Black marriage doesn’t look the same as it did decades ago, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

Tabitha Brown sat down with the hosts of The Mama’s Den podcast to spill all the tea on life, love, and the next big adventures for her and her husband, Chance Brown.

Despite people trying to make me believe that my natural curls weren’t good enough, professional enough, or even beautiful enough, I am so thankful that I never resorted to self-hate.

You may hope that with enough love, patience, and support, they’ll become more empathetic, accountable, and self-aware. But is this hope realistic?