We were working tirelessly to keep our union from crumbling under the intense pressure. We had no other choice but to lean on God. We prayed together daily, stayed close to our loving community and did our best to move forward. In return, God never failed us. Every month, just enough resources would somehow show up to keep the lights on, food on the table or gas in the car. Then about a month before the baby was due my husband landed a job that was more than we could have expected or asked. ⠀ Looking back, I can now see that God was shaking us up to move us along. The restoration and blessings that have come out of those dark times have intimately bonded us unlike anything we’ve ever experienced in our relationship. God was testing us so that we would be prepared to receive the blessings that were on the other side! Reflections by Sharrelle Guyton
- [Our Story: India Marie & B-Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-b-love-india-marie/) - India and I met at an alter ego party in college in 2010. The kicker is she was a freshman, and I was in my first year of grad school (it's just four years people, lol). Anyway, her alter ego was Big Booty Judy, and she did such a good job making the costume she had me convinced that her butt was real, WRONG, haha! Despite me finding out her butt was fake, we continued to date. I found out not only was she mature and always fashionable, but she was full of ambition and had so much potential to be whatever she decided to be. Even though I knew how special she was (and remains) it took some breakups and forgiveness from India for me to finally get it together and realize that she is my rock, best friend, biggest supporter, and love of my life. She is always in my corner encouraging me, and right by my side in case I need help. We got married in Nov. 2014 and now we are expecting our first child in March 2018. No matter how tough marriage can sometimes prove to be, we know we are in this together and our love is forever. That's why I said, ‘I do.’ Reflections by B-Love
- [Our Story: Crista & Algenon](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/black-love-stories-crista-algenon/) - Marriage is a commitment contract that must continuously be renewed and reaffirmed. You must continue to support the foundation on which you started and build from there. Algenon and I had our first child in 2004 and we got married in 2005, when he was 23 and I was 19. We were naive about everything BUT we made the choice and took a leap of faith. No matter the trials and tribulations we have experienced, there is a force of nature that continues to pull us together and strengthens our unbreakable bond. We grew up together and had to navigate the real world in our most formative years. As hard as it was, there is no one I would rather walk this journey with. We have accepted each other as we have changed along the way and it’s the love and support we have for each other that allows us to continue to grow! Even bad days are better with your friend and lover. I said I do in the beginning because I was a young girl in love! But I continue to make that commitment because what we have built is truly a blessing. My love for my husband is immeasurable and every day I am grateful for our journey together. Reflections by Crista
- [Our Story: Faune & Derek](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-derek-and-faune/) - Faune: I said I do because Derek had all of the characteristics I wanted in a life partner and when I prayed for myself I found myself praying for him as well. He was always there for every pivotal transitional moment in my life since I was 16 years old. I felt God's joy when I was around him, I could never stay mad at him. I knew I loved him and he made it clear that he loved me. I wanted children that would have him as their father. I really loved his family and being around them. He wanted to grow as a man and we kept growing together. We got better as individuals together. We shared the same vision for life, passion, goals, interests, and faith in God. Life felt more full when I was with him. Derek: When I imagined my life I couldn't imagine it without her. The key to 'I do' is to have the revelation that it's not just at the altar. 'I do' is a decision everyday of your life. Many believe Love is a feeling. And it is...but that alone won't be the foundation for a successful relationship. Love is a decision. And to decide is to kill off all other options. When you say I do what you're really saying is you trust what God has purposed in your life. Faune always pushed me to be great, she has always been my favorite person to create with, she's the funniest person I know, I love her and her family, she is my rib that protects vital organs, and I knew she would be the best mother to our children. I prayed that God would bring us together and allow me the privilege of being her husband.
- [Our Story: Amanda & Quincy](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-amanda-and-charles/) - We have gone to great lengths to make an adventure out of our marriage. Amanda and I have had an interesting journey to the altar. We met during my last year in law school. We were friends and dated for 6 months before I asked her to be my girlfriend. Then I graduated from law school and found a great job that paid well. It was the most money that anyone in my family had ever made. I'll be honest; I was feeling myself. But Amanda wasn't feeling it at all; I had gotten to big for my britches. So we decided to end our relationship after a year while both remaining in DC. Although we lived a couple of blocks apart, and rode the same metro lines, we managed to not see each other for an entire year. A lot had changed during that year. Amid the financial credit crises, I had been furloughed from my "high paying" job, and my parents were going through a nasty divorce. That year of furlough was a year of reflection for me. It was an opportunity for me to be introspective about each aspect of my life. So that when Amanda reached out to me after a year of not speaking or seeing each other, I answered the phone with more humility. After that phone call in December, Amanda and I pressed the reset button. We started out as friends and then became more than friends again. A short 4 years later, we married on August 9, 2014. In my vows, I promised to create adventure from boredom and dream up schemes that will either make our lives better or give us a great story to tell. 3 and half years into our marriage, Amanda and I have found great adventure in the many journeys we have taken together. From moving across the country to supporting each other during bar prep to overcoming unemployment and getting cast for commercials on TV (we did that!), we have gone to great lengths to make an adventure out of our marriage. Reflections by @everyone_calls_me_q
- [Our Story: Angel & Jason](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-jason-angel/) - We are Jason and Angel Scott. We met on a blind date almost 24 years ago. My best friend from high school said she had someone for me to meet and gave me his number. It took me two months to call him. One day I was at home bored and decided to page him, he was out with another friend and said he had been waiting for me to call him. So he took the friend home and called me when he got in. We talked on the phone for two weeks before we met. When we met, it was love at first sight. We have been together since. I had a little girl at the time and he knew if he wanted to talk to me it was a package deal. I had been through hurt in a previous relationship with my daughter's father and was very hesitant about giving my heart to someone again. Jason broke me down and after four months of dating, he asked me to marry him. I said no the first time. He asked again, four months later and I finally said yes. I was looking for consistency, which he was providing, but again I didn't want to be hurt again. He was a very nice guy from the beginning, it was just me being very cautious. We got married two years later and have been together since we first met. I am so thankful I gave love a second try. I love the relationship that with God we have developed. Now it hasn't been without bumps in the road, we had a married lady trying to talk to my husband when he was trying to invite her and her troubled relationship to our marriage fellowship at our previous church. This was the most hurtful time in our relationship. If it wasn't for God and our church that we used to attend, I am not sure we would still be here. We want to share that if your marriage is going to make it past a serious conflict, you must have forgiveness in your heart, commitment, loving communication and redefine your household guidelines relating to your marriage. You must put guidelines in place to affair-proof your marriage. One thing I learned is- hurt people, like to hurt people. With God at the center of our relationship, it caused me to not be selfish and see the root cause of this problem which was my husband thought he was strong enough to stand on his own and he could help save the world. Now when we speak with couples who have challenges we do it as a team through our business we started in 2016 Focused Marriage, Inc. (www.focusedmarriages.com) We love to Coach marriages to Victory, this is our passion and we served our previous church and our current church for over 15 years combined assisting couples. We love to let couples know that marriage can work when you work have guidelines in place. It's work, but fun.
- [Our Story: Clavon & Courtney](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-clavon-courtney/) - I NEVER wanted to be married. My parents divorced when I was 4-years-old, and although I grew up around amazing married couples, especially my loving grandparents, I did not feel like it was something I wanted for my life. I feared divorce before I allowed myself to enjoy the thought of marriage. I was apprehensive
- [Our Story: Marvin & Deya](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-marvin-deya-anamanya/) - Marvin and I met in college at Morgan State University. We were actually in the same Social Warfare Policy class with Dr. Gadsden. He always sat in the back of the class, and I always sat in the front. During college, we were strictly friends and only chatted occasionally. At the time, he had a
- [Our Story:  Brazley & Deanna](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-brazley-deanna-barnes/) - Deanna "Dee" and I met on “The Set” at Florida A&M University during Freshman Orientation Week. “The Set” is comparable to “The Yard” of any HBCU. During our initial meeting, I actually thought a couple of her friends were cuter, and I later found out she felt the same, yikes! So, for the first month
- [Our Story: Frederick & Kaneisha](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-frederick-and-kaneisha-larry/) - “God’s favor is tried and true, and as long as we trust and believe in his word, we will walk into our destiny.” This statement is a true testimony to our relationship and an understanding of how two souls became one after many years. Our meeting was one that we will never forget. While in
- [Our Story: Damon & Jennifer](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-damon-and-jennifer-lynch/) - I’ll never forget the first day of the spring 2003 quarter my freshman year at Central State University. Fall quarter began promising, but that winter quarter was a bear. The ice-cold cornfields in the Midwest broke me down. I was planning on telling my mother that I wasn’t coming back to CSU after the school
- [Our Story: Matthew & Marnel](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-matthew-marnel/) - My wife, Marnel, and I met in 2002 as graduate students in the Department of Communication, Culture, and Media Studies at Howard University (Ahhhh HU!). She was smart, beautiful, with a large majestic afro that gave her a glorious presence in every room. We were both in our early 20s, and I worked as a
- [Our Story: Roderick & Cherise](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-roderick-cherise/) - The year was 1995. The place was Tougaloo College. We met on a “he wants to meet you but hasn’t said anything” type of vibe. Just a few weeks after learning his interest in me, I approached Rod when I noticed him sitting outside of the library. He will tell you I was quite bold in my approach. On the other hand, I remain true to the situation being a very humble introduction of myself. What we can both agree on is right there in that moment we instantly clicked. Before our meeting, he spotted me walking from the financial aid office wearing a sundress, an anklet and exuding “The Last Dragon” glow. He said that moment solidified it all as he thought to himself, I was going to be his wife. I was clueless to his proclamation, but yet I was quietly enjoying the late-night conversations about religion, politics, family, and poetry. A few months passed, and we became a safe place to land for each other. However, since I was committed to someone back home, he respected the boundaries of our relationship to fully express his heart's deepest desire. EXCEPT for this one time… One night cemented our deep love for each other without us even knowing. I allowed Rod to sneak upstairs into my all girl’s dorm room, and we stayed up all-night talking for hours. We shared poetry, and he sang Luther Vandross songs while massaging my soul. I felt safe in my vulnerability with him, and he also felt safe with me. What a night! It's important to mention that Rod and I never shared any physical intimacy while in college. Not even that night of soul massaging. Time passed, and trauma erupted in Detroit, which prompted me to transfer to Eastern Michigan University to be closer to my family. A few years after our initial meeting and my departure from Tougaloo, I received a letter that would later change the scope of what I envisioned for my husband. Rod poured his heart out to me, and I didn't respond until nearly three years later. Six years after his secret proclamation and two and a half years after I became a mom to Isaiah. After many years apart, I missed my old friend. But once we reconnected via letters and a few phone calls, he flew to Detroit to visit me and meet my son Isaiah. When Rod exited the plane, he smelt like Frankincense and myrrh essential oils. My heart skipped a beat toward my forever friend and soon to be the love of my life. It was clear at that moment this was the "He" I'd written about in my poetry. The one I prayed for and who proclaimed his undying love for me in that letter I received in 1997. This was the "He" who promised himself that if ever given another chance, he wouldn't let me get away. With time finally, on our side, we were indeed ready for love! Growing up, neither of us had blaring examples of what love and a successful marriage were, so we weren't necessarily shopping for a spouse in college. Early on, we experienced challenges resulting from Isaiah, and I moving to Richmond from Detroit. During this time, I felt I couldn’t be myself in communicating differences of opinion without being accused of being cold or dismissive. But I have come to understand the complexities of stress brought about by Rod giving up the freedoms of being a poetic single free bird and becoming a married father and leader of his family. Because of the obstacles we previously faced, we now understand what doing the work means to sustain a healthy marriage. We understand to have a happy, functional family with a close connection for generations to come; we must do the ‘work.’ We know that our marriage takes a conscious commitment to avoid getting caught up in the day to day requirements of adulting with children. But each day, we're continuing to learn that we must consistently invest in our relationship to remain connected as a solid unit and foster a lasting love. Reflections by @cutslikeagirl
- [Our Story: Larry & Marita](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-larry-marita/) - Larry and I met at Norfolk State University in Norfolk, Virginia, "Behold the Green and Gold!" Our freshman year, we boarded a bus to go to a basketball game. I immediately knew after seeing Larry that I would marry him! We started dating soon after we met in 1970 and became engaged in our junior
- [Our Story: Clyde & Jasmin](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-clyde-jasmin/) - I fell in love with Clyde almost 50 years ago during the summer of 1971. I was a senior cheerleader at Terry High School in Terry, Mississippi, and Clyde was a city boy who won my teenage adoration because his voice sounded like Gold on the telephone. When he first started to drive down from
- [We Want Your "Transparent Tuesday" Stories!](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/all-couples-to-the-front-we-want-your-transparent-tuesday-stories/) - Can we be honest? Relationships take work. It requires compromise and sacrifice and we know firsthand experiences help people understand that more than anything. Transparent Tuesdays is a day to relay some personal hurdles that we’ve had to overcome in our relationships.
- [Our Story: Felicia & Karega](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/our-story-karega-and-felicia-bailey-hampton-university-hbcu-couple/) - Uniquely enough, though our love was cultivated within HBCU culture, our love story did not start at Hampton University.
- [Get Down With Black-Owned Businesses and Products This Holiday Season](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/get-down-with-black-owned-business-and-products-this-holiday-season/) - Looking for a great gift? Check out the Black Love Team sourced and approved list of Black-owned businesses and products.
- [Most Memorable Holiday Moments From the Black Love Team and Community](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/most-memorable-holiday-moments-from-the-black-love-team-and-community/) - This is the season to celebrate love, gratitude, growth, and family. With that said, members of the Black Love team, and our BL online community, have shared their favorite holiday memories and their most cherished holiday moments.
- [Fantastic Frenzy: How to Make Your Holiday 'Friendsmas' Dinner Fun](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/fantastic-frenzy-how-to-make-your-holiday-friendsmas-dinner-fun/) - Not heading home for the holidays? Here are four hacks to make this year’s holiday "Friendsmas" dinner with friends fabulous, flawless and fun.
- [Black Love's Last-Minute Gift Guide for All of Your Holiday Needs](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-loves-last-minute-gift-guide-for-all-of-your-holiday-needs/) - 'Tis the season! Snag these last-minute holiday finds that anyone on your gift list is sure to love.
- [Christmas Love Songs That Speak to Your Heart](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/christmas-love-songs-that-speak-to-your-heart/) - blacklove.com has the ultimate playlist to get you in the festive spirit.
- [10 Gifts for Him for the Holiday Season](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/10-gifts-for-him-for-the-holiday-season/) - With the hope of brighter days ahead politically and socially, we here at blacklove.com are thinking of how to make this holiday season memorable for a special guy in your life.
- [Shop Our Amazon Holiday Gift Guide Filled With Black-Owned Businesses!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/shop-our-amazon-holiday-gift-guide-filled-with-black-owned-businesses/) - This holiday season, Black Love’s got you covered with a one-stop shop for everyone in your life. Shop our Christmas gift guide with Amazon and, of course, check out the Black-owned recommendations. Happy shopping!
- [Black Love's 2021 Christmas Movie Must-Watch List](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-loves-2021-christmas-movie-must-watch-list/) - What’s better than a Christmas movie? A Black Christmas movie, and we can’t get enough of the representation and soul that our holiday classics are filled with.
- [Merry Christmas From the Black Love Team!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/merry-christmas-from-the-black-love-team/) - Happy holidays from us! We’re grateful for each and every one of you who support the Black Love Team.
- [Let's Talk Juneteenth: Origin, Meaning, and Traditions for the Next Generation](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/lets-talk-juneteenth-origin-meaning-and-traditions-for-the-next-generation/) - Happy Juneteenth, Black Love Fam! As we prepare to celebrate Juneteenth, we’re sharing with you ways that you can enjoy the holiday as well.
- [Salud! Pairings for National Wine and Cheese Day From Black Sommeliers](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/salud-pairings-for-national-wine-and-cheese-day-from-black-sommeliers/) - It’s National Wine and Cheese Day, and our favorite Black sommeliers are sharing their go-to pairings for a day and experience you won’t forget.
- [Black Love's 2022 Holiday Gift Guide Presented By Mahogany](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/2022holidaygiftguide/) - It’s that time of the year again, fam! Check out our 2022 Holiday Gift Guide, presented by Mahogany, for all your shopping needs.
- [Meet the Sisters Hosting and Producing Food Network’s Series on Kwanzaa!](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/meet-the-sisters-hosting-and-producing-food-networks-series-on-kwanzaa/) - "The Kwanzaa Menu" premieres Monday, December 26th on FoodNetwork.com.
- [8 New Year's Resolutions Every Family Can Accomplish](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/8-new-years-resolutions-every-family-can-accomplish/) - Anytime we think about New Year's resolutions it’s always focused on the individual’s, a missed opportunity is not including your family.
- [7 Ways to Celebrate Valentine's Day Outside of Gifts and Chocolate](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/7-ways-to-celebrate-valentines-day-outside-of-gifts-and-chocolate/) - There are many other ways to reconnect and check in with your partner. Consider these suggestions to keep your relationship strong throughout the year.
- [Why Black Love Day Actually Isn't About Romantic Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/why-black-love-day-actually-isnt-about-romantic-love/) - Today marks the 30th anniversary of Black Love Day, but how much do you know about the origin?
- [Creating Holiday Traditions That Fit Your Life ](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/creating-holiday-traditions-that-fit-your-life/) - The holidays are here, and for some of us, it’s not about hopping on a plane to grandma’s house.
- [5 Facts on the History of Juneteenth](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-facts-on-the-history-of-juneteenth/) - Juneteenth at a glance. What it is and how to celebrate. Amid a national outcry against racial injustices and police brutality, it is one of the most-needed celebrations of the year.
- [Here’s Why Black Joy is an Act of Resistance](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/heres-why-black-joy-is-an-act-of-resistance/) - It's Black Joy Month! This past year was filled with immense grief, but we're leaning into joy. While pain may be a part of our experience, it is not our whole story, and this writer is rediscovering the beauty of black joy and challenging others to do the same.
- [The Black Vote is an Act of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-black-vote-is-an-act-of-black-love/) - This powerhouse family is driving a tremendous effort to empower Black communities, calling on millions to reclaim their rights and organize for change.
- [Black History Month: This Couple Created a Vegan Cafe to Honor Their Culture and Community](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-history-month-this-couple-created-a-vegan-cafe-to-honor-their-culture-and-community/) - This year, we’re paying homage to the rich history of the past while celebrating the change-makers of the future. Meet Nicole and Nicholas, the owners of Aunts et Uncles, a vegan cafe in Flatbush with a Caribbean twist.
- [Black History Month: This Mother and Son Founded a Vegan Soul-Food Restaurant in Harlem](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-history-month-this-mother-and-son-founded-a-vegan-soul-food-restaurant-in-harlem/) - An inside look at a vegan restaurant changing the culture of soul food in Harlem, and the mother and son who are at the forefront.
- [Black History Month: Meet The Mother and Daughter Building a Marketplace for Black-Owned Businesses](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-history-month-meet-the-mother-and-daughter-building-a-marketplace-for-black-owned-businesses/) - This year, we’re paying homage to the rich history of the past while celebrating the change-makers of the future. Meet Juana and Blair, co-founders of Post 21, a one-stop-shop for Black-owned businesses.
- [Stand by Me](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/stand-by-me-5/) - Karega and Felicia recount the day that their daughter Kamaiu SOL transitioned, and how their grief shaped their perspective on subject.
- [How The YOU Retreat Helped Me Declare Triumph Over My Trauma](https://blacklove.com/read/health/self-care/how-the-you-retreat-helped-me-declare-triumph-over-my-trauma/) - Empowering, transformative, and rewarding are the words to describe Black Love's YOU Retreat. This intimate experience held space for 100 women to share, advocate and embrace what healing looks and feels like.
- [The YOU Retreat Experience](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-you-retreat-experience-gallery/) - Relive The YOU Retreat, Black Love's first-ever women's wellness event created by our founder Codie Elaine Oliver to feature dynamic women in conversation around their journeys.
- [Shoniqua Shandai and KJ Smith Talk Self-Love and Mental Health at The YOU Retreat](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/shoniqua-shandai-and-kj-smith-talk-self-love-and-mental-health-at-the-you-retreat/) - What happens when you put two Black actresses killing it on television together on a panel to discuss how they got here? Pure magic!
- [Why Calling Off Your Engagement May Be the Best Thing for You](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/why-calling-off-your-engagement-may-be-the-best-thing-for-you/) - Engagement is supposed to be a joyous time, but what happens when those happy feelings are overshadowed by doubts, toxicity, or uncertainty?
- [What I Learned From Niecy Nash About Dating for Marriage](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/niecy-nash-top-tips-about-dating-for-marriage/) - Niecy Nash was at the Black Love Summit speaking truth and dropping jewels of knowledge about how she was dating for marriage, and so can you.
- [5 Things My Divorce Taught Me About Finding Inner Joy and Peace](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/divorce/5-things-my-divorce-taught-me-about-finding-inner-joy-and-peace/) - After two years of marriage, I am currently going through a divorce. Regardless of the outcome, there is something on the other side.
- [DeVon Franklin Talks Wellness, Divorce, and Still Believing in Love at Black Love Honors](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/divorce/devon-franklin-talks-wellness-divorce-and-still-believing-in-love-at-black-love-honors/) - Everybody talks about Black love, but nobody talks about Black divorce. Sometimes, Black love looks like pain — but that doesn’t make it any less powerful.
- [What My Divorce Taught Me About Self-Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/divorce/what-my-divorce-taught-me-about-self-love/) - Self-love specialist Chenoa Maxwell had a decision — was divorce the right answer for her? Find out what she learned about self-love after divorce.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Kandi & Todd](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-kandi-todd-2/) - Join Kandi & Todd in Black Love Season 3 as they share their inspiring story of love, partnership, and building a lasting connection on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: David & Tamela](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-david-tamela/) - Discover David & Tamela's beautiful love story in Black Love Season 3. Learn about their bond, challenges, and triumphs on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Rebecca & Terry](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-rebecca-terry/) - Rebecca & Terry's love story unfolds in Black Love Season 3. Discover their heartfelt journey of love and resilience on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Tommicus & LeToya](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-tommicus-letoya/) - Meet Tommicus & LeToya in Black Love Season 3. Experience their inspiring journey of love, challenges, and growth on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Ricky & Amy](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-ricky-amy/) - Black Love returns to OWN for Season 3 on Saturday, August 10th, but before then, we're introducing the Black Love community to this season's couples.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Chris & Mattie](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-chris-mattie/) - Meet Chris & Mattie from Black Love Season 3. Dive into their inspiring journey of love, commitment, and growth on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Kevin & Melissa](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-kevin-melissa/) - Explore Kevin & Melissa's journey in Black Love Season 3. Witness their powerful story of love, faith, and commitment on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Salli & Dondre](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-salli-dondre/) - Black Love returns to OWN for Season 3 on Saturday, August 10th, but before then, we're introducing the Black Love community to this season's couples.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Elisha & Michael](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-elisha-michael/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, we're introducing the Black Love community to the season 3 couples.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Quincy & Deondray](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-quincy-deondray/) - Quincy & Deondray share their love story in Black Love Season 3. Witness their inspiring journey of love and resilience on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Egypt & Mike](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-egypt-mike/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, we're introducing the Black Love community to the season 3 couples.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Michael & Mecca](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-michael-mecca/) - Meet Michael & Mecca from Black Love Season 3. Discover their inspiring journey of love, partnership, and growth on blacklove.com!
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Justin & Joy](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-justin-joy/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, we're introducing the Black Love community to the season 3 couples.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 3: Kathy & Luther](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-3-kathy-luther/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, we're introducing the Black Love community to the season 3 couples.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Anthony & Melanie](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-anthony-melanie/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Anthony and Melanie.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love’ Season 4: Jazmyn & Dulè](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-jazmyn-dule/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Jazmyn & Dulè.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Terrence & Joy](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-terrence-joy/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Joy and Terrence.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Bill & Kristen](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-bill-kristen/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Bill and Kristen.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Glen & Yvette](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-glen-yvette/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Glen and Yvette.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Dana & Tana](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-dana-tana/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Dana and Tana.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Jemele & Ian](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-jemele-ian/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Jemele and Ian.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Leslie & Joe](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-leslie-joe/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Leslie and Joe.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Brandi & Kareem](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-brandi-kareem/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Brandi and Kareem.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Tracci & Tony](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-tracci-tony/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Tracci and Tony.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Angel & Marcus](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-angel-marcus/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Angel and Marcus.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Sorouje & Aisha](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-aiyana-ayize/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Sorouje and Aisha.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Brian & Ariana](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-brian-ariana/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Brian and Ariana.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Roxanne & Nikolai](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-roxanne-nikkolai-2/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Roxanne and Nikolai.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Aiyana & Ayize](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-aiyana-ayize-2/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Aiyana and Ayize.
- [Meet the Couples of 'Black Love' Season 4: Felicia & Karega](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/meet-the-couples-of-black-love-season-4-felicia-karega/) - With the return of Black Love on OWN, Saturday, September 5, we're introducing the Black Love community to season 4 couple, Felicia and Karega.
- [Have You Watched Black Love Live?!](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-is-here/) - To kick off season two of the BLACK LOVE series, producers and show creators Codie & Tommy Oliver invited couples from the series, including Sterling K. Brown & Ryan Michelle Bathe, and Devale & Khadeen Ellis, Tamia & Grant Hill, Kirk & Tammy Franklin, Taj & Eddie George and more for an exclusive Clips & Conversation event.
- [I Wanted to Get Married, But I Didn’t Know What That Looked Like. Enter: 'Black Love'](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/i-wanted-to-get-married-but-i-didnt-know-what-that-looked-like-enter-the-black-love-series/) - What does a long, healthy marriage look like? Jared Williams didn’t know, until he saw the Black Love series.
- [There’s No Such Thing as the Perfect Love Story](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/theres-no-such-thing-as-the-perfect-love-story/) - Love takes time and hard work. blacklove.com contributor Briana Barner reflects on her marriage, and how the couples on the latest episode of Black Love prove there's no way around it.
- [Maybe I Need to Take a Page Out of Mecca Elliot's Book and Shoot My Shot to Find My Husband!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/maybe-i-need-to-take-a-page-out-of-mecca-elliots-book-and-shoot-my-shot-to-find-my-husband/) - Contributor Dom Brown reflects on the latest episode of Black Love and ponders if it’s time for her and more women to take more of an active role in approaching men.
- [You're Married Until You’re NOT Married](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/you-are-married-until-youre-not-married/) - Contributor Courtney Williams shares how the latest episode of Black Love was a reflection of the darkest time in her marriage. Find out how she and her husband pushed through the storm to find their way back to happiness!
- [How My Nag Journal and ‘Black Love’ Are Making Me a Better Wife](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/how-my-nag-journal-and-black-love-are-making-me-a-better-wife/) - blacklove.com Contributor Toni-Ann Craft talks nagging, strong-willed women, and "Black Love."
- [Stopping the Cycle: Troy & Tommi Vincent's Commitment to Combating Domestic Violence Starts at Home First](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/stopping-the-cycle-troy-tommi-vincents-commitment-to-combating-domestic-violence-starts-at-home-first/) - The Vincents turned their pain into purpose. They open up to Black Love contributor Brittney Oliver about how their work in domestic violence prevention and awareness has also made them stronger as a couple.
- [Staying Sexually Attracted to Your Spouse: 4 Couples Share How They Navigate Weight Gain, Health Issues and So Much More](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/staying-sexual-attracted-to-your-spouse-4-couples-share-how-they-navigate-weight-gain-health-issues-and-so-much-more/) - Many married couples deal with dying passion and a loss of physical attraction. So, what’s the secret to staying attracted to your spouse for the long haul? blacklove.com contributor Raquelle Harris spoke to four couples to find out!
- [Shevon Nieto Chose Love Over Her Career. Here’s What Happened Next](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/choosing-love-over-her-career/) - She was preparing to compete in her third Olympic Games when the unimaginable happened: there had been an accident. The love of her life was paralyzed from the neck down.
- [Men’s Round Table Brings Transparency, Connectivity, and Brotherhood](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/mens-round-table/the-mens-roundtable-brings-transparency-connectivity-brotherhood/) - The series features 8 episodes that offer a range of perspectives through impactful conversations.
- [Get Comfortable Setting Firm Boundaries in Relationships](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/get-comfortable-setting-firm-boundaries-in-relationships/) - Boundaries are essential, and these women understood the assignment when communicating their desires to their husbands.
- ["Men’s Round Table" is Back for Season 2!](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/mens-round-table/mens-roundtable-is-back-for-season-2/) - Get all the details on Season 2 and where to stream every episode today!
- [Black Men Need Circles of Trust and Transparency. "Men's Round Table" is That](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/mens-round-table/black-men-need-circles-of-trust-and-transparency-mens-round-table-is-that/) - The support that these brothers provided each other is inspiring enough to reproduce and replicate in circles all over the country.
- [Why Hearing Black Men Discuss the Nuances of Parenting and Co-Parenting Matters](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/mens-round-table/why-hearing-black-men-discuss-the-nuances-of-parenting-and-co-parenting-matters/) - Fatherhood will change your life, and we need to talk about that more.
- [Black Men: You Are the Blueprint](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/mens-round-table/black-men-you-are-the-blueprint/) - We’re our own guides to understanding what’s on the other side of the taboo that is emotional vulnerability.
- [Hosea Chanchez Talks "The Game," Toxic Masculinity, and How Portraying Malik Helped Him Heal](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/hosea-chanchez-talks-the-game-toxic-masculinity-and-how-portraying-malik-helped-him-heal/) - For years, Chanchez has portrayed Malik Wright. Now, he’s opening up and letting us get to know Hosea.
- [These Black-Owned Businesses Are Making History Right Now](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/community/these-black-owned-businesses-are-making-history-right-now/) - Learn about these Dynamic Duos that are creating Black history right now in their own corners of the world.
- [Black Love's New Digital Series "The Rest is History" Shares the How We Met Stories You've Been Dying to Hear](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/black-loves-new-digital-series-the-rest-is-history-shares-the-how-we-met-stories-youve-been-dying-to-hear/) - If you’re a fan of Black Love Doc, you’re going to love our new web series: The Rest is History!
- [Truth: Becoming a Better Man Made Me a Better Partner](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/mens-round-table/truth-becoming-a-better-man-made-me-a-better-partner/) - As men, our egos try to convince us that financial stability solves all problems. But holding space for mental and emotional stability is paramount.
- ["The Rest Is History" Social Series Returns With a Focus on Friends](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-rest-is-history-social-series-returns-with-a-focus-on-friends/) - “The Rest Is History: Friendship Edition” explores the bonds that tie friends together, including intimate conversations, shared experiences, and emotional memories.
- [From South Carolina to L.A.: A Story of Brotherhood, Faith, and Success on "The Rest Is History"](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/brotherhood-faith-and-success-on-the-rest-is-history/) - J. Chris Rouse, Samuel A. Smoot, and Ar’Darius Stewart met in South Carolina and individually made their way to L.A., each chasing a dream.
- [5 Things Impacting Your Libido](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/5-things-impacting-your-libido/) - The status of your mental, physical and emotional health outside of the bedroom impacts the experience you may have within it.
- [Sex and Married Men](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/sex-and-married-men/) - We asked married men a few questions about sex: how has it changed, why it has changed and what would you like to do differently? See what they had to say!
- [Parenting From a Healed Place: Loving Your Queer Children Unconditionally](https://blacklove.com/read/family/parenting-from-a-healed-place-loving-your-queer-children-unconditionally/) - I wanted my mom to still love me, but I wanted to know that by opening up about my sexuality, she could actually love me more fully.
- [Oh Yes Son, Chilli's Talking to You: How 'No Scrubs' Redefined Dating](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/oh-yes-son-chillis-talking-to-you-how-no-scrubs-redefined-dating/) - Singer Rozonda ‘Chilli' Thomas reflects on TLC's groundbreaking women empowerment anthem, “No Scrubs,” and how it revolutionized dating.
- [Ashley Blaine Featherson on Why My Black is Beautiful and Yours is Too](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/standing-in-my-truth-why-my-black-is-beautiful-and-yours-is-too/) - Actress Ashley Blaine Featherson opens up about inner-peace, perseverance, and protecting her "Black Girl Magic" in Hollywood.
- [Black Love Live is Back! Watch Your Favorite Couples Dish on Sex, Love, and Marriage](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/black-love-live-is-back-watch-your-favorite-couples-dish-on-sex-love-and-marriage/) - Black Love Live is back! Watch as these three couples explore the nuances and complexities of building a solid foundation with your life partner in front of a live audience.
- [Tetona Jackson of ‘Boomerang’ on Her Personal Journey to Self-Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/tetona-jackson-of-boomerang-on-her-personal-journey-to-self-love/) - Tetona Jackson, leading actress of the Boomerang series, opens up about the evolution of her character Simone and the importance of starring in a show embodying the many complexities of the Black experience.
- [Lessons in Love: Jermaine Dupri on Why 'We Belong Together' Still Resonates 15 Years Later](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/lessons-in-love-jermaine-dupri-on-why-we-belong-together-still-resonates-15-years-later/) - On the 15th anniversary, Grammy award-winning producer and songwriter Jermaine Dupri opens up about the creative process behind bringing one of Mariah Carey's biggest hits to life, "We Belong Together."
- [The Marathon Continues: Remembering the Life and Legacy of Nipsey Hussle](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/the-marathon-continues-remembering-the-life-and-legacy-of-nipsey-hussle/) - One year after the untimely death of rapper and entrepreneur Nipsey Hussle “Tha Great,” we remember his life, love for the community, and indelible footprint. He ran his race masterfully. So, how do we continue his legacy?
- [Nia Long Talks Representation and Redefinition of Diversity in Hollywood and Beyond](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/nia-long-talks-representation-and-redefinition-of-diversity-in-hollywood-and-beyond/) - Veteran actress Nia Long talks healing in action: "We understand we are more powerful when we stand together."
- [Get a Sneak Peek of the Black Love Docuseries Returning to OWN in September!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/get-a-sneak-peek-of-the-black-love-docuseries-returning-to-own-in-september/) - The fourth season of the two-time NAACP Image Award-nominated docuseries celebrates Black love stories and what it takes to make a marriage last the long haul.
- [The Cast of 'Lovecraft Country' Weighs in on Racial Parallels in Today's Society](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-cast-of-lovecraft-country-weighs-in-on-racial-parallels-in-todays-society/) - Actors Jonathan Majors, Michael K. Williams, and Courtney B. Vance discuss "Lovecraft Country" emerging as a larger scale conversation of the 2020 social movements.
- [Tommy Oliver’s '40 Years a Prisoner' is a Story of Love, Family and Resilience](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/tommy-olivers-40-years-a-prisoner-is-a-story-of-love-family-and-resilience/) - Filmmaker Tommy Oliver premiered a four-year labor of love this week at the Toronto Film Festival with his upcoming HBO documentary "40 Years a Prisoner."
- [The Social Justice Now Film Festival: What it is and Why Everyone Should Watch](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-social-justice-now-film-festival-the-founders-the-moment-and-the-talk/) - Parents of Black children are looking for the words, and the Social Justice Now Film Festival provides narrative urgency.
- [Educating Ourselves: 6 Books About Institutionalized Racism](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/educating-ourselves-6-books-about-institutionalized-racism/) - blacklove.com Contributor Jared Williams breaks down 6 books that helped educate him on institutionalized racism in America.
- [The Social Justice Now Film Festival: The Indie Features](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-social-justice-now-film-festival-the-indie-features/) - Six films to look out for as the Social Justice Now Film Festival kicks off.
- [The Social Justice Now Film Festival: Must-See Panels and Conversations](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-social-justice-now-film-festival-must-see-panels-and-conversations/) - Luminaries from film, television, broadcasting, banking, activism, legal, and literary disciplines discuss strategy and inspire action during the Social Justice Now Film Festival.
- [A Mother's Day Ode to Our Favorite Black TV Moms](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/a-mothers-day-ode-to-our-favorite-black-tv-moms/) - Just in time for Mother's Day, here's a round-up celebrating our favorite Black TV moms from the '90s to the present day.
- [WWTD (What Would Tabitha Do) Ways We Can All Learn to Lead With Love Like Tabitha](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/wwtd-what-would-tabitha-do-ways-we-can-all-learn-to-lead-with-love-like-tabitha/) - Tabitha Brown taught us all a lesson in responding to negativity with empathy, beauty, and grace.
- [Name a Better Duo?! Movies We Love in Honor of Friendship Day](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/7-movie-friendships-we-love-most-in-honor-of-national-best-friends-day/) - To celebrate National Best Friends Day take a look at our favorite on-screen movie BFFs and reasons why we love them, from the “Flossy Posse” to detectives Marcus and Mike Lowery.
- ['Really Love' Co-Stars Kofi Siriboe and Yootha Wong-Loi-Sing Share Their Favorite Parts About Working Together](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/really-love-co-stars-kofi-siriboe-and-yootha-wong-loi-sing-share-their-favorite-parts-about-working-together/) - Black Love talked with "Really Love" co-stars Kofi Siriboe and Yootha Wong-Loi-Sing about filming in Chocolate City, the ability to make room for love while dreaming big, and what they enjoyed most about working together.
- [#SisterGoals! 5 Sisterhood Lessons We Can Learn From Chloe and Halle](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/sistergoals-5-sisterhood-lessons-we-can-learn-from-chloe-and-halle/) - It’s the sisterly love for us! From clapping back at Internet haters trying to dim their light, to walking the red carpet hand in hand, here’s why the duo is #SisterhoodGoals.
- ["Queen Sugar's" Nic Ashe on What's Next for Micah, Deep Healing for the Black Community, and More](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/queen-sugars-nic-ashe-on-whats-next-for-michah-deep-healing-for-the-black-community-and-more/) - Over the past five seasons, Nic has illustrated hard-hitting realities that Black boys and young men face every day, including police brutality, and searching for a greater purpose. This season, he’s helping us interrogate the intersection of masculinity and intimacy.
- [30 Books Written by Black Womanists and Feminists](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/30-books-written-by-black-womanists-and-feminists/) - As I continue to learn more about myself and exist in this world, I’m choosing to fill my cup with books that expand my knowledge as a Black woman having a human experience.
- [Galentine’s Day Vibes: How to Enjoy Valentine’s Day With Your Besties](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/galentines-day-vibes-how-to-enjoy-valentines-day-with-your-besties/) - Valentine's Day is the time to celebrate the loves of our lives — so don’t forget your friends! Here's how to celebrate Galentine's Day with your best gal pals.
- [A Psychic Predicted This Influencer Would Meet Her Husband, and She Was Right!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/a-psychic-predicted-this-influencer-would-meet-her-husband-and-she-was-right/) - Fam, let’s talk! How far would you go for love? Would you even want to know the future of your love life?
- [5 Mama Moments From Keke Palmer We're Gushing Over](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-mama-moments-from-keke-palmer-were-gushing-over/) - Keke Palmer is a mama now, y’all, and already giving us so many beautiful moments to look back on in this new journey of hers.
- [Coach Sydney Carter on Style, Haters, and Her Hopes for Women's Basketball](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/coach-sydney-carter-on-style-haters-and-her-hopes-for-womens-basketball/) - Coach Carter is known for slaying courtside, but the WNBA veteran isn’t new to this — she’s loved fashion and the game of basketball since she was a little girl.
- [5 Times Tiffany & Brett From "Love is Blind" Made Us Believe in Love Again](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/5-times-tiffany-brett-from-love-is-blind-made-us-believe-in-love-again/) - We’re excited to see how Tiffany & Brett will continue to unfold and grow after "Love is Blind," but their journey has definitely been a joy to witness so far.
- ["The Perfect Find" is Bringing Black Love to Summer!](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/the-perfect-find-is-bringing-black-love-to-summer/) - "The Perfect Find" trailer drops today — get exclusive news about the Netflix film from producers Tommy and Codie Elaine Oliver here!
- [Viola Davis & Julius Tennon on Black Love and Marriage: "Keep God at the Center"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/viola-davis-and-julius-tennon-on-black-love-and-marriage-keep-god-at-the-center/) - Viola Davis & Julius Tennon were the ICON Honorees at Black Love's inaugural Honors Brunch. Their love, dedication, and impact have blessed the world.
- [Trinity Simone is Dismantling Systems of Oppression and Uplifting Black Culture One Design At a Time](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/trinity-simone-is-dismantling-systems-of-oppression-and-uplifting-black-culture-one-design-at-a-time/) - At 14, Trinity Simone created the Black Vibe Tribe. Just six years later, her clothing line is now featured at Nordstrom.
- [Education and Empowerment: 10 Banned Books by Black Authors Children and College Students Should Read](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/education-and-empowerment-10-banned-books-by-black-authors-children-and-college-students-should-read/) - School is in session, but our books are being banned. We’re doing the work to ensure that the next generation is informed, no matter what.
- [Syleena Johnson Talks New Single "Monsters in the Closet," Healing, Her Weight Loss Journey and More](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/syleena-johnson-talks-new-single-monsters-in-the-closet-healing-her-weight-loss-journey-and-more/) - Grammy-nominated recording artist Syleena Johnson is facing the monsters in her closet with a new single and new television show "Crowned.”
- [How Halle Bailey and DDG Revealed Their Son Set an Important Personal Boundary](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/halle-bailey-ddg-baby-reveal-boundary/) - Halle Bailey and DDG went against the “norm” and shared their pregnancy when they wanted to, and there’s a lot to learn from that.
- [Victoria Monét and Coco Jones’ Grammy Wins Highlight the Importance of Staying the Course as Black Women](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/victoria-monet-and-coco-jones-grammy-wins-highlight-the-importance-of-staying-the-course-as-black-women/) - Victoria Monét and Coco Jones’ Grammy wins prove that, in spite of the obstacles that are in Black women’s way, we still manage to thrive and succeed.
- [Black Love Celebrates the Launch of Freevee FAST Channel With Valentine’s Day Event](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/black-love-freevee-fast-channel-launch/) - The love-themed event shined a spotlight on Black Love’s original programming that is now available to watch on its FAST channel.
- [What to Expect on Black Love’s Amazon Freevee Channel](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/what-to-expect-on-black-loves-amazon-freevee-channel/) - In celebration of Black Love’s new Amazon Freevee channel, check out these top moments from the brand’s most-beloved shows.
- [How to Access Black Love's Amazon Freevee Channel](https://blacklove.com/uncategorized/how-to-access-black-loves-amazon-freevee-channel/) - Want to know how to get access to all of Black Love’s enriching content on Amazon Freevee? Check out these simple step-by-step instructions.
- [Regina King Says She Learned How to Be "Resilient" While Filming "Shirley"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/regina-king-shirley-movie-loss-of-son/) - Regina King tells Black Love exclusively that filming “Shirley” taught her how to be “resilient” and “how much further family could extend.”
- [Beyoncé Rides Into Her Country Music Era With "Cowboy Carter"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/beyonce-country-music-era-cowboy-carter/) - Beyoncé’s Act II, “Cowboy Carter,” is just as defiant and unapologetic as the last, while also honoring Black southern heritage and history.
- [How Mickey Guyton Overcame Hardship to Make Country Music History ](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/mickey-guytonhip-country-music-history/) - Mickey Guyton will be bringing her talent to major cities across the U.S., making her one of the first Black women to headline a country music tour.
- [What Black Rom-Coms Get Wrong About Relationships](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/what-black-rom-coms-get-wrong-about-relationships/) - From “Love Jones” to “Jumping the Broom,” Black rom-coms set a blueprint for expectations in my own real-life partnerships.
- [Nelly and Ashanti Rekindled Their Romance. Should You "Spin the Block" on an Ex?](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/nelly-ashanti-reconnecting-with-an-ex/) - Before making the decision to reconnect with an ex, both individuals should be fully prepared to show up differently in their relationship.
- [Cadillac Gears Up for Dynamic 2024 American Black Film Festival](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/cadillac-2024-american-black-film-festival/) - Cadillac is sure to make an impact and captivate audiences at the 2024 American Black Film Festival in Miami Beach this summer.
- [Meet the Animator and Director Flipping the Script on the Portrayal of Black Fathers](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/animator-director-carl-jones-portrayal-of-black-fathers/) - Carl Jones has partnered with Walmart’s Black & Unlimited Fatherhood Project to release his newest animated film about Black fathers who are superheroes.
- [Cali Cowboy Company Rides Through Their Fears as "Twisters" Hits Theaters ](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/cali-cowboy-company-twisters-movie/) - Much like the characters in “Twisters” who work together to accomplish a goal, the Cali Cowboy Company is a tight-knit group who lean on each other for support.
- [Reasons We Love "Love Island USA" Winners Serena and Kordell](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/reasons-we-love-love-island-usa-winners-serena-and-kordell/) - “Kordena” captured the hearts of not only each other, but all of us "Love Island" viewers.
- [Meagan Good Proves There’s Life After Divorce and God Always Has a Plan](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/meagan-good-life-after-divorce/) - Meagan Good is a testament to trusting God’s plans for your life, moving through the difficulty, and coming out on the other side with joy.
- [Family Renovates Home Where Enslaved Ancestors Lived on Magnolia’s "In With The Old"](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/enslaved-ancestors-home-renovation-in-with-the-old/) - A Black family is rediscovering their history in a home renovation project that dates back over 100 years.
- [Top 10 Romance Movies to Watch This Fall Straight From The Black Love Team](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/top-10-romance-movies-to-watch-this-fall-straight-from-the-black-love-team/) - Fall in love with this season’s top Black love films.
- [Children’s Lifestyle Brand Elle Olivia Announces Partnership With Michelle Obama’s When We All Vote](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/childrens-lifestyle-brand-elle-olivia-announces-partnership-with-michelle-obamas-when-we-all-vote/) - Elle Olivia is partnering with When We All Vote, a voter registration organization co-chaired by the former First Lady, to launch Her Future campaign.
- [7 Black Romance Books To Read This Fall](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/7-black-romance-books-to-read-this-fall/) - If you are looking to dive into some romance books this fall, check out these eight upcoming releases by Black authors.
- [Devale Ellis, Crystal Renee Hayslett and More of the ‘Zatima’ Cast Talk Season 3 of the BET+ Series](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/devale-ellis-crystal-renee-hayslett-zatima-cast-talk-season-3-bet-series/) - Whether it’s a romantic or a platonic relationship, Tyler Perry’s “Zatima” puts the intricate emotion of love on full display.
- [Lolo Spencer Shows the Beauty of Black Love With Calvin Klein-Inspired Photoshoot](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/lolo-spencer-shows-the-beauty-of-black-love-with-calvin-klein-inspired-photoshoot/) - Lolo Spencer talks to Black Love about recreating Calvin Klein’s iconic look, her advocacy work, and her hopes for the future.
- [Top 5 Reasons to Check Out the 2024 Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/top-5-reasons-to-check-out-the-2024-black-love-summit/) - This year, the summit will be a weekend celebration of self-care and entertainment at Black Love’s headquarters in Los Angeles from October 11-13.
- [Sterling K. Brown & Ryan Michelle Bathe’s Top "Black Love" Moments](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sterling-k-brown-ryan-michelle-bathes-top-black-love-moments/) - In celebration of the couple’s highly anticipated Black Love Summit discussion, we are taking a look back at Sterling K. Brown and Ryan Michelle Bathe’s iconic Black Love moments.
- [Kerry Washington Declares Voting a Tangible Act of Love at Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/kerry-washington-declares-voting-a-tangible-act-of-love-at-black-love-summit/) - “Voting is part of how we care for ourselves and our community in real time,” Washington said in conversation with Jemele Hill.
- [Sterling K. Brown and Ryan Michelle Bathe Show How The Art of Disagreeing Can Lead to Beautiful Marriage at Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sterling-k-brown-and-ryan-michelle-bathe-show-how-the-art-of-disagreeing-can-lead-to-beautiful-marriage-at-black-love-summit/) - “These are two people that are really committed to the work of being in a relationship. Now, if you give us goals for that, that's cool,” Brown revealed at the 7th annual Black Love Summit.
- [How to Prioritize Self-Care on Election Day and Beyond](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/how-to-prioritize-self-care-on-election-day-and-beyond/) - While many of us are committed to staying engaged and informed, the stress of Election Day can easily take a toll. Here are some ways to practice self-care and still be part of this historic moment.
- [10 Black-Owned Bookstores to Visit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/10-black-owned-bookstores-to-visit/) - Whether you’re craving a cozy nook to browse through Black literature or a cultural hub that brings people together, these bookstores are here to inspire and educate.
- [2024 Black Love Songs to Listen to Before the Year Ends](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/2024-black-love-songs-to-listen-to-before-the-year-ends/) - From soulful ballads to vibey R&B hits, 2024 has gifted us with a soundtrack of Black love.
- [Barry Jenkins and the ‘Mufasa’ Cast Explain Why You Should Take Your Family to See ‘The Lion King’ Prequel](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/barry-jenkins-and-the-mufasa-cast-explain-why-you-should-take-your-family-to-see-the-lion-king-prequel/) - “I saw all of this clarity — clarity of purpose and honesty of emotion,” Barry Jenkins says. “Whether you are a 4-year-old or 104-year-old, there's something in the Lion King for you.”
- [Niecy Nash Shares Her Self Love Secrets: ‘It Starts With Therapy’](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/niecy-nash-shares-her-self-love-secrets-it-starts-with-therapy/) - “Unless you heal that trauma, you cannot choose people in your life that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated,” Niecy says.
- [What Hollywood Can Teach Us About Self Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/what-hollywood-can-teach-us-about-self-love/) - From Issa Dee’s messy but beautiful growth in Insecure to Brandon’s resilience in Young. Wild. Free., these tales reflect the many ways we can honor, care for, and uplift ourselves.
- [Resources for Black Families Affected by Wildfires in Los Angeles](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/resources-for-black-families-affected-by-wildfires-in-los-angeles/) - Here’s a list of organizations and initiatives offering assistance for families displaced by the Southern California wildfires, along with tips to help you navigate the recovery process.
- [Let’s Take the Cadillac For a Night of Black Excellence at ABFF Honors](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/lets-take-the-cadillac-for-a-night-of-black-excellence-at-abff-honors/) - Aaron Pierre, Keke Palmer, Anthony Mackie and more came together for a night of Black joy with Cadillac and ABFF Honors.
- [La La Anthony Wants You to Take Control of Your Health—Starting with Your Skin](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/la-la-anthony-wants-you-to-take-control-of-your-health-starting-with-your-skin/) - “There are ways to live with plaque psoriasis, to still have a full life, to be productive,” La La says. “You just have to find what works for you.”
- [Electric Soul, Timeless Style: How Cadillac Continues to Drive Culture Forward](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/events/electric-soul-timeless-style-how-cadillac-continues-to-drive-culture-forward/) - From the smooth rides that cruised through our neighborhoods to the music that turned the brand into a lyrical legend, Cadillac is a symbol of success, perseverance, and undeniable style.
- [Codie & Shone - Howard University](https://blacklove.com/watch/series/hbcu-love/hbcu-love-codie-shone-howard-university/) - "I met my best friend sophomore year at Howard University (we're class of 2005), and she says I just came up to her and told her we should be friends. I don't know if it went down like that, but we have been besties ever since! On the surface, we have almost nothing in common.
- [India Arie Drops 'Steady Love' With a Beautiful Portrayal of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/india-arie-drops-steady-love-with-a-beautiful-portrayal-of-black-love/) - On Thursday, India Arie's latest musical love story Steady Love debuted its video with rapper, record producer and activist David Banner.
- [How Self-Love Led Brely Evans to Create a Life of Gratitude](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/how-self-love-led-brely-evans-to-create-a-life-of-gratitude/) - Actress Brely Evans is a spiritual game changer who has leveled up her career and personal “Ambitions” through the power of affirmations.
- [Black Love Summit 2018](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-summit-2018/) - On Sunday, October 7th, couples and singles alike convened on Los Angeles, California at the W Hotel Hollywood for the first ever Black Love Summit. The couple that created the BLACK LOVE series on the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) invited experts, celebrities and couples featured on the show to dig deeper into their personal stories of love and growth and to fellowship on fostering healthy relationships. Check out the highlights from this inaugural event.
- [Wives Panel Drops Gems at the Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/kickin-it-with-the-wives-at-the-black-love-summit/) - On Sunday, October 7th, Vanessa Spencer gathered Ryan Michelle Bathe, Khadeen Ellis, Aonika Thomas, Ashley Chea - all wives featured in the BLACK LOVE Series - to talk about the realities of wife-dom at the first ever Black Love Summit. The event included a full day of panels and conversations, but these ladies held it down on the Wives Panel, a glowed-up girlfriends’ conversation on their role as “wife.” They covered topics from self care secrets that include tossing tires (aka crossfit as a means of de-stressing) to sexy-time all-the-time to childcare guilt –– each bringing their unique perspective and experience on being a wife and mother. The attendees left refreshed with new ways to honor their family, and themselves, through the role as a wife.
- [What 9 Years of Marriage Has Taught Me](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/what-nine-years-of-marriage-has-taught-me/) - A mother and wife shares lessons in love, communication, and parenting that she learned from nine years of marriage.
- [Husbands Panel With Lance Gross, Chris Spencer, Devale Ellis, and Robbie Jones](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/husbands-panel-black-love-summit-2018/) - On Sunday, October 7th, Lance Gross, Chris Spencer, Devale Ellis and Robbie Jones got together for the Husbands Panel hosted by BLACK LOVE co-creator Tommy Oliver at the first ever Black Love Summit. The goal: to be as honest as possible about being a husband. The fellas dived in on topics from fights on “Black Love Eve” to dealing with women who proposition in front of the wife to knowing, as Chris Spencer said of his wife Vanessa, that she is “the one.” The husbands agreed it takes work and sacrifice to have a healthy marriage. And they illustrated how life-giving and beneficial a marriage can be when committed to the intentionality of making it work. Check out the highlights from this inaugural event.
- [How to Thrive During Pregnancy With Chiropractic Pregnancy Care](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/how-to-thrive-during-pregnancy-with-chiropractic-pregnancy-care/) - Pregnancy symptoms, including insomnia, back pain, hip pain and labor pain, can be prevented with chiropractic care. Black Love finds out how.
- [How to Survive Co-Parenting](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-to-survive-co-parenting/) - She never expected to be a single parent, but the anger she felt around it wasn’t helping anybody. So she and her ex got together determined to learn how to co-parent. They succeeded beyond their wildest expectations.
- [The 3 Simple (but Necessary) Rules to Dating Yourself](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/the-3-simple-but-necessary-rules-to-dating-yourself/) - The “Single Girl Rut” can be hard to break and should not be taken lightly. But with strategy, determination, and these three simple (but necessary) rules, one woman is breaking the cycle, one date at a time.
- [Our Adoption Story](https://blacklove.com/read/family/our-adoption-story/) - For her, adopting a child was never a question of want, but one of timing. But though searching for a child to be the perfect fit for her family wasn’t as simple as one may think, blending her family through adoption yielded blessings that continue to permeate far beyond the four walls of her home.
- [My Favorite Love Story](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/my-favorite-love-story/) - blacklove.com’s contributors share what they are grateful for. Marriage and Partnership Contributor Toni-Ann Craft is grateful for her husband, who is a daily reminder of her prayers personified.
- [Co-Parenting at its Best](https://blacklove.com/read/family/co-parenting-at-its-best/) - Not many families can say that a man’s wife and ex-wife live in the same home and help each other with the children – and there’s no “funny business.” But for this family, it’s works.
- [How to Train Your Brain Into the Gratitude Mindset](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/how-to-train-your-brain-into-the-gratitude-mindset/) - Can you train your brain into the gratitude mindset in this new year? Dr. Allycin Powell-Hicks says, yes! Here on blacklove.com, Dr. Ally teaches five simple steps on how to live in gratitude in 2019.
- [Wellness Wednesdays With Niki McGloster, Co-Founder of her sweat.](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/wellness-wednesdays-with-niki-mcgloster-co-founder-of-her-sweat/) - Niki McGloster shares her health and fitness journey, and why she and Adelle Platon founded her sweat. for women’s wellness.
- [Fuss-Free Healthy Recipes for the Whole Family](https://blacklove.com/read/health/nutrition/fuss-free-healthy-recipes-for-the-whole-family/) - After a wake-up call, mom of two Malika Pham transformed her toddlers’ eating habits.
- [The Marriage Mindset: Preparing for the Relationship You Want](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/the-marriage-mindset-preparing-for-the-relationship-you-want/) - Antwan Steele explains why dating, courting, and connecting to your partner are all part of the road to lifelong commitment.
- [Myleik Teele, Founder of CURLBOX, on Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/read/family/myleik-teele-on-motherhood/) - I’ve had my maternity leave “out of office” auto-responder on my email for five months, and let’s just say, I’ve yet to really have any time off.
- [5 Ways to Commit to Self Care in 2019](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/5-ways-to-commit-to-self-care-in-2019/) - Self care is a radical act of love, and in order to make sure you’re keeping a balanced life, you have to commit to your goals but more importantly yourself.
- [How Ashlee Akins Knew She Was Ready to Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-ashlee-akins-knew-she-was-ready-to-love/) - Ashlee Akins from OWN’s Ready to Love shares her journey on the show, what led her there, and what she learned about herself through introspection, honesty, self love, and care.
- [How to Argue Like a Pro](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-to-argue-like-a-pro/) - Dr. Ally teaches us about our triggers, how to work through or avoid them and how to handle uncomfortable situations, confrontations, and arguments like a pro.
- [Sean Patrick Thomas Talks Fatherhood](https://blacklove.com/read/family/sean-patrick-thomas-talks-fatherhood/) - Accomplished actor Sean Patrick Thomas reveals how he teaches his children mental toughness, what stresses him out about fatherhood, and more to Black Love featured author Jeff Johnson.
- [What I Learned From Tantric Perspective, “Dating for Depth”](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/what-i-learned-from-dating-for-depth/) - What does it mean to “Date for Depth”? blacklove.com Senior Editor Arynetta Floyzelle finds out.
- [Wellness Wednesdays With Dr. Ally](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/wellness-wednesdays-with-dr-ally/) - This Wellness Wednesday is bringing self care and mental wellness to the forefront with mental healthcare professional Dr. Ally.
- [DeVon Franklin Reveals the Truth About Men (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/devon-franklin-reveals-the-truth-about-men-2/) - Join DeVon Franklin as he reveals insights into men, relationships, and love in this eye-opening video. Watch now on blacklove.com!
- [Best Valentine’s Day Memories From the Black Love Community](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/best-valentines-day-memories-from-the-black-love-community/) - At Black Love, we celebrate love daily. But since tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, our community shared their best memories of the holiday made for lovers.
- [Passion Projects: From Biomedical Engineer to Storyteller](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/passion-projects-from-biomedical-engineer-to-storyteller/) - Biomedical Engineer Avione Lee took a break from her career in medical research to pursue her passion for storytelling. Here’s how she did it.
- [Wellness Wednesdays With Briana Owens of Spiked Spin](https://blacklove.com/read/health/fitness/wellness-wednesdays-with-briana-owens-of-spiked-spin/) - Health, fitness, and inclusion is Briana Owens’ mission and why she created Spiked Spin. Learn more about Briana’s journey in this week’s installment of Wellness Wednesdays.
- [What I Learned From Moms With Coffee, "Ashley Chea on Culture" (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/family/what-i-learned-from-moms-with-coffees-ashley-chea-culture/) - Identity, culture, and mixed households are the topic of conversation as Ashley Chea takes on “Culture” in this episode of Moms With Coffee hosted by Lizzy Mathis.
- [What I Learned From Couch Conversations, “Is Marriage a Necessity?” (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/what-i-learned-from-couch-conversations-is-marriage-a-necessity/) - Is marriage a necessity? blacklove.com contributor Avione Lee watched Devale and Khadeen Ellis debate it out in this episode of Couch Conversations.
- [Passion Projects: From Corporate Communications to Creative Entrepreneur](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/passion-projects-from-corporate-communications-to-creative-entrepreneur/) - Dayna Bolden started her blog as a hobby. Three years later, it turned into a full-time business. blacklove.com found out how.
- [What I Learned From Black Love Live’s “Can You Balance Marriage, Careers, and Children?” (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/what-i-learned-from-black-love-lives-can-you-balance-marriage-careers-and-children/) - Where is the balance of being a wife and mother, husband and father, and you? I tuned in to Black Love Live to find out.
- [Sinqua Walls On Don Cornelius, Black Ownership and Soul Train (VIDEO)](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/sinqua-walls-on-being-don-cornelius-self-care-and-creativity/) - The star of BET’s American Soul Sinqua Walls shared one major lesson that Don Cornelius taught him about Black love for the community through the importance of Black business ownership.
- [7 Black Women Authors Crushing the Young Adult Novel Scene in 2019](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/7-black-women-authors-crushing-the-young-adult-novel-scene-in-2019/) - Did you know that the new crop of YA novelists taking over The New York Times Best Sellers list are Black women?
- [10 Things to Know About blacklove.com Resident Dad Jeff Johnson](https://blacklove.com/read/family/10-things-to-know-about-jeff-johnson/) - blacklove.com contributor Jeff Johnson reveals 10 things about his life as a father, how he’s raised all five of his children, and what he has learned in the process.
- [Why Mia Hall Made Sure to Invest in a Stranger to Build Community](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/why-mia-hall-made-sure-to-invest-in-a-stranger-to-build-community/) - Los Angeles-based content producer and journalist Mia Hall explains why she recently stopped to help a stranger and why that random act of kindness went viral.
- [10 Black Bosses in Tech You Should Know](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/10-black-bosses-in-tech-you-should-know/) - Here at Black Love, we’ve compiled a list of Black bosses in the tech industry who are using their influence to tell Black stories, build Black products, and empower the next generation of tech leaders.
- [How I Learned to Let Go of My List and Find Love](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-i-learned-to-let-go-of-my-list-and-find-love/) - She wrote her first “Future Husband” list in the 6th grade. But it was in letting lists go that she let love in.
- [Top 12 Family Date Night Ideas](https://blacklove.com/read/family/family-date-night-ideas/) - The blacklove.com Instagram community provided their favorite ways to have family date night to connect, spend quality time, and have a lot of fun.
- [A Better Birthing Experience:  How to Thrive During Pregnancy With Chiropractic Pregnancy Care](https://blacklove.com/read/family/a-better-birthing-experience-how-to-thrive-during-pregnancy-with-chiropractic-pregnancy-care/) - Did you know that pregnancy symptoms, though common, are not normal? There are natural ways to manage pain and discomfort, including chiropractic care during pregnancy.
- [Midwives & Doulas: Learning Your Options for Birthing Partners](https://blacklove.com/read/family/midwives-vs-doulas-which-birthing-partner-is-best-for-you/) - Today, many women are turning towards midwives and doulas as important members of their pregnancy and birthing teams, but what do these valuable teammates.
- [Black Obstetrician/Gynecologist Dr. Jessica Shepherd on the Importance of Maternal Health](https://blacklove.com/read/health/black-obstetrician-gynecologist-dr-jessica-shepherd-on-the-importance-of-maternal-health/) - blacklove.com deepens the national conversation around Black maternal health with Black OB/GYN Dr. Jessica Shepherd.
- [How Therapy Helps Me Find My Flow](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/how-therapy-helps-me-find-my-flow/) - blacklove.com contributor Jared Williams writes about how therapy helps him navigate deep emotional waters.
- [Passion Projects: From Corporate Attorney to Curated Travel Consultant](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/passion-projects-from-corporate-attorney-to-curated-travel-consultant/) - blacklove.com highlights women who left corporate careers to become their own bosses with businesses based on their passion.
- [How I Learned to Accept Life (and Marriage) Seasons](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-i-learned-to-accept-life-and-marriage-seasons/) - In life, and in marriage, there are various seasons, but sometimes it takes not getting lost in one to move on to the next.
- [3 Nipsey Hussle Inspired Ways to Invest in Your Community](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/3-ways-to-invest-in-your-community-as-inspired-by-nipsey-hussle/) - In order to move forward, we have to do it together. Dev T. Smith explores three ways to invest in our communities, as inspired by the late Nipsey Hussle.
- [5 Powerful Tips for Being a Great Father: Balancing Business and Family](https://blacklove.com/read/family/5-powerful-tips-for-being-a-great-father-balancing-business-and-family/) - Psychologist and relationship therapist Dr. Alduan Tartt shares five tips on how to thrive while balancing career and family life.
- [How to Cope With Mom Guilt](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-to-cope-with-mom-guilt/) - She was near ruined by the “mom guilt” she felt when her second child was born. But Rasheda Jackson found her way out of it, and with these five strategies to cope with mom guilt, you can, too.
- [The Most Surprising Thing About Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/read/family/the-most-surprising-thing-about-motherhood/) - blacklove.com asked our community, “What’s the most surprising thing about motherhood?” These are your answers.
- [Dear Tonya, You Were Made to Mother](https://blacklove.com/read/family/dear-tonya-its-going-to-be-okay/) - Black Love contributor and Founder of My Fab Finance Tonya Rapley-Flash sends a message to her younger self about what motherhood would eventually bring her way.
- [Ayesha Curry Gets Honest About Anxiety and Being a Strong Matriarch on Red Table Talk](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/ayesha-curry-gets-honest-about-anxiety-and-being-a-strong-matriarch-on-red-table-talk/) - Ayesha, Callie and Sonya Curry and Sydel Curry-Lee get honest about anxiety, finding happiness and real life as “First Ladies of the NBA.”
- [Dear Melissa, Heads Up: Motherhood Will Rock Your World](https://blacklove.com/read/family/dear-melissa-heads-up-motherhood-will-rock-your-world/) - At 23, Melissa Fredericks had a 15-year life plan. Then, she got pregnant. This is what she would tell that scared girl now.
- [Self-Care Rituals of Boss Mom Leslie Lewis](https://blacklove.com/read/family/self-care-rituals-of-boss-mom-leslie-lewis/) - In order to remain balanced, mompreneur Leslie Lewis takes her self-care seriously. Now, she’s sharing her journey and five tips and tricks for boss moms everywhere on how to balance life and get some “me time.”
- [Why Every Black Woman in America Should Stand Up to the Abortion Bans](https://blacklove.com/read/lifestyle/politics/why-every-black-woman-in-america-should-stand-up-to-the-abortion-bans/) - Alabama’s grossly restrictive abortion ban along with prohibitions in other states have far-reaching implications for women nationwide, particularly Black women.
- [Why I Love Cardi B as Much as I Love Auntie Maxine](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/why-i-love-cardi-b-as-much-as-i-love-auntie-maxine/) - Black Love contributor Jared Williams reflects on the lessons Cardi B and Rep. Maxine Waters have taught him about authenticity.
- [Black Love Summit: Talking Tea in the Village With the Wives Panel](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-love-summit-talking-tea/) - It's Black Love Summit time again! blacklove.com highlights the best moments from the "Wives Panel" at the 2018 Black Love Summit.
- [How I Learned to be an All-Star Husband at the Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/black-love-summit-how-i-learned-to-be-an-all-star-husband-at-the-black-love-summit/) - It's Black Love Summit time again! blacklove.com highlights the best moments from the "Husband Panel" at the 2018 Black Love Summit.
- [From Employee to Entrepreneur: Charreah K. Jackson Talks Leaving Her 9-to-5 and Becoming the CEO of Her Life](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/from-employee-to-entrepreneur-charreah-k-jackson-talks-quitting-her-9-to-5-and-becoming-the-ceo-of-her-life/) - If you've ever thought about leaving your 9-to-5 for self-employment, here are a few things to keep in mind from Charreah K. Jackson about making the transition like a boss.
- [12 Black TV Shows to Binge Watch Next](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/12-black-tv-shows-to-binge-watch-next/) - From hilarious sitcoms to serious dramas, Netflix to major networks, here are 12 Black shows to binge watch.
- [Ciara Talks How to Turn Your Life Into Goals on Red Table Talk](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/ciara-talks-how-to-turn-your-life-into-goals-on-red-table-talk/) - Grammy-winning singer Ciara talks Russell Wilson, Beauty Marks, and going from heartache to the life of your dreams on Red Table Talk.
- [7 Black Philanthropists Who Are Helping Keep HBCU Doors Open](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/7-black-philanthropists-who-are-helping-keep-hbcu-doors-open/) - Here are seven Black philanthropists who are using their finances for good and paying it forward in the name of education.
- [His and Hers: One Married Couple's Top 5 Takeaways From the 2018 Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/top-5-takeaways-from-the-first-ever-black-love-summit/) - It's Black Love Summit time again! blacklove.com highlights a couple's best moments from the 2018 Black Love Summit.
- [Black Love Reads: 3 Books by Black Authors to Add to Your Summer Reading List](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-reads-3-books-by-black-authors-to-add-to-your-summer-reading-list/) - Looking for some new books by black authors to dive into this summer? We've got you covered!
- [From 'Paris is Burning' to 'Pose': What These Moments in Media Mean to Me](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/from-paris-is-burning-to-pose-what-these-moments-in-media-mean-to-me/) - Black Love contributor Jared Williams discusses the evolving representation of queer people of color in media, from Paris is Burning to Pose.
- [Like Father, Like Son: Why This Dad Encouraged His Son to Start a Business at Age 7](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/like-father-like-son-why-this-dad-encouraged-his-son-to-start-a-business-at-age-7/) - It’s never too early to start, just ask young entrepreneur Pierre Robinson.
- [8 Things I Learned From the 'Black Girls Making Millions Academy'](https://blacklove.com/read/business/entrepreneurship/8-things-i-learned-from-the-black-girls-making-millions-academy/) - The founder and CEO of Black haircare brand CURLS, Mahisha Dellinger, launched her first annual Black Girls Making Millions Academy (BGMMA) in Los Angeles last weekend. Everywhere you turned, there was a queen pitching her business idea and others sharing how they made their first million — a true oasis of Black girl magic.
- [Best Advice From My Father or Father-Figure](https://blacklove.com/read/family/best-advice-from-my-father-or-father-figure/) - blacklove.com asked our community what the greatest life lessons their fathers by blood, or by bond, have shared with them. Here are our favorite answers.
- [A Man's View of IVF: How This Husband Supported His Wife Through an Emotional Journey to Get Pregnant](https://blacklove.com/read/family/a-mans-view-of-ivf-how-this-husband-supported-his-wife-through-an-emotional-journey-to-get-pregnant/) - One man shares his view of the IVF journey – the shots, the fears, the money, and countless doctor’s appointments – and how he supported his wife along the way.
- [How I Met My Husband Online](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/single-life/how-i-met-my-husband-online/) - From sliding into DMs to walking down the aisle, why this wife is encouraging more women to be open to meeting men online.
- [Black Love Reads: 4 Must-Read Bedtime Story Books By Black Authors](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/black-love-reads-4-must-read-bedtime-story-books-by-black-authors/) - Looking for a new children’s book to read to your little ones at bedtime? We’ve got you covered with these four titles that celebrate Black Boy Joy and Black Girl Magic.
- [How Self-Acceptance and Love Led Me Down an Unexpected Road to Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/how-self-acceptance-and-love-led-me-down-an-unexpected-road-to-motherhood/) - Her masculine presentation ruled her life. Then, her wife had a hysterectomy, forcing her to make a choice she never thought she’d have to make.
- [How to Find Black Love, Because You’re Worth It](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/dating/how-to-find-black-love-because-youre-worth-it/) - Dondré Whitefield, Erica Campbell, and Christina Rice talk Dating for Depth at the 2019 Black Love Summit.
- [The “V” Word: Vulnerability](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/the-v-word-vulnerability/) - Love and Intimacy Coach Kamali Minter offers step-by-step tips for those looking to tap into that foreign place where, by definition, one is exposed to the possibility of being physically or emotionally harmed.
- [From Attempting Suicide to Self-Love Specialist](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/self-love/from-suicide-attempt-to-self-love-specialist/) - Today she is a leading expert on Self Love and Emotional Intelligence, but there was a time when Chenoa Maxwell placed such little value on her life, that she tried to end it.
- [How We Survived Postpartum Depression](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/how-we-survived-postpartum-depression/) - As a young mom, she did not know what to expect, but she never saw postpartum depression coming.
- [How Jackie Rodgers of Greentop Gifts Decided to Bet on Herself and It Proved to Be the Best Investment](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-jackie-rodgers-of-greentop-gifts-decided-to-bet-on-herself-and-it-proved-to-be-the-best-investment/) - Jackie Rodgers of Greentop Gifts is redefining all of your holiday needs after she couldn’t find a Black Santa on the market. So she decided to create her own, known as Clarence Claus.
- [Finding Solutions for the Holiday Blues](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/therapy-for-black-girls-dr-joy-harden-bradford-on-dealing-with-the-holiday-blues/) - Learn how to find joy during the moments of holiday hurt with Therapy for Black Girls founder Dr. Joy Harden Bradford.
- [New Dad Shares His Greatest Gift This Christmas](https://blacklove.com/read/family/new-dad-shares-his-greatest-gift-this-christmas/) - The pressure to live up to expectations is real and present as Christmas this year carries a different meaning for this first-time dad.
- [Mommy Guilt Saved My Life](https://blacklove.com/read/family/mommy-guilt-saved-my-life/) - Mommy guilt was one of the most difficult things she’d ever experienced, but in the end, it saved her life.
- [From Trial to Triumph: Moving Past My Childhood Trauma](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/from-trial-to-triumph-moving-past-my-childhood-trauma/) - From dealing with childhood sexual abuse trauma to infidelity, she is rediscovering her power from within by shedding layers of the past.
- [Breaking the Silence About Male Infertility](https://blacklove.com/read/family/breaking-the-silence-about-male-infertility/) - First came anger, then shame, then depression. But when our circumstances didn’t change, we had to find a way to change our response to his male infertility. In my family, 29-years old was already way behind when it came to starting a family. I come from a big family. My five brothers and sisters – even my younger ones – were already parents, and I was anxious to start a family of my own. But after downloading every app, taking every vitamin and trying every other remedy to become pregnant, all I had to show for it was a year gone with countless negative pregnancy tests. That’s when the doctor suggested having my husband come in and get checked out. My husband Cyrus and I met in 2009. He was playing basketball at the University of Miami, and, I was waitressing at a nearby restaurant. His team came in after summer camp one day, I was their waitress, and as they say, “the rest is history”. When we got married on December 12, 2012 (12/12/12), we were filled with so much love, hope and possibility. We were so excited to start our new life together as husband and wife, and to start a family of our own. However, shortly before our wedding, Cyrus’s mom, already a one-time cancer survivor, discovered that her cancer had returned. She was given two years to live. Although she was faithful that she would beat cancer again, she wanted to live and experience as much as she could in the time given, including having her firstborn son make her a grandmother. This led to the ‘year of trying’ – to no avail.
- [Balancing Business and Bae](https://blacklove.com/read/business/balancing-business-and-bae/) - Signing up for entrepreneurship, there are so many things that you don’t realize or expect. I didn’t know I would lose friends, I didn’t know that people would change around me, and I certainly did not know my marriage would take a hit and change! WOW - I wasn’t ready.
- [What Is The Most Surprising Thing About Being Married?](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/what-is-the-most-surprising-thing-about-being-married/) - We asked the blacklove.com community, “What’s the most surprising thing about being married?” Here’s what you had to say. In today’s society, so much attention is paid to marriage prep. From the celebrations –– the engagement, the bridal shower, bachelor and bachelorette parties, and the ever-important wedding, to the work –– pre-marriage counseling, pre-engagement counseling, and endless advice sessions from friends and family, couples are doing their best to equip themselves for the everlasting “I Do.” But no matter how prepared one might be, there are always some surprises after “happily ever after.”
- [How to Protect Your Peace in the Midst of Kobe Bryant Grief](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/how-to-protect-your-peace-in-the-midst-of-kobe-bryant-grief/) - In the wake of the tragic and sudden loss of NBA legend Kobe Bryant, his daughter, and seven other victims, this mental health expert explores disenfranchised grief and how death affects us all very differently.
- [Gratitude is the Attitude: Lessons From Parenthood](https://blacklove.com/read/family/gratitude-is-the-attitude-lessons-from-parenthood/) - Gratitude is the attitude, and with that in mind, blacklove.com’s editorial contributors reflects and shares what they are grateful for. In this edition, parenting editor Jennifer Henry reflects on her gratitude for the humbling experience of parenthood.
- [My Son, My Hero: Becoming the Dad I Never Had](https://blacklove.com/read/family/my-son-my-hero-becoming-the-dad-i-never-had/) - Growing up without a dad left an unimaginable void for Jaquann Holley, but with his son, he's determined to create an unwavering bond. Together this father-son duo wrote "Dreams Come True," a children's book encouraging young readers to use their imaginations while nurturing their creativity.
- [Making Our Love Last Beyond ‘I Do’](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/making-our-love-last-beyond-i-do/) - What are your thoughts on becoming a wife? For Ayana Iman, she noticed a paradigm shift once she became engaged. The increased excitement from others centered on the wedding, instead of their commitment to creating a long-lasting union.
- [Practicing Peace Over Panic While Living Abroad Under COVID-19 Quarantine](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/practicing-peace-over-panic-while-living-abroad-under-coronavirus-quarantine/) - Juanita Ingram and her family experienced a 30-day coronavirus quarantine while living abroad in Taiwan. She recalls the necessary measures taken and offers ways to remain hopeful during these turbulent times.
- [COVID-19 Childbirth Prep From a Midwife of 40 Years](https://blacklove.com/read/health/covid-19-childbirth-prep-from-a-midwife-of-40-years/) - British-trained midwife of nearly 40 years Jennie Joseph provides her model of care and tips for expecting mothers in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic.
- [You Are Not Alone: To the Mothers Battling Postpartum Depression During COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/health/you-are-not-alone-to-the-mothers-battling-postpartum-depression-during-covid-19/) - Author and mother of two Laray Dyer recollects her experience in dealing with postpartum depression and anxiety in hopes of encouraging others to find ways that provide peace within each moment.
- [Everything You Need to Know About Investing in a Downturn](https://blacklove.com/read/business/everything-you-need-to-know-about-investing-in-a-downturn/) - With the current market, many are speculating a recession is on the way. Not to worry because financial experts Tonya Rapley and Kevin L. Matthews II are providing the basics of investing and tools to help you build wealth during a financial crisis.
- [Gratitude is the Attitude: Remember Your Vows](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/gratitude-is-the-attitude-remember-your-vows/) - As I sat there in my seat, I felt like I was about to have a panic attack. My palms were sweating, my heart was racing, and my stomach was turning. My now wife and I were at a poetry event in Cleveland called The PIA Tour, and I planned to ask for her hand in marriage. Everything was already set up, and she didn’t have a clue.
- [VIDEO: Impacting the Black Maternal Health Crisis by Being Informed](https://blacklove.com/read/health/impacting-the-black-maternal-health-crisis-by-being-informed/) - VIDEO: 4Kira4Moms founder Charles Johnson IV along with other health professionals, discuss the Black maternal health crisis and ways to protect our Black mothers during childbirth.
- [What Does a Doula Do?](https://blacklove.com/read/health/what-does-a-doula-do/) - It’s Black Maternal Health Week, and we spoke with Tracie Collins, founder of the National Black Doulas Association, about your options before, during, and after pregnancy.
- [What I Wish I Knew Before My Entire Family Contracted COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/health/what-i-wish-i-knew-before-my-entire-family-contracted-covid-19/) - “My family was all sick at the same time and I am still not fully recovered. I still have trouble breathing.” This LA-based lawyer shares details of surviving COVID-19 and provides insight on best practices to help flatten the curve.
- [Ways to Balance Your Mind, Body and Soul During Social Distancing](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/ways-to-balance-your-mind-body-and-soul-during-social-distancing/) - In need of an emotional boost? Here are five impactful tips to help you realign your mental capacity in these uncertain times.
- [Self-Care for the Whole Family in the Time of COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/family/how-to-make-self-care-a-family-priority-in-the-time-of-covid-19/) - As we all continue to navigate the weight of this global shift, Cheree Hayes, a wife and mom of three, offers fresh ideas for ways to achieve self-care mixed with healthy bonding family time.
- [Jodie Patterson on Parenting in a Pandemic After Testing Positive for COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/read/family/jodie-patterson-on-parenting-in-a-pandemic-after-testing-positive-for-covid-19/) - Due to the effects of COVID-19, activist and author Jodie Patterson discusses the shift in her parenting style to adjust to the "new normal."
- [Exploring Male vs. Man With Dondré Whitfield, Will Smith & Kevin Hart](https://blacklove.com/read/relationships/marriage-and-partnership/dondre-whitfield-breaks-down-the-difference-between-male-vs-man-in-new-digital-series/) - Dondré Whitfield and Black Love are releasing a digital series in conjunction with the release of his playbook "Male vs. Man" to discuss cultural ideas surrounding manhood.
- [If You Haven't Tried V-Steaming, You're Missing Out: Here's Why](https://blacklove.com/read/intimacy/sex/if-you-havent-tried-v-steaming-youre-missing-out-heres-why/) - With quarantine in full effect, you can still experience vaginal steaming and take advantage of the added benefits in the comfort of your own home.
- [Celebrity Trainer Joe Holder's Top Tips to Get Mentally and Emotionally Fit](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/mindfulness-and-meditation-tools-to-help-you-navigate-covid-19/) - Health and wellness guru, and celebrity trainer to the stars, Joe Holder, offers personal tools to help you move away from being mindless to being mindful in the current climate of COVID-19.
- [5 Motivational Men You Should Be Following on Instagram Right Now](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/5-motivational-men-you-should-be-following-on-instagram-right-now/) - For your daily dose of inspiration and mental stimulation, add these Instagram accounts to your newsfeed because every post is worth a double-tap. Trust us; you won't be disappointed!
- [These Are the Best Things You Can Do When You’re Hurting and Healing at the Same Time](https://blacklove.com/read/health/mental-health/these-are-the-best-things-you-can-do-when-youre-hurting-and-healing-at-the-same-time/) - When setting our goals and vision for 2020, we didn’t expect a global pandemic. This award-winning psychotherapist provides healthy coping mechanisms to manage your mental capacity.
- [Your Netflix Must-Watch Movie List for Memorial Day Weekend](https://blacklove.com/read/entertainment/your-netflix-must-watch-movie-list-for-memorial-day-weekend/) - Whether it brings back nostalgic memories, keeps you laughing until your stomach aches, or eases your mind for 90 minutes straight, check out these films from our quarantine holiday watchlist.
- [My Parenting Quest to Heal My Sons' Emotional Wounds as a Single Adoptive Dad of Two](https://blacklove.com/read/family/my-parenting-quest-to-heal-my-sons-emotional-wounds-as-a-single-adoptive-dad-of-two/) - In honor of National Foster Care Month, hear about one dad's unsuspected journey and challenges from fostering to adoption as a single parent.

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- [NEIL BROWN JR.](https://blacklove.com/neil-brown-jr/) - Becoming a parent while still in high school isn’t what most teenagers aspire to. Neil Brown, Jr. who became a dad at 17 years old and he describes knowing he was far too young. That didn’t stop him from stepping up in the best ways he knew how at such a young age. He and
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- [Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/summit2020/) -  Say it Loud We’re Black and We’re Proud, but We’re Also Exhausted The title in itself forces you to either hold tension in your forehead and shoulders or deeply exhale at the thought of just existing as a Black person in the world. This year’s virtual Black Love Summit masterfully served us
- [Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/summit2021/) - The Husbands' Panel Facilitated by Black Love co-creator Tommy Oliver and featuring four other notable husbands, Warryn Campbell, Neil Brown Jr., Michael Jai White, and Major, the panel consisted of each discussing their relationships and the different paths they took to achieve successful marriages. Warryn Campbell, who admitted that he understood very little about what
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- [Black Love Summit 2019](https://blacklove.com/summit2019/) - ‘Black Love’ Wives Talk Overwhelm, Sex, and the Perfection Myth Packed with wives from the Black Love series, and to the soundtrack of season 3 wife LeToya Luckett’s new single, the ladies prepared to speak candidly on the pressures of being a wife and mother. Ashley Chea, Egypt Sherrod, Jessica Burns, Erica Campbell,
- [Join the Black Love Team](https://blacklove.com/careers/) - About Black Love Black Love, Inc. is a media company devoted to providing diverse representation of love in the Black community through film/tv and digital content, live events, and social media. Known for creating the "Black Love" docu-series, which launched as the most-viewed unscripted series in the history of the Oprah Winfrey Network in 2017
- [Meet the Couples Season 5](https://blacklove.com/meet-the-couples-s5/)
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## Videos

- [Shan Boodram on Sex Education for Parents](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/education-parents-shan-boodram2025/) - Get ready for a crash course in sex ed! Sexologist and certified sex educator Shan Boodram breaks down what healthy sexual development looks like for kids and teens. From teaching body awareness to navigating first crushes, romantic relationships, and intimacy - Shan shares how to have open, age-appropriate conversations with your children. Trigger Warning: the conversation also offers advice and insights around sexual assault, and how to empower children to speak up. This episode is packed with tools and resources to help parents guide their kids through one of the most important (and often overlooked) parts of growing up.
- [Charles Johnson on Single Dad Life: There’s No Handbook](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/charles-johnson-single-dad-no-handbook2025/) - The Mamas are joined by Charles Johnson, single dad and founder of the nonprofit 4Kira4Moms. After losing his wife Kira during childbirth, Charles turned his pain into purpose - advocating (all the way to Congress!) to end maternal mortality while navigating the hardship and humor of raising his two sons. In this episode, Charles gets real about solo parenting, finding work-life balance, and building the village it takes to do it all. He reminds us that joy and grief can live in the same house - and that showing up for your kids and your purpose is a powerful act of love and legacy.
- [Would You Rather your kid have lice or flu...?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/would-you-rather/) - Would you rather your kid have lice…or the stomach flu?? In this episode, the Mamas play a game of Would You Rather? - unpacking everything from funny hypotheticals to real-life boundaries and the many messy moments in parenting. It’s a lighthearted convo full of laughs, real talk, and proof that every mama has her own way of handling motherhood in the wild.
- [Sleep Training for Newborns (& the Whole Family)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/sleep-training-for-newborns-the-whole-family/) - Sleep Training for Newborns (and the Whole Family) - with the "Baby Sleep Fairy" Brandi Jordan Is your kid’s bedtime routine a sweet dream…or a beautiful nightmare? In this episode, the Mamas are joined by Brandi Jordan - pediatric sleep specialist, postpartum doula, lactation consultant, and professional baby whisperer. Brandi breaks down how sleep actually works, from healthy newborn sleep habits to setting boundaries with big kids who still crawl into your bed. She talks about dream feeds, developmental milestones, co-sleeping vs. the cry-it-out method, and how to create the right environment for restful sleep - for your little ones and yourself. Because yes, Village, your sleep matters too.
- [AD from Love is Blind on Finding Her Perfect Match](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/ad-from-love-is-blind-on-finding-her-perfect-match-2025/) - AD, reality TV star and podcast host, joins the Mamas to dish on going from a heartbreak on Love is Blind to finding her happily-ever-after on Perfect Match - where she met her fiancé, Ollie Sutherland. Now expecting their first child (we’re screaming!), AD spills all the tea on her pregnancy body changes, planning two weddings, and how she’s carrying her biggest life lessons into motherhood and marriage.
- [Vulnerability as a Superpower | Nneka Onuorah | Black Love Summit 2024](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/vulnerability-as-a-superpower-nneka-onuorah-black-love-summit-2024/) - Presented in partnership with Amazon MGM Studios, the Black Love Summit hosted TV personality and podcaster Kamie Crawford, author and founder of We The Urban Willie Greene, and EMMY-winning director of the upcoming Megan Thee Stallion In Her Words, Nneka Onuorah, in conversation with psychologist Raquel C. Martin. Vulnerability is the willingness to show up and be seen when you can’t control the outcome. That can be scary, but for these creatives, tapping into their vulnerability and sharing who they are fully has been a gift and an inspiration to all of us.
- [Voting As Act of Love | Kerry Washington & Jemele Hill | Black Love Summit 2024](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/voting-as-act-of-love-kerry-washington-jemele-hill-black-love-summit-2024/) - We are barreling toward one of the most important elections of our generation and it’s time we understand that voting is not simply a right our ancestors fought for, but a demonstration of their love and an act of love for us today. It's in our hands now and this conversation between actress, producer, and author Kerry Washington and the always-honest journalist Jemele Hill should help to keep us informed, empowered, and feeling positive during this time.
- [What is a Power Couple? | Pinky Cole & Derrick Hayes | Black Love Summit 2023](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/what-is-a-power-couple-pinky-cole-derrick-hayes-black-love-summit-2023/) - What is a Power Couple?
- [The Husbands Panel | The Black Love Summit 2023](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/the-husbands-panel-the-black-love-summit-2023/) - What’s it like to be a fly on the wall when a group of husbands get together - probably exactly what you think! A lot of honesty, a little bit of vulnerability, and a whole lot of fun! From 2 months married to 19 years together, Skyh Black, Jarius Joseph, Ace Hood, and Mike Jackson, join Tommy Oliver in conversation to speak their minds!
- [The Wives Panel | Black Love Summit 2023](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/the-wives-panel-black-love-summit-2023/) - “This is ladies night and the feelin’s right! Oh this is…..” 🎵 Y’all get it. The Wives are keeping it 100 in this signature Black Love Summit conversation. We’ll talk getting married by a certain age - why it matters or doesn’t (spoiler alert, it doesn’t), and more! Join Egypt Sherrod, KJ Smith, Shelah Marie, and Codie Elaine Oliver as they get comfortable and candid.
- [Impact & Entrepreneurship | We Will Go Farther Together | Black Love Summit 2023](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/impact-entrepreneurship-we-will-go-farther-together-black-love-summit-2023/) - Let’s talk about MONEY! Spending, investing, saving, and building wealth for yourself, your family, and your community. Join us in a conversation with financial experts and entrepreneurs including filmmaker Tommy Oliver, artist and entrepreneur Keri Hilson, The Gathering Spot founder Ryan Wilson, and Chase Wealth Management specialist Marco Williams who will discuss their experiences when it comes to navigating financial success, impact in the community, and growing wealth.
- [There is No Love Without Wellness | Black Love Summit 2023](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/there-is-no-love-without-wellness-black-love-summit-2023/) - There is No Love Without Wellness
- [Clips & Conversation with the Ellises | Black Love Summit 2023](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/clips-conversation-with-the-ellises-black-love-summit-2023/) - It feels like a lifetime ago when Devale & Khadeen Ellis, parents of 2, were broadcasting from Brooklyn onto our cell phones and Youtube screens. While they are still sharing their family on virtually every platform, a lot has changed since we interviewed them for the Black Love docuseries. Multiple TV shows, a book, a podcast and two more kids later, they’re still going strong. Join us to watch some of those early moments and hear how the Ellises look at life today!
- [Black Love Summit 2023 | Recap](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/black-love-summit-2023-recap/) - POV: still thinkin’ bout ALLL the incredible speakers, conversations, and memories made at @theblacklovesummit 🖤
- [Husbands Panel Remixed | Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/husbands-panel-remixed-black-love-summit-2022/) - One time for the fellas of the signature Black Love Summit Husbands panel! 👏🏾👏🏾 Fam, come out, be a fly on the wall, and hear from this group of Husbands about what marriage looks like for them. The highs, the lows, the mind reading (so we’ve heard) [shrug emoji] It’s always a good time when we center our men and their voices and we CAN’T WAIT to hear from this group - Chance Brown, Bill Bellamy, Adrian Holmes, Kenny Burns, and our own #BlackLove creator Tommy Oliver!
- [Family Romance & Bel Air | Cassandra Freeman, Olly Sholotan, & Simone Joy Jones | Black Love Summit 2024](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/family-romance-bel-air-cassandra-freeman-olly-sholotan-simone-joy-jones-black-love-summit-2024/) - FAMILY ROMANCE AND BEL AIR with Cassandra Freeman, Olly Sholotan, and Simone Joy Jones
- [To Bae or Not to Bae | Gail Bean, Malcolm Mays, Natalie Odell, Obio Jones | Black Love Summit 2024](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/to-bae-or-not-to-bae-gail-bean-malcolm-mays-natalie-odell-obio-jones-black-love-summit-2024/) - A moderated conversation about establishing romantic relationships in your life and the role friendship plays in dating, fostering new connections & exploring the lines between affection & intimacy.
- [Father Noir | Cory Hardrict & Lil Rel | Black Love Summit 2024](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/father-noir-cory-hardrict-lil-rel-black-love-summit-2024/) - Fatherhood is Black love and it is one half of one of the most critical relationships we have in our lives. Whether you had a great dad, no dad at all, whether your parents were in the same house or not, once you become a father, you have to decide what that looks like for you and these speakers take that journey very seriously.
- [She Taught Love with Arsema Thomas | Black Love Summit 2024](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/she-taught-love-with-arsema-thomas-black-love-summit-2024/) - The fi;m, She Taught Love, celebrates life and love in complex and intimate ways. Hear about it directly from its leading lady.
- [The Mama's Den Live | EP 106 | The Mama's Den Podcast | 2024](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/the-mamas-den-live-ep-106-the-mamas-den-podcast-2024/) - The Mamas recorded live from the Black Love Summit in Los Angeles, jumping into a candid conversation about the importance of building communities where you can be seen and heard, especially during the journey of motherhood. From Melanie entering the music business without any pre-existing relationships, to Felicia and Ashley being the first of their friends to have babies, and Codie desire to explore Black love, the four of them discuss pressing past fear and anxiety to create what they seek.
- [Wives Panel Remixed! | Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/wives-panel-remixed-black-love-summit-2022/) - Black Love’s signature Summit pairing gets a remix!
- [Weight of the World | Russell and Nina Westbook | Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/weight-of-the-world-russell-and-nina-westbook-black-love-summit-2022/) - Supporting each other’s career goals is key to a healthy relationship, but it can also mean a ton of sacrifice - sometimes for one person more than the other. Remember to give your partner their flowers 🌺
- [Love and Leadership | Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/love-and-leadership-black-love-summit-2022/) - As Black women are leading executives teams and companies how do we prioritize relationships, parenting, personal wellness and leadership? Everyday Magic author Mattie James sits down for a conversation with Hartbeat’s CEO Thai Randolph and Curldaze’s CEO Robyn Atwater.
- [Young, Gifted and Black | Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/young-gifted-and-black-black-love-summit-2022/) - To be young, Black and gifted…What does that mean in present day America?
- [How Do You Know? | Black Love Summit 2022](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/how-do-you-know-black-love-summit-2022/) - Do you know your worth and how to evaluate compatibility? 👀
- [Black Love Summit 2021 | Recap](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/black-love-summit-2021-recap/) - This past Saturday at the 4th annual Black Love Summit, we were loving abundantly and spreading #BlackLove. The energy in the room was more than we ever imagined! Y’all showed up and OPENED up and we are all better for it! We can’t wait to share some of our highlights this week and we thank each and every one of you who joined us on stage or off, online or in person, and those who help make the 2021 #BlackLoveSummit an incredible day Thank you to Target who presented our live stream to Summit guests watching safely from home.
- [Black Love Behind the Scenes | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/black-love-behind-the-scenes-black-love-summit-2021/) - Black Love BTS
- [The Wives Panel | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/the-wives-panel-black-love-summit-2021/) - The Wives Panel
- [The Husbands Panel | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/the-husbands-panel-black-love-summit-2021/) - The Husbands Panel
- [Loving More Abundantly | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/loving-more-abundantly-black-love-summit-2021/) - Loving More Abundantly
- [Don't Settle: Dating With Intention & Courting Your Partner | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/dont-settle-dating-with-intention-courting-your-partner-black-love-summit-2021/) - Don't Settle: Dating With Intention & Courting Your Partner
- [Intro and Money Money Money Panel | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/intro-and-money-money-money-panel-black-love-summit-2021/) - Black Love Founders Tommy & Codie Oliver welcome you to the 4th annual Black Love Summit!
- [I Still Want To Be Noticed | Wives Panel | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/i-still-want-to-be-noticed-wives-panel-black-love-summit-2021/) - The Wives Panel discussion on wanting to be
- [You're Not a Therapist! | Money Money Money Panel | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/youre-not-a-therapist-money-money-money-panel-black-love-summit-2021/) - Talking about money in relationships can be tough, like reeeaaallly tough. And the fellas on this panel shared that they don’t appreciate their wives trying to psycho-analyze them. Marcus Tanksley tried to lay it out for us….
- [Walk the Tightrope | Husbands Panel | Black Love Summit 2021](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/walk-the-tightrope-husbands-panel-black-love-summit-2021/) - Michael Jai White says his wife Gillian is a hero for the amount of trust she put in him after her first marriage. Here he explains why and what it meant to him.
- [BL Summit 2021 Livestream Rebroadcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/bl-summit-2021-livestream-rebroadcast/) - Welcome to the 4th Annual Black Love Summit! A one of a kind live - and streamed - experience gathering Black singles and couples for transparent conversations about love, partnership, and community. Black Love has carefully crafted every single detail of this event to help you on your dating, partnership, and self love journey. It is full of conversations designed to cultivate a space of joy and take a realistic look loving our partners, our families, our community, and ourselves more deeply! See the full schedule here: BlackLove.com/summitschedule
- [Black Love Summit FLASHBACK | Husbands Panel 2018](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/black-love-summit-flashback-husbands-panel-2018/) - Flashback from the Husbands Panel from the Black Love Summit in 2018
- ["You Need To Keep Your Balls" | Husbands' Panel | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/you-need-to-keep-your-balls-husbands-panel-black-love-summit-2020/) - It's the fellas' turn! Anthony Clark, Kevin Fredericks ( @KevOnStage ), Terrence Williams, and Black Love Co-Creator Tommy Oliver sit down and have a discussion on what it means to "keep your balls" in your marriage.
- [Sex When You're Fighting | Keeping It Sexy | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/sex-when-youre-fighting-keeping-it-sexy-black-love-summit-2020/) - When you’re at odds with your partner, can you put your emotions aside in order to meet your sexual needs? Or do your desires take a backseat to your emotions?
- [Is the "7 Year Itch" Real? | Wives' Panel | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/is-the-7-year-itch-real-wives-panel-black-love-summit-2020/) - Is the "7 Year Itch" Real?! Black Love Co-Creator, Codie Elaine Oliver, moderates this year's Black Love Summit Wives' Panel and asks Deborah Joy Winans, Melissa Fredricks (  @MrsKevOnStage ), and Melanie Clark about how marriage adjusts and changes as the years in the relationship add up.
- [A Place To Go Decompress | Date Night | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/a-place-to-go-decompress-date-night-black-love-summit-2020/) - David and Julie Arnold and Chris and Vanessa Spencer share how they support each other when arguments happen and why it's important for couples to have places to go to decompress and recenter themselves.
- [Black Love Summit FLASHBACK | Wives Panel 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/black-love-summit-flashback-wives-panel-2020/) - Flashback to the Wives Panel from the Black Love Summit in 2020
- [Have You Gone To Couples Therapy? | Never Have I Ever | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/have-you-gone-to-couples-therapy-never-have-i-ever-black-love-summit-2020/) - In this Never Have I Ever segment from the 2020 Black Love Summit, Yvette and Glen Henry ( @BeleafInFatherhood ) explain how going to couple's therapy has helped their marriage for the better.
- [The Kite and String Dynamic | Growing Your Money | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/the-kite-and-string-dynamic-growing-your-money-black-love-summit-2020/) - A moment from last weekend's Black Love Summit, Kevin @KevOnStage and Melissa Fredericks @MrsKevOnStage explains the "Kite and String Dynamic" that they believe every relationship that shares business together tends to follow. Moderated by Saundra Davis and also featuring Andre Cisco & Jasmine Nicole.
- [Having Healthy Examples of Black Relationships | Keynote | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/having-healthy-examples-of-black-relationships-keynote-black-love-summit-2020/) - Ryan Michelle Bathe & Sterling Brown share how needing to see healthy examples of Black relationships is important at last weekend's Black Love Summit, with moderator (and creator) Codie Elaine Oliver.
- [Managing Your Energy | Say It Loud | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/managing-your-energy-say-it-loud-black-love-summit-2020/) - Brittany Packnett Cunningham shares how learned to manage her time and energy to focus on her husband, Reginald Cunningham when work and the pressures of society become overwhelming. Moderated by Jemele Hill and also featuring Terrell and Jarius Joseph.
- [Creating A Safe Space | Say It Loud | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/creating-a-safe-space-say-it-loud-black-love-summit-2020/) - At the Say It Loud panel at last week's Black Love Summit, Terrell and Jarius Joseph share how they create a safe space for themselves during these uncertain times with moderator, Jemele Hill. Also featuring Reginald and Brittany Packnett Cunningham.
- [$85 Oatmeal & Sandwich Bites | Date Night | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/85-oatmeal-sandwich-bites-date-night-black-love-summit-2020/) - David and Julie's first time in counseling was over the "correct" way to make oatmeal l😂 They can laugh about this now but 17 years ago, this debate was anything but funny! We can all relate to times when something trivial turns into a blow out💥 In those heated times, sometimes you need a mediator and a marriage village to keep it 💯 and show you your blindspots.⁠
- [Favorite Moments | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/favorite-moments-black-love-summit-2020/) - Did you miss the 2020 #blacklovesummit?! Check out some of our favorite moments from this weekend's panel conversations! Can you relate to what our #blacklove fam had to say? Share your favorite moment below!
- [Favorite Moments | Black Love Summit 2019](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/favorite-moments-black-love-summit-2019/) - Here are our favorite moments from last year's 2019 Black Love Summit! We hope you'll join us for this year's VIRTUAL Black Love Summit in November! For more information, visit http://blacklovesummit.com
- [Married While Parenting Panel Recap | Black Love Summit 2019](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/married-while-parenting-panel-recap-black-love-summit-2019/) - Black Love Summit 2019 speakers Egypt Sherrod & DJ Fadelf and Kenny & Jessica Burns talked about the juggle of parenting little ones and prioritizing your spouse with host and Black Love Creator, Codie Elaine Oliver!
- [Keynote with Erica & Warryn Campbell | Black Love Summit 2019](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/keynote-with-erica-warryn-campbell-black-love-summit-2019/) - Erica & Warryn Campbell spoke with Black Love co-creator Codie Elaine Oliver about self love and being the best version of yourself while single and while married as well as what it takes to keep your marriage strong in the long haul.
- [Keynote with Devale & Khadeen Ellis | Black Love Summit 2018](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/keynote-with-devale-khadeen-ellis-black-love-summit-2018/) - Devale & Khadeen Ellis host the first ever Black Love Summit luncheon! If you love these two from Season 2 of Black Love Doc, check them out on BlackLove.com discussing love, family, dating and more!
- [Husbands Panel Highlights | Black Love Summit 2018](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/husbands-panel-highlights-black-love-summit-2018/) - Lance Gross, Chris Spencer, Devale Ellis and Robbie Jones got together for the Husband Panel hosted by BLACK LOVE co-creator Tommy Oliver at the first ever Black Love Summit.
- [Wives Panel Highlights | Black Love Summit 2018](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-summit/wives-panel-highlights-black-love-summit-2018/) - Black Love creators invited Vanessa Spencer with Ryan Michelle Bathe, Khadeen Ellis, Aonika Thomas, and Ashley Chea – all wives featured in the BLACK LOVE Series – to talk about the realities of wife-dom at the first-ever Black Love Summit.
- [Besties Since We Were Babies | Renee & Trudy | P1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/besties-since-we-were-babies-renee-trudy-p1/) - Imagine being born across the street from your bestie?! Renee & trudy have decades of memories under their belt, and tell us how their bond just continued to become stronger as they grew through college, law school, building a family and life's hardships.
- [Friendship Set The Bar | Erica & Jamilah | P2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/friendship-set-the-bar-erica-jamilah-p2/) - Healing, effort, and honesty — “JamErica” learned how to truly water their friendship & thus, set a new standard for future platonic & romantic relationships in their lives. Through vulnerability, love, and a whole lot of trust, the friend duo has leaned on each other through the highs, lows & career glow ups.
- [Besties Since We Were Babies | Renee & Trudy | P2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/besties-since-we-were-babies-renee-trudy-p2/) - Nine months apart, but totally in sync — Renee and Trudy share the moments they’re most excited for — and how family has always been the glue keeping their friendship rock solid.
- [Motherhood Connected Us | Erica & Jamilah | P1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/motherhood-connected-us-erica-and-jamilah/) - What started as a virtual connection turned into a real-life sisterhood. Erica and Jamilah share how motherhood brought them together, helping them find comfort, purpose, and partnership in one another. Their bond blossomed into a full-blown business (Good Moms, Bad Choices podcast, book, and events) — and now, these two mamas are building more than just a brand. They’re building a legacy, one laugh at a time.
- [Navigating Marriage & Fatherhood | Kelly & Thomas | P2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/navigating-marriage-fatherhood-kelly-thomas-p2/) - With love and marriage comes intention — and plenty of growing pains. Thomas and Kelly share how they learned to be patient with each other while navigating life’s changes, including Thomas’s leap into fatherhood. Together, they’ve built a relationship full of love, growth, and beautiful family moments.
- [High School Sweethearts 26 Years Later | Rios & Ashley | P2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/high-school-sweethearts-26-years-later-rios-ashley-p2/) - Rios and Ashley have four children and in Part 2 of their The Rest is History conversation they share what they want their kids to know about falling in love at any age and what makes a great partner.
- [When Love Finds You | Kelly & Thomas | P1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/when-love-finds-you-kelly-and-thomas-p1/) - They weren’t looking for love — but love definitely found them. Kelly and Thomas share how being their true, unfiltered selves led to a connection so real, it was impossible to ignore. Now they’re loving out loud and building something that’s here to stay.
- [Good Sex, No Climax](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/tantric-perspective/good-sex-no-climax-tantric-perspective-s1-e1/) - What are your expectations when it comes to sex The pressure to climax is definitely real so when it doesnt happen was the sex unsuccessful
- [Killing Intimacy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/tantric-perspective/killing-intimacy/) - YES Kamali Minter is back with more TantricPerspective and she talking about taking ownership and getting real with yourself to avoid killing the intimacy in your relationship
- [Conscious Penis](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/tantric-perspective/conscious-penis/) - Connect your sex with your heart and your head Kamali says itll lead to some pretty EPIC sex
- [Dating for Depth](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/tantric-perspective/dating-for-depth/) - Let's talk about dating with intention! Consider ways to date for depth in today's climate — it can be tricky. Kamali Minter encourages you to reflect on past relationships to create a "more please" list — highlighting what made you feel special, secure and confident in your past relationships and making that a requirement moving
- [Chemistry vs Affinity: Can You Have It All?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/tantric-perspective/chemistry-vs-affinity/) - Can you have it all? Kamali Minter breaks it down for us! Chemistry and affinity CAN coexist, but it might take some work! Have you experienced these competing elements in your relationship and did you consider this while dating?
- [Sexual Desire](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/tantric-perspective/sexual-desire/) - "Why don't I want to have sex?" Questions that needed answers! Sexual desire can fluctuate and Kamali is making sure you know that you're NOT alone! She takes us through why it's important to address and what factors can play a role in these types of changes. If you've ever had questions about this, press
- [This Friendship is Expanding Me | Ke'Era & Tyla | P2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/this-friendship-is-expanding-me-keera-tyla-p2/) - When I find a guy I want to talk to as much as I want to talk to Ke'Era, that's the one." A best friend is a relationship worth celebrating, honoring, and pouring into. That's what Tyla and Ke'Era have. Learn more about how they show up for each other in Part 2 of their The Rest Is History story.
- [It Truly Was Love At First Sight | Rios & Ashley | P1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/it-truly-was-love-at-first-sight-rios-ashley-p1/) - New school, unfamiliar faces… and one unforgettable spark. Ashley and Rios share how their instant connection turned into a lasting love story — from high school sweethearts to a beautiful journey of growth, commitment, and deep affection.
- [In case ya’ll haven’t heard, the Black Love Summit is returning to ATL on Oct 21st! 🖤 #blacklove](https://blacklove.com/video/uncategorized/in-case-yall-havent-heard-the-black-love-summit-is-returning-to-atl-on-oct-21st-🖤-blacklove/)
- [Unapologetically Us | Susan Kelechi Watson & Codie Elaine Oliver](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/unapologetically-us-susan-kelechi-watson-codie-elaine-oliver-you-retreat-2023/) - Susan Kelechi Watson played an unapologetically Black woman on TV for 7 years while Codie Elaine Oliver was building an unapologetically Black brand and digital community. They share how all of us can harness the power of WHO WE ARE to create success and personal fulfillment - even when it’s challenging.
- [On Screen Queens | Shoniqua Shandai & KJ Smith](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/on-sceeen-queens-shoniqua-shandai-kj-smith-you-retreat-2023/) - With the high highs that come with being known actors and the quiet lows that come with a competitive and superficial industry, staying motivated, encouraged, and grounded doesn’t come by accident. Shoniqua Shandai and KJ Smith will share their journey to self love and acceptance.
- [Sisterfriends | Neelam Hakeem & Sierra Capri](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/sisterfriends-neelam-hakeem-sierra-capri-you-retreat-2023/) - Finding genuine friends in adulthood can sometimes be a challenge. But it’s one that didn’t keep this 20-something Baltimore-bred actress and this 30-something rapper, wife, and mama from Seattle from finding their tribe in one another after meeting at an event.
- [Wellness at the Highest Level | Nneka & Chiney Ogwumike & Koya Webb](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/nneka-and-chiney-ogwumike-koya-webb-you-retreat-2023/) - For WNBA players Nneka & Chiney Ogwumike and former professional athlete turned life coach Koya Webb, their health pays the bills. These three ladies share how physical health and fitness are only a part of what’s necessary to thrive. Overall wellness starts from within and with who you let in.
- [Our Voices Matter | Jemele Hill & Deborah Joy Winans](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/our-voices-matter-jemele-hill-deborah-joy-winans/) - Jemele Hill and Deborah Joy Winans know how to use their voices. But that doesn’t mean it’s always easy. From going against the grain (publicly and/or privately) to broadcasting their voices in podcast form, learn how these ladies have learned to trust their gut and speak their mind.
- [Sisterhood is QUEEN | Angela Rye & Devi Brown](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/sisterhood-is-queen-angela-rye-devic-brown-2021/) - Differences in age, marital status, distance, busy careers, number of kids or none at all, can't stop the bond between any good sister-friends. Devi Brown & Angela Rye talk about maintaining their relationship and keeping each other uplifted through every season of life.
- [Creating Your Own Path | Mickey Guyton and Estelle](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/creating-your-own-path-mickey-guyton-estelle-2021/) - There are times when the path forward is the one you create. Singers Mickey Guyton and Estelle discuss how they've built a life and/or career by choosing the road less or even un-traveled.
- [Taking Care of Self | Codie Elaine Oliver & Tai Beauchamp](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/taking-care-of-self-codie-elaine-oliver-tai-beauchamp-2021/) - Founder of Brown Girl Jane Tai Beauchamp & Black Love, lnc. founder Codie Elaine Oliver talk about the highs and lows of running an empire, ways they've overcome burnout, and the importance of peer mentorship for Black women in business from the top down.
- [I Am Worthy | Tabitha Brown & Melissa Fredericks](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-you-retreat/i-am-worthy-tabitha-brown-melissa-fredericks/) - Tabitha Brown & Melissa Fredericks talk about getting through difficult times of self doubt and emerging stronger and more committed to being exactly who they are meant to be.
- [Dating Didn't Ruin Our Friendship | Obio & Jermelle | P1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/dating-didnt-ruin-our-friendship-obio-jermelle-part-1/) - Get into this friends to lovers to FIANCEÈS story of how Obio and Jermelle met, clicked, and decided to share their lives with one another.
- [Our Friendship is Healing | Ke'Era & Tyla | P1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/our-friendship-is-healing-keera-tyla-p1/) - Are you ready for The Rest is History besties edition?! Think about why you love your best friend and how you know this was a forever-type of thing? That's this show! How do you know when a friendship is the real deal? Ke’Era and Tyla reflect on the green flags they saw in each other early on — and the beautiful moments & memories they can't wait to create together.
- [Being Each Other's Peace | Paige & Justin | P2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/being-each-others-peace-paige-justin-p2/) - After not talking since high school to making a love connection 12 years later, Justin and Paige share what they adore about each other and what makes their bond special in Part 2 of Black Love's series The Rest Is History.
- [Mama’s Den Reintroduction, Part 2: From Four Mamas to Three](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mamas-den-reintroduction-part-2-from-four-mamas-to-three-2/) - A few weeks ago, we dropped Mama’s Den Reintroduction Part 1 - if you missed it, go run that back! In Part 2, we pick up where we left off…but this time, we’re officially down one Mama. Codie, Ashley, and Melanie open up about Felicia’s decision to step away from the show to pursue her next chapter (we love you and love this for you, Fee!). The Mamas also get real about where they are now - juggling motherhood, entrepreneurship, and personal growth - while doing their best to choose joy and lean on community. If you’re out here doing the best with what you’ve got, this is your reminder: joy is still on the table.
- [On the Couch: The Story of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/on-the-couch-the-story-of-black-love/) - Personally and professionally, The Olivers and Black Love Inc. are committed to uplifting the Black community from the inside out. That means centering and celebrating our stories so that we, as Black people, recognize our greatness and we appreciate brands like Target who consciously work to do the same. And founders Tommy & Codie Elaine Oliver began their Black Love Inc journey alongside their personal Black love journey - getting engaged, then married, and becoming parents. When given an opportunity to sit on the couch and share their journey with the Black Love family, the Olivers were thrilled to do so while highlighting some of the Black-owned brands and products they use every day as a family, all of which can be found at Target.
- [Gender Roles within a Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/gender-roles-within-a-marriage-couch-conversations-s1e1/) - Are Gender Roles a NonNegotiable in your Marriage Khadeen Devale talk gender roles in marriage with couples Melissa and Kevin and Issa and Casie
- [Our Home Birth Story | Sterling K Brown](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/our-home-birth-story-sterling-k-brown-doula-dads-s1-e1/) - No matter your birth plan, dads, you CAN positively impact mom and baby. Be her peace, yes. Her supporter, yup. Her advocate, now that’s just sexy! We asked 4 men to describe their childbirth experience and how they came through for their partners for all the moments that matter. First up - Sterling K. Brown!
- [Durand Bernarr | Self Portrait Sessions | A *NEW* Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/self-portrait-sessions/durand-bernarr-self-portrait-sessions-a-new-black-love-series/) - Durand Bernarr Self Portrait Sessions A NEW Black Love Series
- [When Is It Okay to Lie? | Courtney and Alexis](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/when-is-it-okay-to-lie-courtney-and-alexis-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Courtney and Alexis answer questions related to love queerness and raising children
- [When Did You Fall In Love? | Jonta and Denver](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/when-did-you-fall-in-love-jonta-and-denver-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Jonta and Denver answer questions related to love queerness and holiday traditions
- [What's an Album? | Charisse and Eden](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/whats-an-album-charisse-and-eden-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Whats an Album Charisse and Eden
- [What Would You Do With Unlimited Resources? | Angel and Quin](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/what-would-you-do-with-unlimited-resources-angel-and-quin-couch-conversations-for-two/) - What Would You Do With Unlimited Resources Angel and Quin
- [Is Tough Love Worth It? | Lynette & Shaquanta](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/is-tough-love-worth-it-lynette-shaquanta-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Is Tough Love Worth It Lynette Shaquanta
- [Have You Ever Had a One Night Stand? | Natalie & JaSena Odell](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/have-you-ever-had-a-one-night-stand-natalie-jasena-odell-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Have You Ever Had a One Night Stand Natalie JaSena Odell
- [Who Is Most Likely... w/ Algee Smith & Sierra Capri | Young Wild Free](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/who-is-most-likely-w-algee-smith-sierra-capri-young-wild-free-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Who Is Most Likely Algee Smith Sierra Capri YOUNG WILD FREE x Couch Conversations for Two
- [Young. Wild. Free. | Algee Smith + Sierra Capri](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/young-wild-free-algee-smith-sierra-capri-couch-conversations-for-two/) - YOUNG WILD FREE Algee Smith Sierra Capri
- [Do You Believe in Monogamy? | Danielle and Thyri](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/do-you-believe-in-monogamy-danielle-and-thyri-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Do You Believe in Monogamy Danielle and Thyri
- [Should Your Teenage Daughter Wear Makeup? | Ashley + Amirah Chea](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/should-your-teenage-daughter-wear-makeup-ashley-amirah-chea-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Should Your Teenage Daughter Wear Makeup Ashley Amirah Chea
- [They Talkin' Bout WHAT in the Mom Group Chat?! | Christin + Ashley](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/they-talkin-bout-what-in-the-mom-group-chat-christin-ashley-couch-conversations-for-two/) - They Talkin Bout WHAT in the Mom Group Chat Christin Brown Ashley Wright
- [What do YOU value most at this stage in your life??? Let us know in the comments! 🤔👇🏿](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/what-do-you-value-most-at-this-stage-in-your-life-let-us-know-in-the-comments-🤔👇🏿/)
- [Do Parents Have A Favorite Child? | Jamila and Donna Jordan](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/do-parents-have-a-favorite-child-jamila-and-donna-jordan-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Jamila is a newborn and toddler mama and her mom Donna raised her and her two brothers with loveeven if there is a favorite child They have always been close but in Couch Conversations for Two Mama and nem addition talk about how roles start to change when mom becomes grandma and daughter becomes mom
- [Does Your Mom have Rizz? | Isaiah + Brittany Perry Russell](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/does-your-mom-have-rizz-isaiah-brittany-perry-russell-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Does Your Mom have Rizz Isaiah Brittany Perry Russell
- [Intimacy and Motherhood | La'Myia Good + Brooke Valentine](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/intimacy-and-motherhood-lamyia-good-brooke-valentine-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Intimacy and Motherhood LaMyia Good Brooke Valentine
- [Is Beyonce the Greatest Athlete of All Time? (Yes!)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/is-beyonce-the-greatest-athlete-of-all-time-yes-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Is Beyonce the Greatest Athlete of All Time Yes
- ["You're Still Blushing!" | What's your biggest regret?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/youre-still-blushing-whats-your-biggest-regret-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Youre Still Blushing Whats your biggest regret
- [Is Love At First Sight Real](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/is-love-at-first-sight-real-couch-conversations-for-two/) - Strangers Justyn Chelle sit down to answer deep questions and end up on a bit of an unexpected first date
- [Couch Conversations For Two | Trailer](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/couch-conversations-for-two-trailer/) - Couch Conversations FOR TWO | In this one on one question series featuring pairs from lovers to exes to parents and their kids or two friends, participants go deep with some of Black Love's favorite get-to-know-you card games. We feature Do Tell!, Actually Curious, The Love Deck and more.
- [WAIT- WHAT'D HE SAY? | What's your biggest sacrifice?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/wait-whatd-he-say-whats-your-biggest-sacrifice-couch-conversations-for-two/) - WAIT WHATD HE SAY Whats your biggest sacrifice
- [He'd do WHAT?! What a 7 year old would do if he had a day to himself](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/hed-do-what-what-a-7-year-old-would-do-if-he-had-a-day-to-himself-couch-conversations-for-two/) - A millennial dad Tommy is interrogated by his 7year old son Brooks
- [Which concert would you go to at their prime - Michael or Whitney?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/which-concert-would-you-go-to-at-their-prime-michael-or-whitney-couch-conversations-for-two/) - We brought together two strangers with an entire DECADE age gap Talking about music art sports and theatre Charles and Merchelle got into it
- [Our first pair for Couch Conversations for Two were complete STRANGERS y’all! 🤭](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/our-first-pair-for-couch-conversations-for-two-were-complete-strangers-yall-🤭/)
- [Tap Dance | Chloe and Maud | Syncopated Ladies #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-history-now-dynamic-duos/tap-dance-chloe-and-maud-syncopated-ladies-black-history-now-dynamic-duos-shorts/)
- [Chloe and Maud | Syncopated Ladies](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-history-now-dynamic-duos/chloe-and-maud-syncopated-ladies-black-history-now-dynamic-duos/) - Black History Now Black Love celebrated Dynamic Duos siblings friends and couples fulfilling their dreams and building TOGETHER
- [Regis and Kahran | Creative Soul Photography](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-history-now-dynamic-duos/regis-and-kahran-creative-soul-photography-black-history-now-dynamic-duos/) - Black History Now Black Love celebrated Dynamic Duos fulfilling their dreams and building TOGETHER Meet Regis Kahran an Atlanta married couple that showcases thoughtprovoking imagery of children across the African Diaspora highlighting past present and future visions of black culture to build a society where all kids are treated equally and feel confident in their authentic selves
- [Tommy and Codie | Confluential Films](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-history-now-dynamic-duos/tommy-and-codie-confluential-films-black-history-now-dynamic-duos/) - Do you wonder what Its like to create with the one you love
- [Devale and Khadeen | The Ellis Family](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-history-now-dynamic-duos/devale-and-khadeen-the-ellis-family-black-history-now-dynamic-duos/) - Every partnership you see with us we own it
- [Dustin and Lee | Our Own](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-history-now-dynamic-duos/dustin-and-lee-our-own-black-history-now-dynamic-duos/) - We are trying to create a super roster of amazing kids that grow up to be amazing adults that change the world
- [Heal His Childhood Trauma | James Harris](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/heal-his-childhood-trauma-james-harris-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - James Harris was supposed to be just another statistic in the foster care system At the age of sixteen he decided the best plan for his future was to emancipate himself and take control of his life so he could be the support system for his siblings who he was separated from when they entered the Virginia foster care system Today Tedx speaker husband and father James Harris goes Man to Man with David to discuss how he took the necessary steps to heal his child hood trauma by educating himself about mental health He discusses how this played a huge part in how he created his program Men to Heal that helps other black men to be vulnerable so they can have autonomy over their feelings
- [Knowledge, plain and simple, is POWER! | James Nicholas Kinney](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/knowledge-plain-and-simple-is-power-james-nicholas-kinney-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Knowledge, plain and simple, is POWER! Being informed about today’s society is essential, and can be the difference between thriving or just getting by. James Nicholas Kinney is one who chose to survive, learn and thrive when the universe gave him a choice that he couldn't say no too. Now, he's here to go Man to Man with David to discuss how he pulled himself out of a very deep depression and battled his agoraphobia after almost losing his life. Listen as America’s Mental Health Motivator speaks on how you can change your life just by reading, meditating and so much more.
- [Finding His Own Healing | Dominic Lawson](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/finding-his-own-healing-dominic-lawson-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - What do you do when you lose it all When you think you know your life plan and then suddenly that changes Dominic Lawson knows all about change and loss He wouldnt tell you that there is some magical cure all on the other side What you would learn from him is that he is a man of service a man who loves his community and a champion of mental health who is STILL on his own journey Through storytelling he is finding his own healing AND success In going Man to Man with David Dominic shares about growing up in the Lamar Terrace projects in Memphis Tennessee his time in the Army and being an Angel parent but they also share what it means to find the joy in the margins
- [Tools to Navigate a World | Alimi Ballard](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/tools-to-navigate-a-world-alimi-ballard-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Get your air horns ready because today David goes man to man with actor producer husband father and of course New Yorker Alimi Ballard David and Alimi dive into why he credits his mother as the most influential person in his early life and how he takes those lessons and teaches them to his children so they have the tools to navigate a world that can be very cruel with grace confidence and humility as a young person of color
- [Overcoming Narcissism | Lee Hammock](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/overcoming-narcissism-lee-hammock-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Narcissism is defined as a selfcentered personality style characterized as having an excessive preoccupation with oneself and ones own needs often at the expense of others Often people want a narcissist to be more engaged in things going on around them than themselves But what happens when a narcissist decides to go get the genuine help they need to be become a better man for the people around them David goes Man to Man with Lee Hammock a selfaware narcissist who chose to do the work and go to therapy to be a better partner and father Now Lee inspires others through TIKTOK Facebook and other social media platforms to be honest with your self and do the work not just for others but for yourself
- [What It Took to Forgive His Father | Lheighton Cook](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/what-it-took-to-forgive-his-father-lheighton-cook-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Forgiveness is something we all struggle with However studies have found that the act of forgiveness can reap huge rewards for your health lowering the risk of heart attack improving cholesterol levels and sleep and reducing pain blood pressure and levels of anxiety depression and stress Today David is going Man to Man with an influencer father and skateboarder who knows all about the power of forgiveness Lheighton Cook The two talk about what it took for him to forgive his father The importance of it on ones mental health and how it all ties into being the man he is today
- [What's Happening in The Game | Hosea Chanchez](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/whats-happening-in-the-game-hosea-chanchez-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Today we are starting out Black History Month right with this brother right here! Hosea Chanchez is an actor and producer who has been in the entertainment industry for over 20 years and is probably best known for his role in The Game which you can catch on Paramount+ but his talents don't stop there - Hosea is also a passionate advocate for mental health awareness and support within the Black community. As David and Hosea sit down for a chat on what's happening in The Game, his wishes for Malik, and he reveals something he's never shared before.
- [Let's Get Real About Masculinity | Shawn Stevenson](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/lets-get-real-about-masculinity-shawn-stevenson-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - This week David goes Man to Man with health & fitness expert Shawn Stevenson. David (aka Shawn's #1 fan) and Shawn get real about masculinity, how health is much more than eating well, and how Shawn's own past set him on this path to help others. Make sure you tell another king, or queen, about this conversation because it is not one to miss!
- [Overcoming a Near-Death Car Crash | Benny Pough](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/overcoming-a-near-death-car-crash-benny-pough-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Hey Black Love fam! Today David is back with a legend in the music game. He has worked with all the big names like Kanye and Rihanna (and a bunch more), but he is also an entrepreneur, a family man, and a brand new author. We're talking about Benny Pough!
- [What Mamie taught Emmitt | Sean Patrick Thomas](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/what-mamie-taught-emmitt-sean-patrick-thomas-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - If you know anything about these Black Love streets, then you know Sean Patrick Thomas is a favorite around here. He's a loving husband, a great dad, and a phenomenal actor, and today he's sitting with David to talk about Till the heartbreaking true story of the historic lynching of 14-year-old Emmett Till through the eyes of his mother Mamie Till-Mobley in which he plays Gene Mobley.
- [Dismantle Your Internal Biases | Seth Brundle](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/dismantle-your-internal-biases-seth-brundle-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Today David goes Man to Man again with media personality and chef Seth Brundle! Listen in to learn how Seth's father influenced his views on masculinity, how he made the transition from fashion to food (!) and more. Plus, listen in as Seth and David discuss what masculinity looks like when one is also trying to dismantle their own internal biases, and the effects it has on their own parenting. Plus, how Seth navigated working in the style industry as a cisgender straight man, and what convinced him to transition to a career in food.
- [The Evolution of One's Self | Jared Cotter](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/the-evolution-of-ones-self-jared-cotter-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - David goes Man to Man with singer and Multi-Platinum and Grammy-nominated songwriter Jared Cotter. Listen in as Jared and David discuss what masculinity looks like when raising kids and how Jared's views of masculinity have evolved with the arrival of Kaia Love. Plus we finally hear his version of events when his now wife, Melanie Fiona, broke up with him. Clearly that worked itself out! This is a conversation about masculinity, the evolution of one's self, and fatherhood that you don't want to miss.
- [Wellness is a Journey Not A Race | Kevin Curry](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/wellness-is-a-journey-not-a-race-kevin-curry-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - In this episode David goes Man to Man with the founder of Fit Men Cook, Kevin Curry. The two discuss how mental health led to a wellness revolution, how religion in the Black community can make it hard to transition to mindfulness, and how your mama's sweet potato pie isn't that special.
- [Love and Your Higher Self | Anthony Clark](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/love-and-your-higher-self-anthony-clark-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Today David goes Man to Man with a Black Love Doc favorite. The half-man, half-amazing Anthony Clark! Listen in to find out how we can find a balance between the need to be tough and our higher selves.
- [Using Comedy to Escape Hopelessness | Jermaine Fowler](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/using-comedy-to-escape-hopelessness-jermaine-fowler-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Welcome back fam! Today David goes man to man with an actor, and comedian but also a father and overall good dude Jermaine Fowler. The two discuss how comedy was truly a way for Jermaine to make something of himself when everything seemed hopeless, how much of one's self it takes to make others laugh, and the intersection of religion and wellness.
- [Being Vulnerable As Black Men | Kelvin Davis](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/being-vulnerable-as-black-men-kelvin-davis-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - As we all know being different than what people think Black men should be gets you straight mocked being vulnerable is not something we expect from Black men Whether that comes from wearing feminine colors not being fit to enjoying certain hobbies there are some things that Black men avoid because they dont want to be talked about For body positive model and NAACP Image Award nominated author Kelvin Davis that was an afterthought Hes been rocking his style since childhood As a girl dad and a dapper gentleman Kelvin spreads joy just by being him but where does he pull his confidence from David and Kelvin go Man to Man to discuss not only where he pulls his confidence from but societal standards for men body positivity and health
- [Focusing on Growth & Character | Hosea Chanchez](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/focusing-on-growth-character-hosea-chanchez-man-to-man-a-wellness-series/) - Today we are starting out Black History Month right with this brother right here Hosea Chanchez is an actor and producer who has been in the entertainment industry for over 20 years and is probably best known for his role in The Game which you can catch on Paramount but his talents dont stop there Hosea is also a passionate advocate for mental health awareness and support within the Black community As David and Hosea sit down for a chat on whats happening in The Game his wishes for Malik and he reveals something hes never shared before
- [How to Maximize Your Day to Day | Benny Pough](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-how-to-maximize-your-day-to-day-benny-pough-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Hey Black Love fam Today David is going Man to Man with a legend in the music game He has worked with all the big names like Kanye and Rihanna and a bunch more but he is also an entrepreneur a family man and an author Were talking about Benny Pough Listen in as Benny shares the one event that would shift his entire life upside down What do you do when you have to start from step one when you have practically already won the race In this 2021 interview David and Benny go deep into the mental strength needed to navigate spaces that are unfamiliar to you and how to maximize your day to day in order to keep your peace and more
- [Health is Much More Than Eating Well | Shawn Stevenson](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-health-is-much-more-than-eating-well-shawn-stevenson-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Whats up Black Love Fam Today David is going Man to Man with someone he has wanted to talk to for a quick minute Hes an author health fitness expert and the host of the 1 Health Fitness podcast on Apple podcasts Hes also a husband a father and honestly just a really good brother Thats right were talking to Shawn Stevenson In this 2021 interview David aka Shawns 1 fan and Shawn get real about masculinity how health is much more than eating well and how Shawns own past set him on this path to help others Make sure you tell another king or queen about this conversation because it is not one to miss
- [The Amazing Art of Manifesting Money - Ep 19 - The Amazing Clarks | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/the-amazing-art-of-manifesting-money-ep-19-the-amazing-clarks-black-love-podcast-network/) - Episode 19 The Amazing Art of Manifesting Money
- [The Miracles and Wonders of Gratitude | Karega Bailey](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-the-miracles-and-wonders-of-gratitude-karega-bailey-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Hey Black Love fam Today we have a Black Love Doc favorite He is a father an Emmy Award winning artist an author a musician and you can catch him every week on his podcast SOL Affirmations right here on the Black Love Podcast Network the man of love Karega Bailey In this 2021 interview Karega shares about his opening for Erykah Badu the miracles and wonders surrounding his daughters and all the new developments in his life This brother is truly a good dude who radiates love in everything he does
- [Challenging Perceived Masculinity | Karega Bailey and Jay Barnett](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-challenging-perceived-masculinity-karega-bailey-and-jay-barnett-black-love-series/) - Toxic masculinity What is it Is it really an issue or is it some buzzword We brought in two brothers to have a conversation about masculinity in all forms but especially centered around being Black men Karega Bailey artist educator and angel father and King Jay Barnett author speaker and mental health therapist
- [Reflection, Healing and Masculinity | Jay Barnett](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-reflection-healing-and-masculinity-jay-barnett-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Hey Black Love fam If you loved the Man to Man IG Live series then youre gonna love this conversation today because todays guest was a fan favorite He a former NFL player turned therapist a speaker and author The King Jay Barnett Jay is back to talk about his definition of masculinity his love of flowers yup and his bookjournal Just Heal Bro Jay drops nothing but gems all throughout the conversation as the too discuss worthiness the value of reflection and how men can move forward in their healing journeys
- [We Answered Your Questions | FB Live](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/we-answered-your-questions-man-to-man-fb-live-black-love-podcast-network/) - Every Thursday this month were going live with our podcast network host David Wasicki and our podcast fam
- [How to Maximine Your Day to Day | Benny Pough](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-how-to-maximine-your-day-to-day-benny-pough-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - David goes Man to Man with one of the most successful record executives in the music industry entrepreneur real estate investor and now author Benny Pough
- [Health is Much More Than Eating Well | Shawn Stevenson](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-health-is-much-more-than-eating-well-shawn-stevenson-a-black-love-wellness-series-2/) - This week David goes Man to Man with health fitness expert Shawn Stevenson
- [Man to Man: The Importance of Vulnerability | MAJOR. | A Black Love Wellness Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-the-importance-of-vulnerability-major-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - David goes Man to Man with Hope Dealer and musician MAJOR to discuss depression vulnerability inspiration Imposter Syndrome and how each of those things have shaped him into the man he is today
- [Man to Man: Focus On The Self Conscious Mind | Garnett Strother | A Black Love Wellness Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-focus-on-the-self-conscious-mind-garnett-strother-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - David goes Man to Man with father life performance coach and mixed martial artist Garnett Strother to discuss fitness and life performance fatherhood and how being raised in a household by women shaped him into the man he is today
- [Being In Alignment With Yourself Anthony Clark](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-being-in-alignment-with-yourself-anthony-clark-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Man To Man is BACK with Life Relationship Coach Anthony Clark theamazingclarks from Season 4 of BlackLoveDoc and The Amazing Clarks on the Black Love Podcast Network
- [Wellness + Sacrifice + Marriage | Chance Brown](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-wellness-sacrifice-marriage-chance-brown-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Man To Man is BACK with Chance Brown teamchancebasketball from season 5 of BlackLoveDoc Chance drops in to talk wellness sacrifice marriage and manhood
- [Fatherhood & Masculinity | Jason and Adair](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-fatherhood-masculinity-jason-and-adair-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Man To Man is BACK with BlackLoveDoc season 5 couple Jason Bolden and Adair Curtis The new dads drop by to talk parenting selfcare and wellness for Black Men
- [Using Therapy to Communicate | Charles Kuykendoll](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-using-therapy-to-communicate-charles-kuykendoll-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Man To Man is BACK with special guest Charles Kuykendoll beloved1906 founder of rnbhouseparty host of The Shady Brunch on theshaderoom AND Black Love Season 5 cast member with wife of 4 years missdeme Join us as we talk mental health and wellness fatherhood self care and love for Black men
- [Compartmentalizing Identity | Spencer Paysinger](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-compartmentalizing-identity-spencer-paysinger-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Special guest CW All American producer husband and girldad Spencer Paysinger pysngr joins us as we talk mental health and wellness fatherhood self care and love for Black men
- [Fighting Imposter Syndrome | Glen Henry](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-fighting-imposter-syndrome-glen-henry-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - We had another great conversation with husband father emcee and creator extraordinaire BeleafInFatherhood about the impact of fatherhood transparency and wellness for Black men
- [Attuned with Your Purpose | Kenny Burns](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-attuned-with-your-purpose-kenny-burns-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Man To Man Returns with THE OG lifestyle specialist thought leader and businessman kennyburns Watch for a special conversation on wellness selflove growth
- [Transforming Your Body + Mind | Corey Calliet](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-transforming-your-body-mind-corey-calliet-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Were back with another episode of Man to Man featuring special guest Corey Calliet mrcalliet celebrity fitness trainer transformation specialist girldad Tune into the IG live for a special conversation on wellness self love for Black men
- [The Power of Forgiveness | Christian Keyes](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-the-power-of-forgiveness-christian-keyes-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Christian talks about the value of being valued the impact of childhood traumas the power of forgiveness and releasing blame his selflove tool kit and what hes looking for in his wife
- [Becoming a Whole Person | Mike Hill](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-becoming-a-whole-person-mike-hill-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Mike Hill talks about growing from a male to a man the impact of being a girldad being in a marriage as a whole person and learning to be comforting expressing his feelings while staying masculine
- [Man to Man: The Power of Affirmations | Karega Bailey | A Black Love Wellness Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-the-power-of-affirmations-karega-bailey-a-black-love-wellness-series/)
- [The Impact of Social Media on Self Image | Jay Barnett](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/man-to-man/man-to-man-the-impact-of-social-media-on-self-image-jay-barnett-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Introducing Man to Man a brand new Black Love IG Live series where we will be digging into what it means to prioritize wellness as a Black Man For our first installment Marriage and Family Therapist Jay Barnett kingjaybarnett joined Black Love General Manager David Wasicki wasicki for a conversation about the effects of social media on your selfimage and mental health Drop your favorite word of wisdom from the conversation in the comments below mantoman
- [Love Eventually | S1 E1 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/love-eventually-s1-e1-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Our couples share how they met and the lifechanging circumstances that almost caused them to miss out on love
- [Young Love | S1 E2 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/young-love-s1-e2-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Our couples share how their innocent young love blossomed into marital bliss
- [Own Your Role | S1 E3 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/own-your-role-s1-e3-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Couples describe how marriage changed the way they thought about traditional gender roles within a family
- [Weathering The Storm | S1 E4 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/weathering-the-storm-s1-e4-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Couples share how they have been able to manage their relationship in the face of difficult experiences
- [On Bended Knee | S1 E5 | Black Love: Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/on-bended-knee-s1-e5-black-love-untold-stories/) - Couples share the most intimate and romantic moments of their proposal stories
- [Honey I'm Home | S1 E6 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/honey-im-home-s1-e6-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Couples describe their daytoday routines with each other specifically how they find connection when coming home from a long day of work
- [Against The World | S1 E7 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/against-the-world-s1-e7-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Couples share how they respond to adversity within their marriage
- [Step By Step | S1 : E8 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/step-by-step-s1-e8-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Couples share what it was like to meet and connect with their partners children from a previous relationship
- [The Long Game | S1 E9 | Black Love: Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/the-long-game-s1-e9-black-love-untold-stories/) - Couples discuss the bonds forged in their marriage thats led to everlasting love
- [Tried & True Wisdom | S1 E10 | Black Love: The Untold Stories](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/tried-true-wisdom-s1-e10-black-love-the-untold-stories/) - Couples detail the moments and experiences that have cemented their bond as a married couple
- [“It was the first time I ever had a friendship first” - Flex #UntoldStoriesBlackLoveDoc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-untold-stories/it-was-the-first-time-i-ever-had-a-friendship-first-flex-untoldstoriesblacklovedoc/)
- [Celebrating Black Fatherhoodn | A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/celebrating-black-fatherhood-father-noir/) - Father Noir is a visual memoir celebrating Black Fatherhood during the month of June created by Black Love founder and father of three boys Tommy Oliver Because we know how important it is to see Black love in the form of fatherhood weve selected this compilation of men who have worked to be role models and leaders professionally and at home and photographed them alongside their children and in some cases their own fathers
- [Tommy Oliver | A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/tommy-oliver-father-noir-a-black-love-fatherhood-series/) - Black Fathers exist Black Fathers show up Black Fathers care And if we dont see it people tend to think its not the case So I think theres a responsibility to showcase that to show the truth
- [Chris Spencer |  Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/chris-spencer-father-noir-a-black-love-fatherhood-series/) - We often talk about fathers learning about parenthood from their father But for therealchrisspencer it is his village that raised him into the father he is today In addition to the lessons he learned from his father his stepfather mother and wife were also instrumental in his fatherhood journey
- [A Father's Lullaby #shorts | Black Fatherhood | Black Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/a-fathers-lullaby-shorts-black-fatherhood-black-love/)
- [Wayne Brady |  A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/wayne-brady-father-noir-a-black-love-fatherhood-series/) - Does daughter Maile make dad mrbradybaby smile big or is it the other way around When we decided to shoot portraits of some of our favorite fathers with their children we never imagined just how infectious the joy would be Weve been smiling ear to ear ever since because we know Blackfathersmatter Drop a if thinking of your father or father figure brings a smile to your face
- [Neil Brown Jr | A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/neil-brown-jr-father-noir-a-black-love-fatherhood-series/) - Leveling up Becoming a dad at only 17yearsold initially came with some rocky roads and some uncertainties in finances for neilbrownjr His goal as a father has always been to lead and give his two sons Ethan 21 and Bishop 23 greater lessons in responsibility and family
- [Warryn Campbell  | A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/warryn-campbell-father-noir-a-black-love-fatherhood-series/) - Theres something about the bond between father and sonespecially when the girls are away and the guys get to play warryncampbell
- [Bill Bellamy | A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/bill-bellamy-father-noir-a-black-love-fatherhood-series/) - Dad Gang billbellamy always brings the jokes but one thing he certainly takes seriously is his children 18year old daughter Bailey and 14year old son Baron
- [Jeff Friday |  A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/jeff-friday-father-noir-a-black-love-fatherhood-series/) - Jeff Friday the founder of the American Black Film Festival is the father of 2 teenage sons with his wife Nicole and 2 daughters from a previous relationship who believes intentionality partnered with care and patience is a vital component for any father parenting children His greatest goal as a father was always to channel any hurt or void he felt growing up and turn that into a positive and nurturing environment for his children
- [What does fatherhood mean to you? | #fathernoir | Black Love #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/what-does-fatherhood-mean-to-you-fathernoir-black-love-shorts/)
- [#FatherNoir is Black Love's visual celebration of the beauty of Black fathers.](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/fathernoir-is-black-loves-visual-celebration-of-the-beauty-of-black-fathers/)
- [“Being a father…is the greatest role of my life.” | Lance Gross | Father Noir | Black Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/being-a-fatheris-the-greatest-role-of-my-life-lance-gross-father-noir-black-love/)
- [Striving for excellence in fatherhood, Robbie Jone knows how important his role is to his kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/striving-for-excellence-in-fatherhood-robbie-jone-knows-how-important-his-role-is-to-his-kids/)
- [Fatherhood is taking center stage this month](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/fatherhood-is-taking-center-stage-this-month/)
- [Fatherhood Block Party | Jun 10th 2023 | Black Love Presents Father Noir](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/fatherhood-block-party-jun-10th-2023-black-love-presents-father-noir/)
- [Sometimes the children become the teacher….. | Black Love Presents Father Noir](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/sometimes-the-children-become-the-teacher-black-love-presents-father-noir/)
- [Let’s join together to show some love & appreciation for our dear dads (or any special father figure](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/lets-join-together-to-show-some-love-appreciation-for-our-dear-dads-or-any-special-father-figure/)
- [Black fathers, we see you. We support you. We love you | A Black Love Fatherhood Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/black-fathers-we-see-you-we-support-you-we-love-you-black-love-presents-father-noir/) - Black fathers we see you We support you We love you
- [“Fatherhood really changed my life for the better”](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/fatherhood-really-changed-my-life-for-the-better/)
- [Y’all... @rotimi might not know any dad jokes offhand, but @producertommy STAYS ready 😂🖤](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/yall-rotimi-might-not-know-any-dad-jokes-offhand-but-producertommy-stays-ready-😂🖤/)
- [Eric Bellinger is encouraging all the Dads out there!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/eric-bellinger-is-encouraging-all-the-dads-out-there/)
- [We see J. Alphonse Nicholson kiss his son Bryce on the cheek at the end! 😘](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/we-see-j-alphonse-nicholson-kiss-his-son-bryce-on-the-cheek-at-the-end-😘/)
- [Fatherhood is all about supporting our kids, but sometimes that means taking a step back. 🖤✨](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/father-noir/fatherhood-is-all-about-supporting-our-kids-but-sometimes-that-means-taking-a-step-back-🖤✨/)
- [Dating Expectations | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/dating-expectations-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week the ladies gather round to discuss dating while young the benefits of being with a determined man parenting adult partners and developing relationship dynamics
- [Women on Dating Apps | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/women-on-dating-apps-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - Moderated by millennial entrepreneur Jasmine Nicole reallyjsmn Blacklovecom original digital series Ladies Round Table is an indepth discussion amongst five Black women on aspects of love and relationships in the present day
- [What's Your Type? | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/whats-your-type-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on the Round Table Jasmine leads the ladies in talking about the type of men their attracted to masculine stereotypes in dating and relating to your partner as a lover versus a friend
- [Deal Breakers | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/deal-breakers-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week Jasmine gathers the ladies to talk about their deal breakers the qualities they look for in a man
- [How Do You Know When You're Ready? | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/how-do-you-know-when-youre-ready-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on Ladies Round Table the group discusses how you know if youre ready for marriage and how you well never know if you are ready but that you and your partner can grow and figure out marriage together Moderated by millennial entrepreneur Jasmine Nicole reallyjsmn Blacklovecom original digital series Ladies Round Table is an indepth discussion amongst five Black women on aspects of love and relationships in the present day
- [Dating for Marriage | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/dating-for-marriage-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on Ladies Round Table the group discusses they are not necessarily dating to marry but looking and finding the person that they do want to marry and grow with Moderated by millennial entrepreneur Jasmine Nicole reallyjsmn Blacklovecom original digital series Ladies Round Table is an indepth discussion amongst five Black women on aspects of love and relationships in the present day
- [Black Women & Marriage | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/black-women-marriage-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on Ladies Round Table the group discusses how the marriage comes as an afterthought when the most important aspect is finding a partner who you want to be and grow forever with Moderated by millennial entrepreneur Jasmine Nicole reallyjsmn Blacklovecom original digital series Ladies Round Table is an indepth discussion amongst five Black women on aspects of love and relationships in the present day
- [Dating Someone Who Makes Less](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/dating-someone-who-makes-less-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/)
- [Breaking The Cycle | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/breaking-the-cycle-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on Ladiess Round Table the group discusses how in order the break the cycle in their family they had to distance themselves a bit to create their own healthy cycles Moderated by millennial entrepreneur Jasmine Nicole reallyjsmn Blacklovecom original digital series Ladies Round Table is an indepth discussion amongst five Black women on aspects of love and relationships in the present day
- [Perfect Date | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/perfect-date-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on Ladies Round Table the group discusses what the perfect date looks like and how they like to spend some alone time with their partner Moderated by millennial entrepreneur Jasmine Nicole reallyjsmn Blacklovecom original digital series Ladies Round Table is an indepth discussion amongst five Black women on aspects of love and relationships in the present day
- [Black Women & Therapy | Ladies Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/black-women-therapy-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - Moderated by millennial entrepreneur Jasmine Nicole IG reallyjsmn Blacklovecom original digital series Ladies Round Table is an indepth discussion amongst five Black women on aspects of love and relationships in the present day
- [Friendship Breakups | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/friendship-breakups-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week the ladies talk about how and why friendships may change letting relationships go and moving on from old ties
- [Gender Roles | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/gender-roles-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on Ladies Round Table the group discusses their role as moms instilling values into their children allowing children a wide range of emotional expression generational differences in gender expression and opening yourself up to living differently
- [Love Languages | Ladies' Round Table | A Black Love Series](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/ladies-round-table/love-languages-ladies-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week the ladies talk love languages prioritizing your partners happiness and whether or not love languages can be incompatible
- [“People have things deeper than financial concerns "](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/people-have-things-deeper-than-financial-concerns/)
- [Would you date someone who’s not your physical type? #mensroundtable #blacklove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/would-you-date-someone-whos-not-your-physical-type-mensroundtable-blacklove/)
- [What do you think creates happiness? #mensroundtable #blacklove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/what-do-you-think-creates-happiness-mensroundtable-blacklove/)
- [Nothing transforms a life like love. #mensroundtable](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/nothing-transforms-a-life-like-love-mensroundtable/)
- [Manhood & Partnership](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/manhood-partnership-s2e5-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - EPISODE 5 MANHOOD PARTNERSHIP
- [“I am a proud co-parent….I look at my son’s mother as family now.” | Men's Round Table | #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/i-am-a-proud-co-parent-i-look-at-my-sons-mother-as-family-now-mens-round-table-shorts/)
- [Masculinity](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/masculinity-s2e4-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - EPISODE 4 MASCULINITY
- [Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/love-s2e3-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - EPISODE 3 LOVE
- [Children will hold a mirror to your face (IYKYK) | Men's Round Table | #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/children-will-hold-a-mirror-to-your-face-iykyk-mens-round-table-shorts/)
- [Finding a balance and being supportive of both yourself and your children’s dreams](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/finding-a-balance-and-being-supportive-of-both-yourself-and-your-childrens-dreams/)
- [Fatherhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/fatherhood-s2e2-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - EPISODE 2 FATHERHOOD
- [Mental Health](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/mental-health-s2e1-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - EPISODE 1 MENTAL HEALTH
- [What you go through is not who you are | Men's Round Table | A Black Love Series #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/what-you-go-through-is-not-who-you-are-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series-shorts/)
- [Men's Round Table Season 2 | Trailer](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/mens-round-table-season-2-trailer/) - MEN ROUND TABLE In 2018 we created a digital space for Black men to come together to debate all kinds of topics discover new perspectives and encourage one anotherand we heard loud and clear when our Black Love and Youtube audience asked for MORE from Black men So we called one of the most vulnerable and honest men we know to lead five allnew conversations with brothers who would lead with love transparency and humor
- [Healing and Self Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/healing-and-self-love-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - The men sit down this week and discuss how black men need to start loving themself more but also recognizing the hurt they have been through and reconciling it so they can heal Mens Round Table hosted by Brandon Bryant Wallstreetpaper features black men of differing ages and relationship status weighing in on everything love and relationships from dating apps to commitment and marriage
- [Breaking The Cycle](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/breaking-the-cycle-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - The men sit down this week and discuss why breaking the cycle in their family is important to them They discuss why they want to break the cycle in their family how they plan on breaking it why they are breaking it and how it is going so far Mens Round Table hosted by Brandon Bryant Wallstreetpaper features black men of differing ages and relationship status weighing in on everything love and relationships from dating apps to commitment and marriage
- [Money & Relationships](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/money-relationships-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - The men sit down this week and discuss the how they view money in a relationship and how it can affect the relationship Mens Round Table hosted by Brandon Bryant Wallstreetpaper features black men of differing ages and relationship status weighing in on everything love and relationships from dating apps to commitment and marriage
- [Black Men and Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/black-men-and-marriage-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week the men sit down and discuss marriage The want to get married how they got to that point and what they are looking for in a marriage Mens Round Table hosted by Brandon Bryant Wallstreetpaper features black men of differing ages and relationship status weighing in on everything love and relationships from dating apps to commitment and marriage
- [Commitment Issues](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/commitment-issues-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - Mens Round Table hosted by Brandon Bryant Wallstreetpaper features black men of differing ages and relationship status weighing in on everything love and relationships from dating apps to commitment and marriage
- [What Do You Look For In A Partner?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/what-do-you-look-for-in-a-partner-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week Brandon asks the men what they are looking for in a partner going beyond aesthetics and the value of having someone on your side who can keep it real with you
- [What's Your Type](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/whats-your-type-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week the men discuss what type of women they like your life partner presenting differently than expected and being attracted to more than just looks
- [Men on Dating Apps](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/men-on-dating-apps-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - In this episode of Mens Round Table the fellas sit down and discuss how dating apps can be easy to use especially when traveling but the authenticity of meeting someone is sometimes missed
- [What Men Desire](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/what-men-desire-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week Brandon asks the Round Table what they are looking for in a relationship the characteristics they desire in a woman first date etiquette and the value of third party insight on new relationships
- [Love Languages](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/love-languages-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - The Round Table begins February discussing love languages the importance of communication and why its valuable to communicate while emotional balancing physical touch and the influence of family in interpersonal relationships
- [Role Models](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/role-models-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This week on Mens Round Table the men discuss fatherhood role models wisdom from your barber relationship mentors and so much more
- [Self Development](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/self-development-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - This Monday the guys come together to discuss their methods of self development how they evaluate and being able to sit with yourself
- [Black Men & Therapy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/mens-round-table/black-men-therapy-mens-round-table-a-black-love-series/) - On this episode of Mens Round Table the fellas discuss how therapy can only help your relationship and yourself They discuss how therapy can show so much insight on your relationship
- [Sex & Intimacy in Marriage | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/sex-intimacy-in-marriage-part-1-couch-conversations-s2-e2/) - Is sex the end all be all for proving your love to your partner Khadeen Devale talk about maintaining intimacy in marriage and relationships with couples Kirk and Nakia and Jennifer and Nashon
- [Can You Be Happily Married With Different Religious Beliefs? | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/can-you-be-happily-married-with-different-religious-beliefs-part-1-couch-conversations-s2-e3/) - Khadeen Devale discuss finding common ground with your partner when you both have different belief systems
- [Is Social Media Competing with Your Relationship? | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/is-social-media-competing-with-your-relationship-part-1-couch-conversations-s2-e4/) - Do You Compete with Social Media in Your Relationship Khadeen Devale talk about rules and regulations regarding social media and relationships with couples Angel and Marcus and Nova and Kareem
- [Working Together Within Marriage and Business](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/working-together-within-marriage-and-business-couch-conversations-s1e2/) - Whats it like when youre married to your business partner Khadeen Devale talk marriage and business with couples Deondray Quincy and Robert Amber
- [Finances in Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/finances-in-marriage-couch-conversations-s1-e4/) - Are finances a problem in your marriage Devale Ellis and Khadeen Ellis talk MONEY with two new couples and dig deep into money challenges married couples face when managing finances together
- [Is Marriage A Necessity?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/is-marriage-a-necessity-couch-conversations-s1e3/) - Is marriage the end all be all for proving your love to your partner These couples are discussing the moment they realized that marriage was the RIGHT thing for them
- [Couch Conversations Season 2 on the Black Love+ App!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/couch-conversations-season-2-on-the-black-love-app/)
- [What Should Be the Top Priorities In Marriage? | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/what-should-be-the-top-priorities-in-marriage-part-1-couch-conversations-s2-e1/) - Couples discuss the importance of communication and practicing compromise to make the marriage work
- [What Should Be the Top Priorities In Marriage? | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/what-should-be-the-top-priorities-in-marriage-part-2-couch-conversations-s2-e1/) - Couples discuss the importance of communication and practicing compromise to make the marriage work
- [Sex & Intimacy in Marriage | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/sex-intimacy-in-marriage-part-2-couch-conversations-s2-e2/) - Is sex the end all be all for proving your love to your partner Khadeen Devale talk about maintaining intimacy in marriage and relationships with couples Kirk and Nakia and Jennifer and Nashon
- [Can You Be Happily Married With Different Religious Beliefs? | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/can-you-be-happily-married-with-different-religious-beliefs-part-2-couch-conversations-s2-e3/) - Khadeen Devale discuss finding common ground with your partner when you both have different belief systems
- [Is Social Media Competing with Your Relationship? | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/is-social-media-competing-with-your-relationship-part-2-couch-conversations-s2-e4/) - Do You Compete with Social Media in Your Relationship Khadeen Devale talk about rules and regulations regarding social media and relationships with couples Angel and Marcus and Nova and Kareem
- [Surviving the Juggle of Parenting and Partnership | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/surviving-the-juggle-of-parenting-and-partnership-part-1-couch-conversations-s2-e5/) - Couples discuss the balancing act of parenting while continuing to nurture marriage and relationships
- [Surviving the Juggle of Parenting and Partnership | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/surviving-the-juggle-of-parenting-and-partnership-part-2-couch-conversations-s2-e5/) - Couples discuss the balancing act of parenting while continuing to nurture marriage and relationships
- [Depression within a Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/depression-within-a-marriage-couch-conversations-s2-e6/) - Couples share how depression affected their relationships and their steps in seeking help for themselves and their partners
- [Newlyweds](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/newlyweds-s3-e1-couch-conversations/) - Newlyweds
- [Sex vs Intimacy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/sex-vs-intimacy-s3-e2-couch-conversations/) - Sex vs Intimacy
- [How Do Children Change a Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/how-do-children-change-a-marriage-s3-e3-couch-conversations/) - How Do Children Impact Marriage
- [Is Marriage a Necessity](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/is-marriage-a-necessity-s3-e4-couch-conversations/) - Is Marriage a Necessity
- [SEASON 3 Trailer | Couch Conversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/season-3-trailer-couch-conversations/)
- [Dream-Chasing](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/dream-chasing-s3-e5-couch-conversations/) - Tabitha notoriously told Chance to give her 5 years in LA to become successful And Chance held their family down working as a police officer while Tabithas dream took longer than expected While we have all seen Tabithas dream pay off couples Ashley Shanita and Kim Jesse are in the middle of that journey now What do sacrifice patience and support look like when one partner is chasing their passion while the other is more responsible for financial stability
- [Evolution of Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/evolution-of-marriage-s4-e4-couch-conversations/) - With growth brings change but sometimes change is uncomfortable Kevin and Melissa sit with Destiny Devontae and Jacquelyn Shaun as they discuss the ups and downs of evolving as individuals together as partners and parents
- [High School Sweethearts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/high-school-sweethearts-s4-e1-couch-conversations/) - Couples who met in high school discuss the pros and cons of finding the one so early in life Alana Anthony and Jia Elijah share with us the advantages of being together since their youth and how theyve overcome challenges theyve faced as a young couple growing up together
- [Couch Conversations | Season 4 Trailer](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/couch-conversations-season-4-trailer-2/) - We are deeply saddened by the pain that our family Kevin and Melissa Fredericks are experiencing following the passing of Kevin brother
- [🤭😫What are the rules? Speak up in the comments. #blacklove #couchconversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/🤭😫what-are-the-rules-speak-up-in-the-comments-blacklove-couchconversations/)
- [🫶🏾How do you stay connected to your partner as you both change? #blacklove #couchconversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/🫶🏾how-do-you-stay-connected-to-your-partner-as-you-both-change-blacklove-couchconversations/)
- [🤪Why do many people get married immediately after letting go of wanting it so badly? #blacklove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/🤪why-do-many-people-get-married-immediately-after-letting-go-of-wanting-it-so-badly-blacklove/)
- [We are GOING THERE on the this episode of #couchconversations!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/we-are-going-there-on-the-this-episode-of-couchconversations/)
- [Patience is 🔑 #blacklove #couchconversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/patience-is-🔑-blacklove-couchconversations/)
- [Women don't like to be chased? Men are late bloomers? What's your take? #couchconversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/women-dont-like-to-be-chased-men-are-late-bloomers-whats-your-take-couchconversations/)
- [How can I be responsible for myself? #marriagecommunication #couchconversations  #blacklove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/how-can-i-be-responsible-for-myself-marriagecommunication-couchconversations-blacklove/)
- [Marriage and Money](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/marriage-and-money-s5-e1-couch-conversations/) - CC501 MARRIAGE MONEY
- [Privacy vs Publicity](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/privacy-vs-publicity-s5-e2-couch-conversations/) - CC502 PRIVACY VS PUBLICITY
- [Fighting Fair](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/fighting-fair-s5-e3-couch-conversations/) - CC503 FIGHTING FAIR
- [Couch Conversations is Back! What You Need to Know About Season 4 #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/couch-conversations-is-back-what-you-need-to-know-about-season-4-shorts/)
- [Value of Therapy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/value-of-therapy-s4-e2-couch-conversations/) - Is therapy worth it Kevin and Melissa are joined by couples Marisa Terell and Shafondra Glenn to share their experience going to therapy individually and together Watch as we learn from couples who have gone through and now see the value of therapy discuss why it worked for them
- [Religious Upbringing](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/religious-upbringing-s4-e3-couch-conversations/) - Does growing up Christian shape the way we see love and marriage After 17 years of marriage Neasel Clarence let us know how they navigated the purity culture at a young age while couple Lindsey Aaron learned how to unlearn tradition and expectation to create new boundaries that work for them
- [Last week things got a bit heavy as our Couch Conversations #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/last-week-things-got-a-bit-heavy-as-our-couch-conversations-shorts/)
- [Marriage is full of seasons | Blessings of Hanging On  #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/marriage-is-full-of-seasons-blessings-of-hanging-on-couch-conversations-shorts/) - Marriage is full of seasons and when our Couch Conversations couples sat down to think back on the evolutions within their marriage they shared how beautiful it can be to reflect back and see how far theyve come
- [Expectations vs. Reality](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/expectations-vs-reality-s4-e5-couch-conversations/) - From expecting dinner at a certain time every day gender roles or even how you spend your money we all have an idea of what we do and dont desire in a partnership Couples Jia Elijah and Tanai and Wesley let us know how marriage surprised them and what examples they grew up with that they had to unlearn to make their marriage a success
- [If you’re BIG mad, don’t add BIG sleep deprivation to the mix. 🥱😴](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/if-youre-big-mad-dont-add-big-sleep-deprivation-to-the-mix-🥱😴/)
- [Blending Families](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/blending-families-s5-e4-couch-conversations/) - CC504 BLENDING FAMILIES
- [Wellness](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/wellness-s5-e5-couch-conversations/) - CC505 WELLNESS
- [Guess who is hosting the newest season of Couch Conversations on the Black Love+ app Aug 31st?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/guess-who-is-hosting-the-newest-season-of-couch-conversations-on-the-black-love-app-aug-31st/)
- [Couch Conversations Season 5 Trailer](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/couch-conversations-season-5-trailer-watch-on-the-bl-app/) - Together 8 years and married for 3 Shelah Marie Ace Hood make a habit to have open and honest communication to help their relationship thrive We cant wait for you to see what they bring to season 5 of CouchConversations Presented in partnership with Target
- [Couch Conversations is back & we are coming in HOT talking about marriage & money with our NEW hosts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/couch-conversations-is-back-we-are-coming-in-hot-talking-about-marriage-money-with-our-new-hosts/)
- [“You ain’t got McDonalds money!!” | Couch Conversations S5](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/you-aint-got-mcdonalds-money-couch-conversations-s5/)
- [There is a learning curve when you go into business together | Couch Conversations S5](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/there-is-a-learning-curve-when-you-go-into-business-together-couch-conversations-s5/)
- ["I did not want him to know how much I was spending on bundles." 🤣 | Couch Conversations S5](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/i-did-not-want-him-to-know-how-much-i-was-spending-on-bundles-🤣-couch-conversations-s5/)
- [Sometimes you think you’re doing it all right…..then comes your person to show you another way. 👀](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/sometimes-you-think-youre-doing-it-all-right-then-comes-your-person-to-show-you-another-way-👀/)
- [“Social media is constantly telling you who you should be.” - @OFFICIALACEHOODTV](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/social-media-is-constantly-telling-you-who-you-should-be-officialacehoodtv/)
- [Late-night scrolling and responding to DMs in the bedroom?! | Couch Conversations #blacklove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/late-night-scrolling-and-responding-to-dms-in-the-bedroom-couch-conversations-blacklove/)
- [Does having a more appealing aesthetic make you more willing to share on social media?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/does-having-a-more-appealing-aesthetic-make-you-more-willing-to-share-on-social-media/)
- ["Not Insta-flirting?! What is that? 😄 | Couch Conversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/not-insta-flirting-what-is-that-😄-couch-conversations/)
- [“While I was pointing a finger at you, four more were pointing back at me.”](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/while-i-was-pointing-a-finger-at-you-four-more-were-pointing-back-at-me/)
- [We love the wisdom poured out here! | Couch Conversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/we-love-the-wisdom-poured-out-here-couch-conversations/)
- [Demonstrating the power of repair in the presence of children](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/demonstrating-the-power-of-repair-in-the-presence-of-children/)
- ["I had a model for being a bonus mom." | Couch Conversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/i-had-a-model-for-being-a-bonus-mom-couch-conversations/)
- [Let’s talk about it, have you come to these crossroads in your relationship??](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/lets-talk-about-it-have-you-come-to-these-crossroads-in-your-relationship/)
- [How has your community showed support during trying times in your relationship??](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/how-has-your-community-showed-support-during-trying-times-in-your-relationship/)
- [It's essential to remember that it's okay not to be okay.](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/its-essential-to-remember-that-its-okay-not-to-be-okay/)
- [We hope you all are tuning in to Couch Conversations! Ace & Shelah are keepin’ it real for y’all](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/we-hope-you-all-are-tuning-in-to-couch-conversations-ace-shelah-are-keepin-it-real-for-yall/)
- [A little behind the scenes of shooting Couch Conversations 🔥This is how the magic gets made!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/a-little-behind-the-scenes-of-shooting-couch-conversations-🔥this-is-how-the-magic-gets-made/)
- [HBCU Moment - Couch Conversations](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/hbcu-moment-couch-conversations/) - There nothing like the feeling of community that comes from attending an HBCU and when Black Love founder Codie Elaine Oliver sits down with a few of the guests from this season of Couch Conversations to talk about their experiences it a viiiibe From Howard to Tuskegee FAMU Tennessee State and an honorable mention for Hampton it all love BLACK LOVE
- [Are you done living your single life yet? #blacklovedoc #gammynorris](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/are-you-done-living-your-single-life-yet-blacklovedoc-gammynorris/)
- [Embracing the ongoing dialogue around discipline is an important conversation that truly matters](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/embracing-the-ongoing-dialogue-around-discipline-is-an-important-conversation-that-truly-matters/)
- [Fostering emotional intelligence in your children by creating a safe space](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations/fostering-emotional-intelligence-in-your-children-by-creating-a-safe-space/)
- [🤔 "Let me tell you!" vs. "Let me think about it." Which one are you? #afterlove #blacklove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/🤔-let-me-tell-you-vs-let-me-think-about-it-which-one-are-you-afterlove-blacklove/)
- [Do you think trust gets easier or harder as you get older? #blacklove #afterlove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/do-you-think-trust-gets-easier-or-harder-as-you-get-older-blacklove-afterlove/)
- [💸What do you prioritize when you are broke? #blacklove #afterlove](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/💸what-do-you-prioritize-when-you-are-broke-blacklove-afterlove/)
- [Relationship Goals - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/relationship-goals-after-love-s3e6-black-love-doc/) - Cynthia Bailey Mike Hill and Ray Roslyn Singleton sit down with Codie for the season finale of They share the reality of the term relationship goals and reveal that the true goal is knowing that tough times will come and go no matter who you are and what your relationship looks like from the outside
- [Healed People Heal People - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/healed-people-heal-people-after-love-s3e5-black-love/) - LaMyia Good Eric Bellinger Alimi Dahn Ballard and MyLin Lindsay Stokes Kennedy all join to discuss how parenting inspired them to start to vulnerably explore the parts of themselves that need growth healing and compromise
- [Getting Through It All  - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/getting-through-it-all-after-love-s3e4-black-love/) - Amber Peter Saji and Ray Rosalyn Singleton sit down to discuss how partnership can come with unexpected hardship Couples discuss getting through their intense grief health scares and dark moments together while finding light along the journey
- [Your Past Does Not Define You - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/your-past-does-not-define-you-after-love-s3e3/) - Adrienne Gammy Banfield Rodney Norrissit down with Codie Tommy to discuss the ways in which their past traumas patterns and insecurities jeopardized their current marriage and what it took for themand their partnersto break cycles and show up authentically
- [No, I Want a Girlfriend | After Love | #shorts](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/no-i-want-a-girlfriend-after-love-shorts/)
- [There Isn't One Way Pt. 2 - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/there-isnt-one-way-pt-2-after-love-s3e2/) - Melanie Fiona Jared Cotter and Roslyn Ray Singleton return to explain how they got through their personal barriers to commitment and what they learned about marriage early on
- [There Isn't One Way Pt. 1  - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/there-isnt-one-way-pt-1-after-love-s3e1/) - Many say youre stepping into your power as a woman to make decisions about who and what you want when speaking to someone youre interested in Codie explains her thoughts on taking the lead with Tommy on the premiere of alongside Jared Melanie and Ray Roslyn to discuss the season 6 opener of Black Love
- [Foundations - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-foundations-s2-e6-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In the season finale of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver sits down with Renece Ephraim Salaam and Shireen Charles Kuykendoll While the drinks are flowing these couples discuss the lessons they learned during their own marriage journeys to making it last
- [Give and Take - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-give-and-take-s2-e5-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator Codie Elaine Oliver sits down with couples Keith David Dionne Lea Williams and Ephraim Renece Salaam to discuss sacrifice in marriage Wives Dionne Lea Williams and Renece Salaam speak candidly about putting their careers on the back burners for the sake of their familys wellbeing aka their husbands careers
- [Faith and Fear - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-faith-and-fear-s2-e4-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver chats with couple Keith and Dretona on the principles of forgiveness when it comes to marriage Both Dretona and Keith share how they could forgive and begin to trust one another early on in their marriage and how that has led to a 20 plus year commitment to one another
- [First Comes Love... - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-first-comes-love-s2-e3-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver joins Adair Jason and Joe Kita to speak candidly about starting a Black family in nontraditional ways Whether through surrogacy or In vitro fertilization IVF the options are abundant for having a child These couples share their journeys to parenthood with Codie on this episode of
- [Finances - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-finances-s2-e2-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of AfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver talks about getting through your financial challenges as a couple with Deshun Dwight and Kita Joe The couples discuss everything from allowing the more financially stable partner to manage finances managing ego and seeking professional help in the form of therapy
- [Spark or No Spark? - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-spark-or-no-spark-s2-e1-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this FULL episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN series cocreator Codie Elaine Oliver sits down with two couples from the season 5 premiere Spencer Blair Paysinger and Charles Shireen Kuykendoll to continue the discussion on how love starts beginning with their very different journeys Both couples share what their expectations were of finding love knowing their soulmate and Charles addresses the fact that his wife Shireen felt no spark when they first met
- [Spark or No Spark? Season Two Preview Clip - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-spark-or-no-spark-s2-e1-preview-clip/)
- [After BONUS CLIPCodie & Tommy's Story - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-after-love-bonus-clip-codie-tommys-story/) - Is this the After Sure is Black Love CoCreators Codie and Tommy Oliver share their How They Met story with Bill Kristen Bellamy and Yvette and Glen Henry BeleafInFatherhood
- [Making It Last - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-making-it-last-s1-e6-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In the season finale of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver sits down with Bill Kristen Bellamy and Yvette Glen Henry While the drinks are flowing these couples discuss sex the marriage journey and Making It Last
- [*FB Live* Special Managing  Long Distance with Nikolai and Roxanne - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-fb-live-special-managing-long-distance-with-nikolai-and-roxanne/) - Black Love Cocreator Codie Elaine Oliver has a conversation with blacklovedoc fan favorites Roxanne and Nikolai Rowe Learn more about their 4year longdistance relationship that led to a beautiful marriage and blended family
- [*IG Live* SpecialMental Health with Joe and Leslie  - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-ig-live-special-mental-health-with-joe-and-leslie/) - BlackLoveDoc couple Joe and Leslie hopped on IG live with us yesterday to discuss their reaction to the Mental Health episode how their family went viral and more Tune in NOW and drop a below if youre a fan of the Lewis Family blacklove joeandleslie blacklovematters BLAfterLove
- [Mental Health - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-mental-health-s1-e3-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver joins Anthony Melanie and Tracci Tony to continue the discussion around mental health in their relationships and how to spotand addressred flags These couples share their journeys through trauma therapy and how to help your partner when theyre not sure they need it
- [Newlyweds - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-newlyweds-s1-e2-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of AfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver finds out what Ian Jemele and Brandi Kareem think of episode two These Newlyweds share what theyve learned about marriage and themselves how theyve adjusted during quarantine and how they support one another while dealing with social injustices
- [How Love Begins -  The Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-how-love-begins-s1-e1-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN series creators Codie and Tommy Oliver sit down with two couples from the season 4 premiere Terrence Joy Williams and Melanie Anthony Clark continue the discussion on how love starts beginning with their very different journeys Both couples share what their expectations were of finding love knowing their soulmate and Melanie tells us more about the infamous tattoo
- [Nature + Nurture |  Ashley Chea | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/nature-nurture-moms-with-coffee-s1-e1-ashley-chea-part-1/) - In this episode of Moms With Coffee meet Ashley Chea httpswwwyoutubecomuser88Sirah and learn her philosophies on raising 2 almost 3 girls
- [Homeschooling | Ashley Chea | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/homeschooling-moms-with-coffee-s1-e2-ashley-chea-part-2/) - In this episode of Moms With Coffee Ashley Chea httpswwwyoutubecomuser88Sirah talks about homeschooling her oldest while pregnant and caring for a toddler
- [Kids and Culture | Moms With Coffee | S1 E3 | Ashley Chea | Part 3](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/kids-and-culture-moms-with-coffee-s1-e3-ashley-chea-part-3/)
- [Motherhood & Career | Bec Gross | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/motherhood-career-moms-with-coffee-s1-e5-bec-gross-part-2/) - Lizzy Mathis and Bec Gross discusses how motherhood can affect career goals and how to manage both
- [Finding Your Village |  Bec Gross | Part 3](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/finding-your-village-moms-with-coffee-s1-e6-bec-gross-part-3/) - Bec Gross talks to Lizzy Mathis about how your village may change if you become a mom before your friends and how to navigate those friendships and build new ones
- [Finding Diversity | Ryan Michelle Bathe | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/finding-diversity-moms-with-coffee-s1-e8-ryan-michelle-bathe-part-2/) - Ryan Michelle Bathe opens up about building community with our host Lizzy Mathis These moms talk instilling empathy and communication in their little ones early MAJOR keys
- [Career & Kids |  Ryan Michelle Bathe | Part 3](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/career-kids-moms-with-coffee-s1-e9-ryan-michelle-bathe-part-3/) - It a balancing act being a new mother and managing a career Especially an oncamera career As an actress Ryan Michelle Bathe postbirth body was immediately put under the microscope
- [Pursuing Higher EducationS1 E10 | Ryan Michelle Bathe | Part 4 BONUS!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/pursuing-higher-education-moms-with-coffee-s1-e10-ryan-michelle-bathe-part-4-bonus/) - Ryan Michelle Bathe talks to Lizzy Mathis about acting pursuing her passion in Hollywood and how her mother and grandmother played a pivotal role in her choosing to study acting
- [Postpartum Depression | Felicia LaTour | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/postpartum-depression-moms-with-coffee-s1-e11-felicia-latour-part-1/) - Celebrity makeup artist Felicia La Tour gets very transparent with Lizzy Mathis about her postpartum depression journey and why she chose to be vocal about her experience after giving birth to her first child
- [Mindful Fee | Felicia Tour | Part 2 Bonus!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/mindful-fee-moms-with-coffee-s1-e12-felicia-tour-part-2-bonus/) - Felicia talks with LizzyMathis about living out loud and using her platform as a vehicle to promote mindfulness and speaks HER truth about her growth journey writing and makeup Mindfulfee
- [Stand By Me - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-stand-by-me-s1-e5-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series creators Codie and Tommy Oliver sit down with Felicia and Karega to discuss episode 5 Stand By Me They discuss black masculinity learning to sit with and articulate tough emotions and experiencing neonatal loss with their daughter Kamaiu
- [Finding A Rhythm - The Official Black Love Doc After Show](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/after-love/after-love-finding-a-rhythm-s1-e4-the-black-love-doc-after-show/) - In this episode of BLAfterLove the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN the series cocreator and director Codie Elaine Oliver finds out what Angel Marcus and Yvette Glen think of episode 4 Finding a Rhythm These couples share the importance of transparency around marriage whether or not theres a right or wrong time to compliment your partner and expectations around marital roles
- [Going Viral Over Breastfeeding | Elisha Beach | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/going-viral-over-breastfeeding-moms-with-coffee-s1-e13-elisha-beach-part-1/) - Elisha talks to Lizzy Mathis about how her breastfeedingonthetoilet photo went viral and why sharing the realities of being a mom is important to her
- [Blended Families | Elisha Beach | Part 2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/blended-families-moms-with-coffee-s1-e14-elisha-beach-part-2/) - Elisha Beach talks to Lizzy Mathis about the strong dynamic of her blended family of 10 and how she her husband and his exwife make a strong team
- [Being A Badass | Elisha Beach | Part 3](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/being-a-badass-moms-with-coffee-s1-e15-elisha-beach-part-3/) - Elisha Beach shares her honest feelings with Lizzy Mathis about her new body AND her newfound badassness as a mom
- [Raising Boys | Ryan Michelle Bathe | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/raising-boys-moms-with-coffee-s1-e7-ryan-michelle-bathe-part-1/) - Lizzy Mathis talks to mom and actress Ryan Michelle Bathe about raising boys Can you relate
- [Self-Care | Bec Gross | Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/moms-with-coffee/self-care-moms-with-coffee-s1-e4-bec-gross-part-1/) - Bec Gross celebrity stylist wife and mom keeps it honest about selfcare as a busy mom
- [My Duties Delivering My Son | Jeff Johnson](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/my-duties-while-delivering-my-son-jeff-johnson-doula-dads-s1-e4/) - Our next Doula Dad is Jeff Johnson, a father of 5 who admits his strengths and weakness from kid 1 to the 5th and final. No matter your birth plan, fellas, you CAN positively impact mama and baby. Be informed. Be supportive. Be on time.
- [Helping my Sister Give Birth | Dustin Young](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/helping-my-sister-give-birth-dustin-young-s1-e3-doula-dads/) - Brotherly love. In this installment of #DoulaDads, meet Dustin Young and find out why he started researching the best childbirth methods for his baby sister when she became pregnant for the second time. Fellas - not just dads - you CAN positively impact mom and baby. Black mamas deserve to live and thrive and we can all be informed on how to support our sisters & friends.
- [Protecting My Pregnant Wife | Devale Ellis](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/protecting-my-pregnant-wife-devale-ellis-doula-dads-s1-e2/) - Three babies, three different births. Devale Ellis is a man that does NOT play when it comes to his woman! This dad took it upon himself to become educated about birthing options so he and his wife Khadeen could feel safe and supported, first and foremost. Dads, no matter your birth plan, you CAN positively impact mom and baby. We hope you enjoy!
- [Becoming A Father During A Pandemic | Jayson Aaron](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/becoming-a-father-during-a-pandemic-jayson-aaron-doula-dads-s2-e1/) - How A Planned Home Birth Shifted To The Hospital During Pandemic. Start #Blackmaternalhealthweek off with the NEW season of Doula Dads. In episode 1, Singer/Actor and new father Jayson Aaron share how he and his fiancé, Miryam had to throw out their at-home birthing plan after 3 days of labor and no baby, his journey to becoming a father, and orgasmic birth.
- [Role of a Father During Pregnancy | Panama Jackson](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/role-of-a-father-during-pregnancy-panama-jackson-doula-dads-s2-e2/) - Season 2 of Doula Dads is HERE and has a new episode dropping every day during Black Maternal Health Week. In Episode 2, Journalist Panama Jackson shares his experience on preparing for birth in a pandemic, the comfort that comes with having a Black doctor that cares for your livelihood, and his tips on how fathers can positively impact the birthing process.
- [Successful Childbirth After Loss | Rahsaan Wareham](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/rahsaan-wareham-successful-childbirth-after-loss-doula-dads-s2-e4/) - Sixteen years in love and married for ten, Rahsaan Wareham talks about he and wife Julee Wilson becoming pregnant during the pandemic after trying for another child and suffering from miscarriages, how COVID affected their medical experience and concerns, and the things on his mind as an expecting father.
- [Childbirth in the Middle of Covid | Kel Mitchell](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/childbirth-in-the-middle-of-covid-kel-mitchell-doula-dads-s2-e3/) - Actor Kel Mitchell describes his experience coaching and supporting his wife, Asia, through a successful VBAC(vaginal birth after cesarean), his wife taking a COVID test in the middle of labor & what dads can do to make the pregnancy process easier.
- ["Women Are Superheroes" | Jayson Aaron | BONUS](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/doula-dads/women-are-superheroes-jayson-aaron-bonus-doula-dads-s2-e5/) - Jayson Aaron discusses the generational shift that is encouraging young men to be more involved in pregnancies and childbirth.
- [Tabitha Brown and Chance Brown Talk About Their Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/tabitha-brown-and-chance-brown-talk-about-their-marriage-a-black-love-q-a/) - How do you make it last for two decades Add some longevity to your relationship with these priceless gems on love and commitment from our faves Tab and Chance
- [Nia Long Talks Representation and Redefinition of Diversity in Hollywood and Beyond](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/wine-talk-with-prentice-penny-black-love-interview-2/) - Black Love sat down with actress Nia Long star of Netflixs new movie Fatal Affair to discuss diversity in Hollywood Watch the interview to hear her take on communication in relationships black men onscreen and how she supports other famous black actresses
- [Omarion on the Power of Fatherhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/omarion-on-the-power-of-fatherhood-a-black-love-qa/) - Black Love recently sat down with singer Omarion to discuss the power of fatherhood and how he redeveloped his relationship with his father as an adult He shares his experience of selfcare during quarantine raising his children to practice selflove and finding his purpose With the many challenges that parents face Omarion tells us how fatherhood actually opened him up to so many new things
- [Dr Arabia on the Covid-19 frontline](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/dr-arabia-on-the-covid-19-frontline-a-blacklove-q-a/) - Dr Arabia shares tips and safety advice concerning the Covid19 pandemic
- [NBA Player Glen Robinson III on Fatherhood during COVID-19](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/nba-player-glen-robinson-iii-on-fatherhood-during-covid-19-black-love/) - NBA star Glen Robinson III shooting guard for the Philadelphia 76ers talks about the effects of COVID19 allowing him more quality time with his daughter off the court
- [India Arie's Best Black Love Moments](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/india-aries-best-black-love-moments-black-love-doc-interview/) - Grammyaward winner singersongwriter India Arie shares her favorite Black Love Doc moments from past seasons Some of her favorite moments include Emmywinner Sterling K Brown and his wife fellow actress Ryan Michelle Bathe Viola Davis and Julius Tennon and Tamia and Grant Hill
- [Black Love Creators | Codie + Tommy Oliver | YT Live Q&A](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/black-love-creators-codie-tommy-oliver-yt-live-qa/) - Black Love Creators Codie and Tommy Oliver answer your questions about Black Love on OWN Watch to hear all the tea on BlackLoveDoc Black entrepreneurship marriage family and why Tommy disappeared from After Love What questions do you have for our BlackLove creators
- [Glen & Yvette on Balancing Marriage and Parenting | YT Live Q&A](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/glen-yvette-on-balancing-marriage-and-parenting-yt-live-qa/) - Sometimes as parents we get so wrapped up with what our children need that we start to neglect the needs of our significant other and even ourselves Lets Talk How do you balance meeting your kids needs and meeting your spouses needs
- [In This Together | What To Know About Covid-19 Seven Months In | A Black Love Town Hall](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/in-this-together-what-to-know-about-covid-19-seven-months-in-a-black-love-town-hall/) - BlackLoveDocs special shines a light on the tragic realities of COVID19 While we may be getting used to this Coronavirus world let us not make the lethal mistake of thinking that COVID19 isnt still a real and present danger to ourselves and our loved ones
- [5 Facts About #blacklovedoc Co-Creator Tommy Oliver](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/5-facts-about-blacklovedoc-co-creator-tommy-oliver-a-blacklove-qa/) - Black Love Doc CoCreators Codie Elaine Oliver and director Tommy Oliver share a few cute trivia facts Be sure to watch Tommys new film 40 Years A Prisoner on HBO Max on Dec 8th 2020
- [40 Years A Prisoner Trailer & Interview with Director Tommy Oliver | Black Love Summit 2020](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/40-years-a-prisoner-trailer-interview-with-director-tommy-oliver-black-love-summit-2020/) - The trailer for 40 Years A Prisoner is here Codie Elaine Oliver sat down with her husband producer and director Tommy Oliver to discuss the new film coming to HBO Max on Dec 8th 2020
- [A Black Love Holiday Giveaway 2020 - The Carter Family](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/a-black-love-holiday-giveaway-❄️⁠-2020-the-carter-family/) - A Black Love Holiday 2020
- [Family, celebrating your people makes for an ICONIC moment 🖤](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/family-celebrating-your-people-makes-for-an-iconic-moment-🖤/)
- [When your favorite Black love film stars your WIFE 🤩🥰](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/when-your-favorite-black-love-film-stars-your-wife-🤩🥰/)
- [Regina King, Terrence Howard, and Reina King Talk 'Shirley'](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/regina-king-terrence-howard-and-reina-king-talk-shirley/) - Regina King tells Black Love exclusively that filming Shirley taught her how to be resilient and how much further family could extend
- [Black Love at the American Black Film Festival Honors Red Carpet](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/black-love-at-the-american-black-film-festival-honors-red-carpet/) - We caught up with larenztate TomasinaTate at this year ABFF Honors to talk about community family and celebrating Black Love ABFFHonors
- [Love is Not A Perfect Story](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-love-is-not-a-perfect-story/) - Theres no formula to finding someone to spend your life with the only thing we can control is our willingness to let it happen
- [Do Children Change the Relationship?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-do-children-change-the-relationship/) - Children are a blessing but they can also shift the entire dynamic of your relationship
- [How I Knew They Were the One](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-i-knew-they-were-the-one/) - When you know what you want ask for it Both couples share how they knew they met their match and when it was the right time to pop the question
- [The Story of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-the-story-of-black-love/) - Codie Elaine and Tommy Oliver sit with Taj and Eddie George this time around to chat all things Black Love and marriage
- [Starting as Friends, Ending as Lovers](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-starting-as-friends-ending-as-lovers/) - Can you end up marrying someone you had no intentions of even being with Well according to Taj YES
- [Getting Through Arguments in Relationships](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-getting-through-arguments-in-relationships/) - Disagreements are inevitable in relationships but its how you get through them that makes the difference
- [Getting Past Addiction with Someone You Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-getting-past-addiction-with-someone-you-love/) - Devale Ellis gets transparent about one of the darkest times in his life and how Khadeen played a huge role in getting through his addiction
- [Has Social Media Disrupted Relationships?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-has-social-media-disrupted-relationships/) - How do you handle the DMs In a lot of ways social media has changed the game for the worst but Khadeen and Devale Ellis attribute honesty to getting past the BS that it brings
- [The Power of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-the-power-of-black-love/) - The couples chat about the detrimental statistics being pushed on black marriages and how they affect our relationships Codie closes with why we must be the change we want to see
- [Relationship Advice](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-relationship-advice/) - Who do you talk to about what goes on in your relationship when you need advice Devale and Khadeen Ellis believe that if you choose couples who have achieved your idea of a successful partnership you can learn so much
- [Boris Kodjoe and Dondre Whitfield Speak on the Journey to Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/boris-kodjoe-and-dondre-whitfield-speak-on-the-journey-to-manhood/) - For Boris Kodjoe stepping into manhood meant using his past as his power Both Dondr and Boris had similar experiences with their fathers requiring a lot of maturing to confront the underlying issues they faced in their matriculation into men
- [Kevin Hart and Dondre Whitfield Speak on the Journey to Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/kevin-hart-and-dondre-whitfield-speak-on-the-journey-to-manhood/) - At some point in your life you decide what type of man you want to be After years of trials tribulations and lessons Kevin Hart and Dondr Whitfield discovered that what may have mattered so long ago cant always follow us into the next phases of our lives Priorities change as you grow and our matriculation into manhood exposes what said changes should be
- [Will Smith Talks Letting Go of What No Longer Serves You](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/will-smith-talks-letting-go-of-what-no-longer-serves-you/) - It is so hard for people to let go of what may be holding them back from reaching their fullest potential Part of that is comfort and the other part is that growth will stretch you in ways unimaginable In this clip Will gives us a Buddhist Tale that explains this realization down to a T Hear it Receive it And then move accordingly
- [DeVon Franklin and Dondre Whitfield Speak on the Journey to Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/devon-franklin-and-dondre-whitfield-speak-on-the-journey-to-manhood/) - Part of stepping into manhood is taking a hard look in the mirror and deciding the type of person you want to be in this life For DeVon Franklin this was one of the most important steps he took to begin the matriculation into the person he is today
- [Will Smith and Dondre Whitfield Speak on the Journey to Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/will-smith-and-dondre-whitfield-speak-on-the-journey-to-manhood/) - Every man has to decide what type of man he wants to be After years of trials tribulations and lessons Will Smith and Dondr Whitfield discovered that what may have worked in our EARLY years as MALES could not be carried into our walk as MEN
- [Erica and Warryn Campbell on Marriage and Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/erica-and-warryn-campbell-on-marriage-and-manhood/) - Erica and Warryn Campbell join Dondr to share the inner AND outer work that took place to get them to where they are today
- [Michael Jai White on the Journey to Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/michael-jai-white-on-the-journey-to-manhood/) - Michael Jai White had an idea of what he thought being a man was Having a lot of women being in control and building an armor around his heart
- [Trevor Jackson and Dondre Whitfield Speak on the Journey to Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/trevor-jackson-and-dondre-whitfield-speak-on-the-journey-to-manhood/) - Even at 23 years old Trevor Jackson makes every move with intention In this episode of MalevsMan Dondr listens to Trevors recent epiphanies about what manhood looks like for him now and what it will look like for him in the future
- [Philip Lawrence on the Journey to Manhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/philip-lawrence-on-the-journey-to-manhood/) - Philip Lawrence didnt have a blueprint to follow but through years of selfwork and reflection hes created his own
- [Boris Kodjoe on How Husbands Can Submit to Their Spouse](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/boris-kodjoe-on-how-husbands-can-submit-to-their-spouse/) - Unfortunately the word submission has been turned into a dirty word A lot of people think to submit means to give up or quit but it truly means to give over In this clip Dondr Whitfield and Boris Kodjoe share how they submit to their wives and families and the power weve found in that
- [Erica and Warryn Campbell on How to Empower Your Spouse](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/how-to-empower-your-spouse/) - Warryns father and grandfather shared the tools to be of service to his wife and family Part of this service is elevating Erica and empowering her to proudly stand in her womanhood In her words When a man is out of place the woman is misplaced and it hard for the children to find their place
- [Will Smith Talks the Importance of Doing the Inner Work](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/will-smith-talks-the-importance-of-doing-the-inner-work/) - Happiness is an internal condition that we have to work on consistently and with diligence With a male mindset Will looked to external conditions as an indicator of success but an unexpected encounter with his then 6yearold daughter Willow sparked a shift Stepping into manhood meant shifting the search lights from external to internal and the rest is history
- [Boris Kodjoe and Dondre Whitfield on Setting the Standards in Their Home](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/boris-kodjoe-and-dondre-whitfield-on-setting-the-standards-in-their-home/) - Were all still imperfect in many ways and its important that the people around us know were growing every day just like them
- [Philip Lawrence on The True  Power in Vulnerability](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/the-true-power-in-vulnerability/) - There is strength in our tears and for Philip apart of stepping into manhood was understanding this concept We dont have to be so strong all the time
- [Will Smith How Our Childhood Plays a Role in Our Future](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/how-our-childhood-plays-a-role-in-our-future/) - There is ego attached to maleness Will tells me all about where this mindset came from for him For Will having a father in the military meant everything was about discipline and doing everything in his power to reach the top of the mountain There was nothing above winning and providing but at what costs
- [Kevin Hart and Dondre Whitfield Talk Being The Change You Want to See](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/kevin-hart-and-dondre-whitfield-talk-being-the-change-you-want-to-see/) - We dont have all the answers What matters is what you do once you come to that realization Kevin and Dondr strive to give their children the wisdom and pure love they need to reach their fullest potential With their sons its important that they give them all the tools they didnt have growing up to ensure they dont make the same mistakes they did on their journey to manhood
- [Trevor Jackson on Why Having a Great Role Model Matters](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/trevor-jackson-on-why-having-a-great-role-model-matters/) - Dondr Whitfield often thinks about what kind of man he would have been sooner if he had a playbook or a great coach one of the main reasons he wrote MalevsMan
- [Why Boris and Dondre Apologize to Their Children](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/male-vs-man/why-boris-and-dondre-apologize-to-their-children/) - In this MalevsMan Bonus clip Boris describes an apology as an admission of the love you feel for someone But they can also be used as a healthy way to show your children that we all have imperfections and thats OKAY Growing a lot of people never expect to hear Im sorry from a parent
- [Why Love Doesn't Have a Plan](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-why-love-doesnt-have-a-plan/) - In this episode of Black Love Live Tamia Grant Hill share BOTH sides of their first interaction and how they won each other over
- [How To Tell You Are Marriage Ready](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-to-tell-you-are-marriage-ready/) - When Tamia and Grant stepped into marriage they no idea what they were in for In relationships its inevitable that youll face the ebbs and flows but if youre open to learning from these moments thats when the true growth happens
- [Getting Through Infidelity](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-getting-through-infidelity/) - When broken meets broken it can affect everything surrounding it Hurt people hurt people and when the game starts it can be difficult to put it on pause On this clip of Black Love Live we sit with couple Alicia Todd to hear what it took to get to the core of their issues and turn their mess into a ministry Have you dealt through infidelity Whats one thing you wish someone would have told you about it
- [Black Love Live | How Comparison is The Thief of All Joy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-comparison-is-the-thief-of-all-joy/)
- [Dating with a Purpose](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-dating-with-a-purpose/) - How do you have a successful partnership when you didnt have examples growing up
- [Building Generational Wealth as a Couple](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-building-generational-wealth-as-a-couple/) - Hear from the couples express the importance of money management in a marriage and their parting advice for the audience Building generational wealth takes work and whole lot of undesrtanding These couples take us through their separate jouneys and what made them successful
- [Balancing Life, Marriage & Kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-balancing-life-marriage-kids/) - Theres no rulebook for marriage and definitely not for parenthood but you figure it out throughout the journey On this episode of Black Love Live we talk children gender roles and maintaining balance through it all How do you keep the balance
- [What To Focus On In Your Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-what-to-focus-on-in-your-marriage/) - When following your dreams you can get lost in it all Both couples point out that while they have goals to accomplish family is their main priority so it should be treated as such
- [How old were you when you got married? #grantandtamia #blacklovelive](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/how-old-were-you-when-you-got-married-grantandtamia-blacklovelive/)
- [Khadeen and Devale Ellis Share Their Black Love Story](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-khadeen-and-devale-ellis-share-their-black-love-story/) - New York City natives Devale and Khadeen Ellis share how they met Tommy and Codie Oliver the creators of the BlackLoveDoc series and became apart of the show
- [Can You Balance Marriage, Careers & Children?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-can-you-balance-marriage-careers-children/) - In this clip the couples talk about finding balance and why putting yourself at the top of the priority list benefits everyone Devale also dives into how he turned his frustration with the entertainment industry into something positive
- [Viola & Julius | Black Love Icon Awardees](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-honors/viola-julius-black-love-icon-awardees-black-love-honors-2022/) - Last weekend was a dedication to Black Love. Hundreds of you gathered in LA for the Black Love Summit on Saturday and then we honored some pillars of love at the inaugural Black Love Honors on Sunday. Viola Davis & Julius Tennon were our ICON Honorees and they did not disappoint.
- [Warryn Campbell | Black Love Partnership Awardee](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-honors/warryn-campbell-black-love-partnership-awardee-black-love-honors-2022/) - Honoree Warryn came out in representation for him, and his wife Erica Campbell to accept the Partnership award. The Campbells have been married for 21 years, and continuously show us a beautiful example of love and partnership. Warryn honors his parents who have been together for 47 years, in helping guide his marriage and setting the example. Thank you, @warryncampbell & @imericacampbell, for accepting this award. We appreciate the example you have been in our lives and you are constantly showing up for Black Love!
- [Devon Franklin | Wellness Awardee](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-honors/devon-franklin-wellness-awardee-black-love-honors-2022/) - Love takes sacrifice, Love takes learning, and sometimes love doesn’t always work out how you imagined. We honored @devonfranklin with the Black Love Honors Wellness Award for his commitment to constantly uplifting others physically, mentally, and spiritually. But, as he accepted, he left us with a word about loving yourself and staying true to who you are when you even when it’s hard. Building a meaningful relationship within is the best foundation for love to find you and for it to thrive. Thank you DeVon!
- [Niecy Nash Betts | Love Ambassador Awardee](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-honors/niecy-nash-betts-love-ambassador-awardee-black-love-honors-2022/) - Are y’all done crying? Okay us too. Thank you @niecynash1 for gracing us with your beautiful words and sharing your love and heart with us as host and honoree at the inaugural. Sometimes you don’t know what’s coming for you down the line but have faith that if you’re starting in your truth, whatever it is...IS meant for you!
- [Kendrick Sampson | Black Love Community Impact Awardee](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-honors/kendrick-sampson-black-love-community-impact-awardee-black-love-honors-2022/) - “They know the real revolution is not a physical one, that’s why there is no revolution without art, there’s no revolution without imagination and there’s no revolution without Black Love.” Kendrick Sampson has used his voice and platform to leverage the culture and experiences of Black people in America with a desire to know history, make change, and lead. Honoring him with the Community Impact Award was a no brainer for us, and well deserved. Thank you, Kendrick, for your activism and all that you do for us, WE SEE YOU!!
- [How Family Can Get in the Way](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-family-can-get-in-the-way/) - Ryan Michelle Bathe Sterling K Brown dealt not only with her family not liking him but with Ryan needing to reconsider some of the ideology she inherited growing up in order to have a happy marriage
- [Finding 'The One'](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-finding-the-one/) - In this episode Black Love favorites Salli Dondre Whitfield and Kevin Melissa Fredericks give us all the juicy details of how their love stories began They say When you know you know but youll never guess how long it took Melissa to know
- [The Right Questions to Ask for Deeper Understanding of Relationships](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-the-right-questions-to-ask-for-deeper-understanding-of-relationships/) - Our couples open the conversation to our live Los Angeles Audience Tune in to see the unfiltered QA segment
- [Prioritizing Sex in a Relationship](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-prioritizing-sex-in-a-relationship/) - On this episode of Black Love Live our couples discuss the importance of prioritizing and creating time for sex in their marriages While Kev is getting FaceTime snacks Dondr is waiting on the sound of a locked door Watch now to find out why
- [How Do You Know They're 'The One'?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-do-you-know-theyre-the-one/) - When it comes to love when you know you know Hear from the couples on how they knew their partner was the one
- [How Love Emerged for Sterling K Brown](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-love-emerged-for-sterling-k-brown/) - I had to stop talking to her because I loved her so much I couldn I stand to be her friend Sterling K Brown
- [Persevering with Your Partner](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-persevering-with-your-partner/) - Devale Ellis went through depression and an addiction to painkillers while in the NFL
- [How to Heal in a Marriage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-to-heal-in-a-marriage/) - On this episode of Black Love Live MrsKevOnStage shares how the divorce of her parents caused her to dig deep into who she really was for the sake of her marriage KevOnStage shares how catching up to the new and improved version of Melissa proved to be more difficult than expected
- [How a Good Husband Can Grow You as a Person](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-how-a-good-husband-can-grow-you-as-a-person/) - The wives Ryan Michelle Bathe Khadeen Ellis and Codie Elaine Oliver discuss the ways in which their husbands have helped them grow as people Whats one thing a relationship taught you about yourself
- [Black Love Live | Vulnerability is Strength](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-vulnerability-is-strength/)
- [Evolving in Your Relationship](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-evolving-in-your-relationship/) - The Black Love Live audience gets a chance to pose questions to the couples
- [Not the PB & J! 😂](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/not-the-pb-j-😂/)
- [Argue Like A Pro](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-argue-like-a-pro/) - In the first installment of Black Love Live hear from Devale Khadeen Ellis directly about the infamous fight they deemed The Epitome of Marriage and see Tommy Oliver and Sterling K Brown commiserate over Devales reaction
- [Growing Through The Changes in a Relationships](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-live-growing-through-the-changes-in-a-relationships/) - On this episode of Black Love Live our couples discuss how as they change and grow overtime so must their efforts to continue to get to know each other
- [Meet three high school sweetheart couples who are going the distance | Black Love Loves: FOREVER](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-loves/black-love-loves-forever/) - Welcome to Black Love loves FOREVER We love all things Black love and Netflix new series FOREVER created by Mara Brock Akil and based on the Judy Blume novel about a pair of high school sweethearts has us swooning over young Black love
- [A Sneak Peak into The Mama's Den](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/a-sneak-peak-into-the-mamas-den-2/)
- [Welcome to The Mama's Den](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-mamas-den-episode-1-black-love-podcast-network/) - Come meet our Mamas Ashley Chea Melanie Fiona Felicia La Tour and Codie Elaine Oliver as the welcome you into The Mamas Den
- [Your Child Asked WHAT?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/your-child-asked-what-2/)
- [The Snapback (part 1)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-snapback-part-1-2/)
- [It's Never Too Late](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/its-never-too-late-2/)
- [Happiness](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/happiness-2/)
- [Finding the One](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/finding-the-one-2/)
- [Mama's Day](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mamas-day-2/)
- [No is a Complete Sentence](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/no-is-a-complete-sentence-2/)
- [Do You Talk to Your Kids About Racism?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/do-you-talk-to-your-kids-about-racism-2/)
- [We Are Hustling Backwards](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-are-hustling-backwards-2/)
- [That Newborn Life](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/that-newborn-life-2/)
- [Never Have We Ever](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/never-have-we-ever-2/)
- [The Romanticizing of Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-romanticizing-of-motherhood-2/)
- [Those Summer Bodies](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/those-summer-bodies-2/)
- [Act II](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/act-ii-2/)
- [Mamas, I've Got a Question](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mamas-ive-got-a-question-2/)
- [Living in Transition](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/living-in-transition-2/)
- [Everyone Needs Therapy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/everyone-needs-therapy-2/)
- [We Need to Talk About Social Media](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-need-to-talk-about-social-media-2/)
- [TMD Vault: We're Having a Baby](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/tmd-vault-were-having-a-baby-2/)
- [Healed People Heal People](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/healed-people-heal-people-2/)
- [When Do Kids Holla At Each Other?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/when-do-kids-holla-at-each-other-2/)
- [A Mama's Den Thanksgiving](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/a-mamas-den-thanksgiving-2/)
- [Gifts, Vaginas, and Colds](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/gifts-vaginas-and-colds-2/)
- [Life Before Kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/life-before-kids-2/)
- [Happy Mama Holidays!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/happy-mama-holidays-2/)
- [You Can Choose Faith or Fear](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/you-can-choose-faith-or-fear-2/)
- [Welcome Back Mamas on the Brink!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/welcome-back-mamas-on-the-brink-2/)
- [Mamas, I Need Some Advice!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mamas-i-need-some-advice-2/)
- [What's the Deal with Conscious Parenting with Charisse Sims](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/whats-the-deal-with-conscious-parenting-with-charisse-sims-2/)
- [These Morning Routines](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/these-morning-routines-2/)
- [Figuring out Friendships After Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/figuring-out-friendships-after-motherhood-2/)
- [Infidelity, Incontinence & Individual Time with the Kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/infidelity-incontinence-individual-time-with-the-kids/)
- [We Are Burned Out](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-are-burned-out-2/)
- [These Kids Smell Like Outside](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/these-kids-smell-like-outside-2/)
- [This is Halloween](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/this-is-halloween-2/)
- [Picky Eaters, What's Wrong with Fresno, and Savage Mom Punishments](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/picky-eaters-whats-wrong-with-fresno-and-savage-mom-punishments-2/)
- [A Mama's Den Valentines](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/a-mamas-den-valentines-2/)
- [Would You Get a Gun?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/would-you-get-a-gun-2/)
- [What's Your Parenting Style?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/whats-your-parenting-style-2/)
- [It's Okay If Motherhood Isn't For You](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/its-okay-if-motherhood-isnt-for-you-2/)
- [That Corporate Mommy Life](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/that-corporate-mommy-life-2/)
- [Squeezing & Flicking & Tucking &...Discipline?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/squeezing-flicking-tucking-discipline/)
- [Thriving and Surviving with Tiffany O.](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/thriving-and-surviving-with-tiffany-o-2/)
- [Sonic Shirts, How Much Jail Time Would You Do For Your Kids, and More Listener Questions](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/sonic-shirts-how-much-jail-time-would-you-do-for-your-kids-and-more-listener-questions-2/)
- [Vaginas Are Magical with Kim Durdin](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/vaginas-are-magical-with-kim-durdin-2/)
- [Traveling with Children Who Aren't Ready for Traveling](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/traveling-with-children-who-arent-ready-for-traveling-2/)
- [Destiny's Twins, Summer Activities, and Regulating These Babies](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/destinys-twins-summer-activities-and-regulating-these-babies-2/)
- [Good Mamas Bad Choices with Jamilah Mapp and Erica Dickerson](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/good-mamas-bad-choices-with-jamilah-mapp-and-erica-dickerson-2/)
- [The Grandmama's Den with Mama Renee](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-grandmamas-den-with-mama-renee-2/)
- [The Grandmama's Den with Mama Laura](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-grandmamas-den-with-mama-laura-2/)
- [Good Moms Bad Choices| The Mama's Den | Episode 48 | Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/good-moms-bad-choices-the-mamas-den-episode-48-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [The Grandmama's Den with Mama Laurie](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-grandmamas-den-with-mama-laurie-2/)
- [TMD Vault: Allow Us to (re) Introduce Ourselves](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/tmd-vault-allow-us-to-re-introduce-ourselves-2/)
- [We Are Each Other's Biggest Fans](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-are-each-others-biggest-fans-2/) - After a short break our Mamas are back and Felicia has a question What are we working on in our lives personally and professionally From reconnecting with ourselves spiritually to new coaches new books and new music A LOT has changed The one thing we do know we are all soooo excited for our friends and this new season of growth for all of us
- [Mommy Needs a Mental Health Day](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mommy-needs-a-mental-health-day-2/)
- [Boundaries, Communication and Are You There God? It's Us, The Mamas.](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/boundaries-communication-and-are-you-there-god-its-us-the-mamas-2/)
- [Don’t Get Too Comfortable… Everyone’s Evolving](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/dont-get-too-comfortable-everyones-evolving-2/)
- [It’s Holiday Season: Time To Get Festive!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/its-holiday-season-time-to-get-festive-2/)
- [Love, Healing and Friendships](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/love-healing-and-friendships-2/) - Let be honest Village life can be hard But understanding our own emotions and verbalizing how were feeling can make some days a lot less difficult In this episode the Mamas discuss their perspectives on learning about themselves through their children how they show their emotions in different situations and how their astrological chart comes into play with who they are
- [We are Like our Mothers; Our Children are Like Us](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-are-like-our-mothers-our-children-are-like-us-2/)
- [Finding Our Corners of Joy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/finding-our-corners-of-joy-2/)
- [The Perfect Find with Numa Perrier](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-perfect-find-with-numa-perrier-2/)
- [Wearing All the Hats, Being the Bonus Mom, and Summertime Panic](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/wearing-all-the-hats-being-the-bonus-mom-and-summertime-panic-2/)
- [Fee is Definitely in Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/fee-is-definitely-in-love-2/)
- [Marlo's in the House! aka Welcome Blair Paysinger](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/marlos-in-the-house-aka-welcome-blair-paysinger-2/)
- [These Children are Challenging!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/these-children-are-challenging-2/)
- [Motherhood Needs to be a Better Paying Job!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/motherhood-needs-to-be-a-better-paying-job-2/)
- [Who Are We Outside of Motherhood?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/who-are-we-outside-of-motherhood-2/)
- [Introducing: Parenting for the Culture, a show from The Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/introducing-parenting-for-the-culture-a-show-from-the-black-love-podcast-network-2/)
- [TMD Vault: Sometimes Submission is a Love Language](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/tmd-vault-sometimes-submission-is-a-love-language-2/)
- [More Than “Just” a Mother](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/more-than-just-a-mother-2/)
- [Secure Relationships With Your Kids, Partners, & Parents](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/secure-relationships-with-your-kids-partners-parents-2/)
- [Going International….Without the Kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/going-international-without-the-kids-2/)
- [Celebrate Yourself!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/celebrate-yourself-2/)
- [Life and Friendships are Marathons](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/life-and-friendships-are-marathons-2/)
- [Life, Partnership...and Chaos](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/life-partnership-and-chaos-2/)
- [It's Time for Mariah!!! | The Mama's Den | Episode 76 | The Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/its-time-for-mariah-the-mamas-den-episode-76-the-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [It's Time for Mariah!!!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/its-time-for-mariah-2/) - Whether you love Mariah Carey as much as the mamas do we hope you can appreciate the transformative experience Ashley Melanie Felicia and Codie had seeing The Queen of Christmas together at the Hollywood Bowl Special shoutout to Ashley who made it all happen Today we recap the experience discuss the value of friendships old and new and the impact music has on us and our inner children Plus Melanie opens up about an emotional experience she had with her mom at the concertyou might need some tissues for that one
- [We Are Each Other's Biggest Fans](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-are-each-others-biggest-fans-the-mamas-den-episode-64-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - EPISODE SUMMARY
- [Mommy Needs A Mental Health Day](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mommy-needs-a-mental-health-day-the-mamas-den-episode-65-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - EPISODE NOTES
- [Boundaries, Communication and Are You There God? It's Us, The Mamas.](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/boundaries-communication-and-are-you-there-god-its-us-the-mamas-the-mamas-den-episode-66/) - EPISODE NOTES
- [Dont Get Too Comfortable... Everyone's Evolving](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/dont-get-too-comfortable-everyones-evolving-the-mamas-den-episode-67/) - What up Village Are you experiencing a shift with how you parent Codie Ashley Felicia and Melanie definitely are as the mamas give their different perspectives on the everchanging balancing act of navigating their children emotions Plus Fe shares why we all might need to call a behavioral therapist
- [It's Holiday Season Time to Get Festive](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/its-holiday-season-time-to-get-festive-the-mamas-den-ep68-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - Welcome back Village As Halloween approaches the Mamas discuss their family costumes traditions and what decorating looks like at their house or lack thereof Codie Ashely and Felicia even convert Melanie into the Halloween spirit But an interesting debate begins when Ashley mentions she really just ready for Christmas and Mariah Carey
- [Love, Healing, and Friendships | The Mama's Den | Episode 69 | The Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/love-healing-and-friendships-the-mamas-den-episode-69-the-black-love-podcast-network/)
- [More Than "Just" a Mother](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/more-than-just-a-mother-the-mamas-den-ep70-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - What happening Mamas Felicia is in Thailand living her best life while Codie Melanie and Ashley are talking about what it means to be just a mother and more The Mamas also explore what it means to truly be living in your purpose and supporting your kids decisions despite what you may want for them
- [Secure Relationships With Your Kids Partner](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/secure-relationships-with-your-kids-partner-the-mamas-den-ep71-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - EPISODE SUMMARY
- [Going International... Without The Kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/going-international-without-the-kids-the-mamas-den-ep72-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - EPISODE SUMMARY
- [Celebrate Yourself!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/celebrate-yourself-the-mamas-den-ep-73-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - Welcome back Mamas today is all about birthdays Codie Ashley and Melanie discuss how they celebrate their childrens birthdays the value of experiences over parties and embracing getting older Plus as Ashleys birthday approaches she opens up the difficulties of having a birthday around the holidays and how her birthday celebrations have evolved since losing her sister
- [Empowering Black Mamas with Kim Durdin](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/empowering-black-mamas-with-kim-durdin-ep-83-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Were using this episode to bring awareness to Black Maternal Health Week with midwifedoula and founder of Kindred Spaces LA Kim Durdin httpswwwinstagramcomkindredspacela
- [These Kids Are Booked and Busy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/these-kids-are-booked-and-busy-2/)
- [These Kids Are Booked and Busy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/these-kids-are-booked-and-busy-ep84-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - These Kids Are Booked and Busy EP84 The Mamas Den Podcast
- [Life and Friendships are Marathons](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/life-and-friendships-are-marathons-the-mamas-den-ep74-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - Get your tissues Village Things get a little emotional on this episode as Codie Ashley and Melanie talk about the dynamics of adult friendships self awareness and half marathons Two of the Mamas even work through a conflict in their own friendship and shed a few tears along the way But its important to note no matter what anybody thinks know that youre capable of doing whatever you set your mind to Mamas
- [Life, Partnership, and Chaos](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/life-partnership-and-chaos-the-mamas-den-ep-75-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - Lets be honest Village today was chaotic but we got there The Mamas get into all things marriage partnership Fee Codie Melanie and Ashley discuss how to move through challenges with your partner which relationships they look to for inspiration and what it means to choose your partner While they all have different relationships and perspectives theyre all in agreement that in every marriage you have to just do you
- [New Year, New-merology](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/new-year-new-merology-2/)
- [New Year, New-merology](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/new-year-new-merology-the-mamas-den-ep-77-a-black-love-podcast/) - Were back Mama 2024 is already in full swing and were sharing our goals and intentions for the new year plus we get a reading from a numerologist because you know how we like reading the stars
- [Pep Talk To My Younger Self](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/pep-talk-to-my-younger-self-2/)
- [Pep Talk To My Younger Self](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/pep-talk-to-my-younger-self-the-mamas-den-ep-78-a-black-love-podcast/) - Now that we are adults heres the conversation wed tell our younger selves
- [The Stanley Cup Dilemma](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-stanley-cup-dilemma-2/)
- [The Stanley Cup Dilemma](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-stanley-cup-dilemma-the-mamas-den-ep-79-a-black-love-podcast/) - The mama share their tips on what they do to school their little ones on the value of a dollar
- [Churrrch](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/churrrch-2/)
- [Churrrch](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/churrrch-the-mamas-den-ep-80-a-black-love-podcast/) - This week the mamas are talking how to navigate the questions of spirituality and religion with our little ones and how our personal beliefs play a role in our parenting
- [What Type of Parent Are You?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/what-type-of-parent-are-you-2/)
- [What Type of Parent Are You?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/what-type-of-parent-are-you-the-mamas-den-ep-81-a-black-love-podcast/) - Crying lying and parenting The Mamas talk through all the things that helped to define their parenting styles to raise these chilrenoh and we shed a few tears
- [No Days Off](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/no-days-off-2/)
- [No Days Off | EP82 | The Mama's Den | A Black Love Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/no-days-off-ep82-the-mamas-den-a-black-love-podcast/)
- [Empowering Black Mamas with Midwife Kim Durdin](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/empowering-black-mamas-with-midwife-kim-durdin-2/)
- [First Time Mama's Guide](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/first-time-mamas-guide-2/)
- [First Time Mama's Guide](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/first-time-mamas-guide-ep-85-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - First Time Mamas Guide EP 85 The Mamas Den Podcast
- [Ask An OBGYN with Dr. Kendra](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/ask-an-obgyn-with-dr-kendra-2/)
- [Ask an OBGYN with Dr Kendra](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/ask-an-obgyn-with-dr-kendra-ep-86-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Ask an OBGYN with Dr Kendra EP 86 The Mamas Den Podcast
- [Don't Take It Personal](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/dont-take-it-personal-2/)
- [Don't Take It Personal](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/dont-take-it-personal-ep87-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - This week the Mama talk through how to deal when your little one gets rejectedand Melanie makes a dramatic entrance
- [Mama Glow with Latham Thomas](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mama-glow-with-latham-thomas-2/)
- [Mama Glow with Latham Thomas](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mama-glow-with-latham-thomas-ep-88-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Mama Glow with Latham Thomas EP 88 The Mamas Den Podcast
- [We Have 25 Kids Between All of Us with Karen Derrico](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-have-25-kids-between-all-of-us-with-karen-derrico-2/)
- [We Have 25 Kids Between All of Us w/ Karen Derrico](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/we-have-25-kids-between-all-of-us-w-karen-derrico-ep-89-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Karen Derrico mom of the TLC show Doubling Down with The Derricos joins the Mama to talk about the upcoming season and how they make it work with 14 children
- [The Mama's Den Girlfriends Getaway (Audio)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-mamas-den-girlfriends-getaway-audio/)
- [The Mama's Den Girlfriends Getaway](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-mamas-den-girlfriends-getaway-ep-90-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - The Mamas took a quick road trip to Yaamava Resort Casino to take a break from the kids and enjoy some much needed rest and relaxation with a few of their friends In their first live recording listen in as they talk about the importance of friendships and building your tribe to have your back when youre raising dem babies Youll also hear the voices of Tai Beauchamp Angel Laketa Moore and Cassandra Freeman
- [Boy Moms Check-In (Audio)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/boy-moms-check-in-audio/)
- [Boy Moms Check In | EP 91 | The Mama's Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/boy-moms-check-in-ep-91-the-mamas-den-podcast/)
- [IVF & Pregnancy with Ashley Blaine Featherson Jenkins (Audio Only) | The Mama's Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/ivf-pregnancy-with-ashley-blaine-featherson-jenkins-audio-only-the-mamas-den-podcast/)
- [IVF & Pregnancy with Ashley Blaine Featherson Jenkins](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/ivf-pregnancy-with-ashley-blaine-featherson-jenkins-ep-92-the-mamas-den/) - Ashley Blaine FeathersonJenkins is in the Den to talk about her journey with IVF plus each Mama lets her know what she can look forward to as a new mom
- [Elaine Welteroth Is In The Den (Audio)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/elaine-welteroth-is-in-the-den-audio/)
- [The Mama's Den Live | EP 106 | The Mama's Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-mamas-den-live-ep-106-the-mamas-den-podcast/)
- [A Dad's Perspective with Omar Bolden](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/a-dads-perspective-with-omar-bolden-md-107-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Omar Bolden host of the podcast Nice and Neat joins The Mamas Den to share his unique perspective as a new father Omar discusses his parenting journey the challenges and joys of being a dad and the importance of creating spaces where men can be authentically themselves
- [Our Hair Story w/ Angela C. Styles (Audio)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/our-hair-story-w-angela-c-styles-audio/)
- [Our Hair Story with Angela C. Styles](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/our-hair-story-with-angela-c-styles-ep-94-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Celebrity hairstylist Angela CStyles is joining The Mama Den to talk about life as a new mom black womens hair care as well as her childrens book Hair
- [For Mamas And Soon To Be Mamas (Audio Only)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/for-mamas-and-soon-to-be-mamas-audio-only/)
- [For Mamas And Soon To Be Mamas](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/for-mamas-and-soon-to-be-mamas-ep-95-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - CMS Administrator Chiquita BrooksLaSure is in the den to give the details on what the current administration is doing to combat the maternal healthcare crisis in the US
- [Own Thy Shift with Blue Centric (Audio Only)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/own-thy-shift-with-blue-centric-audio-only/)
- [Own Thy Shift with Blue Centric](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/own-thy-shift-with-blue-centric-ep-96-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Marie Telusma aka Blue Centric is joining The Mama Den this week with tips on how to embrace the change youre entering into a new chapter in your life
- [Cell Phones and Social Media... Help!!! (Audio Only)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/cell-phones-and-social-media-help-audio-only/)
- [Cell Phones and Social Media... Help!!!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/cell-phones-and-social-media-help-ep-97-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - The Mamas chat about how to handle when your child asks for a cell phone and access to social media
- [Momfessions | EP 98 | The Mama's Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/momfessions-ep-98-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Before we were mothers we looked at things a little differently These are our honest opinions now that our lives have changed
- [Check On Your Mom Friends](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/check-on-your-mom-friends-ep-99-the-mamas-den/) - Summers here were doing some girl chat and checking in with each other on how we manage it all
- [Plastic Surgery and Pregnancy Ft. Tommy (BONUS)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/plastic-surgery-and-pregnancy-ft-tommy-bonus-ep-100-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Bonus Episode Plastic Surgery and Pregnancy Ft Tommy EP 100 The Mamas Den Podcast
- [Q&A With The Village | EP 101 | The Mama's Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/qa-with-the-village-ep-101-the-mamas-den-podcast/)
- [Mothering with Nina Westbrook](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/mothering-with-nina-westbrook-ep-102-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Nina Westbrook is in the Mama Den were talking how to heal from the trauma you may have experienced with your own mother especially when you enter motherhood
- [How Our Children Inspire Us w/ Tika Sumpter](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/how-our-children-inspire-us-w-tika-sumpter-ep-103-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - In this episode of The Mama Den actress and mother Tika Sumpter joins the ladies to share her motherhood journey and how her children have inspired her creatively She also talks about her new podcast The Adventures of Curiosity Cove and offers advice to other mamas who are looking to use their motherhood experiences as creative inspiration
- [The "M" Word w/ Dr. Kendra](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-m-word-w-dr-kendra-ep-104-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Hot flashes body changes mood swingsoh my Dr Kendra Segura is in the The Mamas Den to chat all things perimenopause and menopause
- [Hopes and Dreams](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/hopes-and-dreams-ep-105-the-mamas-den/) - The Mamas are sharing inspiration to chase your dreams and live in your purpose
- [What Would Love Do? w Dahn Ballard](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/what-would-love-do-w-dahn-ballard-ep-110-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - The Mamas have a candid conversation with Dahn Ballard about her journey of raising her transgender child
- [Getting Holiday Ready](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/getting-holiday-ready-ep-111-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - The Mamas are live in Miami for this special Holiday episode of the Mamas Den Podcast alongside Victoria Jenn Rodriguez of Banking on Cultura
- [You're Allowed to be Happy](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/youre-allowed-to-be-happy-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Youre Allowed to be Happy The Mamas Den Podcast
- [Miracle Babies, Ovulation Calendars, & The Failed Pullout: Going From A Mom of 1 to 2 or 3](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/miracle-babies-ovulation-calendars-the-failed-pullout-going-from-a-mom-of-1-to-2or-3/) - Miracle Babies Ovulation Calendars and The Failed Pullout Going From A Mom of 1 to 2or 3
- [Guilt Is Not Ours to Carry with Tabitha Brown | The Mama's Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/guilt-is-not-ours-to-carry-with-tabitha-brown-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - If you�ve ever felt like you were stuck in the hard part of your story, Tabitha Brown is in The Mama's Den to remind you�it�s okay to put yourself first! Tab's journey is a masterclass in faith, being present, and trusting that your moment is coming�even when it feels impossible. This week, Tabitha gets real about the tough seasons in her marriage, the moments she and Chance weren�t sure they�d make it, and what it really took to rebuild their relationship. She also shares how losing her mother shaped her, how she went from struggling in LA to retiring her husband and building an empire. Get your tissues and your journal because all the mamas left inspired after this conversation.
- [You've got questions, the Mamas have answers! A Listener Letter Episode](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/youve-got-questions-the-mamas-have-answers-a-listener-letter-episode-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - This week the Mamas tackle Listener Letters on balancing romance friendships and managing meddling grandparents
- [Setting Kids Up For Success with Behavioural Coach Marnesha Hall](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/setting-kids-up-for-success-with-behavioural-coach-marnesha-hall/) - Setting Kids Up For Success with Behavioural Coach Marnesha Hall
- [Go To One-Liners That Make Parenting Easier](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/go-to-one-liners-that-make-parenting-easier-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - You Dont Have to Like It But It Still Needs to Happen Go To OneLiners That Make Parenting Easier
- [The Mamas take on NYC for the Tamron Hall Show!...The Trip That Almost Didn't Trip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-mamas-take-on-nyc-for-the-tamron-hall-show-the-trip-that-almost-didnt-trip-mamas-den/) - The Mamas take on NYC for the Tamron Hall ShowThe Trip That Almost Didnt Trip
- [Saying Yes to Vulnerable Questions, Melanie's Tour, & Reading With Our Kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/saying-yes-to-vulnerable-questions-melanies-tour-reading-with-our-kids-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Saying Yes to Vulnerable Questions Melanies Tour Reading With Our Kids The Mamas Den Podcast
- [Michael Ealy is in the Den!...Breaking the Mold as a Modern Dad](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/michael-ealy-is-in-the-den-breaking-the-mold-as-a-modern-dad-the-mamas-den/) - We got a Daddy in the Den Actor and father of two Michael Ealy joins the Mamas to talk about raising a boy and a girl Together they highlight the value of fathers being involved in their kids lives to all the dads at ballet class we see you the importance of communication between parents and the need to appreciate each parent role Michael shares lessons learned from recognizing double standards why are girls called sassy but boys are assertive to reminding us that dads juggle the same challenges moms doMichael Ealy might just be the dadwhisperer okay
- [High Functioning AF...Finding Joy with Dr. Judith Joseph](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/high-functioning-af-finding-joy-with-dr-judith-joseph-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - High Functioning AFFinding Joy with Dr Judith Joseph The Mamas Den Podcast
- [You Are Your Child #1 Advocate... w AP Julian Saavedra on Championing Your Child Learning Needs](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/you-are-your-childs-1-advocate-w-ap-julian-saavedra-on-championing-your-childs-learning-needs/) - You Are Your Child 1 AdvocateAssistant Principal Julian Saavedra on Championing Your Child Learning Needs
- [Get Smarter w/ Blair Imani on Finding Love, Surviving Pregnancy Loss, & the Power of Social Media](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/get-smarter-w-blair-imani-on-finding-love-surviving-pregnancy-loss-the-power-of-social-media/) - Get Smarter with Blair ImaniThe creator of Smarter in Seconds on Finding Love Surviving Pregnancy Loss and the Power of Social Media for Black Maternal Health
- [You Gotta Pick Your Battles: Disagreeing with Your Spouse on How to Raise the Kids](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/you-gotta-pick-your-battles-disagreeing-with-your-spouse-on-how-to-raise-the-kids-2/) - In this episode were missing Felicia onefourth of our quartet We miss you Fee So Codie Melanie and Ashley get real about when they disagree with their husbands on parenting decisions from routines and discipline to visions for their kids futures The Mamas share the importance of selfawareness how they compromise with their partners and how sometimes you just have to pick their battlesDont worry fellas Ashley holds it down for the husbands pointofview This one a good convo for both sides
- [Schools Almost Out for Summer And These Kids Need Somewhere to Go](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/schools-almost-out-for-summer-and-these-kids-need-somewhere-to-go-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Schools Almost Out for Summer And These Kids Need Somewhere to Go The Mamas Den Podcast
- [Kerry Washington on Being A Bad-Ass Mama On the Big Screen and In Real Life](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/kerry-washington-on-being-a-bad-ass-mama-on-the-big-screen-and-in-real-life-the-mamas-den/) - Kerry Washington is in the Den The Emmywinning actress activist and mom of three joins the Mamas to talk about her latest film Shadow Force and what it like to play a badass mom onscreen while navigating wifeandmom life behind the scenes
- [Behind the Scenes with Brittany Perry-Russell, Momager to a Rising Kid Actor](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/behind-the-scenes-with-brittany-perry-russell-momager-to-a-rising-kid-actor-2/) - Producer Actor Choreographer and Momager Brittany PerryRussell is THAT GIRL From dancing with icons like Ciara and Beyonc to raising a successful kid actor Isaiah RussellBailey Brittany joins the Mamas to discuss managing her son career while still chasing her own dreams There no blueprint for motherhood but for Brittany being spiritled has always kept her aligned with a higher purpose If youve ever thought about giving up on your own dreams this episode is your reminder to keep going because Brittany is the Momager who survived the hustle come out on top and still she rises
- [Parenting Through Fear](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/parenting-through-fear-ep-108-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - The Mama share their tips on how to navigate tough and awkward conversations with their little ones plus a listener letter from a mom who needs advice on how to have the sex talk
- [The Journey to Marrying a Parent](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-journey-to-marrying-a-parent-ep-109-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - Author and attorney Erica Grace joins the Mamas to to provide valuable insight to anyone looking for advice on how to date a parent to develop healthy blended families
- [Stylist Bec Gross on Dressing with Confidence at Every Stage of Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/stylist-bec-gross-on-dressing-with-confidence-at-every-stage-of-motherhood-the-mamas-den/) - Stylist Bec Gross on Dressing with Confidence at Every Stage of Motherhood
- [Momfessions Part 2 | The Mama's Den Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/momfessions-part-2-the-mamas-den-podcast/) - In this episode the Mamas confess about the struggle of teaching kids good hygiene Because baby Keeping the house clean and dealing with ashy stinky bodies is tough and tough situations call for tough love Hear how the Mamas are trying to instill responsibility and independence without completely losing their cool.
- [The Mama Behind Gracie’s Corner: How an Ordinary Family Built an Extraordinary Brand | TMD Podcast](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/the-mama-behind-gracies-corner-how-an-ordinary-family-built-an-extraordinary-brand-tmd-podcast/)
- [You Are The Gift](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/you-are-the-gift/) - We asked people to reflect on WHO was a gift to them this year 🎁🎄 You'd be surprised by some of their responses.
- [2024 Black Love Holiday Gift Guide](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/2024-black-love-holiday-gift-guide/) - The holiday season is HERE and there’s no better time to start picking out thoughtful gifts that celebrate Black culture, creativity, and community! Whether you're shopping for tech lovers, fashionistas, art aficionados, or wine enthusiasts, this list has you covered with amazing products from Black-owned brands, alongside cell phones from Cricket Wireless - so you can make the holiday season extra joyous, without breaking the bank.
- [Christmas Tree Surprise!](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/christmas-tree-surprise/) - We're Visiting Christmas Tree Nurseries to Surprise a few Folks! | Merry Christmas from Black Love
- [We Asked People To Call One Person and Say ♥︎ I Love You ♥︎](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/we-asked-people-to-call-one-person-and-say-♥︎-i-love-you-♥︎/) - We Asked People To Call One Person and Say "I Love You"
- [Wine Talk with Prentice Penny | Black Love Interview](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/wine-talk-with-prentice-penny-black-love-interview/) - Get ready to stock up your personal wine cellar with this global guide to Black-owned wineries and vineyards from the South of France to the California coast.
- [Moving Forward with Grief | Ray Singleton | A Black Love Mini Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/moving-forward-with-grief-ray-singleton-a-black-love-mini-doc/) - Grief is a complex and personal experience that looks very different for all of us. How it feels, when it starts, how long it lasts - it all varies from person to person. Ray sat down with us to discuss his experience after losing his beloved wife of 4 years, Roslyn, who left behind such a positive legacy. One of the ways Ray was able to cope with everything was keeping her positive mindset alive - continuing to trust in God, being grateful for the time they had together, and remembering that her smile which was so bright while she was here, is still shining bright up in heaven 🙌🏾
- [Afrolatina artist Cristina Martinez creates wearable art for the whole family](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-exclusives/afrolatina-artist-cristina-martinez-creates-wearable-art-for-the-whole-family/) - Congrats to our girl Cristina Martinez on her partnership with Nordstrom to create an exclusive collection. We love amplifying our artists who are intersecting art and family in beautiful ways, and Cristina is no exception ✨
- [This One Right Here! | Alimi and Dahn | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/this-one-right-here-alimi-and-dahn-black-love-doc/) - Alimi’s mother has some competition when it comes to parenting! 🤣
- [Our Choice to Be Together | Mylin & Lindsay | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/our-choice-to-be-together-mylin-lindsay-black-love-doc/) - MyLin & Lindsay keeps it real 💯 when it comes to how they blended their family, being a queer couple, and their life challenges.
- [Willing to Fight For | Cynthia & Mike | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/willing-to-fight-for-cynthia-mike-black-love-doc/) - Find someone who is proud to have you, scared to lose you, fights FOR you, appreciates you, RESPECTS you, cares for you, and LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY 🥰
- [Black Love is Self Love | Alimi & Dahn | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/black-love-is-self-love-alimi-dahn-black-love-doc/) - Black Love is Self Love. PeriodT. 👏🏾👏🏾
- [BLACK LOVE IS FOREVER | Black Love Doc | Finale Montage](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/black-love-is-forever-black-love-doc-finale-montage/) - Over 6 years and 6 seasons, through 100+ couples (and 200+ interviews), we created #BlackLoveDoc to celebrate Black love stories and show something different than what the media told us. We are capable and worthy of love, fam. And - with work - we can thrive in long-lasting relationships 🖤
- [Stop Blocking Your Own Blessings | Remy Ma & Papoose | Bonus Clip | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/stop-blocking-your-own-blessings-remy-ma-papoose-bonus-clip-black-love-doc/) - If you’re looking for a sign to stop blocking your own blessings when it comes to love, this message from Remy Ma is it! 🎯
- [She is My Vision Board | Eric and La'Myia | Bonus Clip | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/she-is-my-vision-board-eric-and-lamyia-bonus-clip-black-love-doc/) - “The grass is greener where you water it!” Tell it, @ericbellinger ❤️‍🔥✨
- [The Most Thoughtful Gift | Jeanette & Robert | Black Love Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/the-most-thoughtful-gift-jeanette-robert-black-love-bonus-clip/) - Price tags 🏷 shouldn’t matter as much as the level of thoughtfulness, care, and effort behind the gift ✨
- [Navigating Grief | Kenric & Sonequa | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/navigating-grief-kenric-sonequa-black-love-doc/) - Most of us have experienced grief or will in our lifetime. And there's no one way to go through it. Kenric & Sonequa we're hit hard with grief and loss in 2021 and on #BlackLoveDoc details how they navigated their feelings while supporting and giving space (and grace) to one another🖤
- [Shahidah & JB | Can I Talk to You | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/shahidah-jb-can-i-talk-to-you-black-love-doc/) - JB describes how he approached Shahidah for the first time.
- [Jeannette & Robert | Meeting at an Interview | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/jeannette-robert-meeting-at-an-interview-black-love-doc/) - Jeannette shares how she met Robert at a job interview.
- [Black Love Season 6 - The Final Season - EXTENDED TRAILER](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/black-love-season-6-the-final-season-extended-trailer-2/) - We took the meaning “Summer of Love” to a whole new level…but that’s just what we do!
- [Black Love Season 6 - The Final Season - Teaser](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/black-love-season-6-the-final-season-teaser-2/) - Here’s a little tease of the sixth and final season of our docuseries Black Love! We are honored that so many couples have so vulnerably shared their highs and lows and lessons with us so we can bring them to you. Join us on OWN in July for the final season of #BlackLoveDoc.
- [On The Couch | The Story of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/on-the-couch-the-story-of-black-love-3/) - Personally and professionally, The Olivers and Black Love Inc. are committed to uplifting the Black community from the inside out. That means centering and celebrating our stories so that we, as Black people, recognize our greatness and we appreciate brands like Target who consciously work to do the same. And founders Tommy & Codie Elaine Oliver began their Black Love Inc journey alongside their personal Black love journey - getting engaged, then married, and becoming parents. When given an opportunity to sit on the couch and share their journey with the Black Love family, the Olivers were thrilled to do so while highlighting some of the Black-owned brands and products they use every day as a family, all of which can be found at Target.
- [Tabitha & Chance | When You Can Really Talk | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-chance-when-you-can-really-talk-black-love-doc/) - Tabitha and Chance share what it means to be able to truly talk to each other in their marriage.
- [Ephraim & Renece | Seven Year Itch? | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ephraim-renece-seven-year-itch-black-love-doc/) - Ephrain and Renece talk about the moment they realized they weren't going to have those "firsts" that happen in the beginning of relationships anymore.
- [Keith and Dionne | Model Behavior | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/keith-and-dionne-model-behavior-black-love-doc/) - Keith and Dionne share how they try to model good behaviors in their marriage to serve as a role model for their children.
- [Charles and Shireen | Prioritizing Couple Time | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/charles-and-shireen-prioritizing-couple-time-black-love-doc/) - Charles and Shireen share how the make sure to prioritize their relationship when parenting.
- [Dwight & Deshun | He Pays Attention to the Details | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/dwight-deshun-he-pays-attention-to-the-details-black-love-doc/) - Dwight and Deshun share how they paid attention to the smaller details in their relationship.
- [Tabitha & Chance | Growing Up Together in Our Relationship | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-chance-growing-up-together-in-our-relationship-black-love-doc/) - Tabitha and Chance share how they had to grow up and struggle in the beginnings of their relationship.
- [Terri and Charles | We Don't Hold Grudges | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/terri-and-charles-we-dont-hold-grudges-black-love-doc/) - Terri and Charles share how they don't hold grudges in their relationship.
- [No U-Turns | Melanie & Jared | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/no-u-turns-melanie-jared-black-love-doc/) - “Only fate can determine whether a relationship was meant to be. So, if you let someone go, they will come back if that's your destiny.” ✨
- [You Can Fake Happiness But... | Kier & Noemie | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/you-can-fake-happiness-but-kier-noemie-black-love-doc/) - Social media impacts our perceptions of true love, what it should look like and what’s real and what isn’t.
- [He Noticed My Freckle | Sonequa & Kenric | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/he-noticed-my-freckle-sonequa-kenric-black-love-doc/) - He Noticed My Freckle | Sonequa & Kenric | Black Love Doc
- [Can You Say His Name? | Alimi & Dahn | Black Love Doc Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/can-you-say-his-name-alimi-dahn-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - Have you ever had someone forget or mess up your name? 🙃
- [Ray & Roslyn | He's Old Man Smooth | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ray-roslyn-hes-old-man-smooth-black-love-doc/) - Roslyn describes Ray's flirting game and energy along with their age gap.
- [Jared & Melanie | Clear on What I Wanted  | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/jared-melanie-clear-on-what-i-wanted-black-love-doc/) - Melanie shares how she came to a clear place of what she wanted in a relationship.
- [Asia & Kel | He Wrote A Song For Her | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/asia-kel-he-wrote-a-song-for-her-black-love-doc/) - When they started dating, Asia wanted to protect her friendship with Kel by making it known she wasn’t interested in moving too quickly. She waited three months just to kiss him. 👀
- [Remy & Papoose | Flipped on for Proposing | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/remy-papoose-flipped-on-for-proposing-black-love-doc/) - Papoose describes the emotional state Remy was in when he decided to propose to her.
- [Jeannette & Robert | The Card Was Declined | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/jeannette-robert-the-card-was-declined-black-love-doc/) - Jeannette and Robert share an embarrassing IHOP date they went on.
- [Ashley & Darroll | A Situationship | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ashley-darroll-a-situationship-black-love-doc/) - Listen, Ashley & Darroll’s ongoing back and forth situationship is one many of us can relate to 🙃😅
- [Kenny & Faith | | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kenny-faith-black-love-doc/) - Faith shares how she wanted to make sure she would only date her future husband, Kenny, when they first started courting each other.
- [Karl and Erica | "Joys of Infertility Tour" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/karl-and-erica-joys-of-infertility-tour-black-love-doc/) - Karl and Erica share how they handled the possibility of being unable to get pregnant.
- [Ephraim and Renece | "I Wish I Was More Understanding" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ephraim-and-renece-i-wish-i-was-more-understanding-black-love-doc/) - Ephraim shares how he regrets that Renece gave up her dancing career at the beginning of their marriage for his sake and career.
- [Tabitha and Chance | He Left For Two Days | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-and-chance-he-left-for-two-days-black-love-doc/) - Tabitha and Chance share how they handled their emotions when their marriage was on the brink of ending.
- [Tank and Zena | "I Think I'm In Love With Her Again" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tank-and-zena-i-think-im-in-love-with-her-again-black-love-doc/) - Tank and Zena discuss their relationship ups and downs while revealing that the fear of messing up was a driving factor in their past.
- [Rod & Shelitha | "He Gave Me A Different Viewpoint" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/rod-shelitha-he-gave-me-a-different-viewpoint-black-love-doc/) - Rod and Shelitha share how their differing viewpoints on religion didn't stop them from getting married.
- [Ephraim & Renece | Different Religions, Same Beliefs | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ephraim-renece-different-religions-same-beliefs-black-love-doc/) - Ephraim & Renece share how his religion and her spiritual beliefs were compatible when they started taking their relationship to the next level.
- [Tank and Zena | She Saved Me From Myself | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tank-and-zena-she-saved-me-from-myself-black-love-doc/) - Tank reveals what used to motivate his actions in the past and how Zena saved him from himself.
- [Kita and Joe | I Wanted To Raise Black Babies | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kita-and-joe-i-wanted-to-raise-black-babies-black-love-doc/) - Kita shares how her perspective on marriage changed when she met Joe's parents.
- [Keith and Dionne | Spiritual Vocabulary | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/keith-and-dionne-spiritual-vocabulary-black-love-doc/) - Keith shares how he grew as a husband after becoming sober and learning to admit when he makes mistakes.
- [Ledisi and Ron | Couldn't Tell She Was Flirting | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ledisi-and-ron-couldnt-tell-she-was-flirting-black-love-doc/) - Ledisi shares how she was trying to get Ron's romantic attention at work.
- [Dwight and Deshun | "If Your Money Is Good..." | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/dwight-and-deshun-if-your-money-is-good-black-love-doc/) - Dwight and Deshun share how money and intimacy can affect the stability of marriage and relationships.
- [Charles and Shireen | She Wouldn't Let Me Lose Hope | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/charles-and-shireen-she-wouldnt-let-me-lose-hope-black-love-doc/) - Charles reveals what Shireen did to make him feel supported when he was in his worst financial situation.
- [Tabitha & Chance | She Understood My Misunderstanding | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-chance-she-understood-my-misunderstanding-black-love-doc/) - Chance shares how he knew Tabitha was the one as his perspective on what marriage meant changed.
- [Tank and Zena | "We Never Want Frank The Tank" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tank-and-zena-we-never-want-frank-the-tank-black-love-doc/) - Tank talks about his alter ego, "Frank the Tank", and how that version of himself wasn't good for his financial situation.
- [Kita & Joe | This Is Our Nest Egg | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kita-joe-this-is-our-nest-egg-black-love-doc/) - Kita shares how when Joe was going through a rough financial patch in their marriage how he showed his commitment to making sure their relationship will be financially stable.
- [Karl & Erica | "Shop Through My Problems" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/karl-erica-shop-through-my-problems-black-love-doc/) - Karl and Erica share how they grew up with different financial dynamics and how once they were married there was a shift in how they handled money matters.
- [Spencer and Blair | She Responded Tho | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/spencer-and-blair-she-responded-tho-black-love-doc/) - Spencer shares how he started to pursue Blair when they were younger via texting everyday.
- [Ledisi and Ron | "I Went Into Philly Mode" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ledisi-and-ron-i-went-into-philly-mode-black-love-doc/) - Ledisi and Ron share how they made due with less expensive dates when they first started going out.
- [Tank and Zena | "We Aren't Separate Anymore" | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tank-and-zena-we-arent-separate-anymore-black-love-doc/) - Tank describes how he's learned how marriage changes the relationship dynamic and how you can't make moves without considering the other person in your life.
- [Tabitha and Chance | This Woke Me Up | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-and-chance-this-woke-me-up-black-love-doc/) - Tabitha shares how she confessed her love for Chance randomly at 4am in the middle of the night.
- [Jason and Adair | We're Having A Boy | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/jason-and-adair-were-having-a-boy-black-love-doc/) - Jason and Adair share why they decided to specifically have a Black boy when it came time to decide on having a child together.
- [Terri and Charles | His Level of Kindness | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/terri-and-charles-his-level-of-kindness-black-love-doc/) - Terri shares how she discovered how kind Charles was based on how he took care of his late wife near the end of her battle with cancer.
- [Tabitha and Chance | Expose Him To Love | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-and-chance-expose-him-to-love-black-love-doc/) - Tabitha shares how she exposed Chance to more affection than he was raised with and how that changed their relationship dynamics.
- [Ephraim and Renece | Talk About Urges | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ephraim-and-renece-talk-about-urges-black-love-doc/) - Ephraim and Renece share how they are each other's best friends and treat each other accordingly. Their relationship is stronger for communicating EVERYTHING about how they are feeling.
- [Brian and Ariana | "Picked Up" At Church | Black Love Doc Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/brian-and-ariana-picked-up-at-church-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Ariana shares how she decided to date outside of her "type" and how she fell for Brian when he picked her up at church.
- [Ledisi and Ron | He Called My Mother | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ledisi-and-ron-he-called-my-mother-black-love-doc/) - Ledisi and Ron talk about how they learned that arguments and disagreements aren't the end of relationships and having some breathing room is healthy.
- [Faith and Kenny | Learning from Past Relationships | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/faith-and-kenny-learning-from-past-relationships-black-love-doc/) - Faith shares how the struggles and lessons she went through in previous relationship helped her when she met Kenny to be a better partner in their relationship.
- [Rycklon and Jennifer | Love vs Like | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/rycklon-and-jennifer-love-vs-like-black-love-doc/) - Rycklon and Jennifer reveal how being in love wasn't enough in their marriage and how they worked to strengthen their communications skills and make time for each other.
- [Tank and Zena | Fear of Structure and Stability | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tank-and-zena-fear-of-structure-and-stability-black-love-doc/) - Tank and Zena share how they ended up having the opposite experiences of the households they grew up in.
- [Tabitha and Chance | He Came Back After 2 Days | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-and-chance-he-came-back-after-2-days-black-love-doc/) - Tabitha and Chance share how their marriage went through some struggles but in the end, they worked through their issues together.
- [Keith and Dionne | Feelings Are Not Facts | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/keith-and-dionne-feelings-are-not-facts-black-love-doc/) - Keith and Dionne reveal how keeping communication lines open is the key to making sure they understand how each other feels and how to solve any problems that arise in marriage.
- [Shireen and Charles | Marriage isn't a Solo Dance | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/shireen-and-charles-marriage-isnt-a-solo-dance-black-love-doc/) - Shireen shares how she realized compromising where she and Charles lived for the sake of his career as a part of their marriage was something she hadn't expected, but ultimately was glad that she did.
- [Alphonso and Erica | We're Not Getting Rid of the Dog | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/alphonso-and-erica-were-not-getting-rid-of-the-dog-black-love-doc/) - Erica recalls how she noticed a change in Alphonso's emotional state after she started to hang out socially with her friends again 6 months into their marriage.
- [Ephraim and Renece | Temptation After Marriage | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/ephraim-and-renece-temptation-after-marriage-black-love-doc/) - Ephraim and Renece talk candidly about how they had conversations about how the temptation to step outside of their marriage would come up and how they kept themselves faithful.
- [Zena & Tank | How Fame Caused Bad Habits | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/zena-tank-how-fame-caused-bad-habits-black-love-doc/) - Tank shares how becoming a famous singer influenced his behavior into bad habits that he had to correct once he was his wife, Zena.
- [Rod and Shelitha | Discussing Religious Beliefs | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/rod-and-shelitha-discussing-religious-beliefs-black-love-doc/) - Rod shares how he's able to have discussions about the Bible with his wife Shelitha and what it means to be able to have conversations about religious beliefs in marriages.
- [Kita and Joe | I Hear The Heartbeat | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kita-and-joe-i-hear-the-heartbeat-black-love-doc/) - Kita and Joe share the moment they realized that they had become pregnant after a miscarriage.
- [Jason and Adair | The Way I Was Loved  | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/jason-and-adair-the-way-i-was-loved-black-love-doc/) - Adair and Jason share how growing up in unconditionally loving households helped developed how they love for each other and how they hope to raise their new son.
- [Karl and Erica | Paying to Have a Baby | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/karl-and-erica-paying-to-have-a-baby-black-love-doc/) - Erica share what it was like to have her husband, Karl, by her side while attempting to conceive after surgery and IVF treatments.
- [Alphonso + Erica | I Know She Has My Back | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/alphonso-erica-i-know-she-has-my-back-black-love-doc/) - Alphonso shares how his wife, Erica, kept his spirits up and supported him when a sudden job change left him in search of a new career.
- [Karl and Erica | Is She Spending or Saving? | Black Love Doc](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/karl-and-erica-is-she-spending-or-saving-black-love-doc/) - Karl and Erica share how different their spending and savings habits are! Is Amazon "Savings Accounts" a thing in your relationship?
- [Zena +Tank | He Gave Me Dating Advice | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/zena-tank-he-gave-me-dating-advice-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - 🚨BONUS CLIP ALERT 🚨
- [Kita + Joe | Holding On To Your Cookies | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kita-joe-holding-on-to-your-cookies-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - In this Black Love bonus clip from season 5, Kita and Joe share some creative metaphors while encouraging folks to take it slow when they first start dating!
- [Tabitha & Chance - Black Love Doc Season 5 Premiere - SNEAK PEEK](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tabitha-chance-black-love-doc-season-5-premiere-sneak-peek/) - Black Love season 5 airs Fridays on @OWN beginning May 14th. Don't miss all new couples and all new love stories including Auntie Tab herself and husband Chance Brown. They don't miss with the memories and lessons and we are here for all of it.
- [Black Love on OWN Returns May 14th! | Teaser](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/black-love-on-own-returns-may-14th-teaser/) - A little love for your timeline 🥰 #BlackLove returns to @OWNtv Friday, May 14th 🙌🏾 Here’s a sneak peek 👀 All new couples, new stories, and new obstacles they’ve overcome, Because the only way forward is THROUGH. ⁠
- [Nikolai + Roxanne | Becoming a Stepfather | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/nikolai-roxanne-becoming-a-stepfather-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - In this Bonus Clip from Season 4 of Black Love on OWN, Nikolai and Roxanne discuss newlywed changes and how becoming a step-parent restructures relationship dynamics.
- [Anthony and Melanie | Looking For A Sign | Black Love Doc Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/anthony-and-melanie-looking-for-a-sign-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - Anthony and Melanie share how they realized they were meant to be together after her father passed away.
- [Surouje and Aisha | "I Don't Curse At Her" | Black Love Doc Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/surouje-and-aisha-i-dont-curse-at-her-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Surouje and Aisha share how even during disagreements they don't get heated.
- [Viola and Julius | One Heart, One Spirit | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/viola-and-julius-one-heart-one-spirit-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Viola and Julius share what being committed in marriage means for them.
- [David & Julie | Stop Nitpicking The Small Things | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/david-julie-stop-nitpicking-the-small-things-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - David and Julie share how their marriage stays strong thru arguments and how in the end they are with each other no matter what.
- [Kenny & Jessica | Outside Expectations & Marriage | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kenny-jessica-outside-expectations-marriage-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Kenny and Jessica share how sometimes expectations from society can distract you from what's actually important in your own relationships and needs.
- [Monet & Clarence | In Love Before Ready For Commitment? | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/monet-clarence-in-love-before-ready-for-commitment-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Clarence and Monet share how they fell in love and how what was happening in society at the time pushed them to be more serious about their relationship.
- [Winston & Wendy | Expressing Love in Unique Ways  | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/winston-wendy-expressing-love-in-unique-ways-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Winston and Wendy share a unique birthday present. :)
- [Meagan & Devon | Sense of Self Within Marriage  | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/meagan-devon-sense-of-self-within-marriage-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Meagan explains how her sense of self changed within her marriage to Devon.
- [Kenny & Jessica | Marriage & Business Partners  | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kenny-jessica-marriage-business-partners-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Kenny & Jessica share how managing business finances bring up unique problems within their marriage.
- [Monet & Clarence | Public Disagreements | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/monet-clarence-public-disagreements-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Clarence shares how he had to get over certain insecurities to appreciate Monet's different opinions on subjects when they were in a public setting.
- [Felicia and Karega | Love's Role in Grief | Black Love Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/felicia-and-karega-loves-role-in-grief-black-love-bonus-clips/) - Felicia and Karega share how working in communities affected by gun violence, and experiencing their own losses, changed them and their relationship.
- [Yvette and Glen | Learning to Lead | Black Love Doc Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/yvette-and-glen-learning-to-lead-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - ​@BeleafInFatherhood on Learning to Lead
- [Anthony & Melanie | Recognizing Trauma | Black Love Doc Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/anthony-melanie-recognizing-trauma-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - Melanie shares how when she was dating Anthony, she recognized going through a similar trauma as he did from a previous marriage.
- [Yvette and Glen | Marriage and Parenting | Black Love Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/yvette-and-glen-marriage-and-parenting-black-love-bonus-clip/) - @BeleafInFatherhood on Balancing Marriage and Parenting
- [Joy and Terrance | Wrong Question or Wrong Answer? | Black Love Doc Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/joy-and-terrance-wrong-question-or-wrong-answer-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - BL Family, we need you to help us with this one! Are Joy and Codie asking the wrong question or are Terrence and Tommy not giving the right answer? Let the debate begin👇🏾⁠
- [Felicia and Karega | High School Sweethearts to Marriage | Black Love Doc Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/felicia-and-karega-high-school-sweethearts-to-marriage-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - A lot changes from high school to college and many young couples don't survive that transition. For Felicia and Karega, what worked for them was allowing each other the space to grow individually. Let's talk 👇🏾 Are you still with your high school sweetheart?
- [Brian & Ariana | What About Side Effects? | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/brian-ariana-what-about-side-effects-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - 🚨 #BLACKLOVE BONUS CLIP🚨
- [Tracci and Tony | Celibate for 2 Years | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tracci-and-tony-celibate-for-2-years-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Tracci and Tony discuss being celibate for two years while dating and what being intimate is like in your 50s.
- [Jemele & Ian | It's Always 50/50  | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/jemele-ian-its-always-50-50-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Jemele and Ian discuss how they share responsibilities and gender roles in their marriage.
- [Anthony & Melanie | Focus on Appreciation | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/anthony-melanie-focus-on-appreciation-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Anthony and Melanie Clark share their secret for keeping romantic love strong in their marriage.
- [DL & LaDonna | Seeing the Brighter Side | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/dl-ladonna-seeing-the-brighter-side-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - DL & LaDonna Hughley share how they have different types of optimism and how that affects their relationship.
- [Devale and Khadeen | Together Since We Were 18 | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/devale-and-khadeen-together-since-we-were-18-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Devale and Khadeen talk about the beginnings of their relationship.
- [Tia & Cory | Someone In Your Corner | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tia-cory-someone-in-your-corner-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - For more Black Love interviews and articles, visit http://www.BlackLove.com
- [David & Tamela | TRYING to Keep it PG with the Manns! | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/david-tamela-trying-to-keep-it-pg-with-the-manns-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - David and Tamela Mann were “friends with benefits” back in the day and had no shortage of ways to explain it to us for Season 3 of #BlackLoveDoc. None of us could keep it together 😂 😆 Make sure you tune in tomorrow at 9/8c for the season 4 premiere only on OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network!
- [India Arie's Best Black Love Moments | Black Love Doc Interview](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/india-aries-best-black-love-moments-black-love-doc-interview-2/) - Grammy-award winner singer-songwriter, India Arie, shares her favorite Black Love Doc moments from past seasons. Some of her favorite moments include Emmy-winner Sterling K Brown and his wife, fellow actress, Ryan Michelle Bathe, Viola Davis and Julius Tennon, and Tamia and Grant Hill.
- [Tammy and Kirk | God Designed Her For Me | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tammy-and-kirk-god-designed-her-for-me-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Tammy and Kirk Franklin share their proposal story.
- [DeWanda and Alano | Let's Get Married Tomorrow | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/dewanda-and-alano-lets-get-married-tomorrow-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - DeWanda and Alano share their proposal story on a train.
- [Arthur and Reva | A Long Lasting Marriage | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/arthur-and-reva-a-long-lasting-marriage-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Arthur and Reva share the secrets of their long-lasting 68-year marriage.
- [Kandi & Todd | Party Man to Husband | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kandi-todd-party-man-to-husband-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Kandi and Todd talk about how they had to adjust from single-life partying to focusing on their marriage. Also, making sure there's always gas in the car. ;)
- [CJ & Rochelle | Admitting Mistakes | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/cj-rochelle-admitting-mistakes-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - CJ & Rochelle tell us what happens when they make mistakes and how they handle difficult emotions in their marriage.
- [Karli & Ben | Wanted Her In My Life | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/karli-ben-wanted-her-in-my-life-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Karli and Ben share how they first connected and wanted to be a part of each other's lives.
- [Brandi & Jon | Seeing Your Spouse | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/brandi-jon-seeing-your-spouse-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - Brandi & Jon share how they had to learn to really see each other has imperfect people to learn to appreciate each other.
- [Quincy & Deondray | Couples Therapy & Honesty | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/quincy-deondray-couples-therapy-honesty-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Quincy & Deondray share how answering a party game question lead them down a road to honesty in couple's therapy.
- [Tommi & Letoya | Gave Up My Hoochie Ways | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tommi-letoya-gave-up-my-hoochie-ways-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Tommi and Letoya share how he gave up his hoochie past and asked for God to bring him a beautiful queen into his life.
- [Salli & Dondre | Not Giving Up | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/salli-dondre-not-giving-up-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Salli & Dondre share how after 21 years of marriage they are "pot-committed" and are in it for the long-haul no matter what happens.
- [Elisha & Michael | How Our Casual Relationship became Serious | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/elisha-michael-how-our-casual-relationship-became-serious-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - Elisha & Michael tell us how their relationship started off as very casual but eventually turned serious after she moved to Los Angeles.
- [The Campbells | When She Told Me She Loved Me | | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/the-campbells-when-she-told-me-she-loved-me-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - The Campbells share how their relationship blossomed and the sly way they confessed their love for one another.
- [Michael & Gillian | Got a Cold and Confessed my Love | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/michael-gillian-got-a-cold-and-confessed-my-love-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - Michael and Gillian share how they re-started their relationship after Michael confessed his love while he was feeling under the weather and fighting a cold.
- [Kandi & Todd | Keeping Interest | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kandi-todd-keeping-interest-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Kandi & Todd share how their relationship started with a chill vibe that just never ended.
- [Kevin & Melissa | Breakup? Nahhh. | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kevin-melissa-breakup-nahhh-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Kevin and Melissa share how in college their breakups never seemed to stick. Why? Kevin just said "Nah."
- [Justin & Joy | Finding Your Way Back After Breaking Up | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/justin-joy-finding-your-way-back-after-breaking-up-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Justin & Joy share how they felt when they briefly broke up and what happened they reconnected their relationship.
- [David & Tamela Mann | Church Fight?! | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/david-tamela-mann-church-fight-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - When David & Tamela Mann started dating, she hadn't quite called it off with her ex yet... which almost led to a big fight in front of their church.
- [Jai and Rebecca | From Friends to Dating | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/jai-and-rebecca-from-friends-to-dating-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Jai and Rebecca share how they started out as just platonic friends but grew to love each other romanticly.
- [Tony & Brittany | Knowing When You're Ready  | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tony-brittany-knowing-when-youre-ready-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Tony shares how he decided when he was ready to propose to his wife, Brittany... before they were even an "official" couple.
- [Kenny & Jessica | When I Decided To Propose  | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/kenny-jessica-when-i-decided-to-propose-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Kenny shares when he decided to propose to Jessica after talking to a stranger about love on a flight.
- [Brandi & Jon | Openness in Therapy | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/brandi-jon-openness-in-therapy-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Brandi and Jon share the process of finding a therapist they could truly be open with who was able to push them to answer the more important relationship questions.
- [Karli & Ben | She Missed Her Flight | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/karli-ben-she-missed-her-flight-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Karli and Ben share how being late and missing flights was a mini-lesson they learned in their relationship.
- [Mattie and Chris | Called Out At Church | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clip](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/mattie-and-chris-called-out-at-church-black-love-doc-bonus-clip/) - Mattie and Chris share how a prophet called them out at church and told them their futures.
- [Tommi & LeToya | Meeting His Kids For The First Time | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/tommi-letoya-meeting-his-kids-for-the-first-time-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Tommi and LeToya share what happened when she first met his children.
- [Justin & Joy | The KFC Girl Story | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/justin-joy-the-kfc-girl-story-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - Justin and Joy share the story of the "KFC Girl".
- [David & Tamela | How We Blended Our Family | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-bonus-clips/david-tamela-how-we-blended-our-family-black-love-doc-bonus-clips/) - David and Tamela tell us how they blended their families to make sure the kids felt loved and supported.
- [Black Love x Cry Out Con 2025 (Part 2 of 4)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-x-cry-out-con-2025-part-1-of-4/) - Black Love Founders Tommy Oliver & Codie Elaine Oliver talked about marriage and blending families with Pastor Keion and First Lady Shaunie Henderson at Cry Out Con 2025
- [Black Love x Cry Out Con 2025 (Part 1 of 4)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-x-cry-out-con-2025-part-1-of-4-2/) - Black Love Founders Tommy Oliver & Codie Elaine Oliver talked about marriage and blending families with Pastor Keion and First Lady Shaunie Henderson at Cry Out Con 2025 (Part 1 of 4)
- [Black Love x Cry Out Con 2025 (Part 3 of 4)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-x-cry-out-con-2025-part-3-of-4/) - In this 3rd installment of their conversation, Keion and Shaunie talk about disciplining their kids and navigating challenging moments.
- [Black Love x Cry Out Con 2025 (Part 4 of 4)](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-live/black-love-x-cry-out-con-2025-part-4-of-4/) - Learn how these two powerhouse professionals parent 6 kids and enjoy a successful marriage while writing books, leading a church, producing television, and tending to their own personal needs.
- [Dating Didn't Ruin Our Friendship | Obio & Jermelle | P2](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/dating-didnt-ruin-our-friendship-obio-jermelle-part-1-2/) - First comes friends then comes FIANCEÈS. In this installment, Obio and Jermelle talk about what they love most about their relationship.
- [Victoria Monét on a Joy-Filled Life in Motherhood and Beyond](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/victoria-monet-on-a-joy-filled-life-in-motherhood-and-beyond/) - Grammy-winning singer, author, and mama Victoria Monét is in the Den! Victoria opens up about how motherhood has shifted her mindset - from navigating the stigma of being pregnant in the music industry to guarding her joy, mastering time management, and finding inspiration for her hit song “On My Mama.”
- [A Mama's Den Reintroduction: We Do It For the Village Part 1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/a-mamas-den-reintroduction-we-do-it-for-the-village-part-1/) - We recently put out a listener survey and the results are in...y’all want more from the Mamas! So in this episode, while Felicia’s off handling her business (we’re so proud of you, Fee!), Codie, Melanie, and Ashley reintroduce themselves, reflecting on how they became the women and mothers they are today.
- [Blocked for 12 Years?! | Paige & Justin | P1](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/black-love-presents-the-rest-is-history/blocked-for-12-years-paige-justin-p1/) - First comes friends then comes FIANCEÈS. In this installment, Obio and Jermelle talk about what they love most about their relationship.
- [Couch Conversations For SMURFS | What Would You Do With Real Live Smurf?](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/couch-conversations-for-two/couch-conversations-for-two-rihanna-is-smurphette/) - In this special episode of Couch Conversations…we have been SMURF-IFIED! Millennial Mama Ashley Chea and her daughters Azarah and Asiyah are playing Black Love’s Couch Conversations card game designed to create fun memories and get a little closer! Just like the Smurf movie starring Rihanna as Smurfette, this episode of Couch Conversations is full of love, laughter, and connection. Enjoy Smurfs with your family! Only in theaters July 18th.
- [Bozoma Saint John on Love & Loss..Small Stuff Doesn’t Matter](https://blacklove.com/video/watch/series/the-mamas-den/bozoma-saint-john-on-love-loss-small-stuff-doesnt-matter-2/) - Bozoma Saint John is a Badass Mama! From single motherhood to climbing the corporate ladder as a marketing exec, launching her hair brand Eve by Boz, and starring on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills - Boz has done it all! But behind the glam is a woman shaped by hard-earned lessons in self-love, loss, and unstoppable growth. In this episode, Boz opens up about losing a child, becoming a widow, and being a Black woman in the boardroom...and how these moments empowered her to stand on business in every role she takes on. Through it all, Boz has not just survived, but thrived - led by intuition, divine timing, and trust in divine intervention.
- [Ashley Chea: Homeschooling](https://blacklove.com/video/uncategorized/ashley-chea-homeschooling/) - Ashley Chea talks about homeschooling her oldest while pregnant and caring for a toddler.
- [Black Love Summit Announcement](https://blacklove.com/video/uncategorized/black-love-summit-announcement-oct-6-7/) - Codie & Tommy Oliver and Black Love are launching the first ever Black Love Summit October 6&7 at the W in Hollywood featuring Niecy Nash, Erica Campbell & Warryn Campbell, Chris Spencer & Vanessa Spencer, Sean Patrick Thomas & Aonika Thomas, Devale Ellis & Khadeen Ellis, Michael Jai White & Gillian White, and many more. Get your tickets

## Podcasts

- [RUN IT BACK Secure Relationships with Your Kids, Partners, and Parents](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/run-it-back-secure-relationships-with-your-kids-partners-and-parents/) - We are running it back to this fun conversation from 2023....We all know social media sparks a lot of conversations these days. So Codie, Ashley, and Melanie are giving their opinions about a post shared on Instagram that listed 5 things parents should do if they want to have a secure relationship with their children. The Mamas also talk about holding space for their children’s emotions and reflect on their relationships with their own mothers.
- [Sleep Training for Newborns with Brandi Jordan](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/sleep-training-for-newborns-with-brandi-jordan/) - Brandi breaks down how sleep actually works, from healthy newborn sleep habits to setting boundaries with big kids who still crawl into your bed.
- [Mama’s Den Reintroduction, Part 2: From Four Mamas to Three](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mamas-den-reintroduction-part-2-from-four-mamas-to-three/) - A few weeks ago, we dropped Mama’s Den Reintroduction Part 1 - if you missed it, go run that back! In Part 2, we pick up where we left off…but this time, we’re officially down one Mama. Codie, Ashley, and Melanie open up about Felicia’s decision to step away from the show to pursue her next chapter (we love you and love this for you, Fee!). The Mamas also get real about where they are now - juggling motherhood, entrepreneurship, and personal growth - while doing their best to choose joy and lean on community. If you’re out here doing the best with what you’ve got, this is your reminder: joy is still on the table.
- [Welcome to The Mama's Den](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/welcome-to-the-mamas-den/) - Come meet our Mamas, Ashley Chea, Melanie Fiona, Felicia La Tour and Codie Elaine Oliver as the welcome you into The Mama's Den.
- [Man to Man With James Harris](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-james-harris/) - James Harris was supposed to be just another statistic in the foster care system. At the age of sixteen, he decided the best plan for his future was to emancipate himself and take control of his life so he could be the support system for his siblings who he was separated from when they entered the Virginia foster care system. Today, Tedx speaker, husband, and father James Harris goes Man to Man with David to discuss how he took the necessary steps to heal his child hood trauma by educating himself about mental health. He discusses how this played a huge part in how he created his program, Men to Heal, that helps other black men to be vulnerable so they can have autonomy over their feelings.
- [Man to Man With James Nicholas Kinney](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-james-nicholas-kinney/) - Knowledge, plain and simple, is POWER! Being informed about todays society is essential, and can be the difference between thriving or just getting by. James Nicholas Kinney is one who chose to survive, learn and thrive when the universe gave him a choice that he couldn't say no too. Now, he's here to go Man to Man with David to discuss how he pulled himself out of a very deep depression and battled his agoraphobia after almost losing his life. Listen as Americas Mental Health Motivator speaks on how you can change your life just by reading, meditating and so much more.
- [Man to Man with Dominic Lawson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-dominic-lawson/) - What do you do when you lose it all? When you think you know your life plan, and then suddenly that changes? Dominic Lawson knows all about change and loss. He wouldn't tell you that there is some magical cure all on the other side. What you would learn from him, is that he is a man of service, a man who loves his community, and a champion of mental health who is STILL on his own journey. Through storytelling, he is finding his own healing AND success. In going Man to Man with David, Dominic shares about growing up in the Lamar Terrace projects in Memphis, Tennessee, his time in the Army, and being an Angel parent, but they also share what it means to find the joy in the margins.
- [Man to Man with Alimi Ballard](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-alimi-ballard/) - Get your air horns ready because today, David goes man to man with actor, producer, husband, father and of course New Yorker, Alimi Ballard. David and Alimi dive into why he credits his mother as the most influential person in his early life and how he takes those lessons and teaches them to his children so they have the tools to navigate a world, that can be very cruel, with grace, confidence, and humility as a young person of color.
- [Man to Man with Lee Hammock](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-lee-hammock/) - Narcissism is defined as a selfcentered personality style characterized as having an excessive preoccupation with oneself and ones own needs, often at the expense of others. Sometimes people want a narcissist to be more engaged in the things going on around them rather than themselves. What happens when a narcissist decides to seek the genuine help they need to be become a better man for the people around them? David goes Man to Man with Lee Hammock a selfaware narcissist who chose to do the work and go to therapy to be a better partner and father. Now, Lee inspires others through his podcast Baldy and the Beast, TIKTOK, Facebook and other social media platforms to be honest with your self and do the work, not just for others but for you!
- [Man to Man with Lheighton Cook](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-lheighton-cook/) - Forgiveness is something we all struggle with. However, studies have found that the act of forgiveness can reap huge rewards for your health, lowering the risk of heart attack improving cholesterol levels and sleep and reducing pain, blood pressure, and levels of anxiety, depression and stress. Today, David is going Man to Man with an influencer, father, and skateboarder who knows all about the power of forgiveness, Lheighton Cook. The two talk about what it took for him to forgive his father. The importance of it on one's mental health, and how it all ties into being the man he is today.
- [Man to Man with Jermaine Fowler](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-jermaine-fowler/) - Welcome back fam! Today David goes man to man with an actor, and comedian but also a father and overall good dude Jermaine Fowler. The two discuss how comedy was truly a way for Jermaine to make something of himself when everything seemed hopeless, how much of one's self it takes to make others laugh, and the intersection of religion and wellness.
- [Man to Man with Hosea Chanchez](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-hosea-chanchez/) - Today we are starting out Black History Month right with this brother right here! Hosea Chanchez is an actor and producer who has been in the entertainment industry for over 20 years and is probably best known for his role in The Game which you can catch on Paramount but his talents don't stop there Hosea is also a passionate advocate for mental health awareness and support within the Black community. As David and Hosea sit down for a chat on what's happening in The Game, his wishes for Malik, and he reveals something he's never shared before.
- [Man to Man with Ray Singleton](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-ray-singleton/) - Ray Singleton is a lot of things, but you might know him as America's Husband. He first stole a lot of hearts as he started sharing his wife, Roslyn's, cancer journey. Or You might have met him for the first time on the latest season of Black Love Doc. OR This might be your first introduction to Ray in which case you are late to the party! Ray is positivity personified. David and Ray discuss just how masculinity intertwines with being more than being a provider, how Roslyn has helped him grow as a man, and how happiness is key to his life.
- [Man to Man with Bryan Winston pt2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-bryan-winston-pt2/) - David is back with Bryan to finish their conversation and this round they're going into more of what exactly Bryan does as an ICF Accredited Leadership Coach. Surprisingly enough, leadership is so much more than just the being the person in charge. It encompasses a doubt, and stress, and performances and humility and want. Listen in as Bryan and David reflect on their growth, development and what their journey from adolescence to manhood has looked like for them.
- [Man to Man with Kelvin Davis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-kelvin-davis/) - As we all know, being different than what people think Black men should be gets you straight mocked, being vulnerable is not something we expect from Black men. Whether that comes from wearing feminine colors, not being fit, to enjoying certain hobbies, there are some things that Black men avoid because they don't want to be talked about. For body positive, model and NAACP Image Award nominated author Kelvin Davis, that was an afterthought. He's been rocking his style since childhood. As a girl dad and a dapper gentleman Kelvin spreads joy just by being him, but where does he pull his confidence from? David and Kelvin go Man to Man to discuss not only where he pulls his confidence from, but societal standards for men, body positivity, and health.
- [Man to Man with Sean Patrick Thomas](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-sean-patrick-thomas/) - If you know anything about these Black Love streets, then you know Sean Patrick Thomas is a favorite around here. He's a loving husband, a great dad, and a phenomenal actor, and today he's sitting with David to talk about Till the heartbreaking true story of the historic lynching of 14yearold Emmett Till through the eyes of his mother Mamie TillMobley in which he plays Gene Mobley. David and Sean chat about what if any similarities he finds he has with Gene Mobley. Plus are there any parallels in what Mamie taught Emmitt and what he's trying to instill in his children? Plus listen in to hear how his routine helps keep him on track with his wellness goals. Sean is an amazing brother who just gets it, and this is a conversation that has gems all the way through!
- [On Impact with Benny Pough](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/on-impact-with-benny-pough/) - Hey Black Love fam! Today David is back with a legend in the music game. He has worked with all the big names like Kanye and Rihanna and a bunch more, but he is also an entrepreneur, a family man, and a brand new author. We're talking about Benny Pough! Benny is back to talk about his new book On Impact which is full of lessons on living a life of impact, rising through the leadership ranks, and having to overcome a neardeath car crash that almost took it all. It is a testament to not only his perseverance and his life journey, but how he values success and his mission to help uplift others. Listen in as he shares more of how he got to this place in his life where he's trying to find his new version of success, what true wellness is to him, and what motivates him to keep going.
- [Man to Man Challenging Perceived Masculinity with Jay Barnett Karega Bailey](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-challenging-perceived-masculinity-with-jay-barnett-karega-bailey/) - It's International Podcast Day and we're celebrating a full year of Man to Man with a conversation on toxic masculinity. What is it? Is it really an issue or is it some buzzword? We brought in two brothers to have a conversation about masculinity in all forms, but especially centered around being Black men Karega Bailey, artist, educator, and angel father, and King Jay Barnett, author, speaker, and mental health therapist. Perhaps more important than the question of what is toxic masculinity is how do we acknowledge behavior that is toxic that seems to be consistently perpetrated by men? Honestly, there are so many questions and points asked that this is only one piece of the framework necessary for healing. But we have to start somewhere and this is a great start with two phenomenal brothers.
- [Man to Man with Steve Harris](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-steve-harris/) - Steve Harris is a multihyphenate to the nth degree. He's a producer, an entrepreneur, an Emmy winner, a documentarian, a network executive, and he and David happened to cross paths at his latest project, Sneakertopia. But perhaps just as interesting as all the things that Steve has managed to do and create and work on, are the paths he had to take to get there. From his early days at Howard University, to being a young father and navigating college and parenthood at the same time, to trying to chase a dream and rejection, Steve has experienced it all. Plus how has all of this tied into his own wellness journey and making time and finding balance with doing everything and doing what you need to do for yourself?
- [Man to Man with Bryan Winston pt1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-bryan-winston-pt1/) - Sometimes you just have to chop it up with an old friend. This week David is going Man to Man with Bryan Winston who is not only an old friend, but an ICF Accredited Leadership Coach, NLP Master Practitioner Ericksonian Hypnosis Practitioner. Listen in as the two discuss the meaning of masculinity in today's world, how fatherhood has helped shaped them today, and how doing things well is so much different than just doing.
- [Man to Man with Garrain Jones](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-garrain-jones/) - What's it like to go from nothing, to everything, back to nothing and finally living your best version of you? From a near death experience as a child to modeling and record deals, to prison, nothing about Garrain Jones' story is typical. Most stories like his do not have a happy ending. So what makes Garrain different? Listen in as he shares his story and the one thing that truly changed his life. Plus Garrain gives us the inside scoop on Artist Power and how we all need to be investing in ourselves.
- [Man to Man with Adedayo Dayo Kosoko](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-adedayo-dayo-kosoko/) - It's not every day you get to chat with a man who is known as Mr. Hype. Adedayo Dayo Kosoko is a photographer, and creator who exudes joy. Everyone who has met him, or worked with him knows that Dayo is going to bring it all the way up. In this conversation David and Dayo chat about what it means to be a first generation American, repping for his people, and the joy that is Black joy.
- [Man to Man with Kevin Curry](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-kevin-curry/) - In this episode David goes Man to Man with the founder of Fit Men Cook, Kevin Curry. The two discuss how mental health led to a wellness revolution, how religion in the Black community can make it hard to transition to mindfulness, and how your mama's sweet potato pie isn't that special.
- [Man to Man with Chris Slate](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-chris-slate/) - Against all odds. That's what you'll be thinking after hearing Chris Slate's story. The fitness coach and wellness specialist has been through so much to get to where he is today. Listen in as he shares how he arrived at his now, how he is always evolving, and the intersection of mental wellness always crosses with physical wellness.
- [Man to Man with Darian Hall](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-darian-hall/) - Black Men Heal. Today David is going Man to Man with a man who went through his own transformation to lead to where he is today. Darian Hall is the cofounder of HealHaus, a wellness space in Brooklyn NY, and online. But, just like a lot of Black men, Darian wasn't always on this path. It wasn't until he was talking to his group of friends that he realized the need for spaces for Black folks to heal. Listen in as David and Darian talk wellness in all its forms and how HealHaus has helped Darian grow in his own healing journey.
- [Man to Man with Jared Cotter](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-jared-cotter/) - David goes Man to Man with singer and MultiPlatinum and Grammynominated songwriter Jared Cotter. Listen in as Jared and David discuss what masculinity looks like when raising kids and how Jared's views of masculinity have evolved with the arrival of Kaia Love. Plus we finally hear his version of events when his now wife, Melanie Fiona, broke up with him. Clearly that worked itself out! This is a conversation about masculinity, the evolution of one's self, and fatherhood that you don't want to miss.
- [Man to Man with Seth Brundle](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-seth-brundle/) - Today David goes Man to Man again with media personality and chef Seth Brundle! Listen in to learn how Seth's father influenced his views on masculinity, how he made the transition from fashion to food ! and more. Plus, listen in as Seth and David discuss what masculinity looks like when one is also trying to dismantle their own internal biases, and the effects it has on their own parenting. Plus, how Seth navigated working in the style industry as a cisgender straight man, and what convinced him to transition to a career in food.
- [Man to Man with Joe Holder](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-joe-holder/) - Today David goes Man to Man again with Mr Ocho system himself, Joe Holder! Listen in to find out about Joe's story to wellness, his nonprofit System of Service and more.
- [Man to Man with Anthony Clark pt2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-anthony-clark-pt2/) - Today David goes Man to Man again with the halfman, half amazing Anthony Clark! Listen in to find out about Anthony's monthlong trip to Ghana and how it has changed how he sees love, community, and himself.
- [Man to Man with Anthony Clark pt1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-anthony-clark-pt1/) - Today David goes Man to Man with a Black Love Doc favorite. The half man, half amazing Anthony Clark! Listen in to find out how we can find a balance between the need to be tough and our higher selves.
- [OG Man to Man with Charles Kuykendoll](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/og-man-to-man-with-charles-kuykendoll/) - In this OG Man to Man from the IG Live days, David goes Man to Man with father, husband, and host of The Shady Bunch Charles Kuykendoll. The two discuss couples therapy, legacy, and what masculinity looks like now that they're parents.
- [Man to Man with Garnett Strother](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-garnett-strother/) - David goes Man to Man with father, life performance coach, and mixed martial artist Garnett Strother to discuss fitness and life performance, fatherhood, and how being raised in a household by women shaped him into the man he is today.
- [Man to Man with MAJOR.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-major/) - David goes Man to Man with Hope Dealer and musician MAJOR. to discuss depression, vulnerability, inspiration, Imposter Syndrome and how each of those things have shaped him into the man he is today.
- [Man to Man with Karega Bailey](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-karega-bailey/) - David goes Man to Man with father, musician and Black Love Doc favorite Karega Bailey to discuss grief, pregnancy and infant loss, and how each of those things have brought him to this moment in his life.
- [Man to Man with Walter Gainer II](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-walter-gainer-ii/) - Working while Black. We all know what it can be like navigating the workforce while trying to be our authentic selves. From our names to our hair, we often find ourselves having to hide or change pieces of who we are. Enter Walter Gainer II. As a young man with locs, he had some anxiety about graduating college and having to search for work. Would he face discrimination? What were other Black professionals saying? As it turned out, there wasn't a bunch of information out there for him. This implored Walter to go out and find it. Listen in as Walt shares his story and what he's found out along his journey. Plus, how his hair journey led him into the LinkedIn Accelerator program.
- [Man to Man with Spencer Paysinger](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-spencer-paysinger/) - David goes Man to Man with filmmaker, producer, and former proathlete Spencer Paysinger! David and Spencer dive into what masculinity looks like for him, and if that's changed over the years. Plus the last time these two spoke Spencer was getting ready to start therapy, and he shares what a year of that has looked like. The two also chat about how much his identity in football has manifested differently in his current life.
- [Man to Man with Kevin Arbouet](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-kevin-arbouet/) - David goes Man to Man with writer and filmmaker Kevin Arbouet. As a newly single man, Kevin shares what dating has looked like for him after being off the market for 17 years. He's definitely got some tips for us if you're trying to get into the world of online dating. Plus, he shares his personal philosophies about masculinity which made David pause for a second. Also, how and why did he get into and out of the True Love podcast of it all? This is a conversation that truly touches on all things masculinity.
- [OG Man to Man with Chance Brown](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/og-man-to-man-with-chance-brown/) - In this OG episode from the IG Live days, David goes Man to Man with Chance Brown. In this conversation that took place right after the season 5 premiere of Black Love Doc June 2021, David and Chance chat about what sacrifices had to be made for his marriage, what his wellness routine looks like, what's next postretirement and manhood
- [OG Man to Man with Jason Bolden Adair Curtis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/og-man-to-man-with-jason-bolden-adair-curtis/) - In this OG episode from the IG Live days, David goes Man to Man with stylist Jason Bolden and interior designer Adair Curtis. In this conversation that took place right after the season 5 premiere of Black Love Doc June 2021, David and Jason Adair chat about becoming new dads this was a week after they welcomed their little one! , how their views of masculinity will or won't play into how they raise their son, selfcare and wellness for Black Men
- [Man to Man with Jay Barnett](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-jay-barnett/) - David goes Man to Man with NFL player turned therapist, a speaker, and author King Jay Barnett. Jay is back to talk about his definition of masculinity, his love of flowers yup!, and his new bookjournal Just Heal Bro. Jay drops nothing but gems all throughout the conversation as the too discuss worthiness, the value of reflection, and how men can move forward in their healing journeys.
- [Man to Man with Benny Pough](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-benny-pough/) - David goes Man to Man with one of the most successful record executives in the music industry, entrepreneur, real estate investor and now author Benny Pough. Listen in as Benny shares the one event that would shift his entire life upside down. What do you do when you have to start from step one when you have practically already won the race? David and Benny go deep into the mental strength needed to navigate spaces that are unfamiliar to you, and how to maximize your day to day in order to keep your peace and more.
- [Man to Man with Christian Keyes](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-christian-keyes/) - David goes Man to Man with actor, author, and executive producer of All the Queens Men, Christian Keyes. When David first went Man to Man with Christian, they discussed the value of being valued, the impact of childhood traumas, the power of forgiveness and releasing blame, his selflove tool kit, and what he's looking for in his wife. This go around, the two talk about moving forward, how to work on yourself to become the best version of yourself, and his new BET Series All the Queens Men!
- [Man to Man with Shawn Stevenson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/man-to-man-with-shawn-stevenson/) - This week David goes Man to Man with health fitness expert Shawn Stevenson. David aka Shawn's 1 fan and Shawn get real about masculinity, how health is much more than eating well, and how Shawn's own past set him on this path to help others. Make sure you tell another king, or queen, about this conversation because it is not one to miss!
- [This is Man to Man](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/man-to-man-a-wellness-series/this-is-man-to-man/) - The Black Love Podcast Network presents Man to Man A Wellness Series. A brand new podcast with a focus on Black male wellness. Man to Man serves as a platform for men to get reallife insight directly from notable, successful men who lead with the honesty and vulnerability that Black Love is known for.
- [Jessica Kenny Burns](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/jessica-kenny-burns/) - From meeting at Howard Homecoming in 1997, to dating by 1998, to marriage in 1999, and their first child in 2000, love hit Kenny and Jessica fast. As they will tell you in this 2019 interview for Black Love Doc, it wasn't always easy, but it has turned into over 20 years of love and growth. Now as parents and partners in business these two have ALL the wisdom to share about building a beautiful legacy with your spouse.
- [Chris Mattie James](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/chris-mattie-james/) - From MySpace to power couple, Chris and Mattie James have been rocking with each other since the early digital age, but they weren't always in each other's Top 8. While the two started off just as friends, they quickly found themselves as something more, and when a prophet foresaw their marriage, Chris knew it was time to propose. However, after a miscarriage, to having a child, and battling the dynamics of depression in a relationship, the communication and foundation was no longer there and the two separated. What brought these two back together? In an amazing story of love, faith and family, this 2018 interview with Chris and Mattie shares the gamut of the highs and lows that come with building a life together and is a true testament to Black Love.
- [Kristen Bill Bellamy](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/kristen-bill-bellamy/) - It all started in an acting class in the late 90s. Kristen and Bill always ran in the same circles, but they never really talked. However the moment that changed, both of their lives changed forever. How does that spark evolve from a chance meeting to a 19 year marriage with two children? In this 2020 interview, Kristen Bill Bellamy discuss how they both knew that their friendship felt like something more, what it's like trying to navigate a relationship when there are careers involved, and what the couple thinks about the term SUBMISSION. Plus what does the family unit look like when both parents are following their dreams? Get ready to take notes, because Bill and Kristen have some tips to keep us all sane!
- [Jack Ten Manning](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/jack-tene-manning/) - From kickin' it with mutual friends at house parties to catching flights across the country to spend romantic nights together. In this 2014 interview, Jack and Ten Manning discuss how their platonic friendship reconnected and blossomed into the start of a beautiful black love story.
- [Lori James Strum](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/lori-james-strum/) - When James first spotted Lori they were both driving around in Maryland. He didn't know her name. He just saw two cute girls in a car and made a mental note. How did that turn into a 40 year love story? In this 2015 interview for Black Love Doc, Lori and James share the lessons they've learned through dating, marriage and parenthood as they reflect on just how their journey, the ups and the downs, has been worth it all.
- [David Tamela Mann](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/david-tamela-mann/) - People look at you and think, Oh you got 30 years of marriage. Youve figured everything out. No, there are some things that we are still trying to figure out. David and Tamela first met when they were in their teens, but it was NOT in a relationship capacity. They were just friends, homies, pals. Clearly that didn't last, but it wasn't as simple as friends turned to lovers. In this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc, David and Tamela share how they went from friends to partners to parents and even business partners with the love and humor that they are known for.
- [Willard Hill Quan LateefHill](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/willard-hill-quan-lateef-hill/) - Quan and Will's love story begins at dorms of Howard University. Will, returning to school after Hurricane Katrina changes his plans needed some cash on his laundry card, and well, he sort of took Quans... It was a misunderstanding! But from there, the journey begins. Quan and Will's story at face value seem like a tale of opposites attract but it's really about compromise, communication, support and love. Listen in to this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc to hear how Quan and Will have made their love truly about partnership and valuing each other.
- [Salli RichardsonWhitfield Dondr Whitfield](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/salli-richardson-whitfield-dondre-whitfield/) - We really figured out a way to compromise and be the strong people that we are without having to control each other. When Dondr and Salli first met, they were work friends. They were actors and Dondr had suggested Salli for a role. Plus they were both in relationships. Honestly, there were a lot of reasons as to why they wouldn't get together. Which is why when this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc came to be it all seemed meant to be. Salli and Dondr had been together for over twenty years and married for 17 of them, so they have A LOT of advice for those of us trying to find our way in this love game. Listen in as they share how they have found how to make it work for them, how manhood and roles shaped their relationship, and how talking about sex keeps them engaged with each other.
- [Black Love Presents Man to Man A Black Love Wellness Series](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/black-love-presents-man-to-man-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Black men, it's time to get real with each other. Wellness, selflove, finance, nutrition these are just a few topics Black Love Inc General Manager David Wasicki will be bringing to the forefront in Man to Man A Black Love Wellness Series. Each week the topics will change, but the insights lessons gained from Black men of all walks of life will remain constant. Man to Man serves as a platform for men to get reallife insight directly from notable, successful men who lead with the honesty and vulnerability that Black Love is known for.
- [Shavon Jaime Nieto](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/shavon-jaime-nieto/) - When Shavon first encountered Jaime it was at a track meet. They were both Olympians and he had just won his heat and she thought he was cute. Fast forward 4 years later to another track meet at UCLA and Jaime would ask Shavon out to dinner. They were inseparable ever since. It wouldn't be until years later when a terrible accident would put their love to a test. Listen in to this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc as Shavon and Jaime share what they learned about love through hardships, shifting one's goals, and how love truly is the foundation to it all.
- [Kevin Melissa Fredericks](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/kevin-melissa-fredericks/) - When Kevin first laid eyes on Melissa in on the first day of 11th grade in Ms. Chapmans U.S. History class he knew he wanted to shoot his shot. He didn't, but he did at least start a friendship, and they've been in each other's lives ever since. They were dating before the end of the school year, went to college together, and married before they had their degrees. It all seemed so easy for them. It wasn't until a fundamental shift in Melissa's family dynamic changed her entire outlook on marriage paired with Kev's rising comedy career, that the couple found themselves on a new marriage journey themselves. In this 2019 interview for Black Love Doc Kevin and Melissa share what love lessons they have learned in their 20 year relationship journey.
- [Kathy Luther Freeman](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/kathy-luther-freeman/) - Some might say that Kathy and Luther's love journey started after a chance meeting in a food court in 2014, but it isn't exactly that simple. It wouldn't be until after a divorce and a rekindling that these to would start their lifes purpose together. Listen in to this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc as Luther and Kathy discuss what they purpose meant to them, how they navigate life love, and business together, and what they hope is coming on the horizon.
- [David Julie Arnold](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/david-julie-arnold/) - David and Julie first met at a party of a mutual friend, but one could say it was on from there. They were engaged one year later in 2002. Married in 2003. Pregnant in 2004, Welcomed their first daughter in 2005. Pregnant again in 2006, and welcomed their second daughter in 2007. And as they would tell it then the hard part began! David was juggling marriage, family and his day job of being a nurse and his dream of being a comedian. Julie was a working mother, dancer, and they were struggling! In this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc, David and Julie share why they didn't give up on each other in the touch times with the truth humor and honestly that only these two can.
- [Codie Tommy Oliver](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/codie-tommy-oliver/) - Codie and Tommy's love story begins at the Toronto Film festival while she was a working as a camera rep and he was presenting his feature film debut. We're not going to get into the details of who was hitting on who or who Googled who that's why y'all gotta listen to the interview! but the two hit it off and from there things moved FAST. One month after Codie met Tommy, they discussed this idea to create a place where Black love stories live. That was fall 2013 and they started filming Black Love in fall 2014. They were engaged. They married in 2015, and in this 2016 interview for Black Love Doc they were about to become first time parents! Listen to not only where they stood at this point in their marriage journey, but in their partnership as entrepreneurs, business partners, and filmmakers.
- [Rashad Burgess Oliver Clyde Allen III](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/rashad-burgess-oliver-clyde-allen-iii/) - Rashad Burgess Oliver Clyde Allen III share their love story in this 2017 interview for Black Love Doc
- [Eileen Tracy Gray](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/eileen-tracy-gray/) - Eileen Tracy Gray share their love story in this 2015 interview for Black Love Doc
- [Monet Clarence Daniels](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/monet-clarence-daniels/) - Monet Clarence Daniels share their love story in this 2017 interview for Black Love Doc
- [Carmen Michael Hopson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/carmen-michael-hopson/) - Carmen Michael Hopson share their love story in this 2016 interview for Black Love Doc
- [DeWanda Wise Alano Miller](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/dewanda-wise-alano-miller/) - Raise your hand if you found the love of your life at a Love Lockdown party! Okay we didn't really know what exactly a Love Lockdown party was either, but apparently they were big in 2009 and it's where DeWanda and Alano's love story begins. In this 2017 interview for Black Love Doc, the couple share just how that first meeting would end in a marriage just three ! months later. What does a relationship look like once you've said I do after such a short period of time? Plus, what other famous Black couple have they been compared to?
- [Tony Brittany Ingram](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/tony-brittany-ingram/) - When Tony first met Brittany in November 2011 he joked that she would be his wife. It was a weird joke coming from the Navy man who was heading out on an 8 month tour, but he seemed pretty sure of it. While he was right, it sure wasn't a direct shot to the wedding alter for these two. It would be two years ! before they would even begin to date, and even then their relationship would be anything but traditional. Listen to this 2017 interview for Black Love Doc as Brittany and Tony share how they met, how they ended up engaged before they were even in a relationship, and how faith and friendship has been the cornerstone of keeping their love strong.
- [Rebecca KingCrews Terry Crews](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/rebecca-king-crews-terry-crews/) - When Terry first met Rebecca she was a single mom and he was a sophomore in college. She thought he was a little corny, and he wasn't sure he was all in to be the man in her life. So how did this lead to 29 years of marriage? Well, it wasn't without its struggles. Terry was struggling. He was battling a secret addiction that almost tore them apart. In this 2019 interview for Black Love Doc Rebecca Terry share all points of their love story the ups, the downs and how their love for each other, and their trust in God kept them together.
- [Starr Bart Scott](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/starr-bart-scott/) - When Starr first heard about Bart it was while she was on a date with someone else. When that date didn't go as planned, she was quickly set up with Bart. But look, she was 19, good looking, and wasn't trying to waste her time. So when 18 year old Bart came to the door the first thing Starr said asked is if he was ugly, cause she wasn't going to open the door if he was ugly. Needless to say, Starr opened the door, and from that moment Bart knew that she was going to be his wife. However, the road to love wasn't just that simple. Bart was unfaithful. A lot. And even as his star started to rise and he thought he was ready to rise with it, he wouldn't. How did their marriage make it through every instance of turmoil? Listen as Star and Bart share their journey in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Wendell Ellis Sr. Paula BryantEllis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/wendell-ellis-sr-paula-bryant-ellis/) - Wendell Ellis Sr. Paula BryantEllis share their love story in this 2019 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Michael Davis Sr. Debbie Davis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/michael-davis-sr-debbie-davis/) - Michael Davis Sr. and Debbie Davis share their love story in this 2019 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Brandi SellerzJackson Jon Jackson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/brandi-sellerz-jackson-jon-jackson/) - Brandi SellerzJackson Jon Jackson share their love story in this 2019 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Mykelti Williamson Sondra Spriggs](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/mykelti-williamson-sondra-spriggs/) - Mykelti Williamson Sondra Spriggs share their love story in this 2019 interview for Black Love Doc
- [Pamela Rev. M. Shea Jackson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/pamela-rev-m-shea-jackson/) - Pamela Rev. M. Shea Jackson share their love story in this 2014 interview for Black Love Doc
- [Introducing Parenting for the Culture](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/introducing-parenting-for-the-culture/) - Introducing Parenting for the Culture a weekly parenting podcast brought to you by the Black Love Podcast Network.
- [Diann Valentine Damon Haley](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/diann-valentine-damon-haley/) - Diann Valentine Damon Haley share their love story in this 2017 interview for Black Love Doc
- [Kakia Adonis Prasad](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/kakia-adonis-prasad/) - Kakia Adonis Prasad share their love story in this 2015 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Miriam Sternoff McKnight O'Neal McKnight](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/miriam-sternoff-mcknight-oneal-mcknight/) - Miriam Sternoff McKnight O'Neal McKnight share their love story in this 2017 interview for Black Love Doc
- [Elisha Wilson Beach Michael Beach](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/elisha-wilson-beach-michael-beach/) - Elisha Wilson Beach and Michael Beach share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Ricky Bell Amy Correa Bell](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/ricky-bell-amy-correa-bell/) - Ricky Bell and Amy Correa Bell share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Quincy Deondray Gossfield](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/quincy-deondray-gossfield/) - Quincy Deondray Gossfield share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Kandi Burruss Todd Tucker](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/kandi-burruss-todd-tucker/) - Kandi Burruss Todd Tucker share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Isa Rahman Lizzy Mathis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/isa-rahman-lizzy-mathis/) - Isa Rahman Lizzy Mathis share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Karli Harvey Raymond Ben Raymond](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/karli-harvey-raymond-ben-raymond/) - Karli Harvey Raymond Ben Raymond share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Travis Jackie Greene](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/travis-jackie-greene/) - Travis Jackie Greene share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Richard Lawson and Tina Knowles](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/richard-lawson-and-tina-knowles/) - Richard Lawson and Tina Knowles share their love story in this 2017 interview from the second season Black Love Doc.
- [Styles P and Adjua Styles](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/styles-p-and-adjua-styles/) - Styles P and Adjua Styles share their love story in this 2017 interview from the second season Black Love Doc.
- [Rev Run Justine Simmons](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/rev-run-justine-simmons/) - Rev Run Justine Simmons share their love story in this 2017 interview from the second season of Black Love Doc.
- [Kirk and Tammy Franklin](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/kirk-and-tammy-franklin/) - Kirk and Tammy Franklin share their love story in this 2017 interview from the second season of Black Love Doc.
- [Ryan Michelle Bathe Sterling K. Brown](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/ryan-michelle-bathe-sterling-k-brown/) - Sterling K. Brown and Ryan Michelle Bathe share their love story in this 2017 interview from the second season of Black Love Doc.
- [Devale Khadeen Ellis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/devale-khadeen-ellis/) - Devale and Khadeen Ellis share their love story in this 2017 interview from the second season of Black Love Doc.
- [Tamia Grant Hill](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/tamia-grant-hill/) - In this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Grant Hill and Tamia share their love story.
- [Don Tanya Barnett](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/don-tanya-barnett/) - In this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Don and Tanya Barnett share their love story.
- [Goldie GabrielJohnson Michael Johnson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/goldie-gabriel-johnson-michael-johnson/) - Goldie GabrielJohnson Michael Johnson share their love story in this 2017 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Lanaya Irvin Janessa CoxIrvin](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/lanaya-irvin-janessa-cox-irvin/) - Lanaya Irvin Janessa CoxIrvin share their love story in this 2018 interview for Black Love Doc.
- [Egypt Sherrod Mike Jackson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/egypt-sherrod-mike-jackson/) - Egypt Sherrod and Mike Jackson share their love story in this 2018 interview for the third season of Black Love Doc.
- [Todd Alicia Taylor](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/todd-alicia-taylor/) - Todd and Alicia Taylor share their love story in this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc.
- [April and Troy Lawrence](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/april-and-troy-lawrence/) - CW Abuse, Drug Use. April and Troy Lawrence share their love story in this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc.
- [Shirley Bernard Kinsey](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/shirley-bernard-kinsey/) - Shirley and Bernard Kinsey share their love story in this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc.
- [Rai Shaun King](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/rai-shaun-king/) - In this 2018 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Rai and Shaun King share their love story.
- [Aaron Ross Sanya RichardsRoss](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/aaron-ross-sanya-richards-ross/) - In this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Aaron Ross and Sanya RichardsRoss share their love story.
- [Ciara Whaley Steven Caple Jr](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/ciara-whaley-steven-caple-jr/) - In this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Ciara Whaley and Steven Caple Jr. share their love story.
- [Glynn JoAnn Turman](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/glynn-jo-ann-turman/) - In this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Glynn and JoAnn Turman share their love story.
- [Rebecca Jai CrouchPelham](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/rebecca-jai-crouch-pelham/) - In this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Jai and Rebecca CrouchPelham share their love story.
- [Rochelle Aytes CJ Lindsey](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/rochelle-aytes-cj-lindsey/) - In this 2017 interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, actors Rochelle Aytes and CJ Lindsey share their love story.
- [Julie Mark Threats](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/julie-mark-threats/) - In this 2017 interview form the second season of Black Love Doc Julie and Mark Threats share how their relationship started, the troubles that almost tore them apart, and how their faith kept them together.
- [Taj Eddie George](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/taj-eddie-george/) - In this interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Taj and Eddie George share the story of their relationship.
- [Danelle Wilson Bobby Dudo](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/danelle-wilson-bobby-dudo/) - In this interview for the second season of Black Love Doc, Bobby Dudo and Danelle Wilson share the story of their relationship.
- [Gillian Michael Jai White](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/gillian-michael-jai-white/) - In this interview from the second season of Black Love Doc actors Gillian White and Michael Jai White share their love story.
- [LaDonna D.L. Hughley](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/ladonna-d-l-hughley/) - In this 2018 interview from the second season of Black Love Doc, D.L. Hughley and his wife LaDonna share the ups and downs of their marriage.
- [Robin Africa Mike Africa Jr.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/robin-africa-mike-africa-jr/) - In this never broadcast 2017 interview for Black Love Doc activist Mike Africa Jr, and his wife Robin Africa share how their relationship came to be.
- [Vanessa Chris Spencer](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/vanessa-chris-spencer/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, comedian Chris Spencer and his wife actress Vanessa Spencer share how they met, the ups and downs of their relationship, and how they find ways to keep their romance.
- [Melissa Allessandra BradleyBurns](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/melissa-allessandra-bradley-burns/) - In this 2017 never broadcast interview for the second season of Black Love doc, Melissa and Allessandra BradleyBurns share their love story.
- [Louis Gayle Wyatt](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/louis-gayle-wyatt/) - In this never aired 2017 interview for Black Love Doc, Louis and Gayle Wyatt share their love journey and what their still learning about each other over 50 years later.
- [Danielle Hasani Pettiford](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/danielle-hasani-pettiford/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, Hasani and Danielle Pettiford tell us how it started, their journey, and tips for building a marriage.
- [Shanice Flex Alexander](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/shanice-flex-alexander/) - In this 2015 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, Shanice and Flex Alexander sit with Codie and Tommy to discuss their relationship.
- [Aonika Laurent Sean Patrick Thomas](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/aonika-laurent-sean-patrick-thomas/) - In this 2015 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, Aonika Laurent and Sean Patrick Thomas sit with Codie and Tommy to discuss their relationship.
- [Tia MowryHardrict Cory Hardrict](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/tia-mowry-hardrict-cory-hardrict/) - In this 2015 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, Tia and Cory tells us how their relationship has evolved over 15 years.
- [Viola Davis Julius Tennon](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/viola-davis-julius-tennon/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of the Black Love Doc, Viola Davis and Julius Tennon speak about how their love story began, and what being committed in marriage means for them.
- [Introducing Black Love The Interviews](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/introducing-black-love-the-interviews/)
- [Andre Latoya Brown](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/andre-latoya-brown/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Andre and Latoya Brown tell us about how their love began and how they navigated their relationship.
- [Susan Darrell Carr](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/susan-darrell-carr/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Susan and Darrell Carr tell us how their love came to be, and how the death of their son has changed their outlook on the future.
- [Diane Houslin Jason Wiley](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/diane-houslin-jason-wiley/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, Jason Wiley and Diane Houslin tell the story of how their love started and how they navigated their relationship through their differences.
- [Donna Paul Montgomery](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/donna-paul-montgomery/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, Donna and Paul Montgomery share their love story.
- [Akadius Tamra Berry](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/akadius-tamra-berry/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Doc, Akadius and Tamra Berry explain how their marriage, while trying at times, is still rooted in love.
- [Neil Brown Jr. Catrina Robinson Brown](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/neil-brown-jr-catrina-robinson-brown/) - In this 2016 interview Neil Brown Jr. and Catrina Robinson Brown share their love journey and the bumps along the way.
- [Erica Campbell Warryn Campbell](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/erica-campbell-warryn-campbell/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love, Erica and Warryn Campbell tell us how they first met, their perspectives on what love really means, and rebuilding a relationship after the trust has been broken.
- [Ashley Chea Bryan Chea](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/ashley-chea-bryan-chea/) - In this 2016 interview from the first season of Black Love Ashley and Bryan Chea discuss, cultural differences, the pressure to get married, and love beyond perceptions.
- [Vanessa Bell Calloway Anthony Calloway](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/vanessa-bell-calloway-anthony-calloway/) - In this 2015 interview from the 1st Season of Black Love we hear from Coming To America's own Vanessa Bell Calloway and her husband Anthony. Vanessa gives us the details about the rules she broke when first dating Anthony the couple share how being each other's backbones helped them navigate the tough times.
- [Edwina Findley Kelvin Dickerson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-the-interviews/edwina-findley-kelvin-dickerson/) - In this 2015 Black Love interview, Codie and Tommy sit with Edwina Findley and Kelvin Dickerson to discuss their relationship, marriage, and celibacy journey.
- [Black Love Summit 2022 Husbands Panel Remixed](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2022-husbands-panel-remixed/) - Is therapy a thing for these men? What's the last thing they argued with their wives about? Biggest regret? Black Love cocreator Tommy Oliver is joined by Kenny Burns, Chance Brown, Adrian Holmes, and Bill Bellamy in a guys chat about the real ish about being married. You definitely want to be a fly on the wall for this group of unfiltered husbands.
- [Black Love Summit 2022 Wives Panel Remixed](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2022-wives-panel-remixed/) - Cocreator of Black Love Codie Elaine Oliver, is joined by Melanie Fiona, Adrienne Gammy Banfield Norris, Melissa Fredricks, and Angel Laketa Moore to dish on the roles women play in marriage and that fine line between having it all and exhausted AF.
- [Black Love Summit 2022 The Weight of the World](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2022-the-weight-of-the-world/) - Parents of three and married couple Russell Nina Westbrook in conversation with certified therapist Kier Gaines on being bigger than the things that tear them down. What does being an NBA superstar mean for their family? How does Nina being a therapist impact their relationship? What's it like going from highschool sweethearts to life partners? Plus there's a very special surprise at the end!
- [Black Love Summit 2022 Leadership Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2022-leadership-love/) - Black women are leading executive teams, companies, and make up the fastest growing number of business owners. So how do we prioritize relationships, parenting, personal wellness, and leadership? In this panel presented by Goldman Sachs One Million Black Women Initiative and Moderated by Everyday MAGIC Meaningful Aestheticallypleasing Goaloriented Intentional Consistent author Mattie James. Featuring CEOs Thai Randolph Heartbeat, Robyn Atwater Curldaze, Psyche Terry UI Global Brands we ask all those questions and more.
- [Black Love Events 2022 Young, Gifted, and Black](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-events-2022-young-gifted-and-black/) - In this panel presented by Confluential Films, long time friends Algee Smith and Melvin Gregg sit with Black Love cocreator Tommy Oliver to explore the role brotherhood plays in thriving as a Black man.
- [Black Love Summit 2022 How Do You Know?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2022-how-do-you-know/) - Do you know your worth and how to eveluate compatibility? Join Darroll Jenkins Ashley Blaine Featherson Jenkins, with everyone's favorite newscaster couple Jeannette Reyes Robert Burton in a panel moderated by love expert Francesca Hogi as they explore just how you know when you found the one.
- [Black Love Summit 2021 Behind The Scenes](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2021-behind-the-scenes/) - Journalist and entrepreneur Tai Beauchamp will find out what interviewing more than 200 married couples has taught Tommy Codie Oliver and get the stories behind some of their most memorable interviews in 5 seasons of Black Love.
- [Black Love Summit 2021 The Wives Panel](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2021-the-wives-panel/) - Black Love cocreator Codie Elaine Oliver, will get candid with wives Erica Campbell, Shireen Kuykendoll, and Gillian White on the roles women play in marriage and the household.
- [Black Love Summit 2021 The Husbands Panel](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2021-the-husbands-panel/) - Black Love cocreator Tommy Oliver will host Michael Jai White, Warryn Campbell, Neil Brown Jr., and MAJOR. in conversation around the journey of being married.
- [Black Love Summit 2021 Loving More Abundantly](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2021-loving-more-abundantly/) - Join Karega Felicia Bailey as we talk about what lifelong love and commitment means for Black Love to thrive. Moderated by Codie Elaine Oliver.
- [Black Love Summit 2021 Don't Settle Dating With Intention Courting Your Partner](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2021-dont-settle-dating-with-intention-courting-your-partner/) - Join Anthony Melanie Clark, BreAnna Jones Devin Chapman, and matchmaker Devyn Simone as we get these couples talking about what they were looking for, how they were intentional about it, and what courtship looks like after commitment.
- [Black Love Summit 2021 Money Money Money](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/black-love-summit-2021-money-money-money/) - Join Kita Williams Joe Hardy, Angel Laketa Moore Marcus Tanksley, and moderator Dr. Allycin PowellHicks as we go through their biggest money lessons together so that you don't make the same ones.
- [Introducing Black Love Events](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/black-love-events/introducing-black-love-events/) - The roots of Black Love, Inc. began with the eponymous docuseries BLACK LOVE, which launched on OWN Oprah Winfrey Network as the networks mostviewed unscripted series debut of all time. Black Love Events is where you can find audio versions of our premier events. From the Black Love Summit to the You Retreat and beyond, Black Love Events is where our events live in podcast.
- [Tightening the Relationship Bolts](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/tightening-the-relationship-bolts/) - A perfect relationship is a nice thought but in reality, it doesn't exist. We all have trials and tribulations when it comes to being in a relationships. When those issues arise, some of us are quick to look for a reason to exit that situation, while in most relationships, you just need to tighten the bolts of your relationship. This week, The Amazing Clarks clue you in on how to make sure that a minor issue doesn't turn into a bigger issue, which could lead to disastrous consequences. Then, all you have to do is communicate with your partner and together you can both figure out how to make sure you two are on the same page and happy.
- [The Loyalty Test](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-loyalty-test/) - Trust between partners is one of the most important things when you're in a relationship. But, what happens when that little voice in your head is whispering doubts about the loyalty of your significant other? Do you continue to trust that they are still being faithful or do you administer a loyalty test to quiet that very convincing whisper of doubt? This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clarks discuss why you feel the need to test your partner and if it's really about your boo or is there something deeper going on inside of you. Settle in friends because this week we get tested!
- [Your Ego Doesn't Want You To Find Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/your-ego-doesnt-want-you-to-find-love/) - What if the one thing keeping you from find love is YOUR EGO!? That’s right, your ego could be the culprit for why you can't seem to find that diamond in the rough. We all have an ego and sometimes that ego can be your best friend and other times it can be the very thing that causes you to be alone. This week, The Amazing Clarks talk about how you can tame that out of control ego of yours and find the love that you not only want, but the one you need. If your ego doesn't want you to find love, this episode will give you the will power to tell it to go take a break and let you win at love!
- [The Spy Who Loved Me](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-spy-who-loved-me/) - Have you ever spied on a partner? Here's a better, question, does your partner know that you spied on them? While it's not the Cold War, spying on a partner can definitely cause a war between you two. You might have a good reason to spy, but what are your choices saying about your relationship? Melanie and Anthony discuss how they both have spied on a partner and what the fall out was after they did. Plus, they also give you some insight on why you feel the need to spy on your partner and tips on how to move forward after finding the info you were looking for. While we are not here to encourage you to spy, we are here to help you figure out why spying was the go to move.
- [Is Love A Construct?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/is-love-a-construct/) - Do you ever ask yourself, “is love a construct?” Yeah, us neither, but what if that butterfly feeling you get when you see that person you've been crushing on is just in your mind? Or ever wonder where that first kiss feeling is when you're 10 years into a relationship? In this episode, the Clarks discuss the differences between real, long-lasting love and love that just might be in your mind. Strap in, were gonna get deep with this one!
- [Our Little Girl is Getting Married](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/our-little-girl-is-getting-married/) - Do You hear those wedding bells? The time has come. Anthony's little girl is getting married, and he has BIG feelings about it. If you are a long time listener, you know that Anthony's papa heart is strong. He was a stay at home dad with Toni, and while he balled like a baby at their oldest daughter's wedding too, this shift in his role as a father is really hitting him. For all you parents out there, this episode is a reflection in who we are as teachers in love to our children AND a testament to raising your children around LOVE.
- [Am I in Love or in Lust?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/am-i-in-love-or-in-lust/) - You know that feeling when you've talked to someone over and over and you can't stop thinking about them and all of a sudden you're wondering if they are the one? OR are you like pre-Anthony Melanie? Calling up dudes knowing that they are NOT they one but because they can throw it down in the bedroom? Do you wonder what makes you feel one way or another? There happens to be a science behind it! The Amazing Clarks are here to break down the difference between your lovey dovey and your lusty feelings BEFORE you make those relationship mistakes.
- [Trapped in a Sexless Marriage](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/trapped-in-a-sexless-marriage/) - Is your partner starting to feel more like a roommate? We know that there are A LOT of reasons as to why you might have lost that loving feeling, but you don't have to stay trapped in that sexless marriage! or sexless relationship No, we're not telling you to leave your partner. The Amazing Clarks are here to break down how to get that spark back! Plus how do we get to the root of what caused the loss of that sexy feeling in the first place!
- [What Is Your Love Legacy?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/what-is-your-love-legacy/) - When you think of the word legacy, what comes to mind? Some will say that their career is the legacy they wish to leave to the world and some may say how they treated others is their legacy. Today, the Clarks talk about how leaving a Love Legacy can be one of the most important things you can leave to yourself, your loved ones and your community. Melanie and Anthony dive deep into how they are leaving a love legacy for their family to remember and how you can begin to leave a legacy in love for your loved ones for generations to come. Join us as we not only lead a love revolution, but a love legacy too!
- [Reprogramming Your Relationship's Thermostat](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/reprogramming-your-relationships-thermostat/) - Do you and your partner seem to be worlds apart? Chances are your thermostat is off! What is your thermostat? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to set you right. Your thermostat is what regulates what you get around you. Just like the thermostat in your house, if it's set at 70 it doesn't matter what you do your house is going to stay at 70 degrees. If you've convinced yourself that your partner can never change, then even if they do make small changes you're never going to see it because you're set on never see them! But it's okay! Anthony and Melanie will break down how you can fix that mindset and get you reset. Fixing your thermostat whether about your relationship or anything else in life is critical for anything you do in life. So let's get into it!
- [The Happy Marriage Myth](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-happy-marriage-myth/) - With so many myths in the world, it's hard to keep up with what is actual myth and what is truth. So, allow us to add another myth to your long list! Having a happy marriage is something all of us strive for when we get married, but perfection isn't possible. Sometimes looking for perfection in a marriage can be the very downfall of your marriage. But, there is a way to have a marriage that both you and our spouse can be proud of, and dare we say happy. This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clarks give you the blueprint to make the most out of your marriage and make the happiness you feel about your marriage not just a myth!
- [Using Sex to Avoid Emotional Connection](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/using-sex-to-avoid-emotional-connection/) - We can all agree sex is one of the pillars of a good relationship. When the sex is good, sometimes it can be a distraction, but what if you are using sex to avoid truly connecting with your partner? Emotions can be complicated, and who's got time for that roller coaster. Sex can be used to avoid how you truly feel, and you convince yourself this is the best way to not get hurt. This week, The Amazing Clarks chat about the possible reasons you may be using sex to protect your heart and how the sex will be even better when you are 100% emotionally connected with your partner!
- [Everything Is Perfect: A Philosophy or a Way of Life](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/everything-is-perfect-a-philosophy-or-a-way-of-life/) - EVERYTHING IS PERFECT....A phrase we've all said to ourselves to will us through a situation that is the furtherest from perfect. Everything Is Perfect or EIP can be more than a phrase to whisper to ourselves in a moment of need, EIP can be the very thing that can change your whole life. Adopting EIP as not just a saying but as the lens that you view and participate in the world. EIP can be the very thing your life needs to take you to that next level. The Amazing Clarks discuss this week how you can begin to cultivate a life where EVERYTHNG IS PERFECT!
- [Dating Younger Men](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/dating-younger-men/) - Have you ever considered dating a younger man?? We can all hear the collective groans as you think about that question. Ladies, the reality is that there is a shortage of men at the moment and sometimes you have to expand your expectations when looking for a partner. We know you have your list, but have you thought maybe your list is keeping you from finding that one young guy that could make you throw away the list and let you get your groove back? This week, The Amazing Clarks try to help you see that you could be missing out on, not just a fun time, but a person who could be THE ONE!
- [What is Your Fighting Style?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/what-is-your-fighting-style/) - Ding! Ding! Everyone to their corners! Arguing with your partner can be one of the most frustrating things about being in a relationship. We know that trying to communicate your needs to a person who “doesn't seem to be picking up what you're putting down” can lead to something more heated. Here's the good news, fighting with your partner doesn't mean your relationship is ending. The way you and your partner argue can actually be productive. It can be the difference between your relationship ACTUALLY ending or you and your partner growing closer while both people getting their needs met. On this episode, The Amazing Clarks give you the tools to figure out what you and your partner’s fighting style is and how knowing that info can make all the difference in the health of your relationship.
- [The Pros and Cons of Watching Porn Together](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-pros-and-cons-of-watching-porn-together/) - Porn...the one word in the English language guaranteed to get you some looks if spoken in a group for sure. The truth is we've all watched porn at one point in our lives and most likely watching porn is a solo activity. But what if you didn't have to watch it alone and you could watch it with your partner? This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clarks discuss the pros and cons of watching porn with your partner. They dig deep into how you and partner can decided whether if it is right for you both! So go ahead and grab some snacks cause this one is definitely gonna be a spicy one!
- [The Body Count Debate](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-body-count-debate/) - Do you have a Body Count? And no, we are not talking about an actual body count because that's when things can get a bit messy. When we say body count we mean what is the magic number of people that you've slept with in your history of doing the do? What ever that number is theres no judgement here. But, have you revealed that number to your partner and how did they take the news? This week, The Amazing Clarks talk about how to navigate the body count debate and whether it should matter. Melanie and Anthony discuss that if it does matter maybe it's more about you than your partner. The Body Count debate rages on but maybe we can offer a lil bit of a resolution. Let's get into it!
- [Boring Marriages](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/boring-marriages/) - No one gets into marriage expecting to be bored. When you decide to get married, you have this fairytale made up in your head. Marriage can be a fairytale but you also have to be realistic about your marriage. Sometimes, being married is boring but you have to realize that if your marriage is a snooze-fest, it just might be you who is making your marriage boring. This week, The Amazing Clarks get into why your marriage is boring and, newsflash, it might not be your partners fault. Buckle up people this is gonna be a good one!
- [Batteries and BLTs with Anthony's Mama Jean](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/batteries-and-blts-with-anthonys-mama-jean/) - Mother's Day is fast approaching and Melanie has traveled back west to spend some time with her babies. That doesn't mean that doesn't mean that we can't celebrate moms while she's away! Anthony has invited his mom, Queen Jean, to the mic to get her thoughts on dating as an older woman, marriage she's had three, and what she thinks about his and Melanie's marriage. PLUS, what does Mama Jean think about needing a man at her age? Does she want to be in a relationship AND what is she hoping Anthony picks up for her for Mother's Day? Here's a hint, it comes in packs of 4, 12 or 48.
- [Staying Patient During Your Waiting Season](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/staying-patient-during-your-waiting-season/) - Are you currently in your Waiting Season and feeling impatient for your happily ever after? Many of us have gone through periods of waiting, which can be challenging and cause doubts about whether our time will ever come. However, what we do during this season is crucial. In this episode, The Amazing Clarks provide valuable insight into how to make the most of your waiting season while your love story is still being written. We share practical tips on how to stay positive, focused, and motivated during this time. So grab a pen and paper and take notes because there's plenty to do while waiting for your love story to unfold.
- [That Amazing Spiritual Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/that-amazing-spiritual-love/) - We've all been there, when you meet someone and they check every box externally. They're fine, they've got a good job, a nice place to live, they have a functional car, all of the things that make you say that this might be worth pursuing is there. Then... it happens. The connection just drops like internet in the 90s. You say something and they don't get it, or something they do just gets on you. But here's the thing...none of those things are new. You're just noticing their spirit. Spiritual love is something deeper than the surface and is what allows relationships to flourish beyond the differences. It allows you to see your partner for their full selves. Not sure what that ever means? No worries, The Amazing Clarks got you! Anthony and Melanie are ready to deep dive into everything that is spiritual love so you learn to see beyond the surface!
- [Compromise vs Consensus](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/compromise-vs-consensus/) - Have you ever gone along to just get along? You know what we mean. Agreeing to do the dishes every day for a week even though you KNOW THAT YOUVE DONE THOSE DISHES EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 13 DAYS EVEN THOUGH YOU HATE HATE DOING THE DISHES just to avoid a fight.... ok pause. We're good. Today The Amazing Clarks are breaking down compromising versus consensus. What are we as partners agreeing to without ever talking about? What do we need to do with potential partners BEFORE we commit to each other to ensure success in a relationship? There is a real difference between a compromise and a consensus and it's about time we talked about it!
- [Do You Believe in Love?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/do-you-believe-in-love/) - Do you believe in love? Not just love, but true love? Now a while back on the TikTok a video from Season 4 of Black Love Doc where Anthony Melanie shared some of their love story had the people in the comments thinking it was a set up. The energy of love is what we're here to talk about today people. There's too much cynicism around love and The Amazing Clarks are here to remind all of you, whether you're in a relationship or not, that love is here for you. Love shows up in ways that you never expect and in this episode Anthony and Melanie break down what you need to keep on the look out for to make sure you're not standing in the way of love.
- [The Amazing 4 Components of Intimacy](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-4-components-of-intimacy/) - Friendship, vulnerability, trust, and communication, these are the 4 components of intimacy that keep the Clarks love so strong In this episode, the Clarks break down each one of these components and explain how each relate to one another. Listen in as they discuss how vulnerability is the connector to all things intimate. By the end of this episode, you'll understand how being in an intimate, close relationship, can be an invitation to being who you really are.
- [The Amazing Act of Physical Touch](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-act-of-physical-touch/) - There's so much more to physical touch than we think. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fifth and last love language, physical touch. Listen in as Melanie expresses how she believes the impact of Covid19 has enhanced our need for physical touch. While Anthony explains how his need for physical touch hasn't always been met. By the end of this episode, you'll better understand why it's our natural instinct to want to be touched, loved, and wanted.
- [The Amazing Butt Tattoo](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-butt-tattoo/) - We interrupt the 5 love languages to add a little spice to the mix. In this episode, the Clarks answer an important question. When is it time to commit? Well for Melanie, she knew Anthony was her's even after they broke up. So in Melanie fashion, she decided to get Anthony's named tattooed on her back side. Listen in as Melanie shares why she got this tattoo and how risk of love is worth taking. Because at the end of the day, we can't be afraid to get hurt in love.
- [Reprogramming Your Dating Thermostat](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/reprogramming-your-dating-thermostat/) - Do you keep attracting the things you don't want? Chances are your thermostat is off! What is your thermostat? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to set you right. Your thermostat is what regulates what you get around you. Just like the thermostat in your house, if it's set at 70 it doesn't matter what you do your house is going to stay at 70 degrees. If you've convinced yourself that online dating is trash and then go to try online dating, it's never going to work because you've convinced yourself it's trash! But it's okay! Anthony and Melanie will break down how you can fix that mindset and get you reset. Fixing your thermostat whether about dating or anything else in life is critical for anything you do in life. So let's get into it!
- [The Amazing Act of Quality Time](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-act-of-quality-time/) - Quality time means, when I'm with you, I'm going to be engaged with you, and present. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fourth love language, quality time. After being together for 31 years and listening to spirit and pouring into others, the Clarks learned how to be aware of others love languages. Listen in as the Clarks discuss how what's quality time for others may not be quality time for you, but sometimes it's not about you.
- [Receiving Gifts in Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/receiving-gifts-in-love/) - In this episode, the Clarks get into the third love language, receiving gifts. Ultimately we all have our top 3 love languages, however, sometimes they change due to certain events. Listen in on how Anthony realizes and reflects on how gifts was once his love language and why it changed. While Melanie expresses that she typically showers herself with gifts and how that helps her love on herself.
- [The Amazing Words of Affirmation](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-words-of-affirmation/) - In this episode, the Clarks dig deep into the most common love languages, words of affirmation. Both express how words of affirmation are words that communicate your love, appreciation, and respect for another person. Not only does it help your partner feel a great sense of self worth but motivation as well. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony share their stories on why they like andor dislike this love language within their own relationship.
- [The Amazing 5 Love Languages](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-5-love-languages/) - The Amazing Clarks are BACK! And they are ready to talk about everything love this month. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony discuss what the 5 Love Languages are, how they work, and how they use them to assess themselves and show love to one another.
- [Everybody Needs a Little Time Away](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/everybody-needs-a-little-time-away/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about Melanie's recent trip back to California and how important it was for both to have some time to themselves. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to not lose yourself in love and to manage your thoughts, in order to not create fights or problems. Whether in a partnership or dating, it's okay to have time away and have individuality.
- [Try a Little Love and Tenderness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/try-a-little-love-and-tenderness/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore the ego and the spirit and how in relationships we tend to filter through one or the other. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to stop reacting to each other through the filter of ego and start building a relationship with your spirit. It's about knowing which is guiding you in your partnerships. Because when you focus on love and tenderness, you'll attract love and tenderness.
- [Horny Husbands](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/horny-husbands/) - How can women manage having a horny husband or partner? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore sexuality and the differences between how men and women deal with their sexual urges. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to be aware of the meanings behind your partners urges and how to give each other grace. Because when you pour into yourself enough you'll have more love and time with your partner.
- [Submissive Wives](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/submissive-wives/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore being submissive in partnership and how you don't have to submit but you can be agreeable in love and dating. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to play to your strengths and let go of the submissive mindset. Because each person has their own strengths and weaknesses, you just have to find the in between that works for the both of you.
- [Is It All About You or Love?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/is-it-all-about-you-or-love/) - What should you be focused on when it comes to love and dating? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks answer that question and discuss the importance of not only focusing on the me in dating and relationships but the we. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how men and women look at love differently and how this can benefit you and your partner. In order to get what you want out of love and dating, you have to stop thinking about yourselves and start thinking more about others.
- [The Masturbation Situation](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-masturbation-situation/) - Does masturbating make you feel uncomfortable? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the stigma of masturbating and how much better it can make you feel. Listen is as Melanie and Anthony share how masturbation has actually made their relationship stronger and how masturbating can actually make you attract the love you're looking for. Ultimately, masturbation shouldn't be a situation, it should be what feels good to you when you want it to feel good to you.
- [Couples Karma](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/couples-karma/) - When something is irritating you, do you let that define your relationship? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss couples karma, further recognizing how treating one another can impact your relationship. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how irritation towards your partner is often something in yourself you don't want to look at. Although these thoughts can trigger a passionate debate, it's all an opportunity to grow. And when you become the change, greatness, and goodness that you want to see, your couple's karma will always be positive.
- [Playing Hard To Get](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/playing-hard-to-get/) - Are you creating rules about love and dating? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how playing games while dating isn't going to do much but hurt you in the long run. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how not playing games and just exuding confidence can help your dating life. The fine balance between not playing hard to get and not being desperate while dating will change your life drastically.
- [Keeping Connected After Kids](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/keeping-connected-after-kids/) - You've met the love of your life and you've decided to start a family. You're in it! You've won! Now you've got this amazing bundle of joy, but what's this? Is it...resentment? All of a sudden your sexy date nights are all night diaper duties. Your weekend getaways are Saturdays at a theme restaurant. The romance is DEAD. You hate it here, and you think you might hate your spouse for convincing you to become a parent. Alright hold up, it's time to back up. The Amazing Clarks are here to help you. You need to talk about this before it gets too late, and to be honest it's never too late. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share when they knew that they were in a bad place in their first marriages and some tips for you all if you find yourselves trapped and resentful.
- [The Pillow Talk Trap](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-pillow-talk-trap/) - Ladies, tell us if you've heard this before They say all the right things like, Baby I love you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You're the only one for me. You drop your panties, maybe you just take off your dress we're not judging. You have an incredible night of sex AYYYE. You wake up the next day to text him about how you can't wait for this next chapter and nothing. SILLENCE. Now your mama warned you about this. That some man would smooth talk you into his bed and drop you like a sack of potatoes, but he said everything you wanted to hear! Listen, you're not alone. You just fell for the Pillow Talk Trap. It happens, but the Amazing Clarks are here to make sure that you don't get caught up in the cycle of it happening over and over and over again. And guys, you don't get off easy on this either, listen in to hear why you need to stop doing this and why it seems like it's just one of those things.
- [The Amazing Acts of Service](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-acts-of-service/) - In this episode, the Clarks discuss the second love language that can be best described as doing something for your partner that you know they would like. Whether that'd be filling up their gas tank, watering their plants, or even cooking them a meal, it's Acts of Service. Listen in as both share how having Acts of Service as your love language, or a partner with it, can often mean giving up your time. And although it can be time consuming and exhausting, it's what you or your partner needs, and that's what makes understanding it worth the effort.
- [Gray Divorce](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/gray-divorce/) - Senior citizens have been getting divorced in record numbers. We're talking about people who have been together for 40, 50, and even 60 years! We know it's hard to think of Granny and Pops parting ways but look, it does happen. AND if you're older it's okay to go and find your happiness we are cheering you on! But we wouldn't be The Amazing Clarks if we didn't try to help y'all before you're older and miserable. We want you to be happy in your relationships now OR to feel empowered to leave if they are not the one! Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share what you should be on the lookout for so you can avoid being in a long marriage only to realize you're miserable and how they figured out that they were not in the right relationships for them!
- [Stuck on You](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/stuck-on-you/) - Have you ever just KNOWN that you were destined to be with someone. Like you just know that that person is supposed to be your soulmate. It doesn't matter that they broke up with you ten years ago. It doesn't matter that they're dating someone else. You know that you two are meant to be! Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that you're wrong. It's time to get unstuck! The only way to find the one for you is to stop waiting for what isn't and The Amazing Clarks are here to help you through it!
- [E.I.P and Dating](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/e-i-p-and-dating/) - Do you live your life with an E.I.P. mindset? The Clarks do. E.I.P. means Everything Is Perfect! There are no accidents and there are no mistakes when it comes to this thing called life. This is the mantra that The Clarks live by and they're here to teach you how you can adapt an E.I.P. mindset. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony discuss how E.I.P. is related to the dating world. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to reprogram your mind to be aligned with the dating experience that you want and deserve.
- [Managing Triggers](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/managing-triggers/) - What happens before you get triggered? Triggers start with your mind and your thoughts and sometimes it's hard to stay consistent in life. That's what The Amazing Clarks are here for! You have to learn how to identify and get rid of your triggers yourself and learn how to stay in alignment no matter what. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share ways to change your behaviors so you can remain in a good place. What triggers might be triggering you in life and in dating that is causing you to feel down and unmotivated?
- [Single Sabotage](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/single-sabotage/) - Singles! What's stopping you all from finding your love? Did you ever stop to think that it might just be.... you? We know you don't want you to be the problem but that's why we've got The Amazing Clarks here to help! Sometimes you don't even realize that you are setting yourself up for failure. It's time to right the ship and find yourself the amazing loving relationship you deserve! Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share just what might be going wrong in your love quest. What energies might you be putting into the universe that is causing your love life to stall out and what can you do to help fix it? The Amazing Clarks got you!
- [The Freak Switch](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-freak-switch/)
- [The Ultimatum Trap](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-ultimatum-trap/) - Have you ever told your partner or just a person you were dating that they HAD to choose? It was you or the other person? Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that EVERYONE loses when given an ultimatum. The person giving it, the person receiving it, hell even the person who caused it. Why do we fall into these ultimatum traps? Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share why we feel like we have to make the other person choose, why we need to knock it off, and what we can do instead.
- [The Amazing Soulful Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-soulful-love/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about the importance of loving from your soul and loving someone else's soul. Melanie and Anthony share how trauma and bad experiences cause people to only listen to the voice of their ego, causing them to put up walls of destruction that only create physical world relationships. Listen in on how you can tell the difference between the voice of your ego and the voice of spirit, helping you to remain vulnerable, honest, and real with yourself and others.
- [The State of the World](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-state-of-the-world/) - From a global pandemic to high gas prices, the world has been pretty hard to deal with for the past couple of years. In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how to navigate through the state of the world without losing your mind. Melanie and Anthony share how being aware of what you're being dripped with can help you live a fulfilling life during these trying times. Listen in on how you can redirect your energy and move yourself from anger to hope.
- [The Amazing Energetic Upgrade](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-energetic-upgrade/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about their experience with having Covid. Melanie and Anthony express how the sickness wasn't a negative experience. Ultimately, it was an energetic upgrade, a recalibration of their energy that allowed them to really enjoy the rest. Listen in on how The Clarks used E.I.P. and the law of assumption to further expand their consciousness after catching such a virus.
- [Celebrating Black Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/celebrating-black-love/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks share their love for Black Love and how it has changed their lives.
- [Managing Expectations in Dating](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/managing-expectations-in-dating/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss being realistic with your expectations in dating.
- [Keeping Your Balls in Relationships](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/keeping-your-balls-in-relationships/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the importance of maintaining your masculine and feminine energy in a relationship.
- [The Amazing Stories of Relationships](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-stories-of-relationships/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks dive into the stories we tell about our partners and the importance of them.
- [The Amazing Money Tsunami](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-money-tsunami/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks dive into the energetic and spiritual reason why couples fight about money.
- [Let Your Inner Child Run Wild](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/let-your-inner-child-run-wild/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the importance of having fun in life and relationships.
- [Admitting When You're Wrong](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/admitting-when-youre-wrong/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss being wrong in a relationship and how it can create innovation.
- [The Amazing Need To Know Why](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-need-to-know-why/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss why women need to know why, and the reason why most men don't.
- [Getting Stuck in the Past](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/getting-stuck-in-the-past/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the effects of getting stuck in the past and how at the end of the day, it's all about perspective.
- [The Effects of Ghosting](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-effects-of-ghosting/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the effects of ghosting and how ghosting people is harder on the people who do it.
- [The Amazing Listeners](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-listeners/) - Melanie and Anthony answer questions submitted by their amazing listeners.
- [The Different Forms of Cheating](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-different-forms-of-cheating/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks continue their discussion on cheating and dive into what the different forms of cheating are.
- [The Warning Signs of Cheating](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-warning-signs-of-cheating/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the 10 warning signs that you partner may be cheating.
- [Being In Business Together](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/being-in-business-together/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss building a business with your partner and how it's beautiful but it's challenging just like everything else in life.
- [The Amazing Relationship](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-relationship/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how the traditional relationship is evolving into a luxury relationship.
- [The Amazing Ghana part 2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-ghana-part-2/) - Anthony and Melanie share how their stay in Ghana changed their perspective on self, family, and community.
- [The Amazing Ghana part 1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-ghana-part-1/) - Anthony and Melanie share how their stay in Ghana changed their perspective on self, family, and community.
- [Surviving the Holidays](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/surviving-the-holidays/) - The holidays are fast approaching! The Amazing Clarks are ready to help you through every awkward or exhausting family gathering with tips and tricks that will make every experience manageable!
- [Aging Gracefully](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/aging-gracefully/) - The Amazing Clarks talk about aging gracefully and how it shouldn't be such a common fear amongst people.
- [The Amazing E.A.R. Process](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-e-a-r-process/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks teach us how to let go by using the E.A.R. process. Followed by an explanation on how this process can lead you to finding an ideal partner that you're compatible with.
- [Quickie Pump up the Volume!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/quickie-pump-up-the-volume/) - The Amazing Clarks have a Quickie for you to send you into your weekend right!
- [The Amazing Point Scale](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-point-scale/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks teach us about the point scale system and how to be realistic about where you are in your life when it comes to picking a partner.
- [The Amazing Clarks Quickie Smile](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-clarks-quickie-smile/) - The Amazing Clarks have a Quickie for you to send you into your weekend right!
- [Losing Yourself In Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/losing-yourself-in-love/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks deep dive into maintaining your individuality while being in a relationship and how sometimes you need to get lost in love for yourself.
- [Stop Hating Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/stop-hating-love/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks teach us how to stop hating on love and how turning your love light on can save you and your future relationships.
- [Trading Gifts](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/trading-gifts/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks share the meaning behind trading gifts within your relationship and how these gifts can lead to a breakup or a makeup.
- [The Love Mood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-love-mood/) - Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married with kids, the Amazing Clarks are here to give you all the advice you need to navigate this Valentine's Day.
- [Compatibility Check](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/compatibility-check/) - In this episode, The Amazing Clarks share why compatibility is key and how ignoring it can lead to bad relationships.
- [You Have to Be a Magnet of Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/you-have-to-be-a-magnet-of-love/) - Single ladies! The Amazing Clarks are here for you! Listen in for the tips and tricks necessary before you wade through the dating pool again.
- [The Amazing Intention Setting](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-intention-setting/) - The Amazing Clarks are back to talk about New Years resolutions. Is there a better way?
- [The Amazing Art of Receiving](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-art-of-receiving/) - The Amazing Clarks explain how allowing yourself to receive what the universe has for you can bring you all the things you wanted.
- [The Power Of Appreciation](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-power-of-appreciation/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution! How can appreciation not only help yourself and the relationships in your life? The Clarks talk about how giving appreciation to others will ultimately be returned back to you. Using appreciation in your everyday life can also bring you the energy that you've been trying to receive. Practicing appreciation mentally will help show up physically and help you start attracting what you've always wanted.
- [The Amazing Life Template](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-life-template/) - The Amazing Clarks explain what a life template is and how to find yours to live your most authentic life.
- [Holding It!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/holding-it/) - The Amazing Clarks have a fun life hack to help you maximize on the law of attraction!
- [More of the Amazing Law of Attraction!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/more-of-the-amazing-law-of-attraction/) - The Amazing Clarks revisit The Law of Attraction to give more insight, tips and tricks to manifesting your best life.
- [Ask the Amazing Clarks](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/ask-the-amazing-clarks/) - The Amazing Clarks are back answering listeners questions!
- [Infidelity Cheating](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/infidelity-cheating/) - Why do people cheat and is it a reflection on their partner? The Amazing Clarks share their personal experiences and what infidelity is a symptom of.
- [The Amazing Entanglement](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-entanglement/) - The Amazing Clarks discuss what exactly entanglement is and how you can utilize it to help facilitate your growth.
- [The Amazing Art of Catharsis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-art-of-catharsis/) - Melanie and Anthony talk about catharsis and explain how cathartic experiences can help your growth process.
- [Navigating Through Land Mines](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/navigating-through-land-mines/) - Melanie and Anthony talk about navigating around your partners land mines and how these triggers can teach you about yourself and your partner.
- [The Art of Self Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-art-of-self-love/) - Melanie and Anthony talk about how self care is a never ending process.
- [The Amazing Growth Process](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-growth-process/) - Melanie and Anthony talk about how beautiful the growth process can be with just a bit of patience and trust.
- [The Amazing Art of Possibility](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-art-of-possibility/) - Melanie and Anthony talk about the possibilities of life and turning those possibilities into a reality.
- [The Art of Navigating Death](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-art-of-navigating-death/) - Melanie and Anthony talk about the beauty of death and the many teachings of it.
- [The Amazing Art of Manifesting Money](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-art-of-manifesting-money/) - Melanie and Anthony tell us about the Art of Manifesting and how it works.
- [The Amazing Art of Allowing](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-art-of-allowing/) - What are you willing to do for your partner? What preconceived notions of love are holding you back from the alignment in your relationship? Melanie and Anthony discuss what the Art of Allowing is and how it effects your relationship and how adjusting can be the absolute gamechanger.
- [Being Amazingly Relationship Active](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/being-amazingly-relationship-active/) - Have you ever wondered what it takes to make a successful relationship? While there isn't one exact thing, The Amazing Clarks do know of one thing that you can't have a successful relationship without. That thing is being Relationship Active. In this episode Melanie and Anthony not only tell you what being Relationship Active is, but how to make it happen. Plus learn how to recognize when someone is being Relationship Inactive! Being Relationship Active isn't only for romantic relationships it is key for every relationship we find important in our lives!
- [The Amazing Mama Heart](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-mama-heart/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution! With Mother's Day right around the corner, Melanie is deep in her mama feelings. Even though her kids are grown, she never stops parenting. But parenting grown ass adults is way different than raising babies. How do you keep parenting effectively as your kids grow up? Melanie and Anthony have all of the tips and tricks when it comes to transitioning to adult parenting and how to adjust your expectations of your children as they start living their own lives. Also if you're not caught up with This is Us watch out for the spoilers at the 829 1030 mark
- [The Amazing Law of Attraction](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-law-of-attraction/) - Have you ever wondered why you seem to attract the things on your mind? Maybe you've tried the power of positive thinking without the results you were looking for. Well in this episode The Amazing Clarks get into the nitty gritty of the Law of Attraction. What is it? How do you use it? Listen as Melanie goes into how she first learned about the Law of Attraction and had a car repossessed in the process and how Anthony is always reminded about it, even when...walking the dog? If you've always wondered about how to harness the power of the Law of Attraction for yourself this episode is for you.
- [Inheriting Your Parents Sins pt2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/inheriting-your-parents-sins-pt2/) - The Amazing Clarks revisit a past pain of Anthony's that has been weighing heavy on him lately the loss of the twin boys he thought were his, and what they think of him today.
- [Inheriting Your Parents Sins pt1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/inheriting-your-parents-sins-pt1/) - The Amazing Clarks breakdown just how we inherit sins from our parents and how it manifests in ourselves.
- [The Amazing Memory Museum](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-memory-museum/) - What moments do you value and how do they impact your life? This week the Amazing Clarks tell you all about the Memory Museum and explain how to make the most of your life.
- [The Amazing Energy Tool pt2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-energy-tool-pt2/) - Have you ever felt like something was off but you couldn't quite place it? Chances are you were out of alignment. In this followup episode, the Amazing Clarks explain how one's energy affects their alignment.
- [The Amazing Papa Heart](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-papa-heart/) - With Father's Day right around the corner, The Amazing Clarks are zooming in on the fatherhood experience. Anthony gets real about his experience being a stepfather and learning how to fit into a preexisting family dynamic, and how his parenting style quickly came to compliment Melanie's. Anthony also shares was it was like to be a Mr.Mom and how deciding to be a stay at home dad was one of the best decisions of his life.
- [The Amazing Energy Tool](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-energy-tool/) - What is energy and how can you harness it to use it to your advantage? Are there different kinds of energy? Anthony and Melanie not only break it down for you, they explain the effect energy has had in their lives and how they are constantly aware and working with it..
- [The Amazing EIP](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-eip/) - Have you ever had something happen to you that you thought just ruined your whole day? Maybe your babysitter unexpected cancelled on you? Or perhaps your car wouldn't start and you were late to work? Let's face it, unexpected setbacks always occur, but the Amazing Clarks are here to give you the best way to frame them. E.I.P Everything is Perfect. Maybe that cancelled babysitter gave you an amazing family night? Or that car trouble kept you out of accident? Melanie and Anthony are here to give you tips to help reframe your thinking so that you can understand that everything has its purpose.
- [PTSD and Healing](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/ptsd-and-healing/) - CW gun violence, death. Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode, Anthony takes us back to a pivotal moment in his life that changed everything. How does mental health and the survival instinct change a man? What can a person do to help move forward so they don't get stuck in their trauma. Anthony shares what worked for him, and the basic necessities for healing.
- [The Amazing Inner Child](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-inner-child/) - Melanie and Anthony give insight into the inner child. What is your inner child? Why are they important? What is the point in working on healing it?
- [The Amazing Coaching Sessions Mickey D](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-coaching-sessions-mickey-d/) - The Amazing Clarks virtually sit down with Mickey D. A young lady who is trying to get back into the dating pool but is apprehensive as to where to start. Listen as the Clarks get to the bottom of her fear and help her find exactly what she needs to move forward. Plus, before the Clarks get into helping Mickey, Melanie has a bone to pick with Anthony uhoh!
- [Crack the Code](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/crack-the-code/) - Melanie and Anthony introduce their latest project Crack The Code The Secret To Achieving Your Happily Ever After. In addition to giving the tidbits of the book, the Clarks tell us why the started the project in the first place, how they hope it will be received, and the plan for their coaching going forward. Plus a lesson on why you must always push forward.
- [The Amazing Top 5](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-top-5/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Today Melanie and Anthony talk sex! and how to make sex work the longer you're in a relationship. What does Melanie have to do in order to connect with Anthony? You definitely don't want to skip out on this technique that has helped them stay active in the bedroom. Plus! The Amazing Clarks break down their Top 5 exercise. How do your top 5 dominant thoughts effect your day to day life, and how does it effect how you might be interacting with your partner? Take a listen and find out.
- [The Amazing Love Report Card](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/the-amazing-love-report-card/) - Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Today, the Amazing Clarks break down their Love Report Card Ten dimensions of love that help guide how your partner is receiving various aspects of your relationship. Melanie and Anthony not only tell you what every dimension means, but score each other! What will each other's grade be?
- [Introducing The Amazing Clarks!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/introducing-the-amazing-clarks/) - Anthony and Melanie Clark, the husband and wife duo who have been passionately in love for nearly 30 years and rock stars of the life and relationship coaching world are giving insight into their early lives. Plus the story of how they met and changed the coaching game.
- [Meet The Amazing Clarks](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-amazing-clarks/meet-the-amazing-clarks/) - The Black Love Podcast Network presents The Amazing Clarks. A brand new podcast featuring life and relationship coaches Anthony and Melanie Clark.
- [The Times and Conditions of Grief](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-times-and-conditions-of-grief/) - There is something special about the process. It is yours. It is ongoing. It is present. It is ever. It is, always. It is… - Dr. Felicia Gangloff-Bailey Felicia and Karega have come to view September very differently. As they come to year four without their daughter Kamaiu Sol Bailey earthside with them, the reality of the time and conditions in which grief exist become ever more present. While Felicia still wrestles with the process and how different the years look as they change, Karega has excepted the month of September of one of Miracles and Wonder. Listen in as they co-discover how time has changed how they move in the world and how they honor their first born.
- [The Conflicts and Challenges That Arise Out of Stubbornness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-conflicts-and-challenges-that-arise-out-of-stubbornness/) - In potty training Kamali, Felicia and Karega find new knowings in the concept of "being stubborn" and how one learns. How often do we, as a society, dismiss stubborn children or stubborn people as not knowing or not learning just because they are not doing things with the ease or expectation that we would like them to?
- [Grieving on the Corner of Hope and Hopelessness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/grieving-on-the-corner-of-hope-and-hopelessness/) - How does one process the loss of someone who still had so much more to tell? Of a loss that feels too soon? Karega asks this as he processes the loss of one of his former students from DC, Troy, to gun violence. Troy, like so many of Karega's students, taught Karega just as much as he taught them. There was so much more to them than people were willing to see or understand, but Troy was able to communicate it all through poetry. Poetry that sits with and influences Karega to this day unfortunately now, through his absence.
- [Wellness is the New Genre](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/wellness-is-the-new-genre/) - Where does wellness stand at the intersection of Hope and Hopelessness? It's what helps you move forward. Today, Karega and Felicia discuss the the wholeness of wellness. What it means, where it has found them in their journey of grief, and for Karega, why it is fundamental to him connecting with other men in their journey with not only grief, but in healing. Wellness is the New Genre.
- [The Love Calls for us to Unify](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-love-calls-for-us-to-unify/) - As Felicia reflects on her now 36th birthday, she recalls what the past few birthdays have looked like even as she has shared this space with you all. The changes that are naturally occurring in life have made their way and even the moments of celebration look different. While discussing that moment, allows to Karega reflect on a trip back east that he took with his father just before his dad's 70th birthday. It all lends itself to the question of how do the processes of life change our outlook on love, growth, life and celebration?
- [Riding in on Gratitude](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/riding-in-on-gratitude/) - An old school Gospel playlist (not super old-school, we're talking early 2000s) has Felicia and Karega honing in on the many facets of gratitude. What does gratitude look like and how does it change as we change? What is it like to find our way BACK TO GRATITUDE when we feel like there has been absolutely nothing to be grateful for?
- [Even Through the Challenge We Are Learning](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/even-through-the-challenge-we-are-learning/) - Kamali has hit her tremendous 2s in full force and are CHALLENGING Karega and Felicia. Yes, we are fully aware she is a toddler, hence the challenge AND where this conversation meets us. What does one do with the frustration that comes with handling the challenges that come our way and in how does CONTROL play into the situation? While Karega and Felicia frame this conversation in the scope of parenthood, you do not need to be a parent to pick up these gems!
- [The Spectrum of Celebration](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-spectrum-of-celebration/) - Celebration in grief looks different. Celebration after grief looks different. Celebration after milestones looks different. What it all shows us is that there is no one way to celebrate, and that our differences are not deficits. As Felicia recounts how a birthday celebration with her long time friend looks different know than it did when they first started celebrating birthdays over a decade ago, it allows space for all of us to take a moment and reflect on not only the necessity of joy, but the specialness of Black sisterhood.
- [Today I Choose to Practice Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/today-i-choose-to-practice-love/) - Practicing Love. Sit with that statement for a second. How often do we treat love as a practice or a philosophy? Do we realize that love, as with all things, changes and grows? That it requires us to study, and practice it? That it will test us? Push us? Today Karega and Felicia discuss moments that have challenged their practice of love, BUT have also allowed for a sort of mastery of certain facets of it. Even as it changes and grows, continuing to PRACTICE LOVE allows us to grow in love.
- [The Ongoing Process of Healing](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-ongoing-process-of-healing/) - "Everything I am feeling in my grief is normal. Acknowledging these emotions is the ongoing process of healing." Today Felicia and Karega share about another loss and how they are feeling as they navigate this new grief. What lessons have they learned not only from Kamaiu, but from other losses that allow them to keep growing, to keep moving, and to keep walking in faith? How does comparison weigh so heavy while looking at one's own journey? There are no set answers. We ask you to join us in reflection as we all try to better understand the process behind the creation of the conditions to acknowledge our grief.
- [I Speak to Resolve What's Conflicting Inside](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/i-speak-to-resolve-whats-conflicting-inside/) - Felicia did not make it to the gym today. She was dressed for the gym. She had planned on going to the gym, was ready will and able, but it didn't happen. She did, however, make it to the store. It was while she at the store she had a chance run in with a man who she had never met. It was through conversation with him, that she found out that they shared something in common the loss of a daughter. Through this conversation, Felicia realizes how much healing comes from speaking about Kamaiu, and Karega helps frame the experience through his experiences of loss and healing.
- [Black Music is Black Joy](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/black-music-is-black-joy/) - Finding joy, finding motivation, finding connection is fundamental to our existence. Both Karega and Felicia have been trying to find that balance of joy outside of the work they do daily. However, the music keeps pulling them in. Listen in as the couple describes how music, and specifically OUR music, has shaped their connection to self, and community. PLUS how it contributes to their practice of wellness.
- [A Reflection of Where I Come From](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/a-reflection-of-where-i-come-from/) - Oftentimes, we find ourselves trying to piece together the pieces of ourselves. These pieces become more apparent when we see them reflected back at us through our children. Today, Felicia has her Mommy sitting in with her in reflection of not only her journey as a mother, but in parenting. How do all these pieces fall together, and what does the journey look like from the perspective of the person who gave you life? What do you see now that you are dealing with the tiny reflection of yourself? It is a beautiful conversation of gratitude, perseverance, and hope.
- [Just Because Someone is Grown, Doesn't Mean They're Growing](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/just-because-someone-is-grown-doesnt-mean-theyre-growing/) - Just Because Someone is Grown, Doesn't Mean They're Growing. One more time. Just Because Someone is Grown, Doesn't Mean They're Growing. That is the challenge Felicia has found herself in with her mother, and Karega has found himself in with a loved one. In reality, we all have found ourselves presented with the challenge of loving someone who isn't necessarily on the same trajectory of growth, wellness, or knowing as you. It is in this moment of investigation that we all join Karega & Felicia as we work through just how to hold and make space for those who challenge our growth.
- [When We Share Our Stories](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/when-we-share-our-stories/) - After a clip of Felicia sharing a story about Kamali and Kamaiu goes viral, she takes a moment to reflect in the power of what vulnerability and the ability to share her truth does for her healing process. Sharing amongst community give us the opportunity to not only grieve, but to build, to reflect, to hope, and to love.
- [Reframing Comparision](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/reframing-comparision/) - Sometimes you need to reframe the reframe, and that lesson comes bright and early on a Monday. For Felicia it came in the form of comparison. We all have those moments when we wonder why we aren't where that other person is, EVEN if it's someone we love dearly. It is when we sit in those feelings and those thoughts that we are given the opportunity to process and move forward in them and find who we are. Is it just comparison? Is it a different form a grief? Is it all of the above and more?
- [The Miracle and Wonder of Grief](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-miracle-and-wonder-of-grief/) - Grief can manifest itself in a many ways, especially when someone is taken from us too soon. Today, Karega and Felicia discuss how they spent their weekend with mothers who have lost their children too soon. What they discovered is that these strong black women, who have experienced such tragedies, still find a reason to be joyous even though they carry such pain everyday. Karega speaks on how he is in awe of these mothers, including his very own wife, because of the strength they have shown through so much adversity. He realizes that grief doesn't only have to be a weight around your neck, but can also be the very thing that saves you.
- [Making Time for My Spirit](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/making-time-for-my-spirit/) - Your thoughts and self talk can have very powerful effects on your mental and spiritual health. Karega and Felicia both reflect on what it means to slow down and take time for themselves. Karega, more specifically, speaks on how important it is to not only take care of his physical well being but his spiritual well being so he can be there for Felica, Kamali and others. Felicia and Karega also chat about motivating each other and how they can look to their community for inspiration in order to make sure they are feeding the mind, body and spirit.
- [The Mindset We Have in Our Growth](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-mindset-we-have-in-our-growth/) - The heavy rainy season has Karega thinking about seasons, restarts, harvests and what growth should look like. To go even deeper, what he thought his growth should look like after everything he went through. Seeds and fruit and even the trees have shown him that growth does not look the same and neither does our growth. Especially our growth through grief. Having patience for ourselves is key as we do not all grow the same way.
- [Who I Am in This Moment](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/who-i-am-in-this-moment/) - Kamali celebrated her second birthday last week ! and while there was much to celebrate, there was also a period of reflection. Felicia and Karega take a moment to discuss the parallels between those who came through for them in this period of celebration and those who were there for them during their period of grief. Perhaps just as important, how different it is to be in this specific moment with a child earthside versus being parents of a child in heaven.
- [There is No Reframe Without Rest](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/there-is-no-reframe-without-rest/) - Having a toddler is hard, and Kamali is not as respectful to the needs of rest as one would expect of a two year old. You might know this about Felicia, but she loves her sleep. Like, it is a high priority. And there is no room for reframing things when there is no rest! However, there is more to this situation than Kamali being a toddler and the lack of sleep. It is about what we had planned, especially through our grief journey. The vision for our lives, the lives we had planned for ourselves, did not come to fruition. Sometimes the reframe is hard when you're thinking about the what ifs.
- [The Gift of Impermanence](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-gift-of-impermanence/) - We all know that nothing lasts forever but, for a 2 year old like Kamali, you have nothing but time. Today Karega and Felicia discuss their recent trip with Kamali to Atlanta to visit close friends. While traveling, Karega experienced a series of moments with Kamali that caused him to reflect on the fact that even though Kamaili is only two, there are things, as she gets older and matures, that she won't ask him or Felicia to do any more. The great thing about Kamali, even though she is growing everyday, she always finds ways to bring Karega and Felicia in the present to remind them that while time doesn't stop, being present in the moment allows them to appreciate those times before they are gone.
- [I'm Speaking as an Act of Self Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/im-speaking-as-an-act-of-self-love/) - Karega has released his new project Legacy Lounge Season 1 Legacy Talk Only into the universe and reflects on what it means on not only what it means to be an artist, but on what it means to use music and rap hiphop as a way of processing his grief. Specifically, as one has to navigate the grind of promoting and selling this art and legacy project which means more than just a commodity. Is there a way to find balance in trying to build something greater than the machine of promotion and follows and likes especially with something so important to the whole family unit?
- [Grieving the Person That I Thought I Was](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/grieving-the-person-that-i-thought-i-was/) - Felicia needs to make a change in her life. One that, on the surface level, is simple. She needs to cut her hair. Now, as Karega will tell you and show you Felicia has rocked every style under the sun. However, in this moment the impending change is different. As Felicia sits with it, she realizes that even something that she has done dozens of times before, now has a new association with it, and it ties into grief and Kamaiu. As grief is ever changing and evolving, Felicia and Karega reflect on how this moment is very much part of the experience of grief and just how the personal and individual each person's process is.
- [Telling My Truth is Part of My Wellness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/telling-my-truth-is-part-of-my-wellness/) - In their journey of grief, Karega and Felicia have each have had their own very individual processes in how they feel in sharing Kamaiu's story. Their truths vary as their experiences have varied. As the couple vulnerably shares, this ain't fair. None of it is fair and in all reality, no one would choose this path over having their loved one. Grief is wild that way. However, that is why Karega and Felicia create these tools of reference AND why the reframe is so important even for themselves because it is easy to fall into the trap of the what ifs and the not fairs as opposed to the living in the now.
- [What is Present May Not Always Be Visible in the Moment](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/what-is-present-may-not-always-be-visible-in-the-moment/) - What is present may not always be visible in the moment. At the right moment it will be seen. Its relevance requires its process and cannot be rushed. SOL Affirmations was once again nominated for an Ambie award which this time took them to Vegas. While in reflection, Karega and Felicia note how all of this, the podcast and the stories that they share in it, start with Kamaiu and the story that they never wanted to tell. Felicia never wanted anything to come from the loss of her first daughter, and yet through her sharing her story, the story of being Kamaiu's mother, they have created so much space for reference and for community.
- [Who is Putting Us at Risk with Tony Lewis Jr](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/who-is-putting-us-at-risk-with-tony-lewis-jr/) - Mass incarceration is a type of loss. It isn't often framed that way, but you know we are all about the reframe here. In the last interview in the series from the Kennedy Center, Karega and Felicia sit down with their friend Tony Lewis Jr., a DC community leader, reentry expert, and champion for children with mass incarcerated parents to discuss the community and specifically the youth of DC. Plus, the trio explore the concept of atrisk youth, and the grief, and loss experienced by those who have incarcerated parents.
- [Showing up to the Day Differently with Angel Gregorio](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/showing-up-to-the-day-differently-with-angel-gregorio/) - Sometimes the art is showing up to the day differently than you've done before. As Karega and Felicia continued their stay in DC they knew that they needed to link up with their old friend Angel Gregorio. If you know DC, you know Angel. You know The Spice Suite, you know the work she does for the community and our people. What you probably don't know is how she has shown up for Karega and Felicia specifically in their grief. Listen in as Angel shares how her grief in losing her brothers to mass incarceration and her mother to drug addiction helped fuel her commitment to community, how she has more questions than answers, and how loss truly shapes us all.
- [SOL Affirmations with Kier Gaines](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/sol-affirmations-with-kier-gaines/) - While artists in residence at the Kennedy Center, Karega Felicia had the opportunity to sit down with their old friend husband, father, community leader, and licensed therapist Kier Gaines. In conversation they discuss not only how they have shown up for each other, but for community, and specifically the youth. It is a conversation about Black Love at it's core.
- [The Power Struggle of Parenthood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-power-struggle-of-parenthood/) - Felicia's desire for structure and Karega's desire to take the path of least resistance when it comes to parenting is looked at in depth within this episode. In this episode, both share honest thoughts about navigating through the journey of parenthood and the power struggles that come with it.
- [Love Without Judgement](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/love-without-judgement/) - Some of you may or may not know but Karega is also an artist. His latest album, Legacy Lounge Season 1, features a song about Felicia one that she lowkey has been waiting for. However it is through Karega's words that Felicia has been allowed to learn how to process her own grief, and how it gave her the space to learn to love without judgment after loss.
- [Sometimes the Art is Showing Up to the Day Differently Than You've Done Before](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/sometimes-the-art-is-showing-up-to-the-day-differently-than-youve-done-before/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on how Kamaiu's 3rd birthday looked so much different than her first two. As a family trip gave room for not only reflection into what the family unit looks like now that Kamali is here, but in how they now acknowledge Kamaiu as she shows up differently than she had in the past. Angel parenthood is constantly changing and adjusting and there is always beauty in the reframe.
- [BabyBaileyGirl](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/babybaileygirl/) - On September 30th, 2019, Karega and Felicia became Angel Parents to a beautiful BabyBaileyGirl named Kamaiu SOL. Happy 3rd Birthday Kamaiu.
- [The Fear of Being Misunderstood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-fear-of-being-misunderstood/) - When trying to share how one is dealing or processing grief there is always the fear of misunderstanding. At least this has been true for Felicia. There was a fear that when she shared her story on Black Love Doc that folks wouldn't understand. There's the fear that when people hear short clips of the podcast people will jump to their own conclusions and misunderstand. It's a real fear that when paired with the weight of grief is overwhelming. This week, Felicia and Karega process in real time what those experiences have taught them, and how they have grown from them.
- [Redefining Gratitude](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/redefining-gratitude/) - How does one find gratitude in loss? In the hardest of moments? Continuing their reflections in their month of miracles and wonder Karega and Felicia reflect on how the meaning of gratitude has shifted for them since Kamaiu's double transition and how they continue to find ways to experience it.
- [Honoring the Heart Work](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/honoring-the-heart-work/) - I honor my reality and the heart work it requires to embrace my truth. I do not have to escape my feelings or rise above them. They are true and I will let them be true. What happens when the disbelief of manifestation holds true? When one cannot honor the truth of what they have done because the grief will not allow them to embrace their truth? Felicia and Karega share what emotions from all directions look like and how creating room for love allows for true honoring of the heart work.
- [Tapping in with Parenting for the Culture](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/tapping-in-with-parenting-for-the-culture/) - Peace good people! Karega, Felicia and Kamali and finishing up their month long vacation but didn't want to leave you hanging. As they travel back home they wanted to share their friend and fellow Black Love Podcast Network family member Charisse Sims' podcast Parenting for the Culture! Charisse is an educator, PBS Early Learning Champion, and a mama of six so she knows a thing or two about raising kids. Charisse is all about conscious parenting, and if you don't know what that is, well Parenting for the Culture is a good place to start!
- [Healing Families with Kennedy's Angel Gowns](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/healing-families-with-kennedys-angel-gowns/) - Angel parenthood comes to everyone differently, and everyone processes uniquely. Karega and Felicia first came to know of Heather and Demitri Wilson when they were invited to be guest speakers at their event, The Angel Ball. It was then that they came to know their story. Seven years after losing their daughter Kennedy on August 17, 2009, the idea of sewing burial gowns for infants came to Heather Wilsons mind. Kennedy didnt have an appropriate or properly fitted gown for her burial, but Heather hoped others didnt have to face the same problem. Dedicating herself to sewing angel gowns and together helping others in their time of grief is the best way the Wilsons keep the memory of Kennedy alive. Listen in as Heather and Demitri share not only what keeping Kennedy's memory alive does for their grief, but how they continue to process and honor her today and always.
- [The Grief Connection with Rexx Life Raj](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-grief-connection-with-rexx-life-raj/) - There's something about grief that has a way of building connections. There is a community in grief as the process, while unique to each individual and situation is a universal concept. During Karega and Felicia's deepest period of grief they found the music of Rexx Life Raj . His lyrics connected to their experiences in a way that they couldn't necessarily find words for at the time. Nor did they think that others shared certain aspects of their grief experiences until they heard Rexx mention it. Today, Karega and Felicia sit down with Rexx Life Raj to discuss his music, grief, community, and all that comes with it.
- [An Invitation to be Present](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/an-invitation-to-be-present/) - This week Karega and Felicia discuss the grieving of the person you once were. Listen in as both share how so much loss and newness has allowed them to appreciate what the past has taught them and not needing to define what is next to come.
- [Choosing Rest](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/choosing-rest/) - This week Karega and Felicia discuss the importance of rest. Listen in as both share how rest has forced them to acknowledge how important it is. Because ultimately, there is no affirmation that can replace rest.
- [Celebrating 10 Years of Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/celebrating-10-years-of-love/) - This week Karega and Felicia celebrate their 10 year anniversary. Listen in as Karega shares how his difficulty with separating from Kamali, for an anniversary trip, ended up being a lesson on the importance of separation. While both express falling in love with one another all over again on this journey.
- [Celebrating is Part of My Sustainability](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/celebrating-is-part-of-my-sustainability/) - As Felicia and Karega come to the end of 2022 they reflect on just what this second year of SOL Affirmations has meant for them and this community they have built. Thank you all for holding space for grief, reframing, discussion, vulnerability, and above all else love. Make sure you listen to the end to hear a special announcement from Karega and Felicia!
- [Wrestling with Joy During the Holidays](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/wrestling-with-joy-during-the-holidays/) - The holidays are a time of joy for most. It's when we come together with family and friends and celebrate. However when we have lost someone we have loved, the holidays are not JUST the holidays. Sometimes the grief feels like it is fighting with the joy of the season. Karega and Felicia share just what this third year holiday season without Kamaiu on this plane is like and how navigating it with a very joyous Kamali looks like. Plus how has it changed on the journey to here. Afterall, grief isn't linear. Just like the season it is full of changes, moments, and requires reflection.
- [The Bridges of Connectedness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-bridges-of-connectedness/) - There's just something special about being connected to your people. We all get to decide who those people are. Relatives, chosen family, and in this instance, Karega Felicia mean their fellow Hampton Alums. It was homecoming and the trip not only allowed them the room to explore what being around other Black people and going to an HBCU meant to them, but what that community has meant to them since graduating.
- [SOL Affirmations Presents Man to Man A Black Love Wellness Series](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/sol-affirmations-presents-man-to-man-a-black-love-wellness-series/) - Black men, it's time to get real with each other. Wellness, selflove, finance, nutrition these are just a few topics Black Love Inc General Manager David Wasicki will be bringing to the forefront in Man to Man A Black Love Wellness Series. Each week the topics will change, but the insights lessons gained from Black men of all walks of life will remain constant. Man to Man serves as a platform for men to get reallife insight directly from notable, successful men who lead with the honesty and vulnerability that Black Love is known for. Toxic masculinity. What is it? Is it really an issue or is it some buzzword? We brought in two brothers to have a conversation about masculinity in all forms, but especially centered around being Black men Karega Bailey, artist, educator, and angel father, and King Jay Barnett, author, speaker, and mental health therapist. Perhaps more important than the question of what is toxic masculinity is how do we acknowledge behavior that is toxic that seems to be consistently perpetrated by men? Honestly, there are so many questions and points asked that this is only one piece of the framework necessary for healing. But we have to start somewhere, and this is a great start with two phenomenal men.
- [I Give Myself Permission to Feel How I Feel](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/i-give-myself-permission-to-feel-how-i-feel/) - As we move into the last quarter of the year Karega reflects on slowing down and finally allowing himself to feel all the things. It's easy to get caught up in time as you push through the front half of the year, but in this period it seems almost necessary to talk stock. More importantly, it is okay to allow ourselves to take those moments and actually pause and feel all the things we've put off to the side for the sake of moving forward. Listen in as the Baileys process in real time their very real emotions around felling and acknowledging their grief in real time, even as everything around them seems to be continuing on, and why we all deserve those moments to feel.
- [Leaning Into the Challenge](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/leaning-into-the-challenge/) - Grief is on going and ever changing. It is easy to get stuck in a very real fatigue of grief. There is this notion that going full force into will get you over it and Karega and Felicia have realized that such is not the case. Listen in as the couple processes the challenge of moving through grief as it shifts with time. What realizations have they arrived at in this point in year three of Kamaiu's double transition? Does it get easier?
- [Shifting Griefs Process](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/shifting-griefs-process/) - This week Karega and Felicia celebrate the life of Karega's brother Karim, after his passing 8 years ago. Listen in as Karega shares how acknowledging what getting better is has helped him surrender and further confront his feelings. While both share the lesson of there being no growth in the process of rushing grief.
- [The Necessity of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-necessity-of-black-love/) - Felicia and Karega share their feelings on the final season of Black Love Doc and how the series changed not only their lives but the lives of the community around them.
- [The Beauty of Parenthood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-beauty-of-parenthood/) - Karega and Felicia discuss the beauties of parenthood.
- [The Practice of Alignment](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-practice-of-alignment/) - Karega and Felicia discuss how to make room for regular alignment.
- [Celebrating Black Daddies](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/celebrating-black-daddies/) - Karega and Felicia welcome Damon Jamal Taylor, aka Dame Drummer, to discuss Black Daddy the Movie and the importance of Black fathers
- [Sharing Openly for Reference](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/sharing-openly-for-reference/) - Karega and Felicia answer some listener questions.
- [Evidence of a Challenge](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/evidence-of-a-challenge/) - Karega and Felicia reflect on their Covid19 experience.
- [Making Peace With the Grief](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/making-peace-with-the-grief/) - Karega and Felicia speak on finding happiness through grief.
- [Live from the Spice Suite](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/live-from-the-spice-suite/) - Karega and Felicia have a conversation live from The Spice Suite.
- [Celebrating The Becoming of One](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/celebrating-the-becoming-of-one/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on Kamali's 1st birthday.
- [What Makes Me a Mother](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/what-makes-me-a-mother/) - Felicia processes her feelings around Mother's Day and those who find it necessary to define her motherhood.
- [When Feelings Don't Align with Values](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/when-feelings-dont-align-with-values/) - Felicia and Karega process their reactions to Kamali being hit by another child.
- [Acknowledging the Loss](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/acknowledging-the-loss/) - Felicia and Karega explore what it means to acknowledge the loss and how it has helped them experience the greatest love.
- [Present and Grateful](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/present-and-grateful/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on Kamali's upcoming 1st birthday.
- [We Create Room for Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/we-create-room-for-love/) - Karega and Felicia reflect on the past year ! of podcasting and the importance of self work and sharing our stories.
- [How Do We Train Our Minds to Ask What Else is True?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/how-do-we-train-our-minds-to-ask-what-else-is-true/) - Ever wonder just how affirmations work? Karega and Felicia and Kamali share how these words have manifested in their lives and the joys and struggles of recognizing them.
- [When the Waters Get Deep](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/when-the-waters-get-deep/) - Karega and Felicia deep dive into their short documentary When the Waters Get Deep and dwell on the real time processing of watching something that hurt them so much.
- [The New Season of Courage](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-new-season-of-courage/) - Karega and Felicia deep dive into the practice of standing in your season of courage.
- [Living Without Comparison](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/living-without-comparison/) - What does it look like to look inward and yet still find yourself looking back? How does one navigate the thoughts of selfdoubt when reflecting on things that could have gone differently? After all, what clearer vision is there than hindsight?
- [Why We Invest in Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/why-we-invest-in-love/) - Felicia and Karega deep dive into the practice and manifestations of love.
- [Extending Grace Through Communication](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/extending-grace-through-communication/) - Felicia and Kargea sit with the concept of grace through communication and why understanding the nuances involved can help build bridges with those who haven't been afforded such grace previously.
- [The Ability to Look Ahead](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-ability-to-look-ahead/) - Karega and Felicia reflect not only on the year that has quickly come to pass, but the ability to look forward after grief
- [Love is a Bridge Builder](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/love-is-a-bridge-builder/) - Karega and Felicia reflect on their time at the Black Love Summit and the black joy and happiness that surrounded the whole experience.
- [Leaning Into Love When Challenged](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/leaning-into-love-when-challenged/) - Karega and Felicia process through a realtime challenge that has the couple reflecting on how to lean into love during the difficult times.
- [My Gratitude Calls Me to Rise](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/my-gratitude-calls-me-to-rise/) - How does one navigate grief and gratitude? Karega and Felicia process what that looks like during the holidays and how it has changed for them.
- [Intentional Communication](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/intentional-communication/) - Karega and Felicia dive into the topic of effective communication and what that looks like in the workplace.
- [Maintaining Peace On The Path](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/maintaining-peace-on-the-path/) - Karega and Felicia reflect on how maintaining peace on the path is just as important as the destination.
- [Making Room for Affirmations](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/making-room-for-affirmations/) - Karega and Felicia reflect on what part affirmations play in their typical daily routines.
- [Mind Unlocked, Heart Unblocked](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/mind-unlocked-heart-unblocked/) - Lately, Felicia has been listening to the SOL Affirmations album and she keeps finding herself listening to one track in particular. How was this manifested in the daily work she is doing for herself and the work she does for others?
- [Exploring My Emotions is an Act of Self Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/exploring-my-emotions-is-an-act-of-self-love/) - Karega and Felicia explore how community, connectedness, and selflove all intertwine in their daily lives.
- [Opening the Sails](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/opening-the-sails/) - Felicia and Karega explore how grief has changed them and how they no longer walk through their lives as they did before. What does one do to continue after loss?
- [The Storm is Happening for Me](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-storm-is-happening-for-me/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on an affirmation from Karega's text that they both have been avoiding while they processed their grief.
- [Memories](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/memories/) - Karega and Felicia talk about how memories can help with grief and how they contribute to growth.
- [Room For Connectedness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/room-for-connectedness/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on their experience filming Black Love and how sharing their story helped opened a space to connect not only with each other but anyone who has experienced grief.
- [Grace](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/grace/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on how Kamali's second birthday went, and how the events of the day affirmed her continued impact on their lives and the lives of others.
- [Gratitude](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/gratitude/) - Karega and Felicia process gratitude while looking ahead to Kamaiu's second birthday.
- [Love is the Master Teacher](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/love-is-the-master-teacher/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on Karega opening for Erykah Badu and how love has brought them both to this place in their journey.
- [Grateful for the Practice](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/grateful-for-the-practice/) - Karega and Felicia explore the difficulties they experience with social media and the need to compare themselves to others.
- [Filling Your Cup After Grief](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/filling-your-cup-after-grief/) - Karega and Felicia process what filling your cup after grief looks like.
- [The Practice of Patience](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-practice-of-patience/) - When the day didn't go as planned Felicia finds herself referencing an affirmation about practicing patience.
- [Processing in Real Time](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/processing-in-real-time/) - Karega and Felicia reflect on their live podcast and art instillation at The Brickhouse Art Gallery Complex in Sacramento, CA, and how their community has always found a way to show up for them.
- [SOL Affirmations LIVE](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/sol-affirmations-live/) - SOL Affirmations LIVE from The Brickhouse Art Gallery Complex in Sacramento, CA
- [The Power is in The Present](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-power-is-in-the-present/) - Felicia and Karega discuss how being present can be one of the most difficult spaces to occupy.
- [Finding Beauty on the Hard Days](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/finding-beauty-on-the-hard-days/) - Felicia and Karega discuss how to find beauty on the hards days, and how their journey through loss shifted their outlook on pain.
- [Love is the Greatest Passport](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/love-is-the-greatest-passport/) - Felicia and Karega discuss how days of travel as parents, creates the practice of patience on the road to happiness.
- [Shifting through Pregnancy After Loss](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/shifting-through-pregnancy-after-loss/) - Felicia and Karega discuss shifting through the emotions of pregnancy after loss, Felicia's birth plan the second time, and how it all came to be a beautiful journey.
- [Investigating Grief's Process](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/investigating-griefs-process/) - Felicia and Karega discuss Felicia's latest project, Mother's investigating Grief's Process and how it came about as they navigated their grief.
- [There's Beauty in the Reframe.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/theres-beauty-in-the-reframe/) - Felicia and Karega reflect on the joy and grief that overwhelmed Felicia's 34th birthday.
- [Experiences in Parenting](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/experiences-in-parenting/) - Felicia and Karega explore the differences in parenting Kamaiu and Kamali.
- [A Legacy of Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/a-legacy-of-love/) - Karega and Felicia reflect on their 9 years of marriage and how they have made it through what on the outside might have looked like a nontraditional partnership.
- [Defining Fatherhood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/defining-fatherhood/) - Felicia and Karega and supervisor Kamali reflect on this past Father's Day.
- [Hope Materialized](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/hope-materialized/) - Karega and Felicia are joined by longtime friend Yusha Assad in the studio to discuss the time all three of them spent in DC, and the intersection of teaching and fatherhood.
- [Prayers of an Angel Father](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/prayers-of-an-angel-father/) - Felicia and Karega discuss Karega's latest project, Prayers of an Angel Father and how it came about as they navigated their grief.
- [The Path is Wide Enough for Both of Us](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-path-is-wide-enough-for-both-of-us/) - Felicia and Karega have a special announcement and share how they've managed to navigate the waters through it all.
- [Time as a Unique Continuum](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/time-as-a-unique-continuum/) - Karega and Felicia discuss how time effects love and grief.
- [Love's Validity](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/loves-validity/) - This week Karega and Felicia get further into the depths of love by discussing love's validity and the moments where they had to come face to face with their own misconceptions about love.
- [Love's Territory](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/loves-territory/) - Karega and Felicia discuss how do we love what challenges us and makes us question if someone is truly deserving of love.
- [Revolutionary Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/revolutionary-love/) - In this episode Karega and Felicia discuss how one can take inventory about the things occupying love's territory?
- [An Acknowledgement](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/an-acknowledgement/) - Karega and Felicia want to acknowledge the latest developments in their lives.
- [The Power of Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/the-power-of-love/) - Karega and Felicia discuss the grief that came after gun violence and how love helped them through it.
- [Moving at the Speed of Trust](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/moving-at-the-speed-of-trust/) - Karega and Felicia recount their time in Southeast DC where Karega met his first mentors in grief, and how to build trust amongst communities.
- [Radical Gentleness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/radical-gentleness/) - Today Felicia and Karega discuss the conflict of loss, artificial grief, and how to retain one's gentleness after tragedy.
- [Why We Affirm](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/why-we-affirm/) - You might know Karega and Felicia Bailey from Black Love Doc Season 4 Episode 5, Stand By Me but that isn't their entire story. Felicia and Karega explain why they wanted to do this podcast, how they hold space, and who exactly they are. Listen as we hear about how the two first met in Sacramento, their journey together at Hampton University, their work in education spaces, and how they've learned to embrace their identities as Angel Parents.
- [SOL Affirmations with Karega and Felicia](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/sol-affirmations/sol-affirmations-with-karega-and-felicia/) - Every week SOL Affirmations with Karega Bailey and Felicia GangloffBailey will honor the stories of those experiencing grief, and will act as a space to radically connect to the deepest parts of our humanity.
- [On A Move With Grey](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-grey/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with Grey to discuss going vegan and changing his lifestyle for not only himself but his community as well.
- [On A Move With Karega Bailey](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-karega-bailey/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with Karega Bailey to discuss creating the opportunity to be present, his work in education, and grief.
- [On A Move With Mike Davis Sr. and Debbie Davis](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-mike-davis-sr-and-debbie-davis/) - Mike Jr. sits down with his parents to reflect on Women's Month and the women they are most proud of.
- [On A Move With Felicia Bailey](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-felicia-bailey/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with Felicia Bailey to discuss her work in music, education, and psychology.
- [On A Move With Ryan Harris](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-ryan-harris/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with Ryan Harris to discuss his nonprofit organization 'As I Plant This Seed' and working to help the youth in Philadelphia.
- [On A Move With Movita Johnson Harrell](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-movita-johnson-harrell/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with Movita Johnson Harrell to discuss gun violence in Philadelphia and disrupting systemic racism.
- [We Stay On A Move with Kimberly Latrice Jones Part 2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/we-stay-on-a-move-with-kimberly-latrice-jones-part-2/) - Mike Africa Jr. and activist Kimberly Latrice Jones continue their discussion about community and issues about the educational system.
- [We Stay On a Move with Kimberly Latrice Jones](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/we-stay-on-a-move-with-kimberly-latrice-jones/)
- [On a Move with Dr. Monique Liston](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-dr-monique-liston/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with Dr. Monique Liston to discuss community activism and social justice in the Midwest.
- [One Year On a Move](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/one-year-on-a-move/) - Mike Africa Jr. recounts what this year has looked like for him, the good, the bad, the hopeful, and the ugly.
- [On A Move with Fredrika Newton](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-fredrika-newton/) - Mike Africa Jr. chats with a activist and revolutionary Fredrika Newton to discuss the 55th Anniversary of the founding of the Black Panther Party and the Dr. Huey Newton Memorial Bust Dedication.
- [On A Move with Gratitude](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-gratitude/) - Today Mike Africa Jr. sits down with his parents, Michael DavisAfrica Sr. and Debbie SimmsAfrica to share their perspectives on gratitude and family.
- [My Life in MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly Part 4 What's Next?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/my-life-in-move-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly-part-4-whats-next/) - In the final part of a multipart series titled My Life in MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Mike recounts ugly moments during his young adulthood in the MOVE organization.
- [My Life in MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly Part 3 The Ugly](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/my-life-in-move-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly-part-3-the-ugly/) - In this third part of a multipart series titled My Life in MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Mike recounts ugly moments during his young adulthood in the MOVE organization.
- [My Life in MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly Part 2 The Bad](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/my-life-in-move-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly-part-2-the-bad/) - In this second part of a multipart series titled My Life in MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Mike recounts the bad experiences he had in MOVE.
- [My Life in MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly Part 1 The Good](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/my-life-in-move-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly-part-1-the-good/) - In this first part of a multipart series titled MOVE the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Mike recounts the good experiences he had in MOVE.
- [White People in Black Movements Pt2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/white-people-in-black-movements-pt2/) - In this episode, Mike Africa Jr is joined by activists YahN Ndgo, and Dr. Krystal Strong to continue their discussion on white people in Black movements.
- [White People in Black Movements Pt1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/white-people-in-black-movements-pt1/) - In this episode, Mike Africa Jr is joined by activists YahN Ndgo, and Dr. Krystal Strong to discuss white people in Black movements.
- [August 8th](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/august-8th/) - Mike Africa Jr reflects on the 1978 confrontation between MOVE and the Philadelphia police, and why it is still relevant to this day.
- [Retired Revolutionaries](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/retired-revolutionaries/) - Mike Africa Jr is joined by Pam Africa to answer the age old question, Can a revolutionary retire?.
- [On a Move with AbdulAliy Muhammad](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-abdul-aliy-muhammad/) - Mike Africa Jr. and organizer and writer AbdulAliy Muhammad continue their conversation about Penn and Princeton, further discussing what has happened since the first story came out and two new articles that go deeper into the details and truth of May 13th, 1985.
- [On a Move with Russell Shoatz III](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-russell-shoatz-iii/) - Today Mike Africa Jr. sits down with his friend and brother in the struggle, Russell Shoatz III to discuss the release of his father, Russell Marroon Shoatz, and what is next for the Shoatz family.
- [On a Move about Hope](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-about-hope/) - Mike Africa Jr. and his parents, Mike Sr and Debbie, sit down and talk about the release of Russell Maroon Shoatz and how hope has made a major player in their lives.
- [On a Move Again with Kimberly Latrice Jones](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-again-with-kimberly-latrice-jones/) - Mike Africa Jr. and activist and writer Kimberly Latrice Jones discuss her new book, the upcoming release of what she called her life's work and how she manages on the streets activism with her busy schedule
- [In Their Words Mike Davis Sr. and Debbie Davis Part 2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/in-their-words-mike-davis-sr-and-debbie-davis-part-2/) - Mike Jr sits down with his parents to discuss what they wish they could have done differently, and whether they made the right decisions as parents. Plus, what is next in their healing journey.
- [In Their Words Mike Davis Sr. and Debbie Davis Part 1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/in-their-words-mike-davis-sr-and-debbie-davis-part-1/) - Mike Jr sits down with his parents to ask about their current feelings about the MOVE organization.
- [Remembering Chuck Africa](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/remembering-chuck-africa/) - In this episode Mike Jr, and his mom and pops Debbie Mike Sr remember Chuckie Africa who passed away on 092021.
- [On a Move with Sunny Singh](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-sunny-singh/) - Mike Africa Jr. speaks with hardcore videographer Sunny Singh.
- [June 16th](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/june-16th/) - On June 16th 2018 Debbie Africa was freed from prison after 40 years. On June 16th 2021 fierce MOVE sister Consuewella Africa passed. Mike reflects on these dualities and how this date will always be bittersweet.
- [Father's Day On a Move](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/fathers-day-on-a-move/) - Mike Africa Jr is once again joined by his pops, former political prisoner Mike Africa Sr, to discuss fatherhood,
- [On a Move with Albert Corado](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-albert-corado/) - This week Mike chops it up with activist and organizer Albert Corado.
- [On a Move with Dr. Krystal Strong](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-dr-krystal-strong/) - Mike is joined by a core organizer with Black Lives Matter Philly and a professor at the University of Pennsylvania Dr. Krystal Strong.
- [Pain of Separation](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/pain-of-separation/) - In 1999 Mike's mom, Debbie Africa, wrote an article of some of her last memories with the MOVE children prior to her incarceration. Today, they discuss that and the events going on today.
- [13May85](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/may-13-1985/) - On May 13th, 1985 the city of Philadelphia with full authority and backing of the mayor at the time Wilson Goode dropped a bomb on the MOVE house located at 6221 Osage Ave murdering six adults and five children.
- [50 Years On a Move](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/50-years-on-a-move/) - Mike Africa Jr recounts the origin story of MOVE and how John Africa came to be the revolutionary that would lead the charge in Philly.
- [On a Move with the Moms](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-the-moms/) - Mike Africa Jr. is joined by his wife RobKat and his mom Debbie Africa to discuss the upcoming Mother's Day holiday and what motherhood is like.
- [MOVE Children Deserve to Rest in Peace](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/move-children-deserve-to-rest-in-peace/) - Mike Africa Jr. and his father, former political prisoner Mike Africa Sr, talk with Abdul Aliy Muhammad, the writer who first broke the story of Penn Museum and Princeton University holding the remains of MOVE bombing victims Tree Africa and Delisha Africa.
- [On a Move with the Verdict](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-the-verdict/) - Mike Africa Jr. and his father Mike Africa Sr. discuss the Derek Chauvin verdict, and if this is the first sign of things changing for the better.
- [Still on a Move with Tony Lewis Jr](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/still-on-a-move-with-tony-lewis-jr/) - Mike Africa Jr. and Tony Lewis Jr. continue their discussion on mass incarceration, the Free Tony Lewis rally, and their hopes for the future.
- [On a Move with Tony Lewis Jr.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-tony-lewis-jr/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with activist, community organizer and champion for children with incarcerated parents, Tony Lewis Jr.
- [On a Move with Tommy Oliver](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-tommy-oliver/) - Mike Africa Jr chats with producer Tommy Oliver about growing up in Philly, activism, and the film 40 Years a Prisoner.
- [On a Move with Monie Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-monie-love/) - Mike Africa Jr. chops it up with legendary UK born rapper, actress, and radio host, Monie Love.
- [Hot Takes with Mike Africa Jr.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/hot-takes-with-mike-africa-jr/) - Mike Africa Jr. weighs in on Kirk Franklin's verbal spat with his son, and on Samaria Rice's accusations against Tamika Mallory, Ben Crump and more.
- [On A Move with Sis Empress Phil Chionesu](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-sis-empress-phile-chionesu/) - Mike Africa Jr. sits down with Sis Empress Phil Chionesu to discuss the origins and impact of the 1997 Million Woman March and her new project We Charge Genocide 21.
- [On a Move with Pam Africa Part 2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-pam-africa-part-2/) - Mike Africa Jr. and Pam Africa continue their conversation about Mumia AbuJamal and the violence experienced as revolutionaries.
- [On a Move with Pam Africa Part 1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-pam-africa-part-1/)
- [On a Move with Akeem Browder](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-akeem-browder/) - Mike Africa Jr. speaks with Akeem Browder about his activism work and the hypocrisy of the American justice system.
- [On A Move with Kimberly Latrice Jones](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-kimberly-latrice-jones/) - Mike Africa Jr. and activist and writer Kimberly Latrice Jones discuss activism and issues facing the Black community.
- [Storytime On a Move](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/storytime-on-a-move/) - Mike Africa Jr. recounts a couple of his favorite stories from his childhood that helped shape who he is today.
- [On a Move with the Inauguration](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-the-inauguration/) - Mike Africa Jr. and his pops, former political prisoner and member of the MOVE 9 Mike Africa Sr. sit down to discuss the inauguration and the claims of hope for this administration.
- [On a Move with Mike Africa Jr](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/) - Host Mike Africa Jr. gives his opinions about the documentary 40 Years a Prisoner and talks about the purpose of the podcast.
- [On a Move on Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-on-dr-martin-luther-king-jr/) - Mike Africa Jr. and his dad, former political prisoner Mike Africa Sr. have a discussion about Martin Luther King Jr. and the events of January 6th, 2021.
- [On a Move with Debbie Africa](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-debbie-africa/) - Former political prisoner Debbie Africa joins Mike Africa Jr to discuss the events that led to her arrest, life in and out of prison, and the new film 40 Years a Prisoner.
- [On a Move with Mike Africa Sr.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-sr/) - Former political prisoner Mike Africa Sr joins Mike Africa Jr to discuss the events that led to his arrest, life in and out of prison, and the new film 40 Years a Prisoner.
- [On a Move with Common](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-common/) - Rapper and activist Common joins Mike Africa Jr to discuss activism, social justice, and the new film 40 Years a Prisoner.
- [On a Move with Mike Africa Jr. Teaser](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr-teaser/) - Get ready for On a Move with Mike Africa Jr
- [On A Move with Chairman Fred Hampton Jr.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/on-a-move-with-mike-africa-jr/on-a-move-with-chairman-fred-hampton-jr/) - Mike Africa Jr. is joined by Chairman Fred Hampton Jr. to discuss growing up as children of revolutionaries, activism, and the continuing the movement.
- [Denise Vasi is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/denise-vasi-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie's New BFF is actress, model, mama, and founder of Maed, Denise Vasi!
- [Thembi Banks is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/thembi-banks-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie's New BFF is filmmaker, director, writer, and retired tap dancer, Thembi Banks.
- [Jessica Burns is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/jessica-burns-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie's New BFF is Jessica Burns, wife, mama, and author of the book Golden Guidance.
- [Carmela Wallace is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/carmela-wallace-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie's New BFF is Carmela Wallace, mother of the late rapper Juice WRLD and founder of the Live Free 999 Foundation.
- [Marty McDonald is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/marty-mcdonald-is-my-new-bff/) - Marty McDonald, founder of Boss Women Media is Codie's new BFF
- [Mel Jones is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/mel-jones-is-my-new-bff/) - Filmmaker Mel Jones joins Codie have a candid conversation about filmmaking, parenting, and embracing the journey of self discovery.
- [Porsha Summerville Felicia GangloffBailey are Still My BFFs](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/porsha-summerville-felicia-gangloff-bailey-are-still-my-bffs/) - Porsha Summerville and Felicia GangloffBailey join Codie to have a raw and vulnerable discussion about Pregnancy and Infant Loss.
- [Dana Blair is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/dana-blair-is-my-new-bff/) - Dana Blair is Codie's New BFF and the two discuss social media, love, and how to extend grace to yourself.
- [TS Madison is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/ts-madison-is-my-new-bff/) - TS Madison is Codie's New BFF and the two discuss confidence, love, and what it means to be a role model.
- [Ashley Chea is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/ashley-chea-is-my-new-bff/) - Ashley Chea isn't a New BFF of Codie's, but their topic is Grief. Codie and Ashley get vulnerable about the loss and grief that have happened in their lives and how it has impacted them.
- [Mattie James and Maya Elious are my New BFFs](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/mattie-james-and-maya-elious-are-my-new-bffs/) - In this episode Codie is chatting with Lifestyle Blogger Mattie James and her sister brand strategist Maya Elious about everything from love to their futures.
- [Michelle Hope is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/michelle-hope-is-my-new-bff/) - This week Michelle Hope is Codie's new BFF and the two discuss everything from sexual health, to reproductive justice, to the weight and difficulties of navigating the pandemic world. cw sexual trauma
- [Mickey Guyton is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/mickey-guyton-is-my-new-bff/) - This week Codie is joined by an old friend who she's excited to reconnect with Mickey Guyton. The two discuss motherhood, being Black in country music, and what's next for her career.
- [My Mom is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/my-mom-is-my-new-bff/) - This week Codie is joined by her mother and discussing parenting, relationships, and a secret that Codie has always wondered about.
- [Monica Barnes is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/monica-barnes-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie's New BFF is the Steve Harvey Morning Show's executive producer, Monica Barnes! Known as the Mouth of the South, Codie and Monica discuss love, career and how to be okay by yourself.
- [Nina Westbrook is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/nina-westbrook-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie is joined by Nina Westbrook and discuss everything from motherhood to mental health. Plus how to find balance in nontypical lives.
- [Melissa Fredericks is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/melissa-fredericks-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie virtually sits down with mom, influencer, and entrepreneur Melissa Fredericks. The two discuss motherhood, love, and the journey to becoming the best version of one's self.
- [Melanie Fiona is My New BFF](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/melanie-fiona-is-my-new-bff/) - Codie sits with Melanie Fiona to talk love, pregnancy, music, and finding balance in life.
- [Introducing My New BFF with Codie Elaine Oliver](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/my-new-bff/introducing-my-new-bff-with-codie-elaine-oliver/) - Join Codie Elaine Oliver, cocreator and director of Black Love on the OWN network, as she interviews celebrities and influencers to get to the root of who they are beyond the public persona. These candid conversations will have everyone walking away with a New BFF.
- [What is Your Parenting Style??](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/what-is-your-parenting-style/) - Parenting is one of the hardest jobs on the planet.The one thing that we can agree on is that there isn't just one way to parent. People have so many opinions on how to manage your kiddos and it can be very overwhelming. There are days that you feel like you nailed it and then there are days where you feel like you are just a complete failure. Parenting styles is one of those things that you are always tweaking and adjusting because our littles ones are always changing. There isn't a one size fits all when it comes to parenting. So this week, Charisse gives you tips on how to develop a parenting style that works for you AND your little. Were here for you! So sit back, relax and hit play. Happy Parenting Friends!
- [Kids and Their Attachments](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/kids-and-their-attachments/) - There are plenty of things we, as adults, are attached to. For example, you may have a favorite hoodie, hat or even a favorite food. These things comfort us when life is being, ya know....life. For our littles, their attachment to us can make us feel special but it can also be the most frustrating thing, especially when you have adult responsibilities to take care of and your little is attached to your hip like that piece of tape that doesn't seem to want to let go! This week, Charisse gives you all the lowdown on how to help build trust in your child when they are having a tough time connecting to the other people in their lives. We know the preferredparent life can be great, but we also know that parents need a break. So grab a snack because we got you this week! Happy Parenting Friends!
- [Prioritizing the Lesson in the Moment](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/prioritizing-the-lesson-in-the-moment/) - Life is full of lessons. For kids, those lessons, just like life, can come at them quick. As parents, we have to use our judgement to decide when and where to teach those lessons. When our little is having a full meltdown, trying to teach them why whatever happened to them is causing issues isn't the best time. We parents have to have better timing because if we really want our kids to learn the lesson, then they need to be in a state that allows them to take in the info you are trying to teach. This week on the podcast, Charisse discusses when its the right time to teach these lessons and how to make sure your child actually listens and learns from that lesson! Happy Parenting Friends!
- [Picking the Right School for Your Child Part 2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/picking-the-right-school-for-your-child-part-2/) - We hope you saved room for part 2! Finding the right place for our littles, who are 05 years old, can be even more stressful than than finding the right school for our older kids. For a lot of our kiddos, this may be the first experience that is outside of the home for them. For some of us, this is the first time we are gonna separated from our child and we want to make sure that we are as comfortable with this school as we are in our own homes. But not to worry, take a deep breath we got you covered. Charisse takes you step by step through the things to look for and assess when you are searching for the right place to educate and keep our kids safe during the day when we can't be with them. Happy Parenting Friends!
- [Picking the Right School for Your Child Part 1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/picking-the-right-school-for-your-child-part-1/) - We can all agree, as parents, education is important for our tiny humans. But, picking the right school can make all the difference in overall health and well being for our kids. The right school can nurture our kids to grow up and be the adults that will change this world. Unfortunately, the wrong school may not tap into your kids super power so they can thrive. We know there can be a lot of pressure deciding the school that will educate your child but not to worry we got you! On this episode, Charisse gives you the tips and tricks to make sure your decision about school for your little ones is definitely an informed one! Happy parenting my friends!
- [Keeping Your Cool When Kids Get Spicy](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/keeping-your-cool-when-kids-get-spicy/) - Whoever said patience is a virtue never had kids. Keeping our cool while your little one is having a full meltdown in the middle of the aisle at the grocery store, isn't the time to be virtuous. Sometimes, the best way to combat that spicy child of yours is to not react to the screaming and crying by being the example of calm and peace that your child can rely on to guide them through the latest emotional outburst. Like Bruce Lee once said You must be like water Happy Parenting!
- [Back to School?...Already?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/back-to-school-already/) - Here we go people, it happens every year. Its ...Back to School Time! This time of year for us parents can be full of mixed emotions. Some of us are sending our littles to school for the very first time and some of us are just happy that someone else is going to keep an eye on them for a couple of hours. Either way, this time of year is always an adventure as you make sure your children have what they need to be successful. This week, Charisse discusses how you can make the transition back to school an easy one, not just for your kids but for you too. Happy Parenting!
- [The Screen Time Dilemma](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-screen-time-dilemma/) - Let's face it parents, having kids can be an adventure. Things like making sure these tiny humans stay healthy is a full time job. Screen time is one of those things in parenting that can be the thin line between having a good night and having a night where you might need a lil more wine in that glass. That's why Charisse gives you the lowdown on how you can help change the culture and feelings around technology with your littles ones. She gives you some tips and hacks to help make the relationship balanced between you, your child and technology.
- [Planes, Trains and Automobiles Summer Travel Edition](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/planes-trains-and-automobiles-summer-travel-edition/) - Kids plus travel equals chaos. When you have kids the days of getting up and just leaving for vacation are long gone, now preparing fro a vacation with kids can consist of making sure every uses the restroom before you leave the house or making sure that each child has head phones for their tablet otherwise its the theme song to Paw Patrol all the way to granny's house. However you travel this summer Charisse will give you some tips how to prepare your littles for traveling with the family.
- [Meeting Everyones Needs Through NonViolent Communication](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/meeting-everyones-needs-through-non-violent-communication/) - We all have needs, but trying to figure out what our tiny humans need at any given time can be one of the most frustrating things about being a parent. We get it! Its hard to get to the heart of the matter when our kid is having a full blown tantrum in the middle of Target. But, there's a path to making sure that your little gets what they NEED in that moment but also so you get what YOU need in that moment too. This week on the podcast, Charisse gives you the tools to be able to address their needs as well as yours using NonViolent Communication or NVC. How we communicate with our kids can be the difference between discourse and peace. Happy Parenting!
- [The Job Of Parenthood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-job-of-parenthood/) - When we say parenthood is a hard and thankless job with no raises in sight, we know you feel us. But nobody actually thinks of being a parent as an actual JOB. What if you did and you are the CEO of your very own small company? Let that sink in. What if you outsourced the work and, instead of dragging yourself through paperwork, aka doing the dishes, taking out the trash, and the bane of any parents job, doing laundry you just decided to delegate that task to someone else? This week, Charisse talks about how the job of parenthood can work for you if you change your perspective on how to take on the most important job in the world. Don't worry we know theres no clocking out but we in this together! Happy Parenting!
- [HELP! I've Got a Picky Eater!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/help-ive-got-a-picky-eater/) - We, as parents, always want to make sure our littles get the best care possible. Thats why when dinnertime comes around, what you put on the plate is made with the best nutrition possible to help them grow. Easy, right??? Nope! When your child takes that plate, the plate you put together with love, and tosses it across the room, you quickly realize its a chicken nugget night and its not worth the battle tonight. Dealing with picky eaters can be one of the most frustrating pieces of parenting, we get it. This week, Charisse gives you some tips on how to turn your picky eater from a pitcher into a little in the clean plate club. Happy Parenting!
- [Chores When Are They Ready?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/chores-when-are-they-ready/) - As kids, we never understood the importance of doing chores. Most of us just thought it was free labor for our parents, which at the time seemed unfair. Now, as adults and even more importantly as parents, we now see the value even if our kids don't. The struggle to find the balance in teaching our children how to take care of themselves, but also not cause a full on meltdown, can be a frustrating task. Not to worry! This week, Charisse gives you her thoughts on how and when is a good time to start implementing chores into your littles daily routine, without it being a combatant battle day in and out. Like we've said before, parenting can be hard and if we don't stick together these tiny humans can make us all seem a bit crazy at times. Happy parenting my friends!
- [The Hierarchy of Siblings](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-hierarchy-of-siblings/) - For those of us who have siblings, we all know there are days that we wish we were an only child. It's hard enough being a kid and trying to navigate social situations with strangers, but imagine having another person you have to live with and see everyday. What makes things even more challenging is that person also takes up time, attention and resources from you. Having a sibling can be frustrating but rewarding, and sometimes as parents we have this idea of what kind of relationship we want for our kids, and just like the unpredictability of life, sibling relationships can develop in the craziest ways. Charisse gives you the low down on how to create your Parent Package so you can plant the seeds for your kiddos so they can began to build a healthy relationship with their siblings on their terms.
- [Schools Out, Now What??](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/schools-out-now-what/) - Summer is officially here! Now that schools out and you don't have to worry about whose project needs to be done at the last minute you can relax, right?? Yes and no. This week, Charisse chats about how you can use some time to prepare and transition the kids for a more relaxing, but still productive summer. Allowing some time between the last day of school and summer activities is a chance for the whole family to reflect on the school year but it also allows time for YOU and your children to decompress mentally. While camp may not be for everyone, Charisse gives you tips on how to select what summer activities may or may not work for your child.
- [Mama Said There'd be Days Like This](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/mama-said-thered-be-days-like-this/) - CONTENT WARNING! This episode talks about heavy topics that include bullying, slurs, and sexual harassment. Hard conversations are apart of life and if you're lucky you don't have to have one with your kids until YOU are ready. Unfortunately, in todays world you can't always monitor what your kids are exposed to these days. Today Charisse talks about how to have a conversation with your child about the many things that are happening in todays society. Teaching your child how to be an advocate for themselves and others can be one of the most beneficial things you can teach them. We know its gonna be tough but we're here for you!
- [New Mom...Who Dis??](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/new-mom-who-dis/) - Being a mom is hard, plain and simple, but imagine being a new mom with little to no experience. This week, Charisse discusses how preparing for your special day can set you up for success once the baby is here. Leaning on the loved ones around you can help you get through those difficult times as a new mom. Charisse also chats about how building a Mommy Network can be a lifesaver, especially when you feel alone and as though no one gets what you are going through. Knowing your limits as a mom will allow you to be a better spouse, friend and most importantly a better mom!
- [You vs. The Kids Homework](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/you-vs-the-kids-homework/) - School is back and that means homework is back too! Just like our kids, homework is something that we as parents dread each year as our kids move up in grade. The Homework being given gets progressively more difficult. Anyone try to do this new math these kids keep bringing home? Homework and studying can be very stressful but lucky for us, this week Charisse drops some very helpful tips and hacks to make this new year with new homework roadblocks a lil less daunting. Happy Parenting My Friends!
- [Being Firm is Part of Gentle Parenting](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/being-firm-is-part-of-gentle-parenting/) - Did Y'all hear Melanie Fiona's Mama on the Mama's Den? This might surprise you, but Charisse it 100 team Mama Donna! This might surprise some of you who have heard the episode and think it's the EXACT OPPOSITE of gentle parenting. However this might surprise you....Mama Donna IS a Gentle Parent. Okay, stay with us here. Charisse is going to explain everything and by the end of this episode you'll understand not only why she stands 10 toes down with Mama Donna, but why being firm with your children is an important part of being a gentle parent.
- [How Do I Build Resilience in My Child?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/how-do-i-build-resilience-in-my-child/) - Sometimes when trying to protect our children, we are hindering their resilience. We're going to say that one more time. Sometimes when we try to protect our children we are ACTUALLY hindering their resilience. Now if you're clutching your pearls, just wait. Charisse is going to explain it to you. Our children are more capable than we sometimes give them credit for. In this episode Charisse shares what she has experienced as an educator and how we as parents can help them grow versus fixing them. Make sure you've listened to our episode on emotional regulation and dive right in!
- [The Power of No](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-power-of-no/) - Hearing the word No can be difficult to hear as an adult. Now, imagine a child hearing the word No. It can send even the most calm toddler into a fit of rage. Today, Charisse chats about how hearing the word no doesn't have to be a negative thing for your child. She discusses how saying no to your child and helping them to understand WHY you are saying no, can help them learn to cope when things dont go their way.
- [Reregulating our Dysregulated Children](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/reregulating-our-dysregulated-children/) - Children only know what they know. Take, for instance, that time you made them turn the TV off and they said you're mean! Then, when they were at the dinner table they told you that making them eat broccoli is mean. Now that you think about it, at school the other day, they told a classmate that the other kid in their play group was mean because they had a toy that your child wanted to play with right then and there. Here's the thing, chances are they don't actually think ANY of it was mean in the way that we as adults can process what mean actually means. However our little ones do not have the brain development that we do, and when they are yelling, or using hurtful language it can be hard to remember that! That's where today's episode comes in. Charisse has tips on how to regulate your little ones when they need help communicating what's going on with the. Plus, she shares gems on how to recenter ourselves when we are getting frustrated and need some support to keep on the gentle parenting journey.
- [Children are Tiny Humans Not Tiny Adults](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/children-are-tiny-humans-not-tiny-adults/) - You remember that moment before you had children when you pictured the group pictures in the matching outfits? Or the take your kid to work day? Or that moment where they would do all the cute things together? And now you're here with your seven year old screaming and hitting a punching bag because they feel like it and you're wondering what's wrong with them? Why are they like this? Now, you bought the child the punching bag to do exactly this, but you know YOU wouldn't do this. So why would this tiny version of you do it? And that's the problem. Children are NOT tiny adults. They're tiny humans. Too often we forget that children are still in fact children and we get frustrated with them for simply doing what children do. Today Charisse breaks down how to recognize when we as parents aren't giving our children space to be children, and what to do when they need help with regulation.
- [Is Gentle Parenting on Some White People Stuff?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/is-gentle-parenting-on-some-white-people-stuff/) - Welcome back friends! Charisse is a back with a couple questions from you all, our listeners! First Frenchy in New Jersey is dealing with a teenager who really REALLY wants to wear makeup, but it's a hard no for her. Here's a hint, we're going to reference one of our Pillars of Peaceful Parenting. Then, Charisse answers a listener in Detroit's question of how exactly to Gentle Parent in hostile territory. It's not as cut and dry as you might think!
- [Parenting is a Processing Job](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/parenting-is-a-processing-job/) - Charisse has been fielding all the questions lately about her absence and we hear you! Like all parents, she had to juggle all the things a spouse out of town, children in three different parts of the city, and coordinating with a babysitter and look, things did not go as planned. One of Charisse's little heavens did the babysitter DIRTY yall, like ran her out of the house with tears in her eyes dirty. And Charisse felt like the worst parent, the worst educator, and questioned this whole gentle parenting thing. But the truth of it is, there was a reason why her child was acting this way AND gentle parenting was not the cause. Sometimes we all need a moment to process what is going on. As adults, it is much easier than it is as tiny humans because we understand self regulation. Listen in as Charisse shares what processing looked like for her in this moment, what you can do as a parent when you feel like you're at the end of your rope, and how you can help your children learn how to process their very big feelings in a productive manner.
- [I Can't Get My Child to Listen](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/i-cant-get-my-child-to-listen/) - One question Charisse always gets is How do I get my child to listen? It seems to be a common theme amongst parents. Even our friends over at The Mama's Den have had that problem. One has to ask, is listening really the problem? There is a question that Charisse really hears when a parent asks her how to get their little ones to listen and it has nothing to do with listening and everything to do with respect.
- [The Pillars for Peaceful Parenting U L](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-pillars-for-peaceful-parenting-u-l/) - Welcome back friends! We are on the third installment of the PEACEFUL Parenting method, and this week we're back this week with letters U L! We've heard you've needed all the parenting tips and Charisse is ready to help! One common issue that keeps coming up is that I just don't know where to start! For the final two letters in the series Charisse breaks down why Understanding is so fundamental in parenting and how it ties into compassion. Plus, pillar L for Listening. Listening is probably what Charisse gets asked about the most but as she explains, what parents think is listening isn't just listening.
- [The Pillars for Peaceful Parenting E F](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-pillars-for-peaceful-parenting-e-f/) - Welcome back friends! We are on the third installment of the PEACEFUL Parenting method, and this week we're back this week with letters E F! We've heard you've needed all the parenting tips and Charisse is ready to help! One common issue that keeps coming up is that I just don't know where to start! In the next two letters in the series Charisse breaks down why being the Environment in which you're parenting in plays a huge role in your children's needs. Plus, pillar F for Friendship. Now Charisse knows this is going to be a controversial one, but just give her a minute to break down why you need to be your child's friend!
- [The Pillars for Peaceful Parenting A C](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-pillars-for-peaceful-parenting-a-c/) - Welcome back friends! Last week we gave you the first two letters of the PEACEFUL Parenting method, and this week we're back this week with letters A C! We've heard you've needed all the parenting tips and Charisse is ready to help! One common issue that keeps coming up is that I just don't know where to start! In the next two letters in the series Charisse breaks down why being Aware is key to being an amazing parent, and how connectedness is important to truly understanding your little one's most basic needs even when they're kicking trash cans.
- [The Pillars for Peaceful Parenting P E](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-pillars-for-peaceful-parenting-p-e/) - Welcome back friends! We've heard you've needed all the parenting tips and Charisse is ready to help! One common issue that keeps coming up is that I just don't know where to start! Look, that's valid. It seems like these days everyone has a different definition of what exactly gentle parenting is, AND Charisse isn't here to say that her way is the only way! But if you're a parent looking for a nice easy way to start, Parenting for the Culture has got you covered with the PEACEFUL Parenting method. Make sure you listen in to hear just what PEACEFUL is and what those first two letters have in store for you!
- [How Do We Cultivate Gratitude with our Kids?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/how-do-we-cultivate-gratitude-with-our-kids/) - Have you ever told someone exactly what you wanted for Christmas? Like you sent them pictures, your size, maybe you even sent the direct link to buy it? Then when Christmas rolled around and you opened up your gift that you were absolutely positive was the thing you wanted you were stunned to find something completely different? We as adults have mastered the art for the most part of finding a way to say thank you because we know that even though we didn't get the thing we wanted even if we made it really easy for them it was still a gift. Children do not come with said skill. Today Charisse shares how you can help guide your children through getting gifts that they do not want, and how to share gratitude all season long. Plus, you all have been asking and Charisse has got you... Santa. What to do about the magic of Santa! You all know what we mean
- [Holiday Pics and Gifts!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/holiday-pics-and-gifts/) - It's December and for a lot of us it's the start of the panic of the Holiday season! Charisse is here to help lighten the load. First on our mind are those perfect holiday pictures. It is hard getting all six of the little ones ready to take that photo to send out in the holiday card. What do we need to do as parents and caregivers to prepare our children and ourselves to make that experience an enjoyable one for the whole family? PLUS holiday gifts. We know that we all have a little bit of dread when it comes to picking out the perfect gift for every child. Is it the right gift? Will they get bored? Will it ruin my house? Charisse knows just what you are going through and is here to guide you through your gift buying journey.
- [Making Our Thanksgiving Plates](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/making-our-thanksgiving-plates/) - Hi Friends! Charisse is back from the Black Love Weekend and she is feeling replenished! But how does that turn into Thanksgiving tips for you and your little heavens? Well it's all about having a seat at the table. Listen in as Charisse shares what you can do to help your children feel included this Thanksgiving and all holiday season!
- [Stop Playing the Shame Game](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/stop-playing-the-shame-game/) - Shame has been weighing heavily on Charisse after she caught a clip from the 2021 Black Love Summit make sure you get your tickets to our 2022 Summit right now! where Bre discussed how shame from her childhood had affected her relationship with her partner as an adult. As parents we often use shame as a way to try to teach our children right or wrong, but does it really accomplish that? Listen in as Charisse breaks down the idea of shame, whether or not she believes we should be shaming our little ones, and what other options we have as parents to teach our children the lessons we are trying to get across instead.
- [Spooky SZN Tricks and Tips](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/spooky-szn-tricks-and-tips/) - Halloween is only a few days away and look if you don't have a costume for your little heavens, Charisse can't help you. What she DOES have tips for is navigating the chaos that is the Halloween experience. The sounds, the exercise, the SUGAR! There is so much stimulation that if you don't go into the day with a game plan you are going to get had. We've got your back parents! Planning for Halloween is as much about us as it is about our little ones. Listen in as Charisse drops gems to make sure that it's all treats for you this Halloween!
- [Setting Boundaries with Children](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/setting-boundaries-with-children/) - Children are just tiny humans. Just like us, they need boundaries to help understand how to function within the family. But if it was that easy you wouldn't be here at your wits end trying to figure out how to set them! Look, it's hard. Especially if your children are a bit older and you're trying to teach them boundaries while unteaching them another behavior that they know and love. This week Charisse has tips for teaching boundaries at all stages with a special shout out to one of our Mama's Den mamas Hey Codie! and a problem she's having with her twins.
- [School's Back in Session!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/schools-back-in-session/) - Y'all there are BIG developments in the Sims house! The littlest littles are all in public school!!! That's right the twins and the 7year old have all gone off to full school and Charisse is feeling some type of way. If you're wondering how she got to this point, you're not alone. A LOT of mamas in her mama community have asked the same thing. Where do you even start to have the conversation of what kind of schooling your children should have? Do you NEED to have that conversation with your children? Listen in for what that has meant for Charisse and how it has changed what her day to day has looked like since!
- [Impulse Control in Children](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/impulse-control-in-children/) - Parents are you wondering when your kids are going to stop unlocking that door and wandering out the house? Unbuckling that car seat? Getting into that cabinet? Spilling all the juice on the floor cause they think it's fun? Well, we got some bad news for you. They're probably not going to fully stop not for a while anyway, BUT there is hope! Listen in as Charisse explains just what impulse control means to children and how we as parents can empower ourselves to create spaces that don't allow for destructive behavior.
- [Parenting from Hellness to Wellness with David Wasicki](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/parenting-from-hellness-to-wellness-with-david-wasicki/) - Wellness. We all have heard the word. We all know we need some sort of wellness in our life, even though we don't have any sort of grasp on it. But as parents we know that we need to model better behaviors for our kids so we are out here TRYING. Which is why Charisse was so excited to talk to David Wasicki, CTNC. David is a girl dad of a toddler, the General Manager of Black Love Inc, a fellow podcast host, and a Certified Transformational Nutrition Coach. In addition to the balancing of all the things, David shares what his journey to wellness looked like, how being biracial shaped so much of his identity, how trauma can live in the body and so much more.
- [I CANT CALLLM DOWN!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/i-cant-calllm-down/) - I CAN'T CALM DOWN! If you're a parent there's a good chance one of your little heavens has yelled this at one point or another, and if you're like any normal human being you were probably frustrated at the jump. You probably told them to breathe or to just calm down or try to take a walk. As adults with fully formed frontal lobes, we often forget that children do not have all the tools and experience we have to regulate our bodies and we get frustrated. Well, Charisse is here to tell you to keep CALLLM. CALLLM. Listen in to hear just what this acronym stands for and how it can help you in those moments when your children are just having a blowout. We know every child is different and develops the tools they need to regulate at different speeds, so this is just as much as a tool to help you all out as parents as it is to try to help your little ones too!
- [Transparent Parenting with Yasmine Jameelah](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/transparent-parenting-with-yasmine-jameelah/) - Yasmine Jameelah is entrepreneur, journalist, and wellness advocate through her Transparent Black platforms, but she's also somebody's child. Today she shares with Charisse what her childhood looked like and what led her to her current successes. From being raised in the Christian and Muslim faiths and how her parents gave her the space to explore, to how her faith has been key in shaping her wellness journey Yasmine is open honest and vulnerable about it all. Plus, Yasmine drops all the gems for us parents and how we should demonstrate wellness for our children, and more importantly, why it's important for us to not feel shame around why us working toward wellness looks different.
- [How Do We Keep Our Little Ones Safe?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/how-do-we-keep-our-little-ones-safe/) - Do your kids know your name? Your full name? Not mama or daddy or mama Charisse but your government name? It sounds silly, but an incident that Charisse witnessed as she was dropping off her youngest children at school brought the thought of safety right to the front of her mind. As parents, we like to think that our children would know what to do if they were ever in trouble, but they're kids! It's our job to ensure that they've got all the tips and tricks to be safe in the case of an emergency. This week, Charisse shares what has worked with her children of all ages, and what we can do as parents just in case the worst does happen.
- [Tantrum Vs Meltdown](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/tantrum-vs-meltdown/) - Tell us if you've heard this story. we're out with the kids and we've had the BEST. DAY. EVER. We did all the best things, you know this is one of those experiences that will live in their little memory banks forever and it has definitely filled our hearts knowing that we have been able to to provide that for our kids. But then, it all changes. Yelling, screaming, kicking, the works. How did it all go wrong?! Don't worry!! It didn't! Welcome to the meltdown. This week PBS Early Learning Champion Charisse Sims shares what exactly a meltdown is and why it happens to our little ones. Plus, she gives tips on how you can best prepare yourself for the next meltdown, because there will unfortunately be others.
- [Slow to Warm Children](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/slow-to-warm-children/) - Does your child struggle with new experiences? Maybe they just like to hang on to you? We know it's hard to understand why everyone else's children seem to adapt to new experiences head on while yours is hesitant, but it's OKAY. There's a very good chance your child is just slow to warm. Listen in as Charisse breaks down what a slow to warm child is, what you can do if you have a slow to warm child, and why time can be a sham sometimes.
- [How Do I Get my Partner on Board?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/how-do-i-get-my-partner-on-board/) - Gentle parenting is a generational change for most of us, but we all have that one person who just doesn't get it. It might be a partner, a sibling, grandparents, etc. When you've made the decision to engage in gentle parenting sometimes pulling along the rest of the family is... well it's hard. This week, Charisse shares the struggles she's had with getting her husband on board spoiler alert it's still a journey. What has and hasn't worked for them and what tools are at our disposal to help get everyone on board?
- [The Importance of Black Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/the-importance-of-black-love/) - Charisse shares why finding a community of Black mothers is critical to those rasing Black children.
- [Preparing Children for Change](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/preparing-children-for-change/) - Charisse shares how you can prepare your children for change and transitions.
- [Parenting in the Shadows](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/parenting-in-the-shadows/) - Charisse shares what it looks like to parent in the shadows.
- [Navigating Changes](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/navigating-changes/) - Charisse shares tips to help your children through unexpected changes.
- [Dealing with Disappointment](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/dealing-with-disappointment/) - Charisse helps walk us through the warning signs of disappointment and what we can do to help regulate our children as they experience it.
- [How Do I Deal with my Manipulative Child](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/how-do-i-deal-with-my-manipulative-child/) - Charisse helps explain why a child might seem manipulative.
- [Charisse, I Need Your Help!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/charisse-i-need-your-help/) - Charisse answers some listener questions.
- [Is my Child Good?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/is-my-child-good/) - Sometimes we just need to check to make sure our kids are good. Are they developing the way they should? Are they gifted? Do they need some help? Charisse breaks it all down for us.
- [When We Yell at our Children](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/when-we-yell-at-our-children/) - It's okay to yell...sometimes. Charisse gives all the info on when you should and shouldn't yell at your children.
- [We Have to Do Something](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/we-have-to-do-something/) - Charisse reflects on the last week and how you can start the conversation with your little ones when tragedy strikes.
- [Talking Trauma with Kobe Campbell](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/talking-trauma-with-kobe-campbell/) - What do you do when a tragedy happens? What do you tell your kids? The mass shooting at the supermarket in Buffalo has Charisse evaluating how trauma shows up in her parenting, especially for Black people. In this episode Charisse welcomes Kobe Campbell, an awardwinning licensed trauma therapist, Christian counselor, writer media expert, and speaker to help navigate what the next phases in this conversation look like. And y'all, Kobe has all the gems. If you're not sure how to talk to your children, or how to rectify trauma within yourself, this is an episode you do not want to miss.
- [But That's Not Fair!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/but-thats-not-fair/) - Charisse breaks down what to do when our children start screaming about fairness.
- [Parenting with Codie Elaine Oliver](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/parenting-with-codie-elaine-oliver/) - It's Mother's Day and there is no better way to celebrate it than by talking to one of our favorite mamas! Shes a wife and mama of three boys. Plus she is the cofounder of Black Love Inc, the director of Black Love Doc, a podcast host, just all the things! Im so excited to talk parenting with Codie Elaine Oliver. Listen in as Codie shares the pivotal moments in her childhood, how she has navigated her career with the parenting, how she would describe her parenting style and more.
- [Communication and Cooperation](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/communication-and-cooperation/) - Tantrums. Yup, we've all experienced them with our children. However what a lot of parents don't necessarily understand is the root of what a tantrum is. Today, Charisse breaks down how children acting out means so much more than them just being difficult and what we can do as parents to help bring them out of it.
- [Stop Calling Me a SuperMom](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/stop-calling-me-a-supermom/) - Charisse needs us to rethink why we're so okay with calling mamas supermoms
- [This is Parenting for the Culture](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/parenting-for-the-culture/this-is-parenting-for-the-culture/) - This is Parenting for the Culture. A weekly parenting podcast brought to you by the Black Love Podcast Network.
- [The Mama Behind Gracies Corner How an Ordinary Family Built an Extraordinary Brand](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mama-behind-gracies-corner-how-an-ordinary-family-built-an-extraordinary-brand/) - Dr. Arlene Hollingsworth psychologist, Youtube creator, and mama of three shares how she and her husband, Javoris PhD, turned a family dream into Gracies Corner the viral YouTube series that celebrates Black culture through animated kids songs. But the road wasnt easy! From failed businesses and financial stress to finding their way as a family during the pandemic, Arlene reflects on how staying rooted in their purpose led to their breakout hit, The Phonics Song. This episode is for every parent chasing a dream while raising little ones proof that with patience and resilience, ordinary people can build extraordinary things.
- [Momfessions Part 2](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/momfessions-part-2/) - In this episode, the Mamas confess about the struggle of teaching kids good hygiene. Because baby! Keeping the house clean and dealing with ashy, stinky bodies is tough and tough situations call for tough love. Hear how the Mamas are trying to instill responsibility and independence without completely losing their cool.
- [Stylist Bec Gross on Dressing with Confidence at Every Stage of Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/stylist-bec-gross-on-dressing-with-confidence-at-every-stage-of-motherhood/) - Stylist Bec Gross joins the Mamas to drop her favorite tips for feeling cute and confident in your clothes especially for moms learning to love their postpartum bodies. From embracing your shape and dressing for your size, to building a wardrobe with key staples, Becs here to help you rediscover your personal style. If youre trying to be outside this season, Becs got the fashion hacks to make sure you look good and feel good!
- [Behind the Scenes with Brittany PerryRussell, Momager to a Rising Kid Actor](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/behind-the-scenes-with-brittany-perry-russell-momager-to-a-rising-kid-actor/) - Producer, Actor, Choreographer, and Momager Brittany PerryRussell is THAT GIRL! From dancing with icons like Ciara and Beyonc to raising a successful kid actor Isaiah RussellBailey, Brittany joins the Mamas to discuss managing her sons career while still chasing her own dreams. Theres no blueprint for motherhood, but for Brittany, being spiritled has always kept her aligned with a higher purpose. If youve ever thought about giving up on your own dreams, this episode is your reminder to keep going because Brittany is the Momager whos survived the hustle, come out on top, and still she rises!
- [Schools Almost Out for Summer And These Kids Need Somewhere to Go](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/schools-almost-out-for-summer-and-these-kids-need-somewhere-to-go/) - Schools almost out and summers almost here! In this episode, the Mamas share their summer break plans for the months ahead. From sports camps and play dates, to family vacations and lazy days at home the Mamas break down how they balance keeping the kids busy and letting them chill.
- [Kerry Washington on Being A BadAss Mama On the Big Screen and In Real Life](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/kerry-washington-on-being-a-bad-ass-mama-on-the-big-screen-and-in-real-life/) - Kerry Washington is in the Den! The Emmywinning actress, activist, and mom of three joins the Mamas to talk about her latest film, Shadow Force, and what its like to play a badass mom onscreen while navigating wifeandmom life behind the scenes. Kerry gets real about everything from her parenting partnership with her husband, Nnamdi Asomugha, to the moment she learned her father isnt her biological dad and how that revelation reshaped her personal and professional journey. Kerry and the Mamas also dive into what it takes to build a support system it's okay to ask for help! and how love is the greatest thing we can give ourselves.
- [You Are Your Childs 1 Advocate...Assistant Principal Julian Saavedra on Championing Your Childs Learning Needs](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/you-are-your-childs-1-advocate-assistant-principal-julian-saavedra-on-championing-your-childs-learning-needs/) - The Mamas welcome Julian Saavedra, Assistant Principal and host of The Opportunity Gap podcast, to discuss learning differences in kids of color and how to support their unique needs. Julian highlights the importance of destigmatizing special education, having open conversations with your child about their school experience, and building relationships with administrators to advocate for your childs success. With Julians guidance and the work of Understood.org underserved communities can take advantage of the tools available to help kids not only survive but thrive in school and help close the gap. Learn more Understood.org is a nonprofit that provides free, expertvetted resources for parents, kids, and individuals who learn and think differently. With their wide range of products, content, tools, and other resources, theyre shaping a world where everyone can reach their potential.
- [High Functioning AF...Finding Joy with Dr. Judith Joseph](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/high-functioning-af-finding-joy-with-dr-judith-joseph/) - We got a Doctor in the Den! Psychiatrist, researcher, and author Dr. Judith Joseph joins the Mamas for a powerful convo about highfunctioning depression, grief, and the struggle to find joy in daily life. Dr. Judith keeps it real about her own experience with depression and explains the highfunctioning challenges faced by highachieving women, particularly Black women. If youve ever felt the pressure to have it all together while struggling silently, youre not alone and this episode is for you! Dr. Judith's book, High Functioning Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your Joy, is available everywhere on April 8, 2025. Warning This episode contains mention of suicide from 0645 0800, which may be triggering for some listeners.
- [Michael Ealy is in the Den!...Breaking the Mold as a Modern Dad](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/michael-ealy-is-in-the-den-breaking-the-mold-as-a-modern-dad/) - We got a Daddy in the Den! Actor and father of two, Michael Ealy, joins the Mamas to talk about raising a boy and a girl. Together, they highlight the value of fathers being involved in their kids lives to all the dads at ballet class we see you!, the importance of communication between parents, and the need to appreciate each parents role. Michael shares lessons learned, from recognizing double standards why are girls called sassy but boys are assertive? to reminding us that dads juggle the same challenges moms do.
- [Saying Yes to Vulnerable Questions, Melanie's Tour, and Reading With Our Kids](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/saying-yes-to-vulnerable-questions-melanies-tour-and-reading-with-our-kids/) - This episode kicks off with a round of Were Not Really Strangers a fun card game designed to spark meaningful conversations. What starts as a friendly QA turns XXXrated because Ashley.surprise, surprise.... Then, the Mamas dive into a showandtell of their favorite kids books, celebrating new releases from fellow Black mamas and authors Tabitha Brown Hello There, Sunshine, Tamron Hall Harlem Honey, and Tika Sumpter I Got It From My Mama. Get the scoop on all the books the Mamas love reading with their little ones covering everything from diversity and equality to understanding emotions and selfdiscovery. MamasAgainstBookSleeves This episode is sponsored by Were Not Really Strangers. Get 20 off all products including the Kids edition card game! with the code mamasden.
- [The Mamas take on NYC for the Tamron Hall Show!...The Trip That Almost Didnt Trip](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mamas-take-on-nyc-for-the-tamron-hall-show-the-trip-that-almost-didnt-trip/) - In this episode, the Mamas relive their unforgettable girls trip to NYC a trip that almost didnt happen after Melanie hurt her back! From sisterhood sleepovers and Brooklyn meetups, to all the family and friends who showed up for them, the Mamas take a moment to soak it all in. What a journey going from a podcast born during the pandemic to representing Black motherhood on national TV. We love to see it!
- [Setting Kids Up for Success with Youth Behavioral Coach Marnesha Hall](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/setting-kids-up-for-success-with-youth-behavioral-coach-marnesha-hall/) - Marnesha is in the Den! If you've listened to The Mamas long enough, you have heard Fee rave about her kids' behavioral coach, Marnesha Hall. She joined the ladies of The Mama's Den to break down what a behavioral coach is and the benefits of having one for your kids. This episode explains the differences between behavioral coaching and therapy, how parenting dynamics impact your kids, and provides some helpful strategies to outsmart your little ones during their most challenging moments. Get your stickers ready because Marneshas advice will help both you and your child fill up your sticker chart.
- [Miracle Babies, Ovulation Calendars, and The Failed Pullout Going From A Mom of 1 to 2or 3](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/miracle-babies-ovulation-calendars-and-the-failed-pullout-going-from-a-mom-of-1-to-2or-3/) - The Mamas reminisce about their journey to adding baby 2 or babies 2 and 3 for Codie!, and share the ups and downs of managing the unique logistics and personalities that come with a growing family. From pregnancy stories to juggling schedules and sibling dynamics, this episode dives into the tools, challenges, and unforgettable memories that come with expanding your crew.
- [You Don't Have to Like It, But It Still Needs to Happen...GoTo OneLiners That Make Parenting Easier](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/you-dont-have-to-like-it-but-it-still-needs-to-happen-go-to-one-liners-that-make-parenting-easier/) - Melanie, Ashley, and Codie are back in the Den! Even though Felicias out this week, she still makes a stunning appearancebe sure to check out the YouTube channel for the visual! In this episode, the mamas break down a list of oneliners that make parenting a little easier, like you gotta do what you need to do, before you get to do what you wanna do a Melanie Fiona original. They also discuss teaching their kids about respect, validating their emotions while disciplining them, and giving kids autonomy in making decisions even when they want to curse! Throughout the convo, the mamas get a few surprise calls that tie right into a heartfelt Listener Letter this is an episode you wont want to miss!
- [Youve got questions, the Mamas have answers! A Listener Letter Episode](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/youve-got-questions-the-mamas-have-answers-a-listener-letter-episode/) - This week, the Mamas tackle Listener Letters on balancing romance, friendships, and managing meddling grandparents. They get real about the struggles of keeping their dating life alive because for some, dating has left the chat! and they share fun ideas for a cute date night or a little afternoon delight!. The Mamas also dive into the importance of setting boundaries when grandparents are doing the MOST, and discuss the challenge of holding onto old friendships while your kids' social life forces you to befriend other moms. Thanks to the Listener Letters because this episode is packed with practical advice for moms trying to keep their relationships and their sanity intact. Should the Mamas get a Listener Letter hotline? Let us know and send us questions at podcastsblacklove.com and on Instagram themamasdenpodcast.
- [Mom Guilt Is Not Ours to Carry with Tabitha Brown](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mom-guilt-is-not-ours-to-carry-with-tabitha-brown/) - If youve ever felt like you were stuck in the hard part of your story, Tabitha Brown is in The Mama's Den to remind youits okay to put yourself first! Tab's journey is a masterclass in faith, being present, and trusting that your moment is comingeven when it feels impossible. This week, Tabitha gets real about the tough seasons in her marriage, the moments she and Chance werent sure theyd make it, and what it really took to rebuild their relationship. She also shares how losing her mother shaped her, how she went from struggling in LA to retiring her husband and building an empire. Get your tissues and your journal because all the mamas left inspired after this conversation.
- [The Duality of 2025](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-duality-of-2025/) - 2025 is already doing the most! From navigating the impacts of the LA wildfires while parenting to facing the realities of a new president and trying to survive sleep amidst the middle of the night needs of kids, the Mamas discuss how and if they can find JOY when the world feels heavy.
- [You Gotta Pick Your Battles Disagreeing with Your Spouse on How to Raise the Kids](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/you-gotta-pick-your-battles-disagreeing-with-your-spouse-on-how-to-raise-the-kids/) - In this episode, were missing Felicia onefourth of our quartet. We miss you Fee! So Codie, Melanie, and Ashley get real about when they disagree with their husbands on parenting decisions from routines and discipline to visions for their kids futures. The Mamas share the importance of selfawareness, how they compromise with their partners, and how sometimes, you just have to pick their battles...Dont worry fellas, Ashley holds it down for the husbands pointofview! This ones a good convo for both sides!
- [Get Smarter with Blair Imani...The creator of Smarter in Seconds on Finding Love, Surviving Pregnancy Loss, and the Power of Social Media for Black Maternal Health.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/get-smarter-with-blair-imani-the-creator-of-smarter-in-seconds-on-finding-love-surviving-pregnancy-loss-and-the-power-of-social-media-for-black-maternal-health/) - The Mamas are joined by Blair Imani, creator of Smarter in Seconds, to talk about everything from working at Planned Parenthood to going viral in 2020 with her powerful, bitesized videos. She also opens up about her experience with pregnancy loss and how she's currently trying to conceive complete with a hot pregnancy tip from her auntie!. In honor of Black Maternal Health Week, Blair schools us on reproductive justice, and how to better support Black women and mothers for stronger maternal health outcomes. Get ready to take notes Blair drops gems and resources you wont want to miss!
- [Run It Back It's Never Too Late](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/run-it-back-its-never-too-late/) - Are you happy with all of your accomplishments? Far too often, we find ourselves reflecting on everything we have done and have the nerve to think we havent done enough. But lets get real, Mamas Den family, sometimes getting up in the morning IS the accomplishment. It's easy to fall into the trap of believing that we should be further than where we are right now OR that it's too late to accomplish all the things and dreams we've had. The Mamas share not only what they accomplished, but what they had hoped to have done at this point in their lives. Soon..we will be back to talk about what we are proud of in 2025. We have enjoyed running back some of our favorite episodes with you. Get ready for a new episode next week!
- [RUN IT BACK The Snapback](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/run-it-back-the-snapback/) - The holidays are behind us and some of us are thinking New Year, New Me and whatnot. But when you have had a baby or two....or four, there can be challenges beyond just hitting the gym. So, The Mamas are running back an episode where we talked about our pre and post baby bodies. Hear what we think about everything from snapping back to diastasis recti, cosmetic surgery and more. This episode was recorded before Tata and Kaia were even born, so things have changed. But give it a listen and then tell us if you want us to talk about how we feel about our bodies now!
- [RUN IT BACK Romanticizing Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/run-it-back-romanticizing-motherhood/) - Ahhh, motherhood.....the new baby smell, the cuddles, the cute questions, sweet tiny voices saying I love you.....the 1000 questions at bedtime, dragging 3 carseats on vacation, paying thousands of dollars at an amusement park to stand in long lines at the bathroom more than actually ride rides.....What did you think motherhood was going to be??? Dont worry, we will go first as we run it back to one of our all time favorite episodes about what we romanticized about motherhood before becoming moms. Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM to themamasdenpodcast on Instagram. Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley watermeloneggrolls Codie codieco Felicia felicialatour Melanie melaniefiona
- [RUN IT BACK Life Before Kids](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/run-it-back-life-before-kids/) - Want to know what we were like before we became moms? From the club or stage to jet setting, the Mamas of the Den are running it back to an early episode where we talked about our lives before becoming moms. It was a TIME!
- [RUN IT BACK Don't Get Too Comfortable](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/run-it-back-dont-get-too-comfortable/) - We are in that postThanksgiving, notyetChristmas period where many of us are playing supermom trying to do it all, so we figured you could use a reminder from one of our favorite episodes that this is a season....the holiday season AND a season in your and your family's life. Whether it's our kids growing and evolving or us as adults in all of our complexity, y'all know the saying....The only thing constant in life is change. Be present, learn what you can, and make the most of it. Most importantly you are not alone!
- [RUN IT BACK Allow Us To Reintroduce Ourselves](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/run-it-back-allow-us-to-reintroduce-ourselves/) - Its the holidays so we decided to go down memory lane to one of the first episodes we recorded introducing ourselves to our audience. We recorded this one before we decided on a name for our podcast its so funny to play this one back. Ashley only had 3 kids and Melanie was a mom of 1! Melanie even shares the origin of her love story with Jared! We hope you enjoy listening to this one as much as we enjoyed revisiting it.
- [What Would Love Do? with Dahn Ballard](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/what-would-love-do-with-dahn-ballard/) - The Mama's have a candid conversation with Dahn Ballard about her journey of raising her transgender child.
- [Getting Holiday Ready Live from Miami](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/getting-holiday-ready-live-from-miami/) - In this BRAND NEW episode, alongside Victoria Jenn Rodriguez of Banking on Cultura, the Mamas recorded live from Miami to share what tradition means to us in 2024. Baybeee.....it ain't what it used to be. We don't feel the need to make everything perfect year after year but we are sharing the big and small things that do matter to us when the holidays arrive. Mama's Den Village, what holiday traditions are important to you? Is there a specific story you want to share with us? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast on Instagram. Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley watermeloneggrolls Codie codieco Felicia felicialatour Melanie melaniefiona Follow along to see what city the Mamas end up in next!
- [The Journey to Marrying A Parent with Erica Grace](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-journey-to-marrying-a-parent-with-erica-grace/) - Author and attorney Erica Grace joins the Mamas to to provide valuable insight to anyone looking for advice on how to date a parent to develop healthy blended families.
- [Parenting Through Fear](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/parenting-through-fear/) - The Mamas share their tips on how to navigate tough and awkward conversations with their little ones plus a listener letter from a mom who needs advice on how to have the sex talk.
- [A Dad's Perspective with Omar Bolden](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/a-dads-perspective-with-omar-bolden/) - Omar Bolden, host of the podcast Nice and Neat, joins The Mama's Den to share his unique perspective as a new father. Omar discusses his parenting journey, the challenges and joys of being a dad, and the importance of creating spaces where men can be authentically themselves.
- [Building Community Live From The Black Love Summit](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/building-community-live-from-the-black-love-summit/) - The Mamas recorded live from the Black Love Summit in Los Angeles, jumping into a candid conversation about the importance of building communities where you can be seen and heard, especially during the journey of motherhood. From Melanie entering the music business without any preexisting relationships, to Felicia and Ashley being the first of their friends to have babies, and Codie desire to explore Black love, the four of them discuss pressing past fear and anxiety to create what they seek. The Mamas Den live conversation at the Black Love Summit was presented by Akina Connect, an incredible network and techdriven platform thats redefining how Black women, mothers and entrepreneurs connect, grow, and thrive. Learn more at AkinaConnect.com
- [Hopes and Dreams](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/hopes-and-dreams/) - The Mama's are sharing inspiration to chase your dreams and live in your purpose.
- [The M Word with Dr. Kendra](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-m-word-with-dr-kendra/) - Hot flashes, body changes, mood swingsoh my! Dr. Kendra Segura is in the The Mama's Den to chat all things perimenopause and menopause.
- [How Our Children Inspire Us with Tika Sumpter](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/how-our-children-inspire-us-with-tika-sumpter/) - Actress and mother Tika Sumpter joins The Mama's to chat about her new podcast The Adventures of Curiosity Cove and everyone shares how their motherhood journey has inspired their creativity.
- [Mothering with Marriage and Family Therapist Nina Westbrook](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mothering-with-marriage-and-family-therapist-nina-westbrook/) - Marriage Family therapist and wife and mother of three, Nina Westbrook, is in the Mamas Den and were talking about therapy, family, and how to heal from the trauma you may have experienced with your own mother, especially, when you enter motherhood. And don't miss a new podcast we've tapped into to give us helpful insights on our parenting journey, Opportunity Gap How to Support Kids of Color Who Learn Differently. Give it a listen here httpslnk.toopportunitygapPS!themamasden
- [QA With The Village! BONUS](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/qa-with-the-village-bonus/) - The Mamas are answering questions from none other than you all, the Village! Codie picked a handful of your questions and she, Ashley, Felicia and Melanie open up about how they all met, and how they manage making new friends while maintaining the old ones. The conversation goes a bit deeper when the Mamas express what they mean to one another and Ashley gets very candid about postpartum and the rules of teenage sleepovers! So Mama's Den Village, if you have a question you'd like to ask the Mamas, let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast on IG. Your question just may be on an upcoming episode!
- [Plastic Surgery and Pregnancy BONUS](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/plastic-surgery-and-pregnancy-bonus/) - You're going to want to listen to this one, Village! Melanie, Ashley, Codie, and Felicia talk about their feelings on plastic surgery, being pregnant, and medical integrity. Plus, you're going to want to stick around for our special guest today Codie's husband, Tommy! Tommy joins the Mamas to answer one of Fee's pressing questions and share his opinion on having more kids after three boys. So Mama's Den Village, how do you feel about plastic surgery? Do you have a story about your pregnancy or recovery you want to share with us? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can always submit a DM over themamasdenodcast on IG.
- [Check On Your Mom Friends](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/check-on-your-mom-friends/) - Summer is coming to an end... The Mamas are doing some girl chat and checking in with each other on mom guilt and how we manage it all.
- [Momfessions](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/momfessions/) - Before we were mothers, we looked at things a little differently. These are our honest opinions now that our lives have changed.
- [Cell Phones and Social Media... Help!!!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/cell-phones-and-social-media-help/) - The Mama's chat about how to handle when your child asks for a cell phone and access to social media.
- [Own Thy Shift with Blue Centric](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/own-thy-shift-with-blue-centric/) - Marie Telusma aka Blue Centric is joining The Mamas Den this week with tips on how to embrace the change youre entering into a new chapter in your life.
- [For Mamas And Soon To Be Mamas](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/for-mamas-and-soon-to-be-mamas/) - CMS Administrator, Chiquita BrooksLaSure is in the den to give the details on what the current administration is doing to combat the maternal healthcare crisis in the US.
- [Get Into The Cool Mom Code Podcast](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/get-into-the-cool-mom-code-podcast/) - Hey Mamas Den family! Our ladies are out this week, but youre in for a special treat today because we want to introduce you to our friend Lizzy Mathis, TV host, former model, mama of 3, COOL MOM, and host of The Cool Mom Code podcast! Every week, Lizzy invites some of the coolest and most influential moms around to have candid convos about their journey before kids and after how has motherhood impacted, elevated, or even imploded their relationships, career and all the in between. Her guest this week is the one, the only, mama of 4 and our sister and cohost, Ashley Chea!! Follow Lizzy at lizzymathis on IG and enjoy The Cool Mom Code Podcast, where motherhood is your keycard to the coolest spot in town.
- [IVF and Pregnancy with Ashley Blaine Featherson Jenkins](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/ivf-and-pregnancy-with-ashley-blaine-featherson-jenkins/) - Ashley Blaine FeathersonJenkins is in the Den to talk about her journey with IVF, plus each Mama lets her know what she can look forward to as a new mom.
- [Boy Moms CheckIn](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/boy-moms-check-in/) - While Ashley is out this week, Codie, Felicia, and Melanie are talking about the good and challenging parts about being a boy mom....and should Mama's Boys really get a bad wrap?
- [The Mama's Den Girlfriends Getaway](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-mamas-den-girlfriends-getaway/) - The Mamas took a quick road trip to Yaamava Resort Casino to take a break from the kids and enjoy some much needed rest and relaxation with a few of their friends. In their first live recording, listen in as they talk about the importance of friendships, and building your tribe to have your back when youre raising dem babies. You'll also hear the voices of Tai Beauchamp, Angel Laketa Moore, and Cassandra Freeman.
- [We Have 25 Kids Between All of Us with Karen Derrico](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/we-have-25-kids-between-all-of-us-with-karen-derrico/) - Karen Derrico, mom of the TLC show Doubling Down with The Derrico's joins the Mamas to talk about the upcoming season and how they make it work with 14 children.
- [Mama Glow with Latham Thomas](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mama-glow-with-latham-thomas/) - Latham Thomas, founder of Mama Glow is joining The Mamas Den to talk about self care, wellness and the work shes doing to advocate for Mamas everywhere.
- [Don't Take It Personal](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/dont-take-it-personal/) - This week the Mamas talk through how to deal when your little one gets rejected.
- [Ask An OBGYN with Dr. Kendra](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/ask-an-obgyn-with-dr-kendra/) - This week in the Mama's Den is OBGYN Dr. Kendra, answering questions about fibroids, when to take your daughters to see an OB and finding the right birth control.
- [Our Hair Story with Celeb Stylist Angela C. Styles](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/our-hair-story-with-celeb-stylist-angela-c-styles/) - Celebrity hairstylist Angela C.Stevens, is joining The Mamas Den to talk about life as a new mom, black women's hair care, as well as her children's book, Hair.
- [Elaine Welteroth Is In The Den](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/elaine-welteroth-is-in-the-den/) - Elaine Welteroth has joined the Mamas to chat about her new initiative BirthFund, to show love to midwives, and to answer a critical question in new friendships.....to FaceTime or not to FaceTime.
- [First Time Mama's Guide](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/first-time-mamas-guide/) - If only we knew this before becoming Mamas, but now that we do, hopefully this helps a mama, auntie, or anyone raising up a child.
- [These Kids Are Booked and Busy](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/these-kids-are-booked-and-busy/) - We're sharing tips on how to navigate the children's schedules with all these extra curricular activities.
- [Empowering Black Mamas with Midwife Kim Durdin](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/empowering-black-mamas-with-midwife-kim-durdin/) - Were using this episode to bring awareness to Black Maternal Health Week with midwifedoula and founder of Kindred Spaces LA Kim Durdin.
- [No Days Off](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/no-days-off/) - Whether you have a career or youre staying home with the kids lets face it, moming is still a 24hr job with no PTO. Also don't forget to support Mama Ashley, her book The Forever Journey drops on April 2nd!
- [What Type of Parent Are You?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/what-type-of-parent-are-you/) - Crying, lying and parenting The Mama's talk through all the things that helped to define their parenting styles to raise these chilrennn oh and we shed a few tears.
- [Churrrch](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/churrrch/) - This week the mama's are talking about how to navigate the questions of spirituality and religion with our little ones and how our personal beliefs play a role in our parenting.
- [The Stanley Cup Dilemma](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-stanley-cup-dilemma/) - The mamas share their tips on what they do to school their little ones on the value of a dollar. Our friends at the podcast Good Moms Bad Choices are going on tour. Go to httpsgoodmomsbadchoices.comtour for more info!
- [Pep Talk To My Younger Self](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/pep-talk-to-my-younger-self/) - Now that we are adults, here's the conversation wed tell our younger selves.
- [New Year, Newmerology](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/new-year-new-merology/) - Were back Mamas, 2024 is already in full swing and were sharing our goals and intentions for the new year plus we get a reading from a numerologist, because you know how we like to look to the stars.
- [Boundaries, Communication and Are You There God? It's Us, The Mamas.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/boundaries-communication-and-are-you-there-god-its-us-the-mamas/) - Mama's Den village! You've been asking and the Mama's are here to answer! What? Your questions. An Island Mama in Antigua shout out to our international listeners! needs some advice finding balance. Riley in Vegas needs help with setting up boundaries with her mother and with dealing with unsolicited parenting advice. Plus Yas in Atlanta is wondering what to do when looking for that connection with a god or higher power, but not necessarily with a specific religion.
- [Mommy Needs a Mental Health Day](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mommy-needs-a-mental-health-day/) - How we doing Mamas? Let's count today as our check in because Felicia, Ashley Melanie are talking about what they do to help explain their mental health needs to their children cause sometimes Mommy needs a mental health day. We have to be able to advocate for ourselves in a healthy way so our children know how to advocate for themselves in a healthy way! The ladies are going into speaking up, being true to who you are and teaching your children to do the same.
- [It's Time for Mariah!!!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/its-time-for-mariah/) - Whether you love Mariah Carey as much as the mamas do, we hope you can appreciate the transformative experience Ashley, Melanie, Felicia, and Codie had seeing The Queen of Christmas together at the Hollywood Bowl. Special shoutout to Ashley who made it all happen! Today, we recap the experience, discuss the value of friendships, old and new, and the impact music has on us and our inner children. Plus, Melanie opens up about an emotional experience she had with her mom at the concert...you might need some tissues for that one! So Mama's Den Village, how has music impacted your inner child and inner teenager? Do you have a specific Mariah story you want to share with us? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast
- [Life, Partnership...and Chaos](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/life-partnership-and-chaos/) - Let's be honest, Village, today was chaotic but we got there! The Mamas get into all things marriage partnership. Fee, Codie, Melanie, and Ashley discuss how to move through challenges with your partner, which relationships they look to for inspiration, and what it means to choose your partner. While they all have different relationships and perspectives, they're all in agreement that in every marriage you have to just do you! So Village, how do you face challenges in your marriage? Are there certain relationships you look up to? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast
- [Life and Friendships are Marathons](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/life-and-friendships-are-marathons/) - Get your tissues, Village. Things get a little emotional on this episode as Codie, Ashley and Melanie talk about the dynamics of adult friendships, self awareness... and half marathons. Two of the Mamas even work through a conflict in their own friendship and shed a few tears along the way. But it's important to note, no matter what anybody thinks, know that you're capable of doing whatever you set your mind to Mamas! Mama's Den Village, how do you resolve issues in your adult friendships? Is there a specific story you want to share with us? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley Codie Felicia Melanie Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!! 365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at . is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us on Instagram on Threads on Facebook on X
- [Celebrate Yourself!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/celebrate-yourself/) - Welcome back Mamas, today is all about birthdays! Codie, Ashley, and Melanie discuss how they celebrate their children's birthdays, the value of experiences over parties and embracing getting older. Plus, as Ashley's birthday approaches, she opens up the difficulties of having a birthday around the holidays and how her birthday celebrations have evolved since losing her sister. So Village, what is your ideal birthday celebration? How do you celebrate and embrace getting a year older? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley Codie Felicia Melanie Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!! 365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at . is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us on Instagram on Threads on Facebook on X
- [We Are Each Other's Biggest Fans](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/we-are-each-others-biggest-fans/) - After a short break our Mamas are back and Felicia has a question What are we working on in our lives personally and professionally? From reconnecting with ourselves spiritually, to new coaches, new books and new music A LOT has changed. The one thing we do know, we are all soooo excited for our friends and this new season of growth for all of us.
- [TMD Vault Allow Us to re Introduce Ourselves](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/tmd-vault-allow-us-to-re-introduce-ourselves/) - Are you new to the Mama's Den? Maybe you just don't know where to start? We know that some of y'all aren't going to go all the way back into our catalog to learn about all the Mamas. That's why we went deep into the vault Think June 2021 to get access to the first episode of The Mama's Den ever recorded. We're talking about before we settled on a name! Listen in as our Mamas, Ashley Chea, Melanie Fiona, Felicia La Tour and Codie Elaine Oliver share their journeys to marriage, motherhood and every thought along the way.
- [Going International.Without the Kids](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/going-international-without-the-kids/) - Felicia's back, Village! So it's only right she gives all the tea and revelations from her trip to Thailand. The Mamas also get into their perspectives on letting your partner take care of everything, spirituality within your family, and feeling mom guilt while away from your children. While Fe, Codie, Ashley and Melanie all have different points of view, they're in agreement that every Mama deserves to make time for herself and her partner without the children from time to time! So Village, have you taken a big trip without your children? If so, what do you do and what did you learn? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley watermeloneggrolls Codie codieco Felicia felicialatour Melanie melaniefiona Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!!365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope Blackowned marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before!October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to blacklove.comSUMMIT now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at podcastsblacklove.com. BLACK LOVE, INC. is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us blacklove on Instagram blacklove on Threads blacklovedoc on Facebook blacklovedoc on X
- [Secure Relationships With Your Kids, Partners, Parents](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/secure-relationships-with-your-kids-partners-parents/) - Okay Mamas, social media sparks a lot of conversations these days. So Codie, Ashley and Melanie are giving their opinions about a post shared on Instagram that listed 5 things parents should do if they want to have a secure relationship with their children. The Mamas also talk about holding space for their childrens emotions and reflect on their relationships with their own mothers. Mama's Den Village, do you agree with the 5 steps of having a secure relationship with your child? Do you have another step you would add to the conversation? Let us know your point of view over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley watermeloneggrolls Codie codieco Felicia felicialatour Melanie melaniefiona Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!!365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope Blackowned marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before!October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to blacklove.comSUMMIT now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at podcastsblacklove.com. BLACK LOVE, INC. is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us blacklove on Instagram blacklove on Threads blacklovedoc on Facebook blacklovedoc on X
- [More Than Just a Mother](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/more-than-just-a-mother/) - Whats happening, Mamas? Felicia is in Thailand living her best life while Codie, Melanie, and Ashley are talking about what it means to be just a mother and more. The Mamas also explore what it means to truly be living in your purpose and supporting your kids decisions despite what you may want for them! So Village, are you fulfilling your childhood dreams or did you figure out your purpose later in life? Let us know your point of view over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley Codie Felicia Melanie Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!! 365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at. is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us on Instagram on Threads on Facebook on X
- [Love, Healing and Friendships](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/love-healing-and-friendships/) - Lets be honest Village, life can be hard. But understanding our own emotions and verbalizing how we're feeling can make some days a lot less difficult. In this episode, the Mamas discuss their perspectives on learning about themselves through their children, how they show their emotions in different situations, and how their astrological chart comes into play with who they are. The Mamas also dive deep into navigating friendships through different growth paths. And we cant forget to shout out Ashely and her husband, Chea, as they celebrate their 8year wedding anniversary! Mamas Den Village, can you relate to any of the discussions we had in this episode? If so, let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can Fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over at themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley watermeloneggrolls Codie codieco Felicia felicialatour Melanie melaniefiona Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!!365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope Blackowned marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to blacklove.comSUMMIT now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at podcastsblacklove.com. BLACK LOVE, INC. is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us blacklove on Instagram blacklove on Threads blacklovedoc on Facebook blacklovedoc on X
- [Its Holiday Season Time To Get Festive!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/its-holiday-season-time-to-get-festive/) - Welcome back Village! As Halloween approaches, the Mamas discuss their family costumes, traditions, and what decorating looks like at their house or lack thereof. Codie, Ashely, and Felicia even convert Melanie into the Halloween spirit! But an interesting debate begins when Ashley mentions shes really just ready for Christmas and Mariah Carey! So Mamas Den Village, what does Halloween look like in your household? Do you have an iconic family costume idea you want to share with us? Let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley watermeloneggrolls Codie codieco Felicia felicialatour Melanie melaniefiona Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!! 365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope Blackowned marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to blacklove.comSUMMIT now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at podcastsblacklove.com. BLACK LOVE, INC. is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us blacklove on Instagram blacklove on Threads blacklovedoc on Facebook blacklovedoc on X
- [Dont Get Too Comfortable Everyones Evolving](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/dont-get-too-comfortable-everyones-evolving/) - Whats up Village? Are you experiencing a shift with how you parent? Codie, Ashley, Felicia, and Melanie definitely are as the mamas give their different perspectives on the everchanging balancing act of navigating their childrens emotions. Plus Fe shares why we all might need to call a behavioral therapist! So Mamas Den Village, what are your current parenting growing pains with your children? Let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can Fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over at themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley watermeloneggrolls Codie codieco Felicia felicialatour Melanie melaniefiona Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!! 365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope Blackowned marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to blacklove.comSUMMIT now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at podcastsblacklove.com. BLACK LOVE, INC. is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us blacklove on Instagram blacklove on Threads blacklovedoc on Facebook blacklovedoc on X
- [Fee is Definitely in Love](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/fee-is-definitely-in-love/) - Okay village! We know you've peeped it on her gram, that you've heard bits and pieces on the pod, and TODAY you get to hear it straight from Fee herself! Luckily we've got Mrs. Black Love aka Codie Elaine Oliver here to help get all the facts, but we know you've been wondering just how she met her new boo. What was it like introducing him to her kids? What work did she need to do on herself to get ready for a new partner? We're getting into all of it today! Y'all we LOVE this for our sis!
- [Wearing All the Hats, Being the Bonus Mom, and Summertime Panic](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/wearing-all-the-hats-being-the-bonus-mom-and-summertime-panic/) - Mama's Den village! We're headed back into our DMs to answer some of your questions. A long time Black Love fan is wondering how to balance being a woman who wears many hats AND navigating being a first time mom with no family nearby to support her. Dani out of Los Angeles needs some bonus mama advice from Felicia, and a mama in Memphis needs help navigating what to do with the kids for the summer! Have our Mamas figured out their situation yet? Let's hope so, it's practically July PLUS Micayela in Cleveland needs help navigating nonsupportive family members.
- [The Perfect Find with Numa Perrier](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-perfect-find-with-numa-perrier/) - Mamas! The new movie The Perfect Find produced by our very own Codie Elaine Oliver is out THIS FRIDAY on Netflix. Today we have the film's director Numa Perrier in the Mama's Den to chat all things motherhood! If you don't know Numa, let's get you caught up! She's a multitalented actor, director, writer, and visual artist who has emerged as a premier voice in the film and television landscape with The Perfect Find being her feature debut. PLUS she's a mama to a soon to be teenager and a bonus mama! We dive into what it's like to follow your dreams while balancing motherhood. What it's like to come into a family dynamic as the step mother, and just what did her daughter think when her current husband was ready to pop the question?
- [Finding Our Corners of Joy](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/finding-our-corners-of-joy/) - Ajike AJ Owens was a mother of four who was fatally shot after she reportedly knocked on the door of her white neighbor's residence to retrieve her childs iPad, and the story has been weighing heavy on the ladies. What do you do when it feels like it's nonstop? What can we do as Black mothers to negate the feeling of hopelessness? Can we do anything? As the ladies discuss, sometimes the most revolutionary acts are finding the moments of joy in their corners of the world.
- [We are Like our Mothers Our Children are Like Us](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/we-are-like-our-mothers-our-children-are-like-us/) - Whew! We spent all of May talking with our Mama's and it was amazing to hear not only what raising our Mama's Den mamas was like, but how they feel about how they are raising their little ones! If you missed it, we'll give you some links below. Today, our mamas reflect on what it was like hearing from their moms. What surprised them the most? What made them feel validated in their motherhood journey? PLUS what did our mamas hear that has them looking at their children a lil differently?
- [The Grandmama's Den with Mama Laurie](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-grandmamas-den-with-mama-laurie/) - We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! Today we are wrapping up our Mama's mamas conversations with Somebody's Mama's Mama. That's right we got Felicia's mom in the Den! Mama Laurie is the youngest of our Grandmamas, but look she was not one to be played with! She shares what it was like being a single mom, what it was like raising Fee PLUS what does she admire about how Felicia parents her children?
- [TMD Vault Sometimes Submission is a Love Language](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/tmd-vault-sometimes-submission-is-a-love-language/) - Hey Mamas Den Village! We're going into the vault today for a NEVER BEFORE heard episode from June 2022. Why was it never heard? Well, so you can hear it now! Let's talk about submission? Is it a dirty word? Why do some women feel that it's a nonstarter in relationships? What do our ladies minus Codie who was out filming The Perfect Find which you can watch right now on Netflix, think about submission? How else does submission tie into other facets of love and relationships?
- [Introducing Parenting for the Culture, a show from The Black Love Podcast Network](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/introducing-parenting-for-the-culture-a-show-from-the-black-love-podcast-network/) - Hey Mama's Den Village! Our ladies are out this week, but we want to introduce you to our friend Charisse Sims and her podcast Parenting for the Culture! Charisse is a mama of 6 !, wife, and early childhood educator who knows a little about the ins and outs of parenting and more specifically GENTLE PARENTING.
- [Who Are We Outside of Motherhood?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/who-are-we-outside-of-motherhood/) - A change in Felicia's coparenting arrangement has her discovering more about who she is without being a fulltime mother. This, in turn, has her wondering if the rest of the Mama's Den crew knows exactly who they are outside of motherhood and how they came to those realizations. PLUS what does it look like to try and find balance inside of motherhood with partners, fathers, and even the children? What are those expectations of what it is to be a mom? How are we handling the thought and concept and occasional real feeling of mom guilt?
- [Motherhood Needs to be a Better Paying Job!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/motherhood-needs-to-be-a-better-paying-job/) - Motherhood is a job! No really. If we weren't doing it, and in those moments where we can't watch the kids, we have to pay someone else to do it. It is a whole job! Now why is it that it doesn't get treated that way? Today, Ashley, Felicia, and Melanie you gotta make sure you're following the Black Love socials to find out what Codie's been working on! are speaking on not only that, but on finances in general. Prenups? Splitting the household finances? We're getting into all of it!
- [These Children are Challenging!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/these-children-are-challenging/) - You will never have more patience than your child has, but you have to try. Y'all Ashley has the bars today! Codie is out doing some super secret stuff yall just need to follow Blacklove on IG to keep up and the ladies are talking about these babies. Sometimes it's hard when they're yelling at you and can't communicate in the ways that we, as parents, want them to. Fee shares what she has recently done to help make sure that Zen has all the tools he needs going forward that we think is a total game changer!
- [Marlo's in the House! aka Welcome Blair Paysinger](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/marlos-in-the-house-aka-welcome-blair-paysinger/) - Marlo's in the House! If you've been riding with us from day one you've heard the ladies talk about Blair, and today she's here to defend her honor. We kid! Aside from all the stories you've heard on the pod, what you might not know about Blair is that she's a mama of 2, a wife, an entrepreneur, and so much more. We know that you're going to find her to be just as dope as we do!
- [The Grandmama's Den with Mama Laura](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-grandmamas-den-with-mama-laura/) - We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! Today all the way from Columbus, Ohio is Mama Laura! And yes, you can call her Mama Laura. Does she think she and Ashley are alike? What advice does she have for parents today? Also, Ashley asks what was the hardest part of parenting after losing a child?
- [The Grandmama's Den with Mama Donna](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-grandmamas-den-with-mama-donna/) - We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! Felicia is out taking care of her babies, but guess which mama came by to defend herself? That's right! Ready to hold it down TEN TOES DOWN it's Melanie's mama The one and only Mama Donna! You think you know all the stories, but Mama Donna is here to share everything. Is there anything that we haven't heard yet? Does she have ANY parenting regrets? What advice does she have for parents now?
- [The Grandmama's Den with Mama Renee](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-grandmamas-den-with-mama-renee/) - We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! First up is Mama Renee, aka Suga, the Mama to Codie. Mama Renee is a mama of two, and a grandmama to all boys. What are her thoughts on how Codie is parenting? What was it like to be a parent and entrepreneur back in the day? What was it like coparenting Codie after her divorce? PLUS what is it like to be on the other side now and enjoying the grandparent life?
- [Good Mamas Bad Choices with Jamilah Mapp and Erica Dickerson](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/good-mamas-bad-choices-with-jamilah-mapp-and-erica-dickerson/) - Mamas! We've got some of our favorites joining us in the Den today! Jamilah Mapp and Erika Dickerson are best friends, single mothers, and the creators of the Good Moms Bad Choices podcast! Now we can call them published authors with the arrival of their new book A Good Moms Guide to Making Bad Choices. Erica and Jamilah share how they met, the importance of Mom friends, their opinions on Mom Guilt and what you can expect in the book! They also have an amazing Mother's Day contest that you can enter! Plus, which one of our Mamas was Erica eying to join their podcast?
- [Destiny's Twins, Summer Activities, and Regulating These Babies](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/destinys-twins-summer-activities-and-regulating-these-babies/) - Alright Mamas we've gone from Destiny's Child to Destiny's Twins as Ashley is out working and Felicia is out sick, but Codie and Melanie are holding it down for you! Was Spring Break as long for you as it was for us? Have you figured out what you're doing to keep your children entertained for summer? Melanie and Codie discuss all the activities AND serve as your gentle reminder that NOW is the time to start looking at summer programming. PLUS, Codie needs advice when it comes to the twins which leads into a whole other conversation about how we have to learn not only what our children need, but how to regulate their emotions whew!
- [Traveling with Children Who Aren't Ready for Traveling](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/traveling-with-children-who-arent-ready-for-traveling/) - There was a moment of...need... in the Mama's Den group chat. Ashley needed some advice?, about her next excursion with her family. And let's be real here, this isn't just a normal trip for the Cheas. When they return, they will be returning to a new home. There are a lot of new moving parts with a lot of new stresses hence the need for her Mama village! In this episode the Mamas talk not only about what you can do to get the kids ready to travel, but what it's like to have kids that just aint ready to make that trip. Cause look...sometimes those littles one aren't about it.
- [Sonic Shirts, How Much Jail Time Would You Do For Your Kids, and More Listener Questions](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/sonic-shirts-how-much-jail-time-would-you-do-for-your-kids-and-more-listener-questions/) - You've asked and our Mama's are here to answer! That's right it's listener question time, and y'all are getting straight to the point this time around. An anonymous listener in Chicago wants to know if it's wrong to cut off a bad friend? CrysShine c'mon Instagram handle! in Wilmington, DE wants to know how to handle tantrums. A friend or foe from Codie's home state of Texas wants to know just how far each one of our Mamas would go to stand up for their kids, and more!
- [Vaginas Are Magical with Kim Durdin](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/vaginas-are-magical-with-kim-durdin/) - It's Black Maternal Health Week and the Mamas have brought in Kimberly Durdin who is a Licensed Midwife, Internationally Board Certified Lactation Consultant, Childbirth Educator and Doula Trainer, Plus she's a mother of six and grandmother of five! She and business partner Allegra Hill are coowners and cofounders of Kindred Space LA, South LAs only Blackowned Birth Center and hub for midwifery care, doula support and training, lactation consulting, education, parenting support group, enrichment and movement. So needless to say, she knows a thing or two about maternal health! Kim is here to give us some of the details about birthing that we just don't know. Things like the difference between a doula and a midwife, or what's better pain meds or natural? Should we as Black women be avoiding hospital births? We're not saying Kim has all the answers, but this is definitely a starting place for anyone who is asking questions!
- [Thriving and Surviving with Tiffany O.](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/thriving-and-surviving-with-tiffany-o/) - Hey Mamas! We've got a bit of a different situation this morning. Felicia is out doing mom duties and Melanie is tending to a house emergency so Ashley's best friend Tiffany O. aka Kyla's mom to help keep the Mama's Den going! Tiffany and Ashley have known each other since they were toddlers in Columbus, OH. However, their friendship truly started in high school just so you all know how long their bond goes back! PLUS their daughters have been best friends since out of the womb. Tiff and Ashley have been there for each other for just about every major milestone, including the unexpected loss of their siblings which has the ladies wondering are they in a space of thriving or surviving with the loss of their loved ones?
- [Squeezing and Flicking and Tucking and...Discipline?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/squeezing-and-flicking-and-tucking-and-discipline/) - Mamas, Felicia has a new experience with Zen and she needs to know if the rest of y'all raising little boys have experienced it... Morning wood. Don't laugh! Okay laugh a little, but today we are talking through it all! What do you tell your children when they first have those natural experiences? Is there a right time or a wrong time to talk to your children about their bodies? Have you been thinking about having this talk with your children since before you even had them like Codie? She even read a whole article to try and prep herself Plus, Melanie has finally watched a bit of the Parent Test and she's got some thoughts.
- [That Corporate Mommy Life](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/that-corporate-mommy-life/) - Codie's best friend Kim is in town and Felicia is out for the day and the Mamas have all the questions about building a career before children. As you may or may not know our Mamas all had their children very quickly into their relationshipsmarriages. Kim and her husband, however, waited five years before having a child. What is it like to have children after climbing the corporate ladder? Do relationships stay the same? Get stronger? Fall apart? We ain't got all the answers, but Kim is here to share her personal story and we are fascinated.
- [What's Your Parenting Style?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/whats-your-parenting-style/) - Would you let your child wave in the air like they just don't care? Did you know that is part of a type of parenting style? Listen, Ashley and Felicia have been watching this parenting show that has them wondering all the things. Is there one good type of parenting style? Should we as parents only stick to one way? Have we been to strict with our kids? Listen in as the Mamas discuss not only their parenting styles, but how it has evolved as they had more children.
- [Would You Get a Gun?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/would-you-get-a-gun/) - A friendly conversation about Ashley's home makeover quickly turns into how does one go about protecting the home? More importantly would any of the ladies get a gun? It's a question that is heated, genuine, and touches on not only the necessity for some, but the real fears, and the situations that have had the ladies think twice about their opinions.
- [A Mama's Den Valentines](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/a-mamas-den-valentines/) - Valentine's Day is tomorrow and the ladies of the Mamas Den are ready thanks to the help of one Felicia La Tour! Listen in to hear how the Mamas do Valentine's Day with their children, how it's evolved over time, love languages, expectations of their partners, and some last minute pick ups you can grab if you're trying to scramble to put something together for this micro holiday!
- [Welcome Back Mamas on the Brink!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/welcome-back-mamas-on-the-brink/) - Welcome back to the Den Mamas! We know you've been waiting for us to come back and we're recharged and ready to get back to talking about all of the things. We didn't know a better way bring us back in than by answering some of your questions! What should one do when a coparent ain't acting right? What's Black History month like in Canada? and a shout out to all the Aunties! We love our Aunties here!
- [You Can Choose Faith or Fear](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/you-can-choose-faith-or-fear/) - Mamas, Aunties, Ladies, and even the Fellas....we're NOT back! BUT we know that you've been feenin worse than Jodeci for NEW Mama's Den episodes so we wanted to drop a special episode to help get you through the weekend. In this very special episode, the Mamas share how these kids have been keeping them on their toes. What does it look like to keep going when everything seems to be going wrong? Plus, what makes every single one of the ladies cry mid episode?
- [This is Halloween](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/this-is-halloween/) - BOO! It's Halloween time and we don't know about our community but for us over here in The Mama's Den it has come up on us QUICK! Today the Mamas are talking everything Halloween from last minute costumes, to actual Trick or Treating plans, and just what do you do with all that free candy? Plus Melanie shares a Halloween story about how her mother leveraged Halloween into her parenting.
- [These Kids Smell Like Outside](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/these-kids-smell-like-outside/) - Today's episode is brought to you commercial free by our friends at PROUDLY. The Mama's Den is glad to bring you a a special deal just for our Mama community! Save 20 off your order of at least 50 excluding subscriptions with code BLACKLOVE! Shoutout to PROUDLY for looking out for our melanated babies! Mamas, do you remember your first time you brought home your first born? That new baby smell? The all new terrifying reality of BATHTIME! That first bath can be very scary for new mamas, and as we all know, it doesn't necessarily get much better as these kids get older. Sometimes convincing these kids to get in the damn tub is HARD! Listen in as the Mamas share some of their bath time routines or lack there of and what has and hasn't worked for them along their parenting journeys.
- [We Are Burned Out](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/we-are-burned-out/) - Mamas we gotta be honest with you, we are burned out. We are tired. Our lives, our businesses, social media, it seems like it's coming from all directions. So we're just gonna talk about it. What do we do when it feels like we can't push any further? How has hustle culture gotten us here? Pull up and let's have a conversation.
- [Infidelity, Incontinence and Individual Time with the Kids](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/infidelity-incontinence-and-individual-time-with-the-kids/) - It's Monday and the Mamas are back to answer some of your questions! Have any of them ever dealt with infidelity in their marriages? How do they find ways to spend quality time with each of their 50 eleventy kids? Plus we get confirmation on the strength of Ashley's vagina. Yup, you read that right!
- [Figuring out Friendships After Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/figuring-out-friendships-after-motherhood/) - Ladies, we've heard how hard it's been to maintain friendships are to maintain after... well... everything. After you get into a relationship, after your twenties, after you have kids, but real talk...should it be hard? Today the Mamas have a conversation all around friendships. Truth be told, some friendships have expiration dates. Or maybe, we haven't exactly been the best friends to people in our lives? Listen, we're getting into all of it today!
- [Happy Mama Holidays!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/happy-mama-holidays/) - Tis the season for all the things events, gifts, holiday parties, colds we miss you Melanie!, and trying to stay on top of everything that still needs to get done. Our Mamas recap Felicia's amazing Merry and Mindful event, and why we have a tendency to sell ourselves short even though we have no reason to do so. Plus, Felicia, Codie and Ashley share their current Christmas traditions. Apparently we're all missing out on Elf on the Shelf, fake trees are better than real trees, and 3 gifts is what we should be maxing out on for our kids.
- [Life Before Kids](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/life-before-kids/) - What was life like before motherhood? Do you remember it? Were you in the club living your best life? Chasing those career dreams? Sometimes it's easy to forget just what things were like before we had these children in our lives, and what we thought our lives would be. Today the Mamas are sharing just what their lives were like before motherhood. What were the career dreams? Did they always want to be moms? How did that first child change that life plan?
- [Gifts, Vaginas, and Colds](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/gifts-vaginas-and-colds/) - The Mamas are just catching up this week and they're talking about everything . First with the holidays fast approaching gifts are on everyone's mind and everyone has very different opinions on what types of gifts they life to receive. Plus, at what age do women stop wearing underwear? Is there an age? Does it depend on the vagina? Also, it's cold season! What is everyone's favorite cold remedies? It's just a fun conversation between friends. So shake off the turkey hangover, stake out your cyber monday claim and listen in!
- [A Mama's Den Thanksgiving](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/a-mamas-den-thanksgiving/) - It's Thanksgiving week! Felicia is out taking care of a sick little one but the rest of the Mamas are here with their Thanksgiving plans. What traditions do each of our Mamas look forward to the most? PLUS Travel tips! Look, we know that a lot of our Mama's Den village is wondering how to get in and around the airport this holiday season and we've got you covered! Melanie, Ashley and Codie are pros when it comes to traveling with these kids, and they know just what you need to make it through the busiest travel season of the year.
- [When Do Kids Holla At Each Other?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/when-do-kids-holla-at-each-other/) - These KIDS are crushing!! We were not ready! Nothing is sacred and they are starting YOUNG. One of Codie's twins has already developed a crush. Felicia's daughter Peace has willed her crush into the universe. Ashley's daughter went and kissed someone and Melanie's son is ready to take someone out on a date he's 6. Of course it's all innocent because they're children, but now the Mamas are thinking about the future and what will it look like when their kids bring home their first serious partner? Do we as parents have certain expectations of our children? Let's talk about it!
- [Picky Eaters, What's Wrong with Fresno, and Savage Mom Punishments](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/picky-eaters-whats-wrong-with-fresno-and-savage-mom-punishments/) - IT'S CODIE'S BIRTHDAY!!! It's also Halloween, but it's CODIE'S BIRTHDAY!! Insert party horns So we decided to go into our Grab Bag and answer some of your questions! Monique in Charlotte wants to talk about conscious parenting, Sherry in Houston needs help with a picky eater, Ellen in Fresno has our Mamas ready to roll up, and Farrah Columbus GA wants more parenting tips from Melanie's mom y'all!. We are here for you so make sure you keep asking all the questions, and go wish Codie a happy birthday!!
- [These Morning Routines](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/these-morning-routines/) - Mamas! Ladies! All you people listening! How are your mornings holding up? The Mamas Den group chat is a whole situation. These children have us unable to keep a single schedule. This is especially true when trying to get out of the house in the mornings! It's like these children just stay late. Luckily, Ashley and Felicia have some tips they have learned to help keep a routine, and what they do when their children don't want to cooperate with them cause these kids!
- [Mamas, I Need Some Advice!](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mamas-i-need-some-advice/) - Mamas, Aunties, and all of yall listening, today the Mamas sans Melanie who is out being a rockstar are answering some of your questions! Shanna in Sandy Springs GA needs to know how to not feel overwhelmed doing all the things, Leah in Tupelo MS speaks for all of us wondering why Black Love Doc has to come to an end, plus Kim in Brooklyn is wondering about gentle parenting!
- [Healed People Heal People](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/healed-people-heal-people/) - Okay y'all we have to give Codie her flowers for a minute... did you all catch this past episode of Black Love Doc? If not, get yourself over to the Black Love App it's free! and watch it cause it had us all in our Mama feelings. It was all about the HARD things about parenting that often just don't get talked about. Codie and Tommy's story about her own baby's name, to what to do when our children don't turn out to be who we thought they were going to be... whew! It's a whole lot of hard conversations happening today, because being a parent is hard.
- [What's the Deal with Conscious Parenting with Charisse Sims](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/whats-the-deal-with-conscious-parenting-with-charisse-sims/) - Gentle parenting, conscious parenting, patient parenting... we've all heard the terms but honestly, we're not too sure what the difference is. We just know that we're out here trying to break those generational traumatic bonds that we had to deal with growing up. We know a lot of y'all have been asking us about gentle parenting and where to start so we brought in our gentle parenting expert Charisse Sims! Charisse is an educator, PBS Early Learning Champion, and a mama of six so she knows a thing or two about raising kids. Charisse is all about conscious parenting, and if you don't know what that is, her podcast Parenting for the Culture is a good place to start! The Mamas and Charisse get into what exactly gentle parenting is, how we can set boundaries with our children, and how we ALL struggle with trying to do better than our parents did it.
- [TMD Vault We're Having a Baby](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/tmd-vault-were-having-a-baby/) - Hey Mamas! Before You get too excited, we're going into the vault today for a NEVER BEFORE heard episode from the early days before Ashley and Melanie had officially announced their pregnancies. Listen in to a very real conversation about the anxiousness of being pregnant again, and what they wanted to do this round. Plus take a listen to That Newborn Life and see how much what they hoped would line up with what actually happened.
- [We Need to Talk About Social Media](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/we-need-to-talk-about-social-media/) - Ladies! Ashley's oldest is setting boundaries with her presence on her socials! And look, we all know it's a delicate line choosing what to and not to share. So much of how we communicate and build our brands are tied into sharing pieces of ourselves like here on the podcast! But not everyone comes into these spaces with good intentions. Listen in as the Mamas share their thoughts about all things social media and what they do to help keep the balance in their lives!
- [Everyone Needs Therapy](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/everyone-needs-therapy/) - Y'all, Ashley needs therapy. Actually, we all need therapy. Listen in as Ashley breaks down what's been keeping her out of therapy, what the other Mamas love about therapy, and why we should ALL be talking to somebody.
- [Living in Transition](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/living-in-transition/) - Codie's back y'all! It's been a minute but she is back with stories to tell. It wasn't just one thing that kept her away from chatting with the Mamas. It was ALL the things. How do we continue going in moments where everything seems to be changing? The Mamas also get into the Final Season of Black Love Doc. Codie shares why it's coming to an end plus what else might be coming down the line. Also, somewhere there's a chat about word pronunciations that we promise gets back on track.
- [Mamas, I've Got a Question](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mamas-ive-got-a-question/) - The Mamas answer some of your questions!
- [Act II](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/act-ii/) - We are celebrating Melanie Fiona's 40th birthday talking about what to look forward to in the second act of this thing called life. Let's all learn how to celebrate who we are right now!
- [Those Summer Bodies](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/those-summer-bodies/) - The ladies discuss loving their bodies and the journey to celebrating themselves.
- [The Romanticizing of Motherhood](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-romanticizing-of-motherhood/) - The Mamas share their expectations of motherhood versus their realities.
- [Never Have We Ever](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/never-have-we-ever/) - The Mamas play a round of Never Have I Ever.
- [That Newborn Life](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/that-newborn-life/) - The Mamas discuss what life with newborns is like, and what it was like when they first had children.
- [No is a Complete Sentence](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/no-is-a-complete-sentence/) - Today the Mamas are talking all things boundaries. How to set them, why they're important, and how to start teaching the kids about their importance.
- [Mama's Day](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mamas-day/) - Ladies! We're doing Mother's Day in the Den today! We know this is a day about celebrating all things motherhood, but look, sometimes the best gift is a day by ourselves! Listen in as the ladies share what their Mother's Days have looked like up to this point, what they all really want for mother's day, and what they do for their mothers. Plus we just might find out the best gift they've ever gotten in this celebration of mamas!
- [Finding the One](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/finding-the-one/) - Y'all Felicia has some questions for the married folks! The dating game can be a whole situation, especially when you know exactly what you're looking for in a partner. How did the Mamas know that the men they're with now was the one? What speed bumps have come up along the way, and what do they think about the journey that got them to now? Is there a time frame? The Mamas are here to share their journeys to the one and what they found that they needed in a partner.
- [Happiness](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/happiness/) - Let's talk about joy. Happiness is often overlooked by the busyness of life, and today the Mamas sans Codie reflect on what joy looks like to them. How has it changed with time, and how can one maintain peace along the journey.
- [It's Never Too Late](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/its-never-too-late/) - It's easy to look at what other people have accomplished and wonder why it hasn't happened for us. This week the Mamas dive into their accomplishments and the need to have more.
- [The Snapback part 1](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/the-snapback-part-1/) - The Mama's are getting real about their bodies. From pre to post pregnancy, listen in to hear what their journeys with body image has looked like.
- [Your Child Asked WHAT?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/your-child-asked-what/) - Sometimes kids ASK the darndest things. What is the line that Mamas need to take with having those difficult conversations with their kids? Hint There is no consensus here. From anatomy to periods, to Santa Claus, and even death, we all need to find the best way to explain the tough topics to our kids. In this episode, the Mamas each share their philosophies and the stories that helped get them there.
- [A Sneak Peak into The Mama's Den](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/a-sneak-peak-into-the-mamas-den/) - Take a listen to a sneak peak of The Mama's Den!
- [We Are Hustling Backwards](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/we-are-hustling-backwards/) - This past week has been awful. It's been really, really awful. So much so that the Mamas don't even really know where to begin this conversation. With the mass shooting in Uvalde just 10 days after the shooting in Buffalo, it sometimes feels like it all is too much. Listen in as the Mamas share what they have on their minds about the state of things, and what very real fears they share for their own families. Plus, what have they been sharing or not sharing with their own children? This conversation is to serve as a checkin for all Mamas.
- [Do You Talk to Your Kids About Racism?](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/do-you-talk-to-your-kids-about-racism/) - The Mamas discuss how to inform their children about racism and how to ensure they're in spaces that acknowledge and protect their identities.
- [Victoria Monét on a Joy-Filled Life in Motherhood and Beyond](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/victoria-monet-motherhood-and-beyond/) - Grammy-winning singer, author, and mama Victoria Monét is in the Den! Victoria opens up about how motherhood has shifted her mindset - from navigating the stigma of being pregnant in the music industry to guarding her joy, mastering time management, and finding inspiration for her hit song “On My Mama.” Victoria and the Mamas also talk about the power of having a village, and why leading by example and leaving a legacy matters. Plus, Victoria shares the story behind her new children’s book, Everywhere You Are - a beautiful picture book about the unbreakable connection between kids and their parent.
- [Mama's Den Reintroduction, Part 1: We Do It For the Village](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/mamas-den-reintroduction-part-1-we-do-it-for-the-village/) - We recently put out a listener survey and the results are in...y’all want more from the Mamas! So in this episode, while Felicia’s off handling her business (we’re so proud of you, Fee!), Codie, Melanie, and Ashley reintroduce themselves, reflecting on how they became the women and mothers they are today. From unplanned pregnancies and navigating pregnancy without health insurance, to finding purpose in motherhood and building community through The Mama’s Den - the Mamas open up about why honest conversations matter and why they keep showing up for the Village.
- [Bozoma Saint John on Love & Loss. Small Stuff Doesn’t Matter](https://blacklove.com/podcast/listen/the-mamas-den-podcasts/bozoma-saint-john-on-love-loss-small-stuff-doesnt-matter/) - Bozoma Saint John is a Badass Mama! From single motherhood to climbing the corporate ladder as a marketing exec, launching her hair brand Eve by Boz, and starring on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills - Boz has done it all! But behind the glam is a woman shaped by hard-earned lessons in self-love, loss, and unstoppable growth. In this episode, Boz opens up about losing a child, becoming a widow, and being a Black woman in the boardroom...and how these moments empowered her to stand on business in every role she takes on. Through it all, Boz has not just survived, but thrived - led by intuition, divine timing, and trust in divine intervention.

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