Dondr Whitfield often thinks about what kind of man he would have been sooner if he had a playbook or a great coach one of the main reasons he wrote MalevsMan

We dont have all the answers What matters is what you do once you come to that realization Kevin and Dondr strive to give their children the wisdom and pure love they need to reach their fullest potential With their sons its important that they give them all the tools they didnt have growing up to ensure they dont make the same mistakes they did on their journey to manhood

There is ego attached to maleness Will tells me all about where this mindset came from for him For Will having a father in the military meant everything was about discipline and doing everything in his power to reach the top of the mountain There was nothing above winning and providing but at what costs

There is strength in our tears and for Philip apart of stepping into manhood was understanding this concept We dont have to be so strong all the time

Were all still imperfect in many ways and its important that the people around us know were growing every day just like them

Unfortunately the word submission has been turned into a dirty word A lot of people think to submit means to give up or quit but it truly means to give over In this clip Dondr Whitfield and Boris Kodjoe share how they submit to their wives and families and the power weve found in that

Warryns father and grandfather shared the tools to be of service to his wife and family Part of this service is elevating Erica and empowering her to proudly stand in her womanhood In her words When a man is out of place the woman is misplaced and it hard for the children to find their place

Happiness is an internal condition that we have to work on consistently and with diligence With a male mindset Will looked to external conditions as an indicator of success but an unexpected encounter with his then 6yearold daughter Willow sparked a shift Stepping into manhood meant shifting the search lights from external to internal and the rest is history