It means living and operating from a place of strength and faith, not fear. It means identifying what your life’s joy is, and then operating in blind faith and fortitude every day to move towards that joy whether it is supported in partnership or not.
When you commit to the process of loving self and understand that you are more important than anything in this world, there is nothing, and I mean nothing, that will separate you from your divine purpose and the joy in life prescribed by you and for you. This is when the instant change occurs. This is when you step into the extraordinary life that you are meant to live. This is what it takes to truly be your best self and live your best life.
If divorce is even a remote option floating around in your heart and mind, it means your spirit has already subconsciously begun moving into the understanding that self love is the necessary ingredient to thrive in any type of love. It is the required component that keeps you emotional clear, focused, and connected to your divine truth. Grinding through the process of understanding if divorce is truly the only option left is now the work you will endeavor to discover.
When this choice is activated, you will be amazed at how people will begin to show up differently for you and how you begin to show up differently for them. If you have children, the example of self love in action will be infinitely more valuable than any single piece of advice you will ever give them. Your family and chosen tribe will begin to recognize and respect the place of strength and faith from where you operate. It will define boundaries that will offer direction to those around you, and, most importantly, you will begin to attract and move closer to a truly limitless and joyous life. This is something I not only see in my practice and work as an emotional intelligence expert, but I am a living example of this.
It was a difficult decision. It was a painful process, but I listened to my True Heart. I chose self love and made the decision to activate divorce. This is why defining and understanding self love is so important. You cannot be your best self or live your best life without identifying that.