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Bumpin’ and grindin’, knockin da boots, getting the “feeling” and getting the “healing” –– when it comes to gettin’ down with the get down, sex is on our mind here at blacklove.com. But when you get the urge to eat your cake, or sip on your milkshake, are you all about spontaneity, or does it need to be a calendar event?
We asked you, our Black Love community: Have you ever scheduled sex with your committed partner? You responded loud and proud with your penciled in dalliances from sea to shining sea.
45.59% have scheduled sex
The Reasons

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The Number 1 reason you schedule sex is because your schedules are hectic, and you need to make time.
Number 2: It is fun to pick a time and place.
Number 3: You have kids, so it’s hard to make time for yourselves.
One Extremely Honest Woman: “Because I was horny and needed to be broke off.” Good for her!
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So, are you satisfied with your sex life?
23% — It’s amazing!
32% — Pretty satisfied.
23% — It’s Okay.
10% — It could be worse, at least we have sex.
6% — What sex life?
Are you thinking about scheduling sex with your partner? Click here to read about why BLACK LOVE Series season 1 cast member LaToya Scott Brown continues to schedule sex with her husband after 10 years of marriage.
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