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Sexual Satisfaction Guaranteed With These Erotic Foreplay Games
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Sexual Satisfaction Guaranteed With These Erotic Foreplay Games

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Social distancing has changed the way couples interact with each other. Some have been forced into experiencing long-distance relationships, while others are on lockdown together, spending more time with each other than they ever imagined. Practicing shelter in place has raised concerns for some couples who fear their sex lives may fizzle at the hands of no physical contact.

For couples who are spending their quarantine together, the desire to maintain an arousing sex life is a pressing matter. However, knowing how to manage an enjoyable sexual appetite is as easy as tapping into the erotic imagination to create playful scenarios incorporated into your weekly routine. Check out these suggestions to receive some inspiration to maintain sexual excitement during the lockdown and beyond.

Lovers at a Distance 

Social Distancing Sex Vibes 

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For the ladies, you can stay stimulated at a distance with a sex toy that allows you to play with your partner while still being miles apart. Investing in a clitoral stimulator that attaches to your underwear with a magnet, can be regulated by remote control for short distances or a downloadable app on a mobile device. Using this vibe not only allows the one holding the trigger to control the speed and pulsations of the toy, but it also allows them to have control over their partner’s orgasmic pleasure. This game can be played either by video chat or while sexting. 

When you both are ready to play, request your partner to place on the device, and begin your remote mutual masturbation session. 

The Countdown

Be the conductor of your partner’s pleasure by placing them under a timed performance. While on the phone or video chat, invite your partner to stimulate their erogenous zones for 10 seconds at a time, and countdown aloud to act as their virtual clock. Once their 10 seconds are up, switch roles and allow the other to take control. Begin at the lips and work your way down to the pelvic region to stimulate the genitals. The goal is to engage in full-body arousal using intimate touch and connection, but toys can also be used in this game.

Truth or Dare

What’s a more natural way to kick off a play session than with an old-fashioned game of truth or dare? Scroll through either the Google Play or App Store to find a truth or dare game that resonates with you and your partner. If you’re up for the challenge, a suggested virtual app is Peachin.’ You can also design your own truth or dare game by creating questions that allow you to delve deeper into each other’s sexual world and create dares that will show just how far your partner is willing to go! The game is determined by all parties involved and can be played online with multiple people on a video call. 

Lovers Quarantined Together 

Senses Tune-Up

Connect more deeply with each other’s senses through the art of sensual touch. Using a blindfold in this game is necessary to heighten the other’s arousal touch points. When eyesight is restricted, the body must rely on other senses to experience what is happening within the environment. If you don’t own an eye mask, then the next best thing to do is to use a scarf as a blindfold. Ask your partner to strip down to their undies and lay back to relax into the pleasure of body worship while focusing on your senses of touch, taste, hearing, and smell. 

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Another added element is to set the mood and play on the sense of smell by lighting incense or infusing essential oils into the air. You can also light scented candles or spray a fragrance and turn on a sexy soundtrack at a low volume level to help fill the room with a soft sound. When giving your partner instructions or speaking loving affirmations to them, whisper intimately into their ears. Use the tips of your fingers and nails to caress lightly across your lover’s skin, or use soft and silky fabrics or feathers to caress them. Using your mouth, incorporate yummy nibbles into your play and feed them by guiding them through this for as long as they feel comfortable, and then switch roles. 

Ice Ice Baby

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Turn your ice tray into a foreplay accessory. Grab a glass or a small bowl and fill it with ice cubes. This game can be played with eyes open or covered with a blindfold. Use the ice cubes to outline your partner’s erogenous zones. Start at the lips and work your way down their neck, to their chests and beyond. A trail of water will be left behind, wherever you trace, to either lick up with the tip of your tongue or kiss away with your lips. Blowing on the trails of water before licking them off is another way to create stimulation. Practice this form of foreplay until both partners are satisfied and ready to move on to deeper erotic play.

Kinky Scavenger Hunt

This game presents a fun and easy way for the integration of toys into the sexual experience where the dominant partner has control over how they are utilized. Locate as many sex toys as possible for this game and find hiding spots for all of them! If there are not any sex toys in the home, this is the perfect time to shop online for a few fun surprises that can serve as rewards for the other’s participation. 

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Once all of the toys are hidden, text submissive clues where to look and provide instructions when the items are found. Incorporating lingerie and wearable items can take this scavenger hunt to the next level! When all of the things are located and the submissive has followed instructions – it’s playtime. The next step is to take action in the bedroom and get into some kinky fun with the submissive lover presenting the items found to the dominant partner, who then assumes control over their sexual pleasure and orgasm. Always, remember to establish safe words if it begins to feel uncomfortable. Some of the standard safe terms used are Green for “Go,” Yellow for “Ease-Up,” and Red for “Stop.”

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