Sex and Married Men
*Yes, we changed their names
What do you think a normal sex life entails?
When I was younger, normal was any moment, anywhere, anytime. As I’ve grown, normal means on vacation or a quickie on date night.
Mark, Dallas, 36, Married 10 years, Together 12, 2 Kids
Being intimate and connecting with my wife emotionally, physically, and soulfully.
Jared, 37, San Francisco, Married 10 years, Together for 14, 2 Kids
I have different standards for “normal”…but it should entail surprise nudity in the kitchen.
Like she says, “Hey babe, can you help me grab the cinnamon from the top shelf?” And then I walk in the kitchen to find her naked, smiling…and wanting my body. It doesn’t have to always be the kitchen where the surprise nudity occurs, but sex should be as necessary as drinking water – you don’t always want it, but it’s good for you. Sex is water for the marriage.
Lewis, 34, Los Angeles, Married 3 years, Together 4, 1 Kid and 1 On the way