Porn...the one word in the English language guaranteed to get you some looks if spoken in a group for sure. The truth is we've all watched porn at one point in our lives and most likely watching porn is a solo activity. But what if you didn't have to watch it alone and you could watch it with your partner? This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clarks discuss the pros and cons of watching porn with your partner. They dig deep into how you and partner can decided whether if it is right for you both! So go ahead and grab some snacks cause this one is definitely gonna be a spicy one!

Have you ever considered dating a younger man?? We can all hear the collective groans as you think about that question. Ladies, the reality is that there is a shortage of men at the moment and sometimes you have to expand your expectations when looking for a partner. We know you have your list, but have you thought maybe your list is keeping you from finding that one young guy that could make you throw away the list and let you get your groove back? This week, The Amazing Clarks try to help you see that you could be missing out on, not just a fun time, but a person who could be THE ONE!

EVERYTHING IS PERFECT....A phrase we've all said to ourselves to will us through a situation that is the furtherest from perfect. Everything Is Perfect or EIP can be more than a phrase to whisper to ourselves in a moment of need, EIP can be the very thing that can change your whole life. Adopting EIP as not just a saying but as the lens that you view and participate in the world. EIP can be the very thing your life needs to take you to that next level. The Amazing Clarks discuss this week how you can begin to cultivate a life where EVERYTHNG IS PERFECT!

We can all agree sex is one of the pillars of a good relationship. When the sex is good, sometimes it can be a distraction, but what if you are using sex to avoid truly connecting with your partner? Emotions can be complicated, and who's got time for that roller coaster. Sex can be used to avoid how you truly feel, and you convince yourself this is the best way to not get hurt. This week, The Amazing Clarks chat about the possible reasons you may be using sex to protect your heart and how the sex will be even better when you are 100% emotionally connected with your partner!

Ding! Ding! Everyone to their corners! Arguing with your partner can be one of the most frustrating things about being in a relationship. We know that trying to communicate your needs to a person who “doesn't seem to be picking up what you're putting down” can lead to something more heated. Here's the good news, fighting with your partner doesn't mean your relationship is ending. The way you and your partner argue can actually be productive. It can be the difference between your relationship ACTUALLY ending or you and your partner growing closer while both people getting their needs met. On this episode, The Amazing Clarks give you the tools to figure out what you and your partner’s fighting style is and how knowing that info can make all the difference in the health of your relationship.

With so many myths in the world, it's hard to keep up with what is actual myth and what is truth. So, allow us to add another myth to your long list! Having a happy marriage is something all of us strive for when we get married, but perfection isn't possible. Sometimes looking for perfection in a marriage can be the very downfall of your marriage. But, there is a way to have a marriage that both you and our spouse can be proud of, and dare we say happy. This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clarks give you the blueprint to make the most out of your marriage and make the happiness you feel about your marriage not just a myth!

No one gets into marriage expecting to be bored. When you decide to get married, you have this fairytale made up in your head. Marriage can be a fairytale but you also have to be realistic about your marriage. Sometimes, being married is boring but you have to realize that if your marriage is a snooze-fest, it just might be you who is making your marriage boring. This week, The Amazing Clarks get into why your marriage is boring and, newsflash, it might not be your partners fault. Buckle up people this is gonna be a good one!

Have you ever spied on a partner? Here's a better, question, does your partner know that you spied on them? While it's not the Cold War, spying on a partner can definitely cause a war between you two. You might have a good reason to spy, but what are your choices saying about your relationship? Melanie and Anthony discuss how they both have spied on a partner and what the fall out was after they did. Plus, they also give you some insight on why you feel the need to spy on your partner and tips on how to move forward after finding the info you were looking for. While we are not here to encourage you to spy, we are here to help you figure out why spying was the go to move.

Do you ever ask yourself, “is love a construct?” Yeah, us neither, but what if that butterfly feeling you get when you see that person you've been crushing on is just in your mind? Or ever wonder where that first kiss feeling is when you're 10 years into a relationship? In this episode, the Clarks discuss the differences between real, long-lasting love and love that just might be in your mind. Strap in, were gonna get deep with this one!

Do you and your partner seem to be worlds apart? Chances are your thermostat is off! What is your thermostat? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to set you right. Your thermostat is what regulates what you get around you. Just like the thermostat in your house, if it's set at 70 it doesn't matter what you do your house is going to stay at 70 degrees. If you've convinced yourself that your partner can never change, then even if they do make small changes you're never going to see it because you're set on never see them! But it's okay! Anthony and Melanie will break down how you can fix that mindset and get you reset. Fixing your thermostat whether about your relationship or anything else in life is critical for anything you do in life. So let's get into it!

Do You hear those wedding bells? The time has come. Anthony's little girl is getting married, and he has BIG feelings about it. If you are a long time listener, you know that Anthony's papa heart is strong. He was a stay at home dad with Toni, and while he balled like a baby at their oldest daughter's wedding too, this shift in his role as a father is really hitting him. For all you parents out there, this episode is a reflection in who we are as teachers in love to our children AND a testament to raising your children around LOVE.

You know that feeling when you've talked to someone over and over and you can't stop thinking about them and all of a sudden you're wondering if they are the one? OR are you like pre-Anthony Melanie? Calling up dudes knowing that they are NOT they one but because they can throw it down in the bedroom? Do you wonder what makes you feel one way or another? There happens to be a science behind it! The Amazing Clarks are here to break down the difference between your lovey dovey and your lusty feelings BEFORE you make those relationship mistakes.

Do you have a Body Count? And no, we are not talking about an actual body count because that's when things can get a bit messy. When we say body count we mean what is the magic number of people that you've slept with in your history of doing the do? What ever that number is theres no judgement here. But, have you revealed that number to your partner and how did they take the news? This week, The Amazing Clarks talk about how to navigate the body count debate and whether it should matter. Melanie and Anthony discuss that if it does matter maybe it's more about you than your partner. The Body Count debate rages on but maybe we can offer a lil bit of a resolution. Let's get into it!