It's Black Maternal Health Week and the Mamas have brought in Kimberly Durdin who is a Licensed Midwife, Internationally Board Certified Lactation Consultant, Childbirth Educator and Doula Trainer, Plus she's a mother of six and grandmother of five! She and business partner Allegra Hill are coowners and cofounders of Kindred Space LA, South LAs only Blackowned Birth Center and hub for midwifery care, doula support and training, lactation consulting, education, parenting support group, enrichment and movement. So needless to say, she knows a thing or two about maternal health! Kim is here to give us some of the details about birthing that we just don't know. Things like the difference between a doula and a midwife, or what's better pain meds or natural? Should we as Black women be avoiding hospital births? We're not saying Kim has all the answers, but this is definitely a starting place for anyone who is asking questions!

You've asked and our Mama's are here to answer! That's right it's listener question time, and y'all are getting straight to the point this time around. An anonymous listener in Chicago wants to know if it's wrong to cut off a bad friend? CrysShine c'mon Instagram handle! in Wilmington, DE wants to know how to handle tantrums. A friend or foe from Codie's home state of Texas wants to know just how far each one of our Mamas would go to stand up for their kids, and more!

We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! Today all the way from Columbus, Ohio is Mama Laura! And yes, you can call her Mama Laura. Does she think she and Ashley are alike? What advice does she have for parents today? Also, Ashley asks what was the hardest part of parenting after losing a child?

We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! Felicia is out taking care of her babies, but guess which mama came by to defend herself? That's right! Ready to hold it down TEN TOES DOWN it's Melanie's mama The one and only Mama Donna! You think you know all the stories, but Mama Donna is here to share everything. Is there anything that we haven't heard yet? Does she have ANY parenting regrets? What advice does she have for parents now?

We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! First up is Mama Renee, aka Suga, the Mama to Codie. Mama Renee is a mama of two, and a grandmama to all boys. What are her thoughts on how Codie is parenting? What was it like to be a parent and entrepreneur back in the day? What was it like coparenting Codie after her divorce? PLUS what is it like to be on the other side now and enjoying the grandparent life?

Mamas! We've got some of our favorites joining us in the Den today! Jamilah Mapp and Erika Dickerson are best friends, single mothers, and the creators of the Good Moms Bad Choices podcast! Now we can call them published authors with the arrival of their new book A Good Moms Guide to Making Bad Choices. Erica and Jamilah share how they met, the importance of Mom friends, their opinions on Mom Guilt and what you can expect in the book! They also have an amazing Mother's Day contest that you can enter! Plus, which one of our Mamas was Erica eying to join their podcast?

Hey Mamas Den Village! We're going into the vault today for a NEVER BEFORE heard episode from June 2022. Why was it never heard? Well, so you can hear it now! Let's talk about submission? Is it a dirty word? Why do some women feel that it's a nonstarter in relationships? What do our ladies minus Codie who was out filming The Perfect Find which you can watch right now on Netflix, think about submission? How else does submission tie into other facets of love and relationships?

Hey Mama's Den Village! Our ladies are out this week, but we want to introduce you to our friend Charisse Sims and her podcast Parenting for the Culture! Charisse is a mama of 6 !, wife, and early childhood educator who knows a little about the ins and outs of parenting and more specifically GENTLE PARENTING.

A change in Felicia's coparenting arrangement has her discovering more about who she is without being a fulltime mother. This, in turn, has her wondering if the rest of the Mama's Den crew knows exactly who they are outside of motherhood and how they came to those realizations. PLUS what does it look like to try and find balance inside of motherhood with partners, fathers, and even the children? What are those expectations of what it is to be a mom? How are we handling the thought and concept and occasional real feeling of mom guilt?

Motherhood is a job! No really. If we weren't doing it, and in those moments where we can't watch the kids, we have to pay someone else to do it. It is a whole job! Now why is it that it doesn't get treated that way? Today, Ashley, Felicia, and Melanie you gotta make sure you're following the Black Love socials to find out what Codie's been working on! are speaking on not only that, but on finances in general. Prenups? Splitting the household finances? We're getting into all of it!

You will never have more patience than your child has, but you have to try. Y'all Ashley has the bars today! Codie is out doing some super secret stuff yall just need to follow Blacklove on IG to keep up and the ladies are talking about these babies. Sometimes it's hard when they're yelling at you and can't communicate in the ways that we, as parents, want them to. Fee shares what she has recently done to help make sure that Zen has all the tools he needs going forward that we think is a total game changer!

Marlo's in the House! If you've been riding with us from day one you've heard the ladies talk about Blair, and today she's here to defend her honor. We kid! Aside from all the stories you've heard on the pod, what you might not know about Blair is that she's a mama of 2, a wife, an entrepreneur, and so much more. We know that you're going to find her to be just as dope as we do!

Okay village! We know you've peeped it on her gram, that you've heard bits and pieces on the pod, and TODAY you get to hear it straight from Fee herself! Luckily we've got Mrs. Black Love aka Codie Elaine Oliver here to help get all the facts, but we know you've been wondering just how she met her new boo. What was it like introducing him to her kids? What work did she need to do on herself to get ready for a new partner? We're getting into all of it today! Y'all we LOVE this for our sis!

Mama's Den village! We're headed back into our DMs to answer some of your questions. A long time Black Love fan is wondering how to balance being a woman who wears many hats AND navigating being a first time mom with no family nearby to support her. Dani out of Los Angeles needs some bonus mama advice from Felicia, and a mama in Memphis needs help navigating what to do with the kids for the summer! Have our Mamas figured out their situation yet? Let's hope so, it's practically July PLUS Micayela in Cleveland needs help navigating nonsupportive family members.

Mamas! The new movie The Perfect Find produced by our very own Codie Elaine Oliver is out THIS FRIDAY on Netflix. Today we have the film's director Numa Perrier in the Mama's Den to chat all things motherhood! If you don't know Numa, let's get you caught up! She's a multitalented actor, director, writer, and visual artist who has emerged as a premier voice in the film and television landscape with The Perfect Find being her feature debut. PLUS she's a mama to a soon to be teenager and a bonus mama! We dive into what it's like to follow your dreams while balancing motherhood. What it's like to come into a family dynamic as the step mother, and just what did her daughter think when her current husband was ready to pop the question?

Ajike AJ Owens was a mother of four who was fatally shot after she reportedly knocked on the door of her white neighbor's residence to retrieve her childs iPad, and the story has been weighing heavy on the ladies. What do you do when it feels like it's nonstop? What can we do as Black mothers to negate the feeling of hopelessness? Can we do anything? As the ladies discuss, sometimes the most revolutionary acts are finding the moments of joy in their corners of the world.

Whew! We spent all of May talking with our Mama's and it was amazing to hear not only what raising our Mama's Den mamas was like, but how they feel about how they are raising their little ones! If you missed it, we'll give you some links below. Today, our mamas reflect on what it was like hearing from their moms. What surprised them the most? What made them feel validated in their motherhood journey? PLUS what did our mamas hear that has them looking at their children a lil differently?

We are celebrating Mother's Day all month here at The Mama's Den and what better way to do it than to have our Mama's Den Mamas here! That's right we are bringing the Grandmamas into the Mama's Den all month long! Today we are wrapping up our Mama's mamas conversations with Somebody's Mama's Mama. That's right we got Felicia's mom in the Den! Mama Laurie is the youngest of our Grandmamas, but look she was not one to be played with! She shares what it was like being a single mom, what it was like raising Fee PLUS what does she admire about how Felicia parents her children?

Get your tissues, Village. Things get a little emotional on this episode as Codie, Ashley and Melanie talk about the dynamics of adult friendships, self awareness... and half marathons. Two of the Mamas even work through a conflict in their own friendship and shed a few tears along the way. But it's important to note, no matter what anybody thinks, know that you're capable of doing whatever you set your mind to Mamas! Mama's Den Village, how do you resolve issues in your adult friendships? Is there a specific story you want to share with us? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley Codie Felicia Melanie Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!! 365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at . is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us on Instagram on Threads on Facebook on X

Welcome back Mamas, today is all about birthdays! Codie, Ashley, and Melanie discuss how they celebrate their children's birthdays, the value of experiences over parties and embracing getting older. Plus, as Ashley's birthday approaches, she opens up the difficulties of having a birthday around the holidays and how her birthday celebrations have evolved since losing her sister. So Village, what is your ideal birthday celebration? How do you celebrate and embrace getting a year older? Get in on the conversation and let us know over at podcastsblacklove.com OR you can fill out our form. PLUS you can always submit a DM over themamasdenpodcast Make sure you connect with our Mamas Ashley Codie Felicia Melanie Join us for the 2023 Black Love Summit! Youve rocked with us from LA to Atlanta and beyond, and guess what? Were coming back to ATL for our 6th anniversary!! 365 days a year, we celebrate Black Love and joy via our socials, podcasts, and the BL app. Now, get ready to soak up the vibes in person imagine a whole day of community, chats thatll light up your brain, a dope marketplace, and some specially curated moments we have never done before! October 21st is your time to groove with Black Loooove! Jump over to now and grab your tickets. As always, our community is the cornerstone of our content and we continue to want to connect with you! Make sure youre following us on Instagram blacklove and you can send us an email at . is the premier Blackowned operated media company for celebrating 360 degrees of Black Love. Connect with us on Instagram on Threads on Facebook on X