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The Best Products for Pleasure (With or Without a Partner)
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October 29, 2020

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The Best Products for Pleasure (With or Without a Partner)

Couple kissing (Photo courtesy of tenesiaandterence/Instagram)
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The Tickle Tail, the Stimulate Stick, the Rabbit, the Bullet, that wonderful Wand.  Whether you’re an oldie with a goodie, or a newbie to the game, we asked and you answered:

What’s your favorite sex toy?

It’s 2020 and between a national pandemic forcing solitude and encouraging new ideas in the bedroom, it is necessary to know what you like as far as sexual pleasure. We are providing our Black Love fam — you — with as many options as possible to intensify your intimacy, and that includes toys. Of course, if you’re new to this, it can be quite overwhelming.  So we’ve assembled a few options, recommended by the Black Love community via social media, to help you take your gadgetry game to the next level––one electrified trick at a time.

 

“It gave me my first orgasm.”

CalExotics Jack Rabbit Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit (Credit: Amazon)
CalExotics Jack Rabbit Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit (Credit: Amazon)

CalExotics Jack Rabbit Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit — Waterproof $54.85

“It gave me my first orgasm.”  Mentioned multiple times in our survey, the Rabbit, a design which first gained popularity in an episode of Sex and the City, is a fan favorite in the responses we received. Beyond getting to that fabulous first, one response included praise for pleasing her urge when her hubby’s away, and another complements this model specifically on its larger size. 

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Shibari Mini Halo, “The Original” Compact Power Wand Massager, Wireless, 20x Multi-Speed Vibrations (Pink) $24.16

“The massage wand is life,”  raves a 39-year-old reader. The Shibari Mini Halo, “The Original” is another recommended audience choice:. The Shibari Mini Halo boasts 20 settings that send some singing hallelujah. With a bendable neck and a high speed motor, this wand is also wireless, waterproof, and compact enough to be discreet during travel, or for easy storage in your home.  

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Comfy LED Handheld Electric Personal Massager, USB Rechargeable and Waterproof with 10 Multi Speed Silicone Whisper Quiet Waterproof $28.99

Of course, size “mattering” goes both ways. Here is a suggestion for something a bit smaller than the aforementioned Rabbit, but with the added benefit of a “curve.” 

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“The massage wand is life.”

Doc Johnson Pocket Rocket $18.62

Sometimes a woman wants more targeted pleasure, which is why the Pocket Rocket made the list.  One reader in her 70s described this tool as “intense.”  It’s a discreet mini-vibrator that’s “simple yet satisfying.” It’s also advertised to be one of the bestselling mini-vibrators of all time.

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Therapeutic Personal Massager (Credit: Amazon)
Therapeutic Personal Massager (Credit: Amazon)

Therapeutic Personal Massager — Handheld Cordless and Powerful Wand $39.95 

This wonderful wand does double duty.  With eight speeds and 20 vibrating patterns, it pleasures all of your intimate spots, and even those that you may not consider so intimate –– everyone needs a back and/or shoulder massage every once in a while, and this wand can hold down that action, too.  A 34-year-old reader praises it for her enjoyment, as well as her husband’s. 

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TUPHEN Personal Cordless Waterproof Handheld Wand Massager $12.99 

Another, more economically priced, therapeutic massage option for both parties to enjoy.

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Tryst from Doc Johnson by Karlie Redd $51.93

The second Doc Johnson product to make the list Tryst from Doc Johnson by Karlie Redd is a “multi-erogenous zone silicone vibrator and c-ring” which provides “focused stimulation for both partners.”  In other words, Tryst is designed for you, and your partner, to use together during intercourse, individually during intercourse, or separately on your own.  But, our 35-year-old community member specifically specified its dual partner use. 

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“Focused stimulation for both partners.” Yes, please.

Zripool 9 Frequency Silicone Amal Beads (Credit: Amazon)
Zripool 9 Frequency Silicone Amal Beads (Credit: Amazon)

Zripool 9 Frenquency Anal Beads $17.50

No body part should be ignored in the boudoir. And one 27-year-old reader highlighted that anal beads should not be overlooked. On the contrary, they should be enjoyed for a specific in her words “sensation.”  

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Shibari Premium Personal Lubricant, Water Based Lube $8.95

Of course, just like with intercourse, proper lubrication can make all the difference. This water-based lube works well with silicone toys.

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#ToyLife All Purpose Misting Toy Cleaner $8.99

Proper toy hygiene keeps the pleasure safe and fun. This 36-year-old public relations specialist encourages, “[I] can’t stress the importance of cleaning enough with a proper antibacterial soap. Particularly for toys like the Rabbit which has folds. An option with a spray nozzle is ideal for applying without waste.”

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We hope this list assists you in living your best sex life. And, if you’re open to these suggestions, remember, sometimes it takes some extra time to figure out what works best for you. So above all, be patient and loving with yourself and your partner and have fun!  Your gadgetry game will get there one electrified trick at a time.

At BlackLove.com, we are here to make Black folks’ lives better, inside and out! All of our team and contributor product selections are selected and curated. And as an Amazon Associate, we may earn from qualifying purchases you make on our site.

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