India and I met at an alter ego party in college in 2010. The kicker is she was a freshman, and I was in my first year of grad school (it’s just four years people, lol). Anyway, her alter ego was Big Booty Judy, and she did such a good job making the costume she had me convinced that her butt was real, WRONG, haha! Despite me finding out her butt was fake, we continued to date. I found out not only was she mature and always fashionable, but she was full of ambition and had so much potential to be whatever she decided to be. Even though I knew how special she was (and remains) it took some breakups and forgiveness from India for me to finally get it together and realize that she is my rock, best friend, biggest supporter, and love of my life. She is always in my corner encouraging me, and right by my side in case I need help. We got married in Nov. 2014 and now we are expecting our first child in March 2018. No matter how tough marriage can sometimes prove to be, we know we are in this together and our love is forever. That’s why I said, ‘I do.’

Reflections by B-Love